Back to 80s: It's not easy to be a group favorite

Chapter 317

The houses in the village have not been renovated in these years.

Father Li had thought of this before, but Mother Li stopped him.

They don’t live in the village anymore, so why renovate it?

Anyway, this house can still be lived in. Although it is an adobe house, it is well maintained. The two elders always live in the village for half a year. It is warm in winter and cool in summer.

Is the house in town bad?

The children are all grown up and don't know where to live in the future. There is no need to renovate now!
Papa Li thinks about it too.

The eldest son will not come back soon, and he will definitely start a family in the capital in the future.

The small one will probably be similar to the big one in the future.

Once the daughter is married, there are only four of them left.

There are several floors of houses in the town, which is really enough to live in!
It's just that Chinese people miss the old days, and they still like rural life in their bones, and they also pay attention to the inheritance of farming and reading.

It is absolutely impossible for the village to throw it away!

Now that a wedding is going to be held in the village, the Li family's grandma is naturally happy too!
In their hearts, the village is the root of Lao Li's family, and the town is the place to do business.

For her beloved granddaughter to marry off, the old lady felt uncomfortable for a while!

The mentality is also very contradictory.

I am reluctant to let my granddaughter get married, but I also know that this is the inevitable way to go, and I am quite satisfied with Ling Yihong.

Good looking, good temper, better for my granddaughter!
Li Shaoyun has been living in the village for the past two days, and he just wants to spend more time with the old lady and the old man before getting married.

Once married, it will be different from now on.

In the past few days, the old lady has been pulling Li Shaoyun to tell her every day, and she is more caring than Li Mama.

Fortunately, Ling Yihong's family has a simple population, so the old lady doesn't have to worry about conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law when her granddaughter passes by.

On this point, the old lady was very satisfied.

She has lived in the countryside all her life, but she knows that there will never be a quiet time between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Either the east wind overwhelms the west wind, or the west overwhelms the east wind.

There is no right or wrong in housework, only positions.

If you catch up with that smart man, your life will be calmed down a bit. If you catch up with that kind of foolish and filial man, it will be hard to be a daughter-in-law!
Otherwise, those daughter-in-laws who were tortured by their mother-in-law when they were young, after their sons grow up and marry their daughter-in-law, they also become what they hate?
This is reincarnation.

Or, revenge psychology?
I have a hard time all my life, why should I let you have a good time?
So the current situation of Ling Yihong's family made the old lady very satisfied!
Li Shaoyun secretly laughed in his heart, thinking that this is not the case in future generations?
It is said that the most popular son-in-law is: "has a car and a house, no father and no mother".

In Li Shaoyun's view, the marriage of later generations has actually gone to another extreme.

The general environment is introverted, and a considerable part of them cannot afford to marry a wife!

After marrying their wives, quite a few of them became old women serving their daughters-in-law again.

Unlike many generations before it!

The daughters-in-law of later generations are not as resigned as their predecessors.

Swallow your breath?What it is? !

People in the new generation are all about self, you make me uncomfortable, why should I make you comfortable?

Everyone is the first time to be a human being, why should I let you?
I also grew up pampered by my parents!
Who is not a little princess!
Don't tell me about filial piety, but be filial and find your son!
You never raised me again!

If I want to be filial, I also want to be filial to my parents!After all, I was raised by my parents!

Due to various factors, the divorce rate in later generations remains high.

Finally, simply not getting married has become the mainstream!

Unexpectedly, in this life, she became a silver girl who married early!
Li Shaoyun was in a daze for a moment, and his thoughts drifted a little further.

In the ear, the kind voice of the old lady continued to point her granddaughter.

"It's good to not have a mother-in-law above, but there is also one thing, there is no one to help you."

When the old lady said this, she also tsk-tsk loudly, with a conflicted mentality.

I am afraid that my granddaughter will suffer from her mother-in-law, and I also feel that it is not good to have no old man to help.

After all, the old saying makes sense, an old family is like a treasure.

Unless there is an unconscious mother-in-law, most people still hope to have an old man to help.

That's the old idea.

In the past, when you got married, you still paid attention to being a blessed person!

"It's okay grandma, at worst, I'll go to my mother's house as soon as possible, and when I encounter something I don't understand, I will ask you!" Li Shaoyun comforted the old lady.

"Hey, that's okay!" The old lady was really comforted.

Although everyone knows that this is a word.

Not to mention that Li Shaoyun lived in the provincial capital after marriage, even in the local area, he was married and married, and he was not so free!

Before getting married, living at home is a matter of course, and going to her mother's house frequently after getting married will cause criticism.

Time passed in such a busy and chaotic way.

On the day of Li Shaoyun's wedding banquet, he woke up early in the morning.

The night before, Li's mother slept with her daughter. The mother and daughter hadn't slept in the same bed for many years!
Ever since Li Shaoyun had this memory, she has been sleeping alone.

Now sharing the same bed with Li Ma, it was a bit awkward at first.

Fortunately, when I thought that I was going to get married soon, my awkwardness disappeared!

Li Ma inevitably also told her some principles of being a wife, and she will be a mother in the future.

Li Shaoyun listened carefully, this is all from the experience of those who have experienced it.

But Li's mother didn't say anything deeply, the main reason was that Ling Yihong didn't have a mother, his mother was like a symbol, and Li Shaoyun wouldn't have to face her in the future.

So Li Shaoyun can't use some of Li Ma's personal experience!

For other things, Mama Li felt that her daughter was precocious since she was a child, and she was a teapot cooking dumplings.

She doesn't bother anymore!

Especially the old lady has been dragging her daughter to chatter these days.The reason why she still talks to her daughter is also out of the heart of being a mother, after all, she is still reluctant.

The next day was the wedding, and Madam Li didn't dare to delay it too late, otherwise, would the bride still be able to watch it when she woke up the next day?
Even weddings now require makeup.

These years people are used to wearing makeup to get married.

Unlike previous years, especially weddings in the 80s, it was as simple as it could be.

At that time, the emphasis was on thrift and simplicity, without extravagance or extravagance.

In recent years, with the economic development and people's life getting better and better, the signs of pursuing fashion and enjoyment are becoming more and more obvious.

There is already a faint comparison.

When you get married, you invite a movie, and when I get married, I invite someone to sing an opera.

Anyway, how can I show off, how did I come here.

There are always people who worry about being overwhelmed by others and later being laughed at.

After all, this is the only time to get married in this life. People want to be solemn and luxurious, and there is nothing wrong with it!
It is a pity that the original intention is good, but the result is unpredictable.

In recent years, people's divorce is no longer as difficult as it used to be, and they will make compromises for their children.

Today's young people with avant-garde thinking don't want to live the oppressed life of the older generation because of external factors affecting their happiness.

People are more and start to think about their own feelings.

If you don't think it's suitable, you don't want to make do with it, and the worst is divorce!

These are all off-topic.

Li Shaoyun plans to do the wedding makeup by herself.

Now when holding a wedding, people are used to asking people from the wedding photo studio in the town to help.

On the day of the wedding, the bride usually rushes to the town early in the morning to get help with makeup!

Want to say that the people in the photo studio are so good?If you don't provide door-to-door service, you have to ask the bride to come?
But that's right, it's that awesome!
Rare things are precious!
There are only two or three photo studios in the town - it's not that they don't want to open, the market is limited.

When getting married, especially near the end of the year, the people in the wedding photo studio are going crazy!

Especially bridal makeup.

Let's not talk about the craftsmanship, but with so many people robbing it, the tide will naturally increase, and the make-up artist will become arrogant!

They really have a lot of business!

And the person in charge of shooting in the photo studio will often run around.

Now it is popular to take pictures on the wedding day, and those who are not short of money will hire someone to take pictures of the whole process!

Family portraits, the bride and groom alone, and well-connected guests all have to be photographed.

A little more extravagant, there is also a video recorder to record the whole process, and now it is becoming popular in the countryside.

Li Shaoyun went to see the wedding dress in the photo studio.

Because it is always rented, there are a lot of wedding photos taken, and they are not well taken care of, it is really impossible to see!

Dirty, Li Shaoyun would never let it get on his body.

Naturally, Ling Yihong didn't want Li Shaoyun to wear this kind of wedding dress to take pictures, and the two planned to shoot directly in the provincial capital.

The photographer over there must be more skilled than the masters in the town!

Fortunately, the wedding ceremony is still in Chinese style, so there is no need to wear a wedding dress, otherwise Li Shaoyun would have to buy a wedding dress!
In any case, she would not allow herself to wear the kind of wedding dress in the photo studio.

After waking up and eating something, I start to get busy, and makeup is naturally the first.

On the wedding day, other people are basically busy.

The most idle should be the bride and groom.

But Li Shaoyun didn't know why, and felt that he was a little too busy to stay out of his mind.

If you want to say what she's busy with, she can't tell at all!

It's just a little dazed, a little bit at a loss, but at the same time shy and happy.

It is not an exaggeration to say that I am happy!
From then on, Ling Yihong was his rightful husband, and he was his wife who was being married by a clear matchmaker, and he belonged completely to her!She was all his too!

I also have anxiety, wondering if I can manage my marriage well in the future.

As time goes by, there is more reluctance and fear for the future.

She didn't know if she was up to the task of being a wife.

And, soon, they will have a child of their own, and she has a little life in her womb.

She didn't know if she could be a good mother.

There is no doubt that she loves him/her, but she is afraid that she will not educate him/her.

Contradictions, entanglements, hesitation, apprehension, and even a little panic, all kinds of complicated emotions came like a tide.

Then I thought that I would be a guest when I came back, and the Li family was just my natal family, not my own.

Before Li Shaoyun cried for marriage, he was already in a sad mood.

I can't bear the plants and trees at home, I can't bear to be with my parents, and I can't bear to grow up here!

I have seen many parents shed tears at weddings, unable to part with each other, and daughters can't help themselves, tears streaming down their skirts.

At that time, I didn't understand and feel deeply, but now Li Shaoyun suddenly understands!
The person who accompanied her saw it, and quickly told her a joke to comfort her.

It's not the time to cry for marriage yet, the makeup on her face should fade away soon!

I have to go out to toast!
(End of this chapter)