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Chapter 136 Rejecting All Infighting

While thinking about it, Sheng Yang said: "Actually, what you said just now is quite right. Some people are bullying the weak and afraid of the strong, which also shows that they think that Jiaming's position is low, so they dare to step forward. What do you think? no?"

"That's true." Gao Xiaojuan agreed, but quickly added, "I think they look down on people."

"Anyway, if Jia Ming can be promoted and is on an equal footing with these people, or if his position is still above them, will they not dare to bully him anymore?" Sheng Yang asked.

Gao Xiaojuan's face suddenly became troubled: "Yes, but promotion is not so easy. Jia Ming is too honest, he knows how to work hard and doesn't know how to please the leader. This kind of person is easy to suffer no matter where he is."

"So if you want to change it, there will always be a way." Sheng Yang said, "As far as I know, almost all the people in Jiaming Company have passed the mid-level professional title exam, but he has never passed the exam, so should he also Take the test? Although it doesn’t mean how important this title is, it’s better to have it than not to have it. What’s more, if you don’t have it when everyone around you has it, isn’t it because you are at a disadvantage in this regard?”

After Gao Xiaojuan listened, she didn't answer, but suddenly sighed: "Hey!"

Sheng Yang continued: "So, let's persuade Jiaming to take an intermediate professional title first, what do you think?"

The reason why Sheng Yang did this was not because she cared so much about that mid-level professional title.Instead, he hopes to try to change Huang Jiaming's state of indulging in games through the title test.

Originally, this proposal couldn't be more normal, and generally mothers would support it.

But Gao Xiaojuan was different. After hesitating for a while, she asked, "Will that job title be difficult? Does it require a lot of hard work?"

If it was before, when Gao Xiaojuan spoke like this, Sheng Yang would have some negative emotions, but now she has no negative emotions at all, and her tone is very calm: "

This is her recent experience: before the problem is solved, block all negative emotions, only think about specific solutions, and reject all internal friction.

"Do you know what else Jiaming likes to do besides playing games?"

"What else do you like to do?" Gao Xiaojuan asked, her expression obviously a little nervous.

"Love watching movies."

Before Sheng Yang finished speaking, Gao Xiaojuan suddenly laughed: "Isn't it normal to love watching movies? I thought it was some shameful hobby!"

Sheng Yang smiled faintly: "It's true that there's nothing shameful about it, but do you know what movies he likes to watch?"

A nervous look appeared on Gao Xiaojuan's face again, but she quickly asked, "What movies does he like to watch?"

Sheng Yang paused before answering: "He likes to watch movies like "The End of the World", "Death Comes" and "2012"."

"What's wrong with these movies?"

"It can't be said that there is something wrong with it!" Sheng Yang said, "But these are typical disaster movies."

"What's wrong with watching disaster movies? Everyone has their own hobbies, and carrots and cabbages have their own hobbies." Gao Xiaojuan began to "defend" Huang Jiaming again.

"Watching disaster movies is not absolutely bad, but it can also reflect a person's psychological status from the side." Sheng Yang said, "When I just learned that Huang Jiaming likes watching disaster movies, I was a little surprised. He let When I watched it with him, many parts of the film made me feel depressed, even hopeless. In short, I felt very uncomfortable. Later, I read a book that just talked about this point. For example, some people who lived in reality People who are not doing well, or who are not interested in real life, will often pay attention to such destructive movies as "The End of the World". In fact, they subconsciously hope that the world will be destroyed and then rebuilt to become what they want Appearance. Of course, this is just subconscious, maybe they didn't realize it themselves."

Gao Xiaojuan was confused by Sheng Yang's words, and she asked after a while: "How can Jiaming be so bad? Do you want the earth to explode? Do you want the world to be destroyed? I don't believe he can so!"

Sheng Yang felt a little helpless: "What I said just now is just a kind of psychological projection in the subconscious."

"Then why did he do this? There must be a reason?" Gao Xiaojuan asked again.

Sheng Yang replied: "Because he has been addicted to games for a long time. He has been playing games since he was a teenager until he is in his 30s. It is also because of playing games for a long time that he has no interest in everything in the real world. As time goes by , and also lacks competitiveness in the real world. He himself can feel that he can’t keep up with his peers in many aspects, even younger latecomers. But he is unwilling to reconcile, which leads to this phenomenon. Have you ever heard of world-weariness? ?”

Gao Xiaojuan shook her head, her mouth moved, as if she wanted to speak, but she didn't.

Sheng Yang then explained: "Although I'm not sure if Huang Jiaming is world-weary now, at least he has a tendency to be world-weary."

"How do you know?" Gao Xiaojuan asked.

Sheng Yang thought for a while: "He told me before that he yearned for life in the mountains."

Sheng Yang had just finished speaking, when Gao Xiaojuan asked, "What do you mean? What kind of life in the mountains do you yearn for?"

Sheng Yang paused, then continued: "He once said that he hoped to go to a place far away from the city, isolated from the world, and free from competition. Eat the simplest food and vegetables, and live the simplest life. In short, the reason why he The reason why he has such an idea is that he doesn’t want to participate in the competition in the real world. However, once we live in the real world, we will participate in various competitions. These competitions will make him feel frustrated.”

"That's not very good. It's a good thing to keep aloof from the world." Gao Xiaojuan said, and sighed.

Sheng Yang said: "But have you ever thought about it, if he really has nothing to do with the world, why would he play games? Isn't the game full of fighting?"

When Sheng Yang asked such a question, Gao Xiaojuan was stopped.

Sheng Yang went on to say: "So, he is not really aloof from the world. On the contrary, there is an 'aggressive' side in his character. It's just that in real life and work, he lacks the ability to be aloof from others. Higher ability and courage."

Gao Xiaojuan fell silent when she heard this.

Sheng Yang added: "If he hadn't been addicted to games from the beginning, but put his enthusiasm for playing games on study or work, then I believe he still has a chance to catch up now. He is not stupid, and has So many years of work experience, right? If he can change, or has hope of changing, why can't we help him?"

After Sheng Yang finished speaking, Gao Xiaojuan turned her head and looked at her in disbelief.

Of course, there are some complex feelings in this unbelievable, including helplessness, unwillingness, and expectation.

She looked at Sheng Yang like this for a long time before asking: "How can we help him?"

(End of this chapter)