Sunshine starting line

Chapter 137 All addictions are diseases

Sheng Yang seemed to have thought about it a long time ago, and quickly gave the answer: "We will find a way to get him to quit the game, and we will start with the job title examination."

"Then what if he can't quit?" Gao Xiaojuan asked, and then said, "I told him and scolded him when he was playing games with his father before, but it didn't help at all. If he could change, he would have changed it long ago." Now, are you waiting now?"

Although what Gao Xiaojuan said was discouraging, Sheng Yang still saw a glimmer of hope.

Anyway, Gao Xiaojuan was finally willing to say something normal, and finally stopped evading, perfunctory and dodging.

Sheng Yang said: "Actually, this is the same as our education. For example, if they have bad habits, we tell them, but they haven't changed, so let's just forget about it. If we don't check again, then this bad habit will always exist. Right?"

"Ah."

"If they have problems, we not only talk about them, but we must ask them to correct them, and we will supervise them until they completely get rid of their bad habits. Will it be much easier in the future?"

"Ah."

"So, when Huang Jiaming played the game, you said it at first, but he didn't change it, and you didn't insist on it. Next time he played it again, said it again, but he still didn't correct it. This cycle, and saying nothing, what They don't do the same thing." Sheng Yang said, "Besides, they also caused each other to have negative emotions, so why bother?"

Gao Xiaojuan thought for a while, and then asked: "Okay, let me ask this, if we all talk about Huang Jiaming and supervise together, what if it doesn't work? What should we do?"

"See a psychiatrist." Sheng Yang said.

When Gao Xiaojuan heard it, she froze in place, even forgot to take a step, and her voice dropped a little in an instant, with a little vigilance, as if she was afraid that someone would hear: "Shengyang, what did you say just now?" What? See a psychiatrist?"

"Yeah." Sheng Yang nodded calmly, "I just want to see a psychiatrist."

"Don't, don't, don't..." Gao Xiaojuan suddenly took a step closer to Shengyang, looking around, and said, "How can you say such nonsense? Jiaming is fine, what psychiatrist is going to see? People who don't know , do you think there is something wrong with him?"

Gao Xiaojuan's reaction was all within Sheng Yang's expectation.

After hearing this, she was still calm, and her tone was still calm: "Yes, go see a psychiatrist."

After Gao Xiaojuan listened, she stared blankly at Sheng Yang for a long time.Under the streetlight, her gaze was complicated and piercing.

Sheng Yang understood what she was thinking at that time, so he explained: "In this world, no one's mind is completely healthy. This is like our body. No one's body is completely healthy. There will be some small problems, more or less. Why do many people turn pale when they hear "mental problems"? It is because we did not pay attention to mental health before. Look at him. But now with the development of the economy and the awareness of mental health, more and more people see a psychiatrist. Moreover, most of them are successful people with high quality."

It is estimated that the last sentence "successful person" made Gao Xiaojuan more satisfied, and her face softened a little: "Will Jiaming be willing?"

"I don't know either." Sheng Yang said, "I plan to talk to him. Of course, I may not be able to convince him. So I thought, if I can't convince him alone, then everyone can persuade him. In this way , maybe it will have some effect on him.”

Gao Xiaojuan pondered for a while, then nodded: "Yes."

Most of the time, Gao Xiaojuan's goal is not to solve the problem, but to win the "debate".Moreover, she judges others by herself, thinking that Sheng Yang is also like this.It can be said that Gao Xiaojuan's views and attitudes have always caused Shengyang a headache.

Today, Gao Xiaojuan is finally willing to change, which is a gratifying thing for Sheng Yang.

Once, Sheng Yang couldn't understand and accept Huang Jiaming's obsession with games all day long!
She couldn't figure it out no matter what, how could a person in his 30s be indifferent to everything and only focus on winning or losing in the virtual world?

Later she understood: because Huang Jiaming couldn't find a sense of accomplishment in real life, he could only make up for it through online games.In online games, he has the opportunity to defeat his opponents, the desire to keep upgrading, and the possibility of success!In online games, he found a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction that he couldn't get in real life.So, just get addicted again and again.

And she would also feel very annoyed because she couldn't understand and correct Huang Jiaming's behavior, and she couldn't communicate with Huang Jiaming properly.Over time, Huang Jiaming also saw Shengyang's opinions on him, and instead of correcting them, he developed negative emotions towards Shengyang, and got deeper and deeper in negative emotions.

It can be said that this is a vicious circle.

Since the last time Qian Hui and Zhuo Fan "said goodbye", Zhuo Fan never looked for her again.

Qianhui thought, he should have left Shencheng, and didn't pay any more attention.

Unexpectedly, just half a month later, Zhuo Fan called her again, still asking her to meet, still at the coffee shop not far downstairs.

Qian Hui thought: Zhuo Fan probably finished his trip and planned to go back.It was also necessary to bid farewell to him, so I went.

Unexpectedly, when she saw Zhuo Fan again, Zhuo Fan sent a bouquet of flowers to her with both hands.

Qianhui looked at the large cluster of red roses that were about to bloom, and was suddenly a little dazed, and asked after a long time: "Zhuo Fan, who do you want me to give these flowers to?"

Zhuo Fan looked at Qian Hui and smiled faintly: "For you."

"Me?" Qianhui was even more puzzled, "Why did you suddenly send me flowers?"

Zhuo Fan didn't answer right away, but continued to look at Qian Hui with complicated eyes.

Qian Hui then said: "And it's still a red rose, I dare not accept this flower."

"Accept it!" Zhuo Fan said, "I also have a rare chance to give a girl a rose."

When Qianhui heard the word "girl", she was slightly taken aback.

She suddenly remembered that she had told Zhuo Fan that she had a child last time, did he forget?However, it is better to explain this kind of thing.

Thinking of this, Qianhui smiled and said, "I'm not a girl either, I'm a mother of a child."

Unexpectedly, after hearing this, Zhuo Fan just smiled lightly and said in an unusually calm tone, "I know. But every girl has the right to receive roses. It's not that becoming a mother of a child means losing this right."

Looking at the bouquet of roses, Qianhui felt more and more like a hot potato.

(End of this chapter)