Sunshine starting line

Chapter 60
Seeing Gao Xiaojuan like this, Sheng Yang felt a little complicated, but he didn't want to talk too much, so he said: "Don't be distracted when doing homework, we can't pamper her."

"How is this connivance?" Gao Xiaojuan asked back, "If you don't satisfy her, she won't even be able to do her homework."

Sheng Yang was a little helpless, but he still said patiently: "Grandma, we must follow principles in everything. If we keep pampering her, it will be tantamount to harming her!"

"I don't believe it will hurt her!" Gao Xiaojuan became upset, and hugged Huanhuan even tighter, "Huanhuan, mom won't play brain teasers with you, grandma will play with you. Come on, tell grandma, grandma is here Guess, okay?"

Seeing Gao Xiaojuan kissing and coaxing, Huanhuan not only didn't get better, but cried louder: "No, I don't want to play with grandma, grandma can't play"

Sheng Yang looked at the scene in front of him, so he said to Huang Jiaming: "Let's go back first, there must be a countermeasure."

Huang Jiaming paused, then followed Sheng Yang into the study.

In Shengyang's impression, this was the first time that Huang Jiaming cooperated with her like this except before marriage.

When the two of them entered the study room again, Sheng Yang said: "I basically didn't feel like working this afternoon, and I checked a lot of information about ADHD. There are three factors in the formation of ADHD in children: one is congenital genetic factors, parents or family There is a hyperactivity gene, that is, the 7R gene. Another reason may be that the hypoxia at birth caused mild brain damage, which affected the development of the prefrontal cortex. Another factor is related to the growth environment when I was a child, that is, an improper family Education can also lead to ADHD."

Huang Jiaming listened, pondered for a while, and then asked: "Then what do you think is the cause of Huanhuan?"

"It's not clear now." Sheng Yang said, "But I always felt that Huanhuan's growth environment was not very good. That is to say, even when we were young, we found problems, such as her throwing things around, lack of concentration, We didn’t correct her as a problem if she was too active, or her temper was too capricious, but she was allowed to develop. Over time, this has led to today’s situation.”

After hearing this, Huang Jiaming pondered for a few seconds: "But Lele and Huanhuan live in the same environment. Moreover, Lele and Huanhuan are twins. Lele doesn't exist, so why does Huanhuan exist?"

"I have also considered this issue." Sheng Yang said, "Huanhuan and Lele are twins, but they are also two completely independent individuals. In this case, there are strong individual differences. For example, Lele is very introverted. Huanhuan is very outgoing, completely different. Therefore, even in the same growth environment, it may cause different results, which is normal. Also, it is not too late for us to discuss how Huanhuan suffers from ADHD now. It makes a lot of sense. We should do our best to correct her shortcomings and make her better and better, what do you think?"

"Yeah." Huang Jiaming nodded, "But I still say that before Huanhuan is diagnosed, you can't treat her as a problem child. It's too unfair to her."

"I know." Sheng Yang said, "But, if Huanhuan goes to the hospital for an examination and it is really ADHD, what should we do?"

Huang Jiaming seemed to have thought about it a long time ago, and quickly replied: "I can't tell the teacher!"

"Why?" Sheng Yang was puzzled.

"I also told you the reason this afternoon. I'm afraid that Huanhuan will be treated differently." Huang Jiaming said, "So, neither her grandma nor I want us to report the test results to the teacher. Or, we delay the test time. Here During the period, I helped Huanhuan to do concentration training, and at the same time, I thought of other ways."

For Huang Jiaming's proposal, Sheng Yang did not immediately deny it.

After thinking for a while, she continued to analyze: "This is not appropriate. If Huanhuan is really a child with ADHD, it is difficult to achieve good results by our unilateral training. You must tell the teacher and let the teacher take care of her. .School and family work together to achieve the best results!"

"But what if the teacher treats them differently!" Huang Jiaming said, "I'm talking about what if!"

Sheng Yang said: "We need to have enough trust in the school. I believe in the quality of education and the quality of the teachers in Happy Sunshine Primary School. Moreover, if Huanhuan is really ADHD, I will find a time to have a good talk with their head teacher. I hope she can help Huanhuan more."

When Sheng Yang said this, he suddenly felt a little sad, and felt his throat a little choked.

She went on to say: "We are all young, and we have always disciplined our children in our own way. Perhaps, there were some problems in our past education process. School teachers are professional in educating children, and they will compare We are more experienced. Maybe, when I talk to their teachers, I can learn some new educational experiences. What do you think?"

Huang Jiaming looked solemn, then nodded: "Well, listen to you."

"We have to tell your parents about our decision and get their support." Sheng Yang added.

"I know." Huang Jiaming nodded.

When Sheng Yang and Huang Jiaming walked out of the study, she was still thinking: as long as she and Huang Jiaming unite and try to help Huanhuan correct the problem, all problems will be fine!

However, things are not as simple as Sheng Yang thought.

After dinner that night, Huang Yunshan suddenly said that he would hold a family meeting.No need to think about it, it must have something to do with Huanhuan.

Just when Sheng Yang was about to go to the next door to call Zhou Jing, he was stopped by Gao Xiaojuan.

Sheng Yang couldn't help but wonder, for so long, whenever a family meeting was held, Zhou Jing would be called.Sheng Yang also took Zhou Jing as a member of the big family as a matter of course.

Gao Xiaojuan seemed to see what she was thinking, and explained in a low voice: "It's not easy to talk about things like Huanhuan. Besides, isn't it diagnosed yet?"

After Sheng Yang heard this, he couldn't help being startled: "But my mother is also Huanhuan's grandma."

Gao Xiaojuan raised her hand to touch her wool roll, and continued in a different tone: "Didn't I just say that? Huanhuan hasn't been diagnosed yet, so her grandma won't worry."

Sheng Yang thought about it, so he retreated.

In the past, family meetings were held in the living room, but this time they "moved" into the study room.

Before the meeting started, Huang Yunshan smoked a cigarette while sipping tea, and said slowly in his usual "leadership accent": "I heard about Huanhuan. But for this matter, I would like to make a statement. A few opinions. First, the matter is not confirmed yet, so don’t spread it to the outside world, and ensure Huanhuan’s safety. Second, go to the hospital as much as possible to see what’s going on, and take treatment measures when it’s time for treatment. Third, We will strictly discipline Huanhuan and change some of her bad habits. That's all I have to say, please take a look and see if you have any comments."

Although Sheng Yang didn't like Huang Yunshan's way of speaking, he still agreed with what he said.

So, as soon as Huang Yunshan finished speaking, she said, "I agree with everything."

"What about the other two?" Huang Yunshan still spoke in an official tone.

Gao Xiaojuan turned her head to look at Huang Jiaming, and muttered in a low voice, "Jiaming and I disagree to go to the hospital."

After Sheng Yang heard this, he immediately cast his eyes on Huang Jiaming, seeing Huang Jiaming's face was sullen, and he didn't know what he was thinking.

Sheng Yang became a little impatient, so he asked, "Jia Ming, didn't you agree to send Huanhuan to the hospital before eating?"

As soon as Sheng Yang finished speaking, Gao Xiaojuan looked at Huang Jiaming warily: "Jiaming, how can you agree to this? It's not fair to Huanhuan!"

Hearing Gao Xiaojuan's words, Sheng Yang suddenly felt an unknown fire in his heart: "Grandma, when is this, why don't you understand? How can this be called unfair? If you really have a problem, you can receive treatment, why not?" Is it fair? If she really has a problem, it would be really unfair to delay due treatment because of our indecision!"

Seeing that Sheng Yang was angry, Gao Xiaojuan suddenly softened her tone: "This Sheng Yang, why are you so angry? I'm not doing this for our joy, okay? As a grandma, I can still hope for my own happiness. Something wrong with your granddaughter?"

"Everyone knows to be good to their children. Even a hen will try her best to protect her chicks!" Sheng Yang said, "However, we are advanced animals, and we must pay attention to strategies when encountering problems!"

"Look at you." Gao Xiaojuan spread her hands, looked at Huang Yunshan, and then at Huang Jiaming, as if seeking help for herself, "What are you talking about, a hen and a chick? Am I a hen?"

Sheng Yang was very angry, but he still said patiently: "Grandma, I was just making an analogy, you don't need to change the topic. This time is not a time to bicker, but to solve the problem! If you keep procrastinating like this, it is absolutely not good idea!"

"I don't want to procrastinate." Gao Xiaojuan's tone was obviously soft, and she took a special look at Huang Yunshan while speaking, hoping to get his support.But Huang Yunshan turned his head away and was swallowing clouds, as if he didn't notice Gao Xiaojuan's gaze at all.

Sheng Yang sees that Huang Jiaming has been silent, and now she and Huang Yunshan agree.If Gao Xiaojuan and Huang Jiaming really united front by then, then it will be 2:2.In this way, nothing can be explained clearly, and it is purely useless work!
Considering this, Sheng Yang continued: "Grandma, the main purpose of our meeting today is to let Huanhuan grow up healthily, not to win or lose. Jiaming discussed with me today, and I agree with him De: Take Huanhuan to see a doctor. He may have taken your feelings into consideration, so he didn't directly object to your opinion."

After Sheng Yang finished speaking, he turned his attention to Huang Jiaming: "Jiaming, is that so?"

Huang Jiaming's eyes dodged for a moment, and then he nodded hesitantly.

As soon as Huang Jiaming nodded, Sheng Yang said: "Okay, now three of the four people agree to take Huanhuan to see a doctor, so that's it?"

Only then did Huang Yunshan cough, and then knocked his half-smoked cigarette on the ashtray: "Well, that's it, the meeting is over."

Just after Huang Yunshan announced that the "meeting was adjourned", Sheng Yang suddenly remembered something, and specially told everyone: "Don't tell Huanhuan about this matter. No matter what the results of the examination in the hospital are, don't tell Huanhuan, lest she will be psychologically burdened .”

This proposal has been unanimously approved by everyone.

(End of this chapter)