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Chapter 61 Education, not necessarily utilitarian
After the meeting, Sheng Yang specifically asked Huang Jiaming in the bedroom: "Jiaming, we already discussed it today, why didn't you express your opinion at the family meeting just now?"

Huang Jiaming hesitated before replying: "I don't want my mother to be isolated"

When Huang Jiaming said this, he suddenly stopped, as if there was something hard to say.

Of course Sheng Yang understood what he meant.But she still couldn't accept Huang Jiaming's idea, so she said: "How can this be regarded as isolating her? It's normal for each of us to express our own opinions according to our own ideas!"

After hearing this, Huang Jiaming lowered his head: "Didn't you say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult? You also said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a problem left over from history?"

Sheng Yang couldn't help being startled!Indeed, something like this, she did say.

At that time, she and Huang Jiaming had just married, and at that time, Gao Xiaojuan kept doing various things in order to consolidate her position as the "housewife", for fear that Sheng Yang would get support in the family.

At that time, Sheng Yang had just transitioned from an ignorant woman in love to a "daughter-in-law" and "wife", and she was in a state of ignorance about family relationships.Faced with Gao Xiaojuan's "tricks" and "provocations", she turned to Huang Jiaming for help.And Huang Jiaming has always adopted the attitude of not coming forward, not supporting, and not solving it.Afterwards, Sheng Yang made many complaints about him, and he became annoyed, saying that Sheng Yang deliberately picked on his family's problems, and that Sheng Yang's own mentality was not correct.He told Sheng Yang: "My father and mother don't have any problems. Before you appeared in our family, our family got along well. But once you came, we didn't get along well. Whose problem do you think is the problem? "

At that time, when Sheng Yang heard Huang Jiaming's words, he thought he was out of his mind.But after many days of observation, he realized that he was not out of his mind, but selfish, so selfish that he refused to take responsibility, and so selfish that he would keep running away when he encountered a problem!Sheng Yang was aggrieved and helpless, so he said to Huang Jiaming: "The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is already difficult. If there is a problem with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the son refuses to stand up for justice, it will only get worse."

But he didn't want to, Huang Jiaming still remembered what he said when he was very helpless, and said it himself many years later to refute her point of view.

However, Sheng Yang was not angry, because she had swallowed too many grievances due to such unclear things before.This time, it's nothing.

What's more, Huang Jiaming can make such a small change and think relatively positively on the issue of Huanhuan, which is already very rare.

In all fairness, Shengyang has improved a lot over the years.Before, some people she hated, she could vomit for three days and three nights just by looking at them.Now, just spit it out, and it's over...

Immediately afterwards, she took a deep breath, adjusted her emotions, and continued: "It's okay, now that the matter is resolved, it's fine. In short, let's go to Huanhuan to see a doctor as soon as possible!"

Immediately afterwards, Sheng Yang first asked for leave from the magazine, and then specially asked for leave from Mr. Liu, the head teacher of Huanhuan's class, and planned to take Huanhuan to the hospital.

After everything was settled, she specially came to Huanhuan's room.

It was already nine o'clock, but Huanhuan was still worrying about a math problem she couldn't solve.

After Sheng Yang helped her find the answer, just as she was about to explain about going to the hospital tomorrow, Huanhuan suddenly asked melancholy: "Mom, why do people study so hard?"

After hearing this, Sheng Yang didn't know how to answer.

Sheng Yang was born in the [-]s. In her era, studying hard was a matter of course.

She thought for a while before answering: "Only by studying hard can you have a happy life in the future."

"What kind of life is a happy life?" Huanhuan opened her eyes wide, with curiosity and frustration on her face.

Sheng Yang didn't answer right away.

Because of this question, she often asks herself.

What kind of life can be considered happiness?Some people think that they are happy if they are healthy and happy every day.Some people think that a life with money and leisure and being able to lie down at any time is a happy life.Some people think that a happy life needs to be successful and to be looked up to and admired by more people.

There has never been a uniform answer to this question.

At the same time, she also suddenly remembered that when she was young, when her grandfather taught her to study hard, she said a very cute sentence.He said to Sheng Yang with a serious face at the dinner table: "Sheng Yang, if you study hard, you will be able to eat big fish in the future. If you don't study hard, you will only be able to eat small fish in the future. What do you prefer to eat?" fish?"

At that time, Sheng Yang was only six or seven years old. She looked at the small white fish that was fried golden on both sides on the dining table, and she was so greedy that she swallowed quietly before replying in a low voice: "I prefer to eat small fish."

Grandpa was a little disappointed and didn't speak for a long time.

Grandpa must have been disappointed at that time, right?She even thought Sheng Yang was a little silly!
But how can adults understand the world of children?What's more, in that era when supplies were relatively scarce, it was a very happy thing to be able to eat delicious little white fish!Moreover, Sheng Yang really prefers to eat small white fish, this is the truth!
Today, it is already a peaceful age with plenty of food and clothing, and the education and guidance of children like Joy and Lele need not be too materialistic and utilitarian.

After thinking for a while, she came up with a relatively reasonable answer.

But she didn't say it immediately, but asked, "Huanhuan, do you have your own dream?"

Huanhuan suddenly became interested, and the frustrated expression on his face was gradually disappearing: "I have dreams, I have so many dreams!"

"For example?" Sheng Yang asked.

Huanhuan thought for a while before answering: "I want to be a scientist, and I can go to outer space in the future. I also want to be a painter, so I can draw a lot of beautiful pictures. I also want to be a fashion designer, and I can design a lot of Beautiful clothes for everyone to wear. I still want to be... By the way, I also want to be a hair stylist, designing beautiful hairstyles for others and making them more beautiful!"

"Very good." Sheng Yang continued, "It is a good thing to have a dream. But do you know Huanhuan? No matter what kind of dream is realized, the premise is to have basic cultural literacy. For example, if you want to be a scientist, you should You need to learn a lot of scientific knowledge, otherwise you will not be able to embark on this path in the future. If you want to be a painter, fashion designer, or hair stylist, you also need to have sufficient aesthetic ability, and aesthetics is also part of cultural literacy, understand?"

Huanhuan half-understood, but still nodded: "Yeah."

Sheng Yang went on to say: "So, we must study hard. We study hard today and cultivate our learning ability to lay a solid foundation for realizing our dreams in the future. Do you know?"

"Well, I see." Huanhuan nodded.

Immediately afterwards, Sheng Yang changed the topic to seeing a doctor tomorrow, and she said to Huanhuan: "Huanhuan, you are almost eight years old, and you need to check your physical fitness. So, mom will take you to the hospital tomorrow, see Let's see how your physical fitness is, okay?"

As soon as Huanhuan heard that she was going to the hospital, she became a little wary and asked with wide eyes, "Mom, am I sick?"

Sheng Yang shook his head quickly: "No. We don't go to the hospital only when we are sick. Sometimes we need to go to the hospital for physical examination, right?"

"Ah."

"So, mom will take you there tomorrow for a physical examination, understand?" Sheng Yang asked.

"Well, I understand." Huanhuan nodded again.

(End of this chapter)