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Chapter 10 Marriage, The Emphasis on Participation
The originally good sisters' reunion turned into an accidental blind date because of Yuhe's husband's self-importance, and it ended in an unsightly scene. After Xu Hong, Sheng Min, and Chang Qing left, Yuhe and her husband There was a quarrel.

Yuhe blamed her husband for making his own opinions and invited Chang Qing to come, but her husband still stubbornly said, "I am doing it for her own good!" The husband turned around and responded, "Seldom associate with this kind of woman in the future, and if you don't get married after thirty, you will be a little seriously ill." Yuhe can accept her husband's evaluation of the company's personnel and his evaluation of social events. She talks eloquently and self-righteously, but she cannot accept her husband's accusation, or even slander, of her friend.

"She is my friend, you don't need to point fingers, I still have the right to make friends!"

"You have the right to make friends, so you can't call everyone, right? Take a look at your phone. She must be talking behind my back. Let me tell you that if we divorce in the future, she will instigate it."

"Heh..." Yuhe exhaled from both nostrils and mouth at the same time, and then said, "Stop being self-righteous, talking about you? You are still talking nonsense, who do you think you are, don't talk about instigating, Xu Hong still doesn't know you What's your name!" Even though she said that, Yuhe really didn't dare to give the phone to her husband, they hadn't discussed her husband, but her mother-in-law appeared in the dialog box too often, she thought she didn't add oil and vinegar, but that After all, it's his own mother, and her husband Ying is also not happy to see the family ugliness being publicized.

"Xiao Yuhe! Is this how I make you feel ashamed? Is this how you don't want to mention it in front of your friends? I didn't make a lot of money, I didn't get promoted, so it would be embarrassing for you to take me out, right?"

Yu He stared at her husband with bulging veins, dumbfounded. For a while, Yu He didn't know how to fight back. She couldn't figure out how her husband's thinking was provoked to this string anyway.I don't mention it in front of my friends, but I am concerned that there are still people who are not married. Xu Hong has always been alone. She has never talked about love. Does this mean that she actually hates love, or is not interested in love? Now that you know If your friends are not interested, shouldn't you be more considerate and stop "showing off" in front of your friends?How could such a little bit of thoughtfulness become an embarrassment in the mouth of the husband?

"Have nothing to say? I already knew that you don't love me at all. If you loved me, you would have wished that the whole world would know." Yu He's husband chased after her and refused to let Yu He go.

With tears in her eyes, Yuhe said, "Don't you think it's ridiculous? At this time, you come to talk to me about whether you love you or not? I gave birth to Nuonuo, have you ever talked to me about whether you love me or not?"

"I don't love you, I divorced you a long time ago!"

"So! So you, like your mother, think it's my fault that I gave birth to a child like Nuonuo? It's just my problem? Because it's my problem, so you don't care about Nuonuo, because it's my fault. It's my problem alone, so your mother slandered me so much in the community, and sarcasm me in front of relatives and friends, you can pretend you didn't hear it, because it's my problem alone, if your mother treats Nuonuo like that, you also say a word Don't say anything..." Yu He kept looking at her husband as if she wanted to find out an answer.The husband knew he was in the wrong, so he stopped talking, Yuhe grabbed his arm and asked, "Is that so? You talk!"

"Is that enough? I've worked very hard, and I finally took a day off. Can you stop being so persevering? Is it interesting to dig through these old accounts?"

"It turns out that you really think that I don't work hard. I thought you were just talking casually. So you really think that I take care of Nuonuo at home. It's not hard work to be looked at by your mother? Turn over the old score, because of this old score You haven't solved it, you haven't solved any problems from the beginning to the end!"

"You are working hard? You are just working hard. As for me, do you know how much pressure I have? Do you know how many times my pressure has increased because of Nuonuo?" For a child like Nuonuo, the husband does complain. I don't understand why such a child came to their family. If his child is an ordinary child, like those lively children outside, then at least his treatment fee will be saved, right?If he is a normal child, the cost of kindergarten in the future will not be so high, right?If he was a normal child, Yuhe could even go out to work, ah, why can't Yuhe go out to work, is she so trusting of his mother?The old lady was stupid, so what? It was out of good intentions. Isn't the child all right? Didn't she never do it again after being warned?The problem is solved, why does Yuhe still complain and feel wronged so much, endlessly...

Looking at her husband, Yuhe felt for the first time that there was a crack in the marriage.From the moment her husband no longer understands her, their marriage has cracked, she has been pretending not to know, she has been giving him reasons, he is just too hard, he is just too tired, life has left him no time to turn back Or settle down and listen to her words carefully, maybe her husband has long been unconscious of what she said, but, how could it be like this?How did it become like this?What if it becomes like this?For the first time, Yuhe felt powerless, too powerless, to Nuonuo, to her husband, to her mother-in-law, to marriage, to life...

In the end, Yuhe said tiredly, "If one day, our marriage has problems, it has nothing to do with my friend, it has nothing to do with anyone else, it's just you and me." After speaking, Yuhe went back to the room.Yuhe burst into tears like rain, at this moment she couldn't even hug the child, because it would scare the child.

Yuhe remembered the question they asked Xu Hong again, isn't one alone?Isn't it lonely when you are married? Isn't it lonely when you have so-called love?Yuhe felt that she was surrounded by a great sense of loneliness at the moment, because she couldn't continue to talk to her husband, because he would mess around, because she couldn't tell her friends, because her family ugliness should not be publicized, because she couldn't talk to her mother, because she couldn't worry her relatives, because she couldn't hug her. Crying with the child because it will scare him... This is her home, but at this moment there is nothing to hug and warm her.

Sitting on the subway on the way back, Sheng Min didn't speak. Xu Hong's speech today made her see Xu Hong's strong side again, just like in the college debate.Xu Hong is a master of the debate competition. Yan Feng fell in love with her when he was watching her debate in the audience. Hong and Xu Hong were overwhelmed by the pretentiousness revealed at that time, and in the end they died without a problem, and even Xu Hong refused to admit the relationship.

Sheng Min was thinking, the screen of the phone turned on, and he really came up with whatever he was thinking of. Just as he thought of Yan Feng, Yan Feng sent a message, and the message showed "I'm getting married." He stabbed Xu Hong.

Xu Hong glanced at the screen with surprise on his face, and then said a little teasingly, "Congratulations to him."

With trembling hands, Sheng Min typed a few words, "Xu Hong said congratulations."

"?" A question mark came back quickly from the other end of the phone, followed by "Are you together now?"

"Well, she came to play with me."

As soon as Sheng Min's message was sent back, the phone came after him.Picking up the phone, Yan Feng said directly, "Give her the phone and talk."

After Xu Hong answered the phone, he gave a hello, but Yan Feng couldn't hear any emotion from the hello.Then Yan Feng said, "How are you doing recently?"

"Not bad. Congratulations."

Yan Feng said as if his throat was blocked, "Didn't you say that I won't bless me when I get married?"

Xu Hong smiled and said, "If you are young and ignorant, don't remember it."

"You...haven't planned to get married yet?" In fact, it's a pity that Yan Feng is not married to Xu Hong, but he is also very clear that the current Xu Hong doesn't even bother to look at him.

Xu Hong didn't speak, because she was tired of explaining this issue to others. She didn't care if she said she couldn't get married, or said she wasn't a Taoist. Not getting married was her choice, and she couldn't explain it to anyone. .

"That... If there is a suitable one, just think about it, for your own good." Yan Feng restrained the words he planned to tease, he thought that even if he drew a full stop, he had to draw it more roundly.

"Well, thank you."

Still answering without pain or itching, Yan Feng felt that he had punched the cotton.Then came out another sentence, "Prepare to take your money with you."

Xu Hong laughed out loud and said, "Gift money is a matter of reciprocity. It's not obvious that it can't be recycled, but don't worry, for the sake of friendship with classmates, even if I know I will lose money, I will show my heart." After finishing speaking Xu Hong returned the phone to Sheng Min.

Sheng Min exchanged a few words with Yan Feng, then hung up the phone.Sheng Min asked Xu Hong, "Are you really going to give him the money?"

Xu Hong nodded and said, "Of course, classmate. Why don't you tell others about your marriage just for blessings and money? I won't spoil people's happiness." In fact, Xu Hong really wanted to say that she still has humanity, and that buying and selling can't be benevolent. Now, there is no deep hatred, so don't take the cruel things you said when you were young.

Sheng Min asked her again, "Then how much do you take?"

Xu Hong pondered for a while and said, "Whatever, I will give as much as you and Yuhe give."

"Don't you give me more?"

Xu Hong looked at her inexplicably and asked, "Why do I want more? They are all classmates. Obviously, I can't take it back. The business is not righteous, but I can't lose money." Hearing what Xu Hong said, Sheng Min also laughed, and she Knowing that Xu Hong really didn't take Yan Feng to heart.As for Yan Feng, Xu Hong is not suitable for him.In the matter of marriage, it is best to participate with love, and it can be done without love. The most important thing is to participate.

(End of this chapter)