35 this year

Chapter 68 A Woman's Dignity Is Valuable
The holiday is over, and everything seems to be back to the original point.Qi Chen came back and told Xu Hong that she was going to get married. Xu Hong opened his mouth and asked if she was going to get married after such a year. Qi Chen smiled and nodded happily. Xu Hong asked if he was the youngest son of that group. Qi Chen said of course, it turned out that her fiancé came back during the Chinese New Year, still handsome and unrestrained, in Qi Chen's original words, "I didn't expect the little things to grow and become more delicate", although he said so, but that man also No younger than Qi Chen, Qi Chen glanced at Xu Hong again and said disgustedly, "Marriage, how can it be based on personal preferences, appearance, family background, economics, comprehensive abilities, they are comparable and even support each other Go up to a higher level, that's fine." Hearing this, Xu Hong remembered Chang Qing's parents' request for Chang Qing's marriage, and they really wanted to support each other, and what could Xu Hong support Chang Qing? Woolen cloth?

Xu Hong could not support Chang Qing, and Sheng Min could not support Huang Guanyang. Not only could he not support, Sheng Min complained more and more frequently about Huang Guanyang in the sister group chat. On this day, Sheng Min told them that Huang Guanyang lost his job.

To be exact, Huang Guanyang was laid off.It turned out that after the Chinese New Year, the company made a general inventory of the overall business personnel, and optimized Huang Guanyang with the so-called "last elimination system".When they heard the news, Xu Hong and Yu He's first reaction was that they must pay a lot of money, right?Huang Guanyang has been in the company for so long, and he can pay a lot just for his years of service. Then Sheng Min said no, not even a penny. Xu Hong was surprised and asked why. Sheng Min said that she didn't know the details, she only knew about the previous systems It was all formulated by Huang Guanyang. Huang Guanyang made a complete set of dismissal procedures watertight, such as job transfer confirmation letter, voluntary application form, and responsibility and function standards. In short, when he was still in the position of personnel director, Huang Guanyang formulated a complete set of standards. The employment process is legalized by using his professional knowledge, which also makes all layoffs reasonable and legal, and the company does not need to pay high compensation.After reading the news in the group, Yuhe just replied silently, "No wonder so many people hate him." Only when it was my turn did I know what it meant to lift a rock and shoot myself in the foot.

Seeing the news of Huang Guanyang's unemployment, Xu Hong became worried again. Huang Guanyang was unemployed. What should they do if they were already in financial difficulties? She was not worried about Huang Guanyang, but she was worried about Sheng Min. Didn't all the economic pressure fall on Sheng Min?So worried, Sheng Min sneered and said, "Let him take out his own savings. After working for so many years, don't you have any savings? I don't even know how much money he has. I hide it from me every day." Yu He looked at the message and said "ah this" for a long time, and then told Sheng Min to be careful, women still need some money.

On the weekend, Xu Hong and Yuhe took Nuonuo to work in Chu Yunxing's western restaurant. This time, Sheng Min, who had nothing to do at home, also participated. Sheng Min even generously said that she could borrow her Weibo with more than 1 followers Help spread the word, it's free.Chu Yunxing smiled and only said thank you.

Yuhe could feel the changes in Chu Yunxing. In the past, Chu Yunxing always avoided Nuonuo. Even though he got acquainted with Nuonuo a few days ago, he was more careful in contact with Nuonuo. Now Chu Yunxing, whenever Nuonuo goes to the restaurant, he always hugs him, plays with him, and feeds him.Xu Hong naturally understands why, when Chu Yunxing lost Chang Xin because of the child, now he is punishing himself by contacting a special child like Nuonuo.

Seeing Xu Hong busy, Yu He asked Sheng Min who was sitting on the sidelines watching the fun, "Then what will Huang Guanyang do next?"

Sheng Min stretched his waist, took a french fries from Nuonuo's french fries plate, and said while eating, "He said he was looking for a job in personnel, even if he doesn't want to be a director, he can be a small manager or something." , but yeah, I feel hanging."

Xu Hong took off his shoes and stood on the chair, looking for an angle to shoot from above, and said, "I don't think it's hard to find. At his age, there are not many opportunities to find a good company. Maybe their directors are younger than him. How to manage it?" .”

"That's what I said." Saying this, Sheng Min recalled what Xu Hong said to her when she was looking for a job last year, and said, "But, look at him, he also said that you are not good before." Looking for a job, isn't it that you are doing well in your job now, it depends on whether he has this luck."

Xu Hong stopped what he was doing for a while, signaled the staff to change dishes, and then continued to shoot, Yuhe said again, "He, you can try a smaller company. With his work experience, it shouldn't be difficult."

Sheng Min shrugged again and said, "I don't care. He thinks he is from a big group, and he doesn't like small companies. He wants to enter a good company, saying that he has a strong ability to resist risks." Sheng Min said this At that time, Xu Hong had already put a cloth napkin and stepped on the table with one foot to shoot.

When Chu Yunxing saw it, he hugged Nuonuo and went to her side, and said, "Can you pay attention, this is a dining table after all, what do you want the guests to see?"

Xu Hong frowned and said, "Why don't you take pictures? You are tall, and you can find the angle well." Chu Yunxing curled his lips, and although he was not convinced, he stretched out his hand.

Xu Hong asked again inexplicably, "What are you doing?"

"Help you down, so you don't fall."

Xu Hong snorted, waved him away, and said, "There is no table that this girl can't sit at." Just as Chu Yunxing withdrew his hand, the wind chime for welcoming guests in the western restaurant rang, and Chang Qing walked in from outside.Seeing Chang Qing, Xu Hong laughed, then waved and said, "It's just in time, help me down."

Chu Yunxing gouged her out with his eyes, and then said to Chang Qing, "I just said that there is no table that she can't get off of, so I pretended to be weak when I saw you." Chu Yunxing no longer asked Chang Qing and Chang Xin news. It's gone, since you don't love her anymore, it's useless to see her. The phrase "apologize or not" has no weight in front of the words "I don't love you anymore".

With a smile in his eyes, Chang Qing hugged Xu Hong down his waist, kissed her again, and asked, "Are you tired?" Xu Hong shook his head to express that he was not tired, and Chang Qing helped her comb her hair again.In the past few days, Chang Qing had stopped talking about his parents. It seemed that everything was proceeding according to his arrangement, so Xu Hong didn't bother to ask.Xu Hong thought, in the past, she always wanted to solve the problem by herself, but she couldn't solve this matter, and if she participated too much, she would see the imperfect or even unbearable side of her lover. In front of her, it's fine to be the man who is so tender and considerate to her as important. She loves him, even if this is the first time she bowed her head for this love, she can just wait for her wedding with peace of mind.

Chang Qing came to pick up Xu Hong to go to exercise. According to their plan, the two of them are indeed quitting alcohol, exercising, building up their bodies, and preparing to have a child.Regarding this matter, Sheng Min discussed with Huang Guanyang behind his back, feeling that Xu Hong had betrayed his own principles of life.Huang Guanyang seemed to see a breakthrough and persuaded her to learn from Xu Hong again. Xu Hong could break his principle of not marrying and was still actively preparing to have a child. Why couldn't she, Sheng Min.

Regarding this statement, Sheng Min changed his response method and said, "Okay, we are also preparing. You can see that they are already exercising actively and recovering their physical strength. Look at Chang Qing. I see that his spirit has recovered recently. Some, why don’t you practice too?” This remark made Huang Guanyang embarrassed again, struggling to take a few breaths, Huang Guanyang said, “You haven’t moved much.” Sheng Min said again, “I want to move too, But I read on the Internet that I was practicing blindly at home, and the training place was wrong, which could easily hurt my body." Sheng Min wanted to remind Huang Guanyang that Xu Hong and Chang Qing were exercising in the gym under the guidance of professional coaches. I bought a diamond necklace, although it doesn’t look worth thousands of dollars, but it’s better than nothing, since he was with Huang Guanyang, he also gave her a small diamond necklace, that diamond Don't know if it's true yet.

Huang Guanyang feels that Sheng Min seems to have grasped the essence of oppressing him recently. As long as he is fat and he has no money, he can be hit. Jumped over his head.Thinking of this, Huang Guanyang said, "How about you, don't always look at Xu Hong here and Xu Hong there, you have to look at yourself first, you look better than Xu Hong, but your skin is rougher than others It’s not the same degree. Your job earns less than others. Do you think Chang Qing pays for other people’s fitness money and necklaces? Maybe she bought it herself, maybe they pay back to Chang Qing has bought a lot of good things. Think about the dishwasher. It costs seven or eight thousand. What have you bought for me? Of course, I don’t expect you to buy me anything. , or that sentence must have self-knowledge, what kind of pot is suitable for what kind of lid, Xu Hong can match Changqing, you can only match me. At your age, no one but me can want you, right? Don't always learn from those people on the Internet, treat yourself like a girl, and fantasize about that domineering president falling in love with me all day long. What advantages do you have? Why does the domineering president fall in love with you? Changqing is such a lowly person, do you think you have this luck? You don’t have Xu Hong’s heart, nor Xu Hong’s ability. Xu Hong can live without a man, can you live without a man? Haven’t you always lived on men? You used to live on your ex-husband, but now you live on me. You are like a parasite. You who don’t have children are better than Xiao Yuhe who gave birth to a problem child. Among this group of sisters, you are the most inconspicuous. If you don’t talk about you, you really think they think highly of you. Why does Xu Hong take Yuhe to make money? Why does Yuhe have a job? It’s not you What do you think you can do? You can’t write, you can’t shoot, you just toss your 1 fans back and forth, and the messages you send are all fake, pretending to be a senior white-collar Similarly, you are not a little assistant who gets 5000 yuan a month..."

Huang Guanyang said a lot, and Sheng Min didn't want to care about it, but when he mentioned a word, it hurt her again, parasite, parasite in life.Sheng Min remembered that when they went on a trip before, on the way home that was hindered by the heavy rain, in that hotel, Yu He also scolded her like this. After Yu He scolded her, although Xu Hong persuaded her, but Did not deny this claim.It turns out, it turns out that in the eyes of everyone, she is a parasite living on men.Sheng Min thought again of her desire for her husband to save her. That damned husband, that man who disappeared, disappeared after posting a photo of a cat during the Chinese New Year. What the hell is he playing? What, where has his so-called dream progressed? Has his career improved?
Sheng Min doesn't care what her husband's dream is or what stage his career is in, because she may not understand, she just hopes that her husband will come to pick her up soon, take the initiative to pick her up, preferably when he After a little success in her career, she will not suffer from this life again.Thinking about it this way, Sheng Min really felt that he might really be a parasite, and he might not be able to live without being attached to a man.Naturally, she did not dare to let Xu Hong and Yu He know about this kind of thinking. Apart from Xu Hong, Yu He seems to be retiring as her mother is approaching recently. Now that she has taken care of Nuonuo, she can go out to work. According to the plan Xu Hong gave her before, she can enter Xu Hong's company directly. With Xu Hong's protection, she doesn't have to be affected by any middle-aged mother returning to the workplace. suffering.

Thinking of this job, Sheng Min thought of her job full of mistakes. She seemed to have felt Chang Xin's dissatisfaction with her, because her work mistakes directly affected Chang Xin's work judgment, and Chang Xin had already approached her. We've talked, but fortunately, Chang Xin seems to like Xu Hong very much, and because she is Xu Hong's friend, he lets her go.

Sheng Min thinks why people must work, and admit that some people are not suitable for work at all, so what about sojourning, then the cuckoo will find a good nest before hatching eggs, so that the yellow warbler and sparrow How about incubating eggs for her? Since the law of nature has a sojourn relationship, it means that someone is suitable for living as a sojourner. Who can say that this set of laws is not set up for people like her? It is a female's advantage to seek help from a male. Seeking help from Huang Guanyang or her husband is the way for Sheng Min to survive. Even if she loses her dignity, isn't that still alive?What's more, for Sheng Min, that's not called loss of dignity. Didn't Xu Hong often say that marriage is an economic community? Then, as men, why can't they become Sheng Min's source of income.Women, you can obviously live very easily, why do you have to work hard to find a place in the company like Xu Hong, and why do you have to work hard to make money like Yu He, even with a special child? Dignity Is it worth that much?
Yes, dignity is very valuable, and a woman's dignity is even more valuable. It's just a pity that Sheng Min doesn't seem to understand this truth, or she hasn't encountered anything that can make her understand this truth. She still expects others to save her life , the light in her life has always been others, not herself...

(End of this chapter)