Medical skills help me win the arrogant husband

Chapter 300 The Marriage of Two Surnames
Gu Xiaoyun smiled and said: "On the second day after returning home that day, the old lady asked me to rub her neck, shoulders and back on the pretext of sore neck and back pain. She is an elder, and I am a junior. , Can you not? So I beat her back. After beating for a while, I started to cry."

"And then, then?" Gu Fuyun asked anxiously.

"Of course, the old lady scolded me, saying that I was not filial, but when I beat her back, I cried and cried, and said that if I didn't want to serve her." Gu Xiaoyun's face was slightly cold, and said, "I will explain, beat the old lady's back It is my duty to be a granddaughter-in-law. The granddaughter-in-law is also willing. But it suddenly occurred to me that I have never given my grandmother a back-beating in my life. The poor grandmother loves me so much. She not only hired a husband to teach me to read, She raised me carefully and prepared a rich dowry for me. My grandmother paid so much for me, but I never beat her back. It is really unfilial to get so much dowry for nothing. So I said to the old lady, I am now After I packed up the dowry, I returned the dowry that my grandmother gave me to my natal family. And asked the old lady to wait for me, and when I returned the dowry, I came back and beat her back."

Gu Fuyun laughed so hard that he fell down, and he admired Gu Xiaoyun so much that he threw himself to the ground.

"Then what? Will the old woman say that you have married into my family, and the dowry belongs to my Yun family, right?"

"That's not true." Gu Xiaoyun said, "The old lady said, you married into my family without a dowry, how will you live in the future? I take it for granted that I have married into your family to serve my husband's in-laws, honor my elders, and have children. Raising a daughter. My husband’s family raised me, gave me the decency and honor I deserve, and gave me flowers, shouldn’t it?”

Gu Fuyun was dumbfounded.

"Would the old lady say that the husband's family would look down on a woman without a dowry?"

"It's almost the same thing." Gu Xiaoyun said, "I just said with a smile, marrying a man, marrying a man, dressing and eating. Good girls don't wear wedding clothes. Since I married into my husband's family, I have children to serve my uncle and husband. , shouldn’t my husband’s family give me flowers? Do you want me to use my own dowry? Then what do I want to marry?”

"The old lady yelled at me, and the mother-in-law around me also said that I was not filial. All the daughter-in-laws come here like this, and I am the only one who is precious. I slapped this old thing and said angrily, you dog slave , Let me just say, the old lady is too many enlightened and kind old people, but now she has become so unreasonable, making things difficult for me everywhere, so it was you, a slavish slave, who instigated it."

"When the old lady saw me beating her, she became more and more reluctant. I didn't say anything, but said that I would not stay in this family anymore. I wanted to go back to my mother's house and ask myself to come down. Then I began to count the dowry. This was a shock. Mother-in-law, hurry up and ask me. I said that the mother-in-law Zhou instigated the old lady to set the rules for me, let me beat the old lady's back and shoulders, and said that the daughter-in-law can only rely on her own dowry in the husband's house, and the husband's family doesn't care. Yes. I said that the in-law’s family who can’t afford to support a daughter-in-law is fine. The mother-in-law’s face turned green, and she stood there for a long time before she quickly took my hand and comforted me. Good boy, you are wronged. The old lady is Elder, I'm getting old again, and as a daughter-in-law, I don't have much to say, but I assure me that the Yun family will never use my dowry, and I will immediately notify my father-in-law, so that he will come back immediately, and reason with the old lady .”

"Later, my father-in-law came back, so I wanted to ask my father-in-law, if I served my elders so wholeheartedly for my husband, would my in-law's family starve me to death? I have to bring my own dowry to serve my husband's elders, so what do I want to marry? Gu Why do the two families need to get married? Marriage of two surnames, isn’t it good for the two surnames? As a girl of the Gu family, I have inherited the court training since I was young, and I always remember that combining two surnames is a good marriage. The elders only taught me that a contract should be made together, a good relationship will last forever, and the same name should be matched. But they never taught me that after marriage, a daughter-in-law has to be inferior and serve the elders like a slave, so what will happen to my girl from the Gu family? He took a deep look at me, and then went to the old lady's house. Not long after, Nanny Zhou was gagged and sold out, and the whole family was sold. Father-in-law came out and said to me, you Now that you are married to my Yun family, you are my Yun family wife. Our Yun family is not a family who is greedy for a daughter-in-law’s dowry, let alone a lowly daughter-in-law. What to do with your dowry is your business. But as a daughter-in-law, respect Elders are just and righteous. The old lady asked you to serve because she likes you. I believe the old lady will not let you be filial in vain. "

"So, I went to the old woman's room without changing my face and said that I would serve her. As soon as the old woman saw me, she let me go and said that I didn't need to serve her. Since then, the old lady has never troubled me again Even the mother-in-law is very polite to me. The two little girls, who were a bit arrogant before, are very respectful when they see me."

Gu Fuyun now only has his sincere admiration for Gu Xiaoyun, this kind of thinking, this kind of vision, this kind of spear with self, shield with self-attack, I am afraid that modern women can't say such subtle words and do such amazing things. thing.I married into your house with a dowry, and I have to serve you for free, this old woman who never gave birth to me and raised me, has no door.If you want me to serve you, that's fine. Let's first clarify what is the marriage of two surnames.The Yun and Gu families can be regarded as the right family. Since they are the same family, they should understand that the marriage should be mutual achievement and mutual benefit, not unilateral suppression.A married woman is born to be a dwarf. If she wants to be a cow or a horse, she must understand why.Facing such a sensible daughter-in-law who refused to suffer, although the Yun family's parents-in-law might have their own opinions, they could only restrain the unreasonable old lady for the sake of the two surnames of the Yun and Gu family.Instead of daring to criticize the new daughter-in-law.

Of course, this was also because the Yun family wanted face.The girl from the Gu family is not so easy to bully, and the Yun family is not the kind of low-level market family. The kind of family that uses the big stick of filial piety to poor daughter-in-law will not get help from the in-laws.

Yun Gu's marriage is based on the connections and strength of the two families, and he wants to get help from Lin's in-laws.You have to give your wife enough respect.

Gu Xiaoyun held Gu Fuyun's hand again and said, "The reason why my aunt stood by my side is not to really make decisions for me. It's just that I backed down when I saw that I was not easy to bully. Scholars, after all, do you want to show face? What's more, I'm the daughter of the Gu family, and I'm not arbitrarily selected by them. What's more, the fortune of my dowry is enough for me and my husband to chew on. Their Yun family is just noble."

The Yun family still needs to support two scholars who spend money like water, and the two daughters are still in the boudoir, and they need money for everything.The Yun family is not a big family, and it is impossible to support a whole family with salary alone.The Yun family wanted to be in the elite circles, but they didn't dare to be too greedy and shame the feathers.Therefore, the life of the Yun family is not even half as good as that of the Gu family.

Gu Xiaoyun's dowry, how could the Yun family not care about it?

So even if Gu Xiaoyun did something wrong this time, the Yun family could only endure it.This is the benefit of having a dowry.

　The last chapter was heavy, and I only found out when I updated it today.It has now been changed.The babies can go and see.Those who have already subscribed will not be charged again.

　　Today's chapter involves the marriage of two surnames.

　　I changed and changed, so I was delayed.

　　I personally think that in a well-matched marriage, the daughter-in-law does not have to be low-key.There is a dowry, and the strength of the family is equal to that of the husband's family. Why do you have to be inferior when you marry into your family?Only small households in the market will say that it is not easy for me to raise a daughter, so they ask for a lot of gifts, but they don't dowry them.The husband's family naturally has to torture the daughter-in-law twice in order to balance.

　　The kind of daughter-in-law who has a dowry and is bullied by her in-laws is either under the leadership of her in-laws, or she cannot stand up by herself.

　　
　
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