Quick wear: She has turned over the big guys from all walks of life

"Those old people are envious of us. We have grandsons to hug and accompany us."

"We made an appointment yesterday and we are going to take the cat out to play today; they all like the cat. Our cat only cries twice when it is hungry and poops. It is usually very well-behaved."

Yan Fu'an: Why doesn't he believe it so much?

Is this normal?

As a father, he would give me a look when I hold his son. Those who don't know think that this child was reincarnated with memories.

Minghua chuckled lightly, "That's good. Our meow will be more courageous if we meet more people."

The main purpose of taking him out is to practice courage and to be exposed to different people frequently. When the child gets used to it, he will naturally not be afraid.

"Yes! Miao Miao is so good. When an old man teases him, he will smile at them."

After chatting and laughing and having breakfast, Minghua was taken away by Yanfu An; Yu Youyi and his wife also took their eldest grandson out. They didn't go too far, just walking around the nearby streets and parks.

There are not many people living in this area, but everyone is either rich or noble. This kind of family means that the old people have money and leisure, and have a lot of time to play. In order to pass the time, some old people will even learn something they are interested in. thing.

This also means that the elderly will enjoy the company of children.

After all, spending time with your kids is also a way to pass the time, and it’s more fun.

Children look the same every day. They are young and have little memory; teasing them is the most fun. Looking at the children's innocent eyes, the comfort in the soul is like being purified.

"The banquet family is here, let me see if Meow Meow is good today!" A kind old lady held a small toy in her hand. She looked at Yu Youyi and his wife coming with their child, and immediately sat down. .

Then several more old people came over and gathered around Yu Youyi and the others, standing or sitting, just wanting to see the children.

"Meow meow doesn't like to cry, and his little eyes are really clever."

Meow Meow's big round eyes are as juicy as grapes; her nose bridge is straight and her small mouth looks exactly like Yanfu An's. The only difference is probably that one is an enlarged version and the other is a reduced version.

"When our meow grows up, he will be a handsome man. Look at how good-looking his facial features are." An old man reached out to touch his chubby face. "It's plump and feels good."

Miao Miao moved her neck. The old man's hands were wrinkled and would gradually lose moisture and become rough. No matter how well they were cared for later, they were not as delicate as young people's hands. This was especially noticeable when touching the delicate skin of a baby.

"Okay, hurry up and put away those old barks of yours. Meow Meow is feeling uncomfortable." An old lady pulled his hand away and only touched Meow Meow's forehead; Meow Meow didn't hide this time and behaved obediently. Let her touch.

The old lady opened her mouth from ear to ear with joy, "I don't know when my grandson will get married and give me a great-grandchild to hug me; they are busy working every day, either at work or at work, and they won't go on a blind date if they are arranged, saying they just want to be single-minded." Do you think it’s ridiculous to pursue a career and not get married for the time being?”

"It's really outrageous."

"My family is like this too! Not to mention my grandchildren, my youngest son and daughter are not getting married; I am 30 years old, and if I don't get married and have children, I will be an advanced mother. I am really worried about them getting married early."

"It's better for Mr. and Mrs. Yan! Our son is married and has children, so they can have grandchildren early."

Yan Fanghong listened casually and didn't take it seriously; thanks to their good care, they didn't know that his son didn't get married until he was in his 30s, and they didn't have a grandson until they were in their 50s.

It's not too early.

They look young, and people wouldn't expect them to be over 50. "Youyi! Tell me what the younger generation of children are thinking. Wouldn't it be better to get married early? If you get married and have a stable family, wouldn't it be better to develop your career if you have a wife and children?"

"That's right, we don't have to worry about the rear. How great!"

Yu Youyi smiled softly, "Maybe young people have different ideas from us. They prefer to be single and pursue careers; family is an unknown for them and they have too much to bear. Most people would rather have children by themselves. I don’t want to get married either.”

She heard these words from Huahua.

The current society is indeed such a sign.

Men and women are equal, both men and women can make money and support themselves; if they get married, they have to take care of two families, which will put more burden on women.

Women have to go to work, give birth, raise children, and take care of the whole family. Those with better living conditions are fine, but those with average living conditions are really tired for women.

The heart is tired and the people are tired.

It's better to meet a man who knows how to care about his wife, at least he feels a little comforted; when he meets a man who doesn't care about his wife well, he can only admit that he is unlucky.

It's not like back then, they could get married as soon as they met each other on a blind date.

Yu Youyi was speechless about this. Society is like this and human relationships are like this. If you want to change, you can only rely on women to wake up and resist.

"Isn't that what it is? That's what my little granddaughter said. She would rather have a child through in vitro fertilization than get married. After getting married, it would be better for her husband's family to have less things to do, but it would be really annoying to have too many things."

"Where does it say that? Marriage is the union of two people; families need to be harmonious, and filial piety must also keep up."

"Many young people today have this kind of thinking, and there's nothing we can do about it; we can't pry open their heads, clean out the thoughts in their heads, and then program them with a set of thoughts."

"Well, I don't know what they think. I have given up on urging marriage; they can do whatever they want. It's their business to get married or not. Let's take good care of ourselves and live happily every day. We will be happy if we can survive for even one day. one day."

"You have one foot in the coffin, why are you thinking so much! Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. Come, let's see how cute our meow is. Isn't it better than the bad ones at home?"

Everyone's topics ranged from family trivial matters, to complaining, to discussing meow, and they could switch freely.

They are all from the older generation, and they have no competing interests. They have free time after retirement. They can talk about whatever they think of, and they do as they please. They don’t have so much baggage, and they don’t have the idea that family scandals should not be made public.

So what if it's publicized.

A few of them are familiar with each other, and the others don't know which family the other party belongs to; they just talk about it, and people listen to it casually. This is the norm in a retirement circle.

We get together every day, chat about everyday things, and play our favorite little hobbies; playing chess, planting flowers, reading, and walking on the street.

It's very boring, and I have to live like this day by day.

If you have something to do, you will be mentally relaxed at least. Once you are free, it will be really torturous. If you have nothing to do, you will feel anxious and depressed, and you will have to face the tension of death.

This is why many elderly people are unhappy in old age.

How can you still be happy when there is something wrong with your heart?