Affectionate trapping

Chapter 44 But you ignored me
Wen Xi finished talking with Zhou Weilin.

When she left, she put on sunglasses and a mask to hide all the embarrassment and embarrassment, and said that she felt much more comfortable after talking with her.

She felt comfortable, but it was because she had vented her heart out, venting out the inexplicable emotions that had accumulated in her heart for several nights.

Looking at the closed door, Wen Xi frowned, lost in thought.

She was reviewing today's conversation, criticizing herself for being too eager at the beginning, or inserting her own personal emotions into it.

Unable to figure it out, she went up to chat with Dr. Liang.

The other party told her: "People have feelings and emotions. It's normal for you to substitute emotions, and it's not a bad thing to let her vent. But next time, you can be more patient and guide her to express all her thoughts first." .”

He smiled: "But you have done a good job."

"Thank you, teacher."

After Wen Xi left, he began to think about another question.

Obviously she thinks getting back together is wrong, so why can't she just tell her to break up?Is it possible for a friend to say that, as a psychological counselor, you have to be so rational and conform to the other party's ideas?
Even if you don't agree with the other party's approach.

She knew that the role of the counselor was only to guide and resolve the pain and sadness in the counselor's heart.

Because the purpose of psychological counseling is not to make decisions for others, but to help others to help themselves.

but…

Although she has been a psychological counselor for so many years, she is still dominated by emotions and falls into a vicious circle of self-exploration.

In order to invade their hearts, she will think differently, and after the end, she will consider what she would do if it was herself.

In the end, if you come to the opposite conclusion, you will be irritable and depressed.

If it was her, she would rather eat grass than a man who betrayed her.

Or maybe, without the suffering of others, she can't experience it personally.

But if it was her, she would rather eat grass.

Repeating this sentence over and over in her mind, she didn't realize that a person suddenly appeared in front of her, and when she was about to collide, she suddenly raised her head, facing Shen Yuli's sharp face.

A familiar breath floated over, her heart skipped a beat, and she took half a step back: "Why are you here?"

His complexion didn't look good, he was a little pale, there was a sense of depression between his brows, his eyes were dark, and his lips were stretched into a straight line: "I'm here to apologize to you, I'm sorry."

"I really didn't mean to."

Wen Xi was taken aback, and when he saw the people at the front desk looking sideways at the show, he was a little embarrassed, and whispered, "I don't blame you."

"But you ignored me." There was grievance and accusation in his tone that he didn't even notice.

"When will I—" She paused, thinking that she did not reply to his message in time just because the consultant came in.

But it was only an hour before and after, why did he come here.

She turned to the front desk: "Weiwei, do I have an appointment later?"

"It's gone this morning." Han Wei said with a smile, "You can go out without worry."

Wen Xi automatically ignored her jokes, it was inappropriate to go outside, and she didn't know how many people would see her along the way.

She turned to the direction of the consulting room: "Come in with me."

Shen Yuli looked obedient and followed along, with a wide chest, narrow waist and long legs, and his back was comparable to that of a male model.

People around Han Wei asked her, "Is that Wen Xi's boyfriend? He's so handsome."

"It doesn't look like it, but it's not too innocent either."

...

The door closed, and Shen Yuli's eyes were filled with green.

She took a cup to help him fetch water, "You can sit down wherever you want."

There are only two chairs here, her and the counselor's place.

Shen Yuli naturally sat on the consultant's seat, and Wen Xi faced him when she sat down, feeling surprised and strange.

She calmed down, and she explained: "It's not that I didn't reply to your message, it's because the consultant happened to come at that time, so I didn't have time to reply."

But Shen Yuli couldn't accept it. Although he knew that she did have strict professional ethics, even if she replied with two words "it's okay", he wouldn't rush over in a panic.

Well, in fact, even if it was such a dry reply, he would think too much, because the previous reply had already made him feel very indifferent.

Shen Yuli didn't want to admit that he was so sensitive that he should be more flexible, but countless times he was at a loss and thought wildly because of her little move.

He looked at the purple hydrangea and said in a low voice, "I'm afraid you're really angry."

"Can I argue with a drunk?"

Shen Yuli fell silent, and looked directly at her.

Damn it, he couldn't help but be attracted by her turning neck at this moment, remembering that he had been there for a long time last night.

She touched her neck with her fingers and pursed her lips: "What's wrong?"

He blurted out almost without thinking: "I was just thinking, if any drunk person hugs you, as long as you apologize properly the next day, you won't be angry."

Nor will they push each other away.

Wen Xi frowned, "You miss me that much?"

Hearing her rhetorical question, he suddenly woke up, wondering what nonsense he had said.

"I'm sorry, don't be angry, I drank too much yesterday, and I'm still a little dizzy, sorry."

Wen Xi lowered his eyes and remained silent for a while.

"Wen Xi, don't be angry..."

It's been a long time since she looked at him like this.

He stretched out his hand, but withdrew it, only a pale voice said, "I'm sorry."

She finally opened her lips: "If any man hugs me and I accept it, then what am I? Emotional hugger?"

"..." Shen Yuli's long eyelashes trembled slightly, does this mean that he is different from other men?
But then she raised her eyes and looked at him seriously: "I don't care about you because after getting along with you for this period of time, I think you are a very worthwhile friend. I misunderstood you before, but now I know you again. I missed you, and I sincerely regard you as a friend, so I don't think there is anything to worry about yesterday, and you didn't mean it."

"... Oh." He couldn't be called happy or sad. He shouldn't have been so eager to ask for too much, but he was still a little bit disappointed.

"Generally speaking, I still want to say sorry to you, as long as you don't worry about it." Afraid that she would be uncomfortable, he added: "I don't even remember what happened last night."

Seeing his depression and the tired expression between his eyebrows, Wen Xi's heart softened, and a smile overflowed from the corner of his lips: "Okay, you have said sorry several times since you saw me just now, are you a repeater? You can repeat like this."

Seeing her smile, his stiff back relaxed, followed by a slight smile: "I won't talk about it, and that matter will be over, okay?"

"Well, anyway, you just hugged me, not long."

"..." The bullying he didn't remember.

Continue to pretend: "That's good."

Wen Xi looked at his face: "Does your head still hurt?"

"For one thing, it was worse in the morning, but it's much better now."

"Well, drink more water."

Shen Yuli obediently took a few sips from his cup.

"You...was in a bad mood yesterday?"

Shen Yuli put down his cup and looked at her quietly, his shallow pupils were filled with obscure emotions.

　The purpose of psychological counseling is not to make decisions for others, but to help others to help themselves.

　　——Excerpt from "The Feeling of Ascension: I Do Psychological Counseling at Harvard"

　　
　
(End of this chapter)