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Chapter 125 The Man Behind the Scenes (37)

Song Yuwei nodded, "You're right, everything in this world has to be paid for, just like if you want to harvest 100 catties of rice, then you have to work hard, if you don't get anything Do it, just lie on the side in a daze, then your rice will never grow.

What we have to do is not to blame others, nor to feel inferior and not believe in ourselves.

What we have to do is to work hard on the basis of believing in ourselves. Only through this method can we get what we really want or the results we want.

To be honest, everything we have now comes from, or our own ability, but if there is a little bit of difference, it is difficult for us to get everything we need now, we will always thank others, Or thank yourself for your luck.

But we have never thought that if we simply have people who help us, or if we are simply lucky, then we will not be able to get this kind of thing.Once you get it, it will be easy to lose it, because you don't have the ability to control it, and no matter how much you get, it is only temporary.

Only if you really have the ability, you can control those things that have been elusive, and the reason why we can get it.The ultimate goal is not to enjoy, but an experience, which will bring us many strange feelings, and our life is actually just a game in the end.

There is no need to be too concerned.It's like a movie, once it starts, you just let him go on, don't stop, and don't be in a daze in one place.Just keep going forward and see what happens next.

In this case, we can get much of what we want, understand that the reason why we are angry is because we want to see, because if we don’t want to, we won’t be able to see such bright sunshine, and we won’t be able to see all kinds of things in the world. good.

Everything is angry because of our attachment, relying on this attachment should not be attached to a certain result, because there has never been any result in this world, what we have to do is to experience the process.It's like when you do something, you can't say that you do it because you get some kind of material reward.

Because you just want to get money, then your purpose is not pure enough. You must first understand who you are, and continue to understand what kind of thing you want to do. As for how to do this thing?In what way, this is what you tell yourself through your brain, but don’t cling to a fantasy, just like a dish, you can’t just cook a dish.

For example, this dish is called scrambled eggs with onions. You can’t just want to fry onions and scrambled eggs without thinking about it. You can actually make scrambled eggs with cucumbers or scrambled eggs with tomatoes. There are many kinds of vegetables in this world that can be scrambled with eggs. Not only Yang Zi is a vegetable that can be fried, but also other vegetables can be used to make scrambled eggs.

Perhaps the fried taste is more delicious, and it is richer in various delicious feelings.So don't be attached, when you are attached to an environment, then you are likely to lose, and those who lose will not have everything they want next, we will always do some thinking What we want to do, but when we do it, we will find that the result is not what we want.

Under such circumstances, we are easy to give up on ourselves, thinking that we have put in the hard work, why the result is so unsatisfactory when it comes to the harvest in the end, in fact, there are many factors that can achieve the result, the first is your luck , followed by whether you have put in 100% effort for this matter.

In fact, luck is only part of it. If you put in 100% effort, it is very likely that you will get something you can’t imagine. Many people don’t have the patience to do things to the extreme.

In other words, it is enough to think that it is almost done, but this kind of people often cannot get the results they really want. You must know that the result of a thing has a lot to do with what you paid for him when you did it. If your contribution to him is not enough to support the necessary conditions for you to obtain this result.

So how can you really get the results you want?So, no matter how you look at it, your current situation is entirely due to your misunderstanding of yourself and the outside world. You should not think of people so badly, nor should you Think of yourself so innocent, so pitiful.

In this world, there has never been anyone who is really completely pitiful, or really completely bad.The good people you see are not necessarily really good, and the most critical point, you have to understand that if a person looks good, then it is possible that he looks bad, because this is directly proportional, Like a coin, I told you.

It can’t be that there is only one side. He has a white side and a black side. This completely exists. You should believe this, including the result you have obtained so far, and it all depends on your own misunderstanding at the beginning. .

You go to blame my parents, I don’t think you are such a stupid person, it’s just because of the harm and influence caused by your cognitive bias, and I can’t guarantee that my parents didn’t do anything to you things, or cause any harm, because I never think that there are absolutely good people and absolutely bad people in this world.

Most people think that either a person is absolutely good, or a person is absolutely evil to the extreme.But in fact, for many people, they are all gray, not black or white, just like many things, you can see different answers from different angles.

Maybe you look at it from this angle, it is very bad, but if you look at it from another angle, maybe it is not like that.So, how can you prove that this thing must be bad, and that thing must be good?
This has a lot to do with why we humans regret what we do.Because after we do something, we always feel that if we had chosen another thing at the beginning, maybe what we got would be much richer than what we have now.

But in fact, that is just an illusion in our brains, without any basis, because what we are doing now brings us a lot of fatigue, and our human nature is lazy.

If you think too much, it will only cause you a kind of distress and worry. "

(End of this chapter)