Time flies in the world of film and television

Chapter 681 Don’t persuade others to be kind until you have suffered others’ hardships.

At the Hanlinju Restaurant in Shanghai, after Guan Juer finished explaining, the two chatted for a few more words, and then Han Tao smiled and invited Andy to have dinner with him.

"Andy, since you haven't eaten either, don't be in a hurry to go back. Let's eat some together!"

"Well, if it weren't for Bao Yifan, I would have planned to talk to you, so let's go together!"

Andy nodded and agreed. He originally wanted to meet Han Tao today. One was to talk about work, and the other was to ask Han Tao to give him some advice.

"That's great, Sister Andy, I haven't had dinner with you for a long time. Let's go in quickly. I'm almost hungry!"

Guan Ju'er hugged Andy's arm happily. When Han Tao was away, Andy took her to and from get off work and helped her solve many work problems, so the two had a good relationship.

"it is good!"

Andy nodded, took out his arm, looked at Han Tao and said as he walked: "I suddenly remembered, Han Tao, have you heard about Miss Fan?"

"What about Sister Fan?"

Guan Ju'er looked at Andy in confusion. She lived with Fan Shengmei and hadn't heard what happened to her, so before Han Tao could respond, she asked, "What happened to Sister Fan? Why didn't I know?
Moreover, Sister Fan has been leaving early and coming back late recently, because the coffee shop is too busy and is expanding rapidly. She is focused on work, what could happen? "

"It's about her family. I also heard what Fan Xiaomei's old classmate, the handsome guy Wang, said..."

After the three of them sat down in the private room, Andy talked about the situation. It turned out that Wang Baichuan had never given up on Fan Shengmei, especially because Han Tao provided him with office space, and Qu Xiaoxiao also gave him some work for Fan Shengmei's sake. It is also gradually getting on the right track.

It is precisely because of these two points that Wang Baichuan likes Fan Shengmei even more, thinking that she is not only a goddess, but also his lucky star.

However, Fan Shengmei is now focused on her career, not to mention the existence of Han Tao. She had already made it clear to Wang Baichuan that the two of them were impossible.

But Wang Baichuan was unwilling to give in, so he always wanted to find an opportunity. Knowing that a few days ago he knew that Brother Fan Shengmei had gotten into trouble again and ran away with his wife, leaving a mess to his parents, he immediately felt that an opportunity had come.

But after she made it clear, Fan Shengmei didn't answer Wang Baichuan's calls at all, because she didn't want to take care of the bad things at home. The last 30 to [-] yuan was already the most benevolent thing, and in order to avoid getting entangled with Wang Baichuan, she didn't treat them at all in the end. Okay, just stop contacting me.

But this move made Wang Baichuan a little anxious. As the saying goes, adding icing on the cake is not as good as giving timely assistance. If he could help Fan Shengmei solve this matter, then Fan Shengmei's attitude towards him would definitely change.

But he had the intention, but Fan Shengmei had no intention. Even if he wanted to be a licker, he couldn't do it for a while.After much thought, Wang Baichuan called Qu Xiaoxiao and wanted to ask for help.

But who was Qu Xiaoxiao? She disliked Fan Shengmei's always upright attitude the most, so she didn't bother to care about it, and finally gave him Andy's phone number.

Of course, Wang Baichuan didn't have any other intention in calling Andy. He just wanted her to inquire about Fan Shengmei's plan to deal with the family affairs.

It was precisely because of this phone call that Andy learned about the situation of Fan Shengmei's family, and he was a little confused about this matter, because he didn't know how to deal with such a matter.

According to Andy's idea, this kind of thing can be handled according to legal procedures, but Fan Shengmei didn't tell everyone because she didn't want others to know, so she thought about asking Han Tao to see if there was anything good. Method.

After all, Han Tao is Fan Shengmei's boss. Now that the employee has left, she feels that it is necessary for Han Tao to help solve the problem. Besides, everyone is friends and should help each other.

After listening to Andy's narration, Han Tao smiled and asked: "Andy, what do you mean, let me come forward to understand the situation and then help her?"

"Of course, you are her boss!"

Andy nodded, looked at Han Tao, and said directly: "Little sister Fan has a lot of self-esteem, and I'm afraid I'll say he won't be able to live up to his reputation, so you are the most suitable."

Han Tao shook his head: "The Fan family's matter is not easy to solve. There was a problem in her family before. His brother beat up his colleague. In the end..." "Then what should we do? It's not easy for Fan Xiaomei to blame." Yes, now that we know it, we can’t just ask for nothing, right?”

After listening to Han Tao's words, Andy understood that this was a bottomless pit. Unless her parents changed their minds, Fan Shengmei would not be able to control it.

Colleagues also know why Fan Shengmei can't find a boyfriend at this age. It's not that there is no suitable one, but that no one can accept this kind of family.

Han Tao pondered for a moment and said: "She has to wake up to this kind of thing. After all, family love is not so easy to explain. Just like you did to Xiao Ming, no matter what happens to him, you will never give up on him.

What's more, Fan Shengmei was raised by her parents since she was a child, and the relationship between them is even more troublesome. Although she has no obligation to her brother, her parents insist on doing that. Can she watch her parents survive?
So she has to make her own decision about this kind of thing, otherwise she will regret it later, or if her parents really have any problems, she will definitely condemn herself. "

Hearing this, Andy frowned and asked, "Then what should you do? Are you really pretending that you don't know?"

"The Fan family's parents have a very typical patriarchal mentality. They regard their son as a treasure and their daughter Fan Shengmei as a tool. They doted on their son and neglected her since she was a child, and finally raised her son to death.

Now Fan Shengmei's brother is uneducated and has no ability to support himself. He still causes trouble to his parents every day, and every time he has to have his sister wipe his ass. If Fan Shengmei doesn't wake up, it will be over.

She had no life of her own in the first 30 years. She had been helping her brother find a job, marry a wife, buy a house, and help him support the family. She was completely a slave to the Fan family.

Looking back at what her parents did, they never felt grateful. Instead, they felt that everything was natural and was the fate their daughter should have.

Now that Fan Shengmei has chosen to end this support, her family members accuse her of being heartless and unjust. If we give her any help at this time, it will make her shake her mind and choose to go back to the old path. Then we are not helping, but adding chaos! "

Guan Ju'er was pampered by his parents, so he said in disbelief: "Brother Han, how could things be as bad as you said? Sister Fan is also their daughter, so they are not good at all to Sister Fan. "

"Don't persuade others to be kind without others suffering!"

Han Tao looked at Guan Ju'er, shook his head and sighed: "This is the ugliness of human nature. As a person who is not valued, no matter how hard you try, you can't change being looked down upon.

And the more you give, the more they take your contribution for granted, so if you don't get a little kindness or affection in return, it will encourage their selfishness and greed.

Xiaofan is a typical example. She has sent too much money to her family over the years and tried her best to take care of everything. But what did she get in exchange?A bottomless pit, just a tool man! "

"Why are we both parents? There is such a big gap. I used to feel that my parents were too busy and made me unable to breathe. With Sister Fan, I am so happy!"

Guan Juer can only be grateful that her parents love her, otherwise she would not dare to imagine what she would do if she encountered such a thing.

Andy also understood what Han Tao meant. Although he didn't understand this kind of family affection, she still knew the beggar's story, so she continued to ask:
"I understand what you mean, but now that we know it, we can't just ignore it and brainstorm. Do you have any good solutions?"

Han Tao thought for a moment and said, "I think it's best not to do anything. What happened last time has given her some ideas for how to deal with it, so we'd better not get involved for the time being.

Only by completely losing his support can his brother consider his future path, and only by letting her parents know that she is not as glamorous as they thought, so that they would not keep sucking blood from her like this. "

"Then... well, I'll just pretend I don't know about this and wait until the time comes. Let's eat!"

Andy nodded. Although he said this, he still felt that he could not stand by and watch. If necessary, she thought of lending Fan Shengmei some money, at least to let her get through this difficulty.

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(End of this chapter)