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The Bund, the capital of magic, is home to Hanlin.

After the meal, Andy did not go with Han Tao and Guan Ju'er, but drove alone to find Fan Shengmei who was working overtime. Although Han Tao reminded her, she still planned to talk to Fan Shengmei to see if she could help. busy.

Han Tao took Guan Ju'er back to Ode to Joy. When passing by the restaurant hall, the two saw a group of white-collar workers gathering for dinner. The group chatted about the difficulties in life and work while looking forward to their future life.

Of course, there are some good people who are complimenting each other and encouraging the newcomers.

Some of the newcomers are humble and accept the teachings, some sigh, and some are confident and beaming. They are simply weak reflections of the various aspects of life.

Guan Ju'er held Han Tao's hand and looked at this scene, as if he saw himself before, and couldn't help but whisper:

"I used to think that I should have more contact with seniors. During your absence, Senior Brother Lin also made several appointments with me, saying it was a gathering of fellow villagers and it would be good to get to know more people.

But Sister Andy and Xiaoqu all said that they should try to attend as few gatherings as possible, because if there were any difficulties, few of them would be able to help.

But I don’t think it’s entirely right. We are all fellow villagers and we should help each other. And making friends shouldn’t be pure. Why should we have a purpose? "

Han Tao knew that Guan Ju'er's idealistic thoughts had started again, so he smiled slightly and said:

"Guan Guan, there are two types of friends. One is friends who pursue careers and ideals together, gain more knowledge and experience, expand one's network of contacts, and achieve mutual benefit.

The main purpose of dating this type of friends is very clear, which is to improve their personality charm and social skills.

Although this way of making friends is considered utilitarian and hypocritical by some, it does bring many benefits to our careers and lives.

Because when people interact with each other, usually it is an exchange of interests. If there is no exchange of interests, even if you are very sincere, others will only treat you as a casual acquaintance.

This is the same as the love between a man and a woman. The body and soul must be in harmony to achieve harmony. If there is only the collision of the body, the relationship will end when the new person appears.

But if there is only communication between souls and no physical collision, such a relationship will be as tasteless as plain water. How can such a relationship be liked by people, and it will not last long.

So in today's society, if you want to build a real relationship with others, you have to think about what others need and what you can make up for them, so that you can be useful to others. This is the core key for others to interact with you.

The second type is close friends. It doesn’t matter how many of these friends you have. Two or three are enough, because such friends need companionship and mutual support. They can be like brothers and sisters, and some can even surpass them. Siblings.

Such a friend can help, accompany and support each other unconditionally. He will help you get out of the haze when you are down, stay with you when you are injured and have a hangover, and will be there for you when you need support. Help.

The ultimate goal of this kind of friend is not profit, but that when you or the other person need it, the other person can appear by your side. When it is not needed, the relationship will not be indifferent, but will be there. "

"Well, I understand, Brother Han!"

Nodding slightly, Guan Ju'er walked out with Han Tao and continued to ask: "Then...brother Han, do you have many friends with interests like you mentioned?"

"Of course!"

Han Tao smiled and responded to Guan Ju'er: "You are different from me. For me, people who can help me make money are so-called friends with benefits.

This is like a well-known saying, there are no permanent friends and no permanent enemies, only eternal interests. For the sake of interests, friends may become enemies, and enemies may also become friends.

As long as the bottom line is not crossed, then friends are helping each other, or it is an exchange of equal value. If each other's chips do not want to wait, the relationship will become indifferent.

Because when you cannot sacrifice the same amount of benefits for others, don't expect the other person to sacrifice the same amount or more than the same amount of benefits for you to help you. "

"This is too realistic..."

Guan Ju'er frowned, held Han Tao's arm with one hand, and held his eyes with the other:
"Brother Han, do you have any close friends? In your eyes, what kind of friends are Sister Andy and Sister Fan with you? How much benefit do I have in your eyes?"

Han Tao smiled calmly and said: "Guan Guan, do you want to hear the truth or a lie?"

"Of course I want to hear the truth. Are you telling me lies?" "Of course not!"

Han Tao stopped, lightly scratched Guan Ju'er's nose, looked at her and said seriously:

“In my heart, my relationship with you cannot be measured in terms of money, because if I don’t love you, or you don’t love me, then nothing means anything.

To me, you are priceless and the only one, a feeling that transcends money and friendship.Just like your feelings for me, how much do you think can buy you loving me forever? "

"Of course no amount of money can buy it!"

Guan Ju'er rolled his eyes at Han Tao, then shook his arm coquettishly and said: "Brother Han, my liking for you has nothing to do with money, and I will love you forever. But you are so good, I really can't guarantee that you will Love me forever!"

"Guan Guan, as long as your love never changes, no matter poverty or wealth, health or disease, I can accompany you throughout your life and protect you."

"Brother Han, my love for you will never change. Maybe you don't believe it. When I first saw you, I secretly liked you in my heart. Later, I remember all the good things you did to me.

Especially that night when I had to work overtime very late, I saw that my colleagues were being picked up, and I was alone and desolate at the door. No one could understand how uncomfortable I felt.

That night, you went to the company to pick me up from get off work. The moment I saw you, I knew you were the person I had been looking for, and my heart belonged to me. The reason why I didn't dare to confess was because I was afraid that you would dislike me. I! "

Guan Ju'er looked at Han Tao with red eyes, wiping her tears while speaking her heart. What Han Tao just said was the same as the wedding vows. She was really moved.

Seeing the girl who was so moved, Han Tao smiled and wiped the tears from the corners of her eyes with his fingers, making her happy and said: "Okay, it will look better if you cry again. My little fairy Guan Guan, please collect your magical powers!"

Hearing this, Guan Ju'er burst into laughter and rolled his eyes at Han Tao: "I hate it!"

"Guan Guan, now that I've said this, I have something to communicate with you in advance."

"Why are you so serious? What's going on?"

"Guan Guan, actually I think you really need to think carefully. I'm very busy at work and travel frequently. I can't always be with you. Sometimes it's even inconvenient to answer your calls and reply to your messages. Can you accept this? ?
Of course, when I am with you, I will do my best to accompany you and make you happy, because I will be happy because you are happy. "

"Well, I understand your Brother Han!"

Hearing Han Tao's words, Guan Ju'er nodded, hugged his arm again and said with a smile:
"What you said is fine. I know you are busy with work, and sometimes you even need to socialize and have fun. Sister Fan has told me all this.

If you are working outside, I will be waiting for you at home. You don’t have to worry about me being alone. Yingying and Sister Fan will be with me at home.

As long as you promise me, just spend more time with me when you have time. I don’t want you to always give me expensive gifts in the future, and don’t let the driver pick me up. I can just follow Sister Andy to and from get off work.

You don’t know that many of my colleagues are envious of me now, and gossip about me, saying that people like you won’t treat me sincerely, and maybe they won’t like me one day. "

Seeing Guan Ju'er's worried eyes, Han Tao looked into her eyes and said seriously: "Guan Guan, you are my girlfriend. As long as you don't leave me on your own initiative, you will be my girlfriend for the rest of your life.

As long as I don't agree, no one can take you away from me. I will take care of you for the rest of my life and don't be affected by anyone's words. Remember? "

"Well, remember!"

Nodding slightly, Guan Ju'er looked at Han Tao with a smile on his face and said happily: "Don't worry, Brother Han, as long as you don't dislike me for being stupid, it's not that you don't want me anymore, I will always be by your side, regardless of life, old age, illness or death. Still poor and rich!”

"Okay, I will keep your words in mind today, and there will be no chance to regret it in the future!"

"Don't regret it, Brother Han, I will always love you and like you!"

"Silly girl, I will always like you!"

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