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Chapter 25 Pan Xinyi's Unspeakable Secret
At this moment, Pan Xinyi also came back. Yesterday she followed her second sister and second brother-in-law to the police station.No one knew that it would take so long to solve this kind of problem.On the way, Pan Xihong asked Pan Xinyi to take Xiaoxiao back to sleep and drink milk. They didn't come back from the police station until the next morning.

Pan Xinyi took half a day's leave, worked overtime at night, and came back only now. As soon as she entered the door, she saw such a big battle.Both sisters and brother-in-law were there, as were the children, and even Pan Xishi was there.

"Sister San, are you here?" Pan Xinyi asked with concern, "Why are you crying?"

"Yes, I'm here, and I'm crying!" Pan Xishi looked at Pan Xinyi without hesitation.

Pan Xinyi looked at Pan Xishi, the other party chatted to death with a single sentence, this style of conversation is no one else!Pan Xishi didn't want to greet this cousin at all, she really hated hypocrisy.

It was a chaotic day and night. At this time, Pan Guanlin saw his niece coming. After thinking about it, he invited everyone to sit together and hold a family meeting.

Pan Guanlin rearranged his emotions, and first said to the two sons-in-law: "Every family does not have a daughter-in-law or a son-in-law, but your mother and I agree [-]% of the two of you. Why do you say that? If it is a relative Daughter, we are going to work [-]%, but for you, we want to be better than our own daughter, so that you can be satisfied, and you can treat my daughter well, and the relationship between your husband and wife is harmonious. Only when we live can we feel comfortable. To tell the truth, as old people, the rest of our lives are for our children."

The air became even quieter, and everyone was silent. The juniors had no chance to argue when the elders were talking about the truth. If the other party was telling the truth, they would have no place to stand.Shang Xuehai has basically heard this kind of truth tens of thousands of times, and his ears are almost callused.

Pan Guanlin sighed and continued: "But now it seems that you have a lot of dissatisfaction with me and your mother. We think we have tried our best, but you still feel that you are not hard enough, but have you ever thought that we are also in our sixties? I am an old man, and I have already passed the retirement age. The country knows that our energy and ability are no longer good, and we should enjoy our old age. If you really think that my mother and I have done so much over the years, it is a disservice to you, then We apologize."

Pan Shengnan hurriedly said: "Dad, Mom, I can't repay you for the help you have given our family of three for so many years. When we first got married, our off-plan house had not yet come down, and we have been living with you. Later, when we got Shangyan, it was also I put it here since I was a child. When we were not rich, we didn’t give you living expenses, and we ate white belts every day. Even Shang Yan’s milk powder money when he was a child was paid by his grandparents. Not only me, but Xihong’s family is the same. Now that we all have children, we should lead by example. Adults don’t know how to be grateful, so what can children do? Even if they pass the 985 exam, they are still refined egoism, which is a disaster for the country and the family.”

Shang Xuehai's face turned red and then turned pale, and he wanted to say something, but because the child was here, he swallowed the words back.Chang Yuan also said: "Mom and Dad, I'm sorry, I was too anxious just now, we are also parents for the first time, seeing Xiaoxiao being bullied by the nanny, I feel really uncomfortable, please forgive me."

Song Jiahui said to Chang Yuan: "There is nothing sorry, we are all one family. Just like your father said, we can only be good when you are good. You love your children, we love your children even more, and whether you love us or not, we I still feel sorry for you, let's be more considerate to each other!"

The two sons-in-law seem to have calmed down on the surface, but Pan Xihong's emotions are still very agitated. This is not only related to her recent work pressure, but also because she feels that her husband travels too frequently, which makes her inexplicably anxious. Yesterday the babysitter 'abuse' Xiao Xiaodu and things were like a bomb, making her feel insecure about everything in her life.

Pan Xihong said: "We all understand the truth! But I still have the same point of view. Since it is a family, we must support and understand each other. All of you here are my closest relatives, so I also hope to get everyone's help. My child is young. , Maybe in the eyes of the world, I want me to devote my time and energy to my children, but now is the most critical moment of my work, which is more important than the Shangyan high school entrance examination!"

Pan Xishi suddenly said to Pan Xihong: "As an adult, why should you compare your importance with a child?"

Pan Xihong said, "Pan Xishi, it's not for you to speak."

Pan Xishi immediately replied: "If I were not the head teacher of Shangyan now, I would not sit here if you invited me. The purpose of my coming is to say a word, Shangyan is very important in the next year. A positive learning atmosphere is needed, as parents and elders, please remove the unhappiness of your own adult world from your children’s lives, in my opinion, there is nothing more important than the children’s future.”

Pan Suhong said, "You know?"

Pan Xishi said: "Of course I know, because even my grandparents loved me very much when I was young, but there were too many people talking and family conflicts. I also longed for a quiet learning environment. So I thought for a long time and decided to come here one trip."

As soon as Pan Xihong was about to speak, Song Jiahui stepped forward and said, "Xishi is right, you can continue to express your point of view. She is doing it for the sake of business, you can't keep others from talking!"

Pan Xihong looked at Song Jiahui in disbelief. You know, this was the only time in her memory that her mother spoke to Pan Xishi.But Pan Xishi's face remained calm, as if he hadn't heard it.

Pan Xihong went on to say: "What I want to express is that everyone in our family is an office worker, and there is no housewife or housewife, so everyone should know the pressure of the workplace, and should also know that the real workplace does not take care of women. So now I have to either resign and go home, or give up my job as a front-line teacher and find a mixed retirement position, or ask everyone to help me, help Xiaoxiao, and help our mother and daughter get through this difficult year and a half. Wait for my family Xiaoxiao will not bother everyone when she goes to kindergarten. This is my practical difficulty, and it is really too difficult!"

Pan Xishi looked at all this with cold eyes, thinking that Pan Xihong would still be like this, a crying child would have milk, and a favored person would always have nothing to fear.She did it for her own benefit, wishing that the whole family would give way to her, but the other party was telling the truth. She remembered what Li Kun said about her mother. If that mother was as worried about her career as Pan Xihong, she might not have left. to this point today.

Pan Xihong was still talking, but the scene of Li Kun's mother and son being dependent on each other kept appearing in Pan Xishi's mind.What if Li Kun's mother had a sense of crisis like Pan Xihong at that time, or if she could put her own personal development in the same important position as she still is?

Perhaps there is nothing wrong with what Pan Xihong did, and what is even more unnegligible is that, no matter in the era when she was informed about returning home, or in the current environment, it is a common phenomenon in life for the elderly to help take care of their children. It is also needed by the family, but how can we have the same ideas in education and only become a help for children instead of resistance?
At this moment, Pan Xinyi whispered in Pan Xishi's ear, "Third Sister, I have something to tell you, can we go to my house?"

Pan Xishi originally wanted to refuse, but when she heard Pan Xinyi's next words, she couldn't help but frown together, because the other's simple words overlapped with her previous inner guess, and she had to listen to her finish. .

Pan Xinyi's bedroom is decorated romantically and warmly, full of girlishness.But now Pan Xishi is not envious at all, because she has arranged her small rented house according to her childhood dream, and now it seems that it is more in line with her wishes than here.Rather than envying others, it is better to work hard on your own. Instead of pinning your hopes on others, it is better to achieve it with your own hands, and you can achieve it as you want.

(End of this chapter)