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Chapter 26 A Child's Eyes Are Sharp

Pan Xinyi said mysteriously to Pan Xishi: "Sister Xishi, you know that I am working in a children's rehabilitation center, so I am more sensitive to some things.

I have lived with my aunt for the past few months, and I have not had little contact with Xiaoxiao. Compared with other children of the same age, I feel that she has poor self-care ability and seems to be lacking in language perception.

The most important thing is that I found that the child's eyes are basically unable to communicate with others, and he is more immersed in his own world.Especially yesterday when I spent half a day alone with Xiaoxiao, the doubt in my heart became even bigger.

So I hope that my second sister and second brother-in-law can take their children for autism screening.Because once a child has this tendency, the sooner he intervenes, the better, and the sooner he receives treatment, the greater the possibility of recovery. "

Although Pan Xishi didn't have much contact with Xiaoxiao, she knew that Pan Xihong was a perfectionist, so she would be more anxious than ordinary people at certain times.And as far as she knew, before and after the child was born, her second sister was arguing with her in-laws. During the child's maternity leave, she, the mother, did it all by herself, and she was unwilling to let her in-laws from a small place intervene.

But Pan Xihong, who is so strong, in order not to let others leave her behind at work, has to work hard to catch up on papers, and cares about school affairs. As a result, she basically doesn't communicate with her children.

"When I met Xiaoxiao, I also observed the child Guo, and I felt something was wrong when I came down several times." Pan Xishi said, "When I was in college, I went to many places to do volunteer work because I was studying psychology. I have had some children like this, so sometimes I feel that I may be too sensitive, but hearing what you say, I am more worried."

Pan Xinyi said in a low voice: "I'm also worried. But sometimes I also feel that maybe I have an occupational disease, I think a little too much, I'm too sensitive, I can't help myself, everything is just my imagination?"

Pan Xishi looked at Pan Xinyi and said, "Why don't you just talk to Pan Xihong directly, why did you bring me here on purpose? And don't you have the best relationship with Pan Xihong? I have hardly met you before, come here After Xingang, we didn’t communicate much, so you specially called me to your room to have a private conversation, isn’t it superfluous?”

Pan Xinyi faltered and said, "I'm just telling you what's in my heart. And from the experience of the public, children grow up early and late, and some speak early and late. Many children can't speak clearly at the age of three, and even They can’t speak. They have poor hands-on ability, and there are many children who are worse than their peers in self-care ability, so it’s not easy to talk about it.”

Pan Xishi didn't have time to waste time with her, and said bluntly: "As a professional, you can see the problem, which means that the child's problem is also very likely. You were alone with Xiaoxiao yesterday, and the basic test must have been done. Is it over?
You can also be regarded as a kind reminder if you go to investigate, and you came here to tell me that you don’t want to complain at all, and you don’t want to go into the muddy water, and you want me to be this bad guy and use my mouth to tell things out, "

Pan Xinyi said: "Sister Xi Shi, I really can't find a more suitable person to talk about this matter. My uncle and aunt are already devastated by their business dialect studies, and my eldest sister and her husband are still getting divorced. Let me go and talk to my second sister. After all, you are not real sisters. After all, you have the same blood on your body as the second sister, and I am very clear about the words "blood is thicker than water."

"That's really nice!" Pan Xishi said, "With Pan Xihong's temperament, if she really becomes angry from embarrassment, the lethality is not something ordinary people can bear. You are asking me to be cannon fodder!"

Pan Xinyi stood up: "Anyway, I won't say a word to my second sister. As you said, she is a high-level intellectual and knows more than us. I am a relative who lives here with my uncle. I really can't bear it." The anger of the second sister. Let me pretend that I didn't say it. Anyway, the second sister and the second brother-in-law are two big doctors who know more than us. Even if we don't say it, if there is something wrong with the child, they will find out by themselves. You Just pretend I didn't say anything!"

In the living room, the elders of the Pan family were summarizing the difficulties of the eldest daughter and the second daughter's multi-family.So many things have happened, and after so many rounds of talks, in the end it is still not much different from the previous plan.

The difficulties of the two daughters must be helped, and the two grandchildren must be taken care of.In the end, Pan Guanlin and Song Jiahui decided to change to another nanny, and never hand over Xiaoxiao to the nanny alone in the future.

In order to make business language learning more motivated, I will take out the basketball item again, so that you can play without affecting your learning.In short, it was the old couple who compromised and suffered, and put in more energy to give full play to the family harmony of the two daughters.

Seeing that Pan Xishi had returned to the living room, Song Jiahui immediately said, "Xishi, you are now a teacher of Shangyan, so please tell me about it too!"

Pan Xishi sat back on the sofa, and solemnly said to everyone: "Shangyan has been tutored since childhood, and the foundation is not bad. If your internal factors work in the last year, there is still hope."

Shang Xuehai's eyes lit up instantly when he heard Pan Xishi's words, "Xishi, I don't have too many demands on Shangyan, as long as he can be admitted to high school, I will consider my wish fulfilled."

Pan Xishi said to Shang Xuehai: "The key to children's education lies in their parents, and both parents are indispensable. If you really want your children to be good, instead of asking others, it is better to do things yourself. I am an intergenerational educator. Victims, I don’t know how you still have the courage to hand over your children to two retired old people. Why are your hearts so big?

First of all, I declare that my grandparents are very good and responsible people, and I love them very much.But retirement is retirement, and the state stipulates that a person's retirement age is not a one-shot decision. It is based on the results of various comprehensive assessments of a person's energy and physical strength.

You push the important thing of educating children to the retired old people, and you come here to get angry when you encounter problems. This is very unscientific. In the future, you will also be grandparents, grandparents, grandparents? "

Pan Xishi's words not only made the four young people speechless, but Pan Guanlin's and Song Jiahui's faces also turned hot and cold.Shang Yan did not forget to make up for my aunt: "My grandma, my mother, and my second aunt used to always say bad things about my aunt and grandpa, mainly because they taught my aunt badly. This is exactly a sentence , The way of heaven is reincarnation, who is the sky bypassing!"

Recently, Pan Xihong found business language more and more distasteful, and immediately reprimanded him, saying: "You are the chief culprit, and you are still talking nonsense here. If it weren't for you, could this big family go to the hospital and the police station in turn? You just put yourself The study is done neatly, and the family can't be messed up like this. Your little sister is still so young, you should take care of her and protect her, which is good, because you are beaten and scolded by others, you don't feel guilty, Aren't you ashamed?"

Shang Yan said: "My aunt used to be Xiaoxiao at my grandma's house, and I didn't see you feeling sorry for her, caring about her, and worrying about whether she would be beaten or scolded? How can you put your own daughter on your own? You have to not forgive her. Human? Why, your own child is a child, and someone else's child is Ultraman?"

Pan Xihong was very angry. She has always loved her little nephew the most, but she gave all her love to her daughter after she got Xiaoxiao, which is also human nature.But why is Shangyan not grateful at all? Now he has become a front with an aunt who has hardly had any contact with him for many years, and he has no conscience at all.

"Whose child are you from?" Pan Xihong's emotions were already agitated again, "Since you were young, how many toys and new clothes have I bought you? How many times have I taken you to the playground. You How heartless!"

Shang Yan said: "Second aunt loves me, I remember it in my heart. If you want to repay you, you can go to my parents first. My father has money. It has something to do with it. My mother is your eldest sister, and she took care of you when she was young. But my aunt It's different, parents don't care, sisters don't love, they have to repay themselves, I'm not heartless, I'm just telling the truth."

Pan Xihong turned her anger on Pan Xishi again: "Pan Xishi, I haven't learned Shangyan from you for a long time, and my grades are getting worse and worse, but I'm not short of my brain when I talk to my parents, right? ? No matter what conflicts you have with our family, you can't use children as weapons, right?"

Pan Xishi looked at Xiao Shangyan, it was the first time in this "home" that someone spoke for her in such a long time, and what she said was from her heart.Her heart seemed to be healed by a warm little hand to heal the wounds of the past.She didn't slam her back like a bead like before, but said a word: "A child's eyes are sharp!"

(End of this chapter)