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Chapter 77

Pan Guanlin and Song Jiahui also saw that Pan Xinyi lost face because of this incident.

Song Jiahui said: "Could it be possible that this child is still resenting us? This kind of people, they have one thing on the outside and another on the back, and they are not as good as they say. It's just a turn of events, it doesn't matter if this kind of people don't marry, after they marry, what kind of moths will happen! If Xinyi is not angry with them, why should she be angry with us?"

Pan Shengnan comforted his old lady and said: "Blind date marriage, and we have only met a few times. They must have come with a label. There is no basis for any relationship. It is a very straightforward exchange of equivalent value, so there is nothing wrong with the other party. We have the needs of the other party, and we have our principles, and we are open-minded when we talk about it. Fortunately, we didn’t invest any emotion, and we didn’t lose anything.”

Shang Yan said: "Aunt Xin doesn't think so, you see she slammed the door!"

Song Jiahui said: "I just don't understand this, slamming the door? This kid is confused, he has always been quite smart!"

Shang Yan said bluntly: "I don't think I'm confused. Aunt Xin is pretending to be confused. Think about the relatives in my hometown who know that the school district houses in my grandfather's house are valuable. They are all envious and jealous in private. Relatives who don't hate They all want to get cheap, and naturally they will become angry if they don't get cheap."

Pan Shengnan reprimanded his son: "You know a lot, you kid, study hard, is it interesting to mix with these parents' short stories? You should review history and think about how the world can develop better."

Shang Yan said: "Those who do great things should first understand human nature. Aunt Xin's reaction made me understand that some people are human nature like this. It also made me have to doubt that she lived here from the beginning. Simple borrowing, but a long-standing principle, I will use the school district room of my grandfather's house for my own use in the future, and give myself extra points."

Shang Xuehai scolded his son angrily: "Okay, you hurry up and prepare to go abroad for me, this is all a mess, good children will learn badly."

Shangyan said: "The form in foreign countries is more complicated. If you understand human nature, you can survive better anywhere."

Shang Xuehai said: "You kid can understand everything, but you can't understand the exam questions!"

Pan Xishi looked at the time, and then looked at the endless family members, and hurried out to maintain order, "I have to visit other students' homes in a while. Can you wait for other things after I leave?" Let’s chat. Now let’s talk about Shangyan!”

Ever since Pan Xinyi slammed the door and left, Pan Guanlin has been silent. At this time, he took the lead in speaking: "Shangyan, whether it is entering school or living, is the top priority of our Pan family. Xinyi can borrow at home, but she settled here. As for the matter, I think it needs to be discussed in the long run."

Song Jiahui said categorically: "What's the long-term plan? The matter of settling down is absolutely impossible. Not to mention Xinyi's child, I can't even agree to Xiaoxiao's influence on the Shangyan college entrance examination in the future."

Next, Yu Xuehai made a big deal of output, and naturally, he debated with the two old people again, and no one could convince the other.

Pan Xishi turned his head away and asked Pan Shengnan directly: "Sister, what's your opinion?"

Pan Shengnan said helplessly: "I also support Shangyan going abroad!"

Pan Guanlin almost shouted at his eldest daughter: "Pan Shengnan, what right do you have to let Shangyan go abroad? Even if you are the child's real mother, what you say doesn't count!"

Shang Xuehai said: "Grandpa, what you said is wrong. According to the law, children are responsible to their parents before they are minors, but I have never heard of being responsible to grandpa and grandma!"

"But in our China, there are human feelings in addition to the law. Of course, legal principles must be followed, but human relations and public opinion, the three cardinal principles and the five constant principles are also important. We have dragged the business dialect since we were young, and you don't ask our opinion, let a 14-year-old When older children go abroad, they are crossing rivers and tearing down bridges, and they are cold-blooded. Especially Pan Shengnan, she has forgotten her ancestors and betrayed her parents."

Pan Shengnan had a headache for a while, his parents still had face for Shang Xuehai, and as long as he touched himself in Shangyan education and life, he would be the absolute hegemony.

Pan Xishi really didn't want to pay attention to this old man who was unreasonable, so he directly said to Pan Shengnan: "Sister, as a teacher, I must first listen to my parents' opinions. As for other people's opinions, I can only refer to them. Tell me what you think, If you have nothing to say, then when you go to work, we say at school, I'm leaving first!"

Song Jiahui became even more angry: "Pan Xishi, look at yourself as if you have nothing to do with yourself. Aren't you from the Pan family? Xinyi is also your sister, and you will look noble if you don't mix What's the matter? And you only came to the house as a head teacher, and only talked with Shang Yan's parents, did you pop out of a crack in the rock? Cold blood!"

Pan Xishi said to Song Jiahui: "Don't talk to me in the same tone as your eldest sister. You gave birth to your eldest sister and raised your eldest sister. She owes you, but I don't. Take this set. Because, whether your house is worth 1000 million yuan or tens of millions, it has nothing to do with me. I don’t need to settle here myself. I won't be settled here, and I won't inherit a dime of your property. So why should I participate in the property dispute between you and Pan Xinyi? Others have problems, but I am normal."

Song Jiahui said: "How ambitious are you? Let's talk about it after you get along well!"

Pan Xishi said: "Whether I did well or not has nothing to do with you in the past 30 years? Since you still have to worry about it, then I will put it down today. Even if I, Pan Xishi, will beg for food in the future, I will not ask you At the door, even if I die tragically by the side of the road, don't you need to collect the body?"

Pan Guanlin roared: "Pan Xishi, you are going too far!"

Pan Xishi said: "I came to visit my home, and you have always been connoting me. I can't bear it if I don't want to. Because I can't bear it, I don't need to bear it anymore. You are all cultural people. Can I make it clear? Are you capable of chasing that thought? Use your big mansion to raise your value, and even those who want to share your property in the future will scold you. Want to use me as a punching bag? I will not accompany you."

Pan Shengnan said: "Xishi, my parents didn't mean that. Let's talk about business language. In his current situation, let alone the key points of the exam, I don't think he is particularly stable in high school. Going abroad, on the one hand, can cultivate He has more independent ability and more opportunities to choose. Say he is 14 years old, and you can see that he is almost 180. It is not a good thing to always be taken care of like a baby. This is also the case in junior high school It's hard work, I'm not optimistic about whether he can suffer that in high school. At that time, it's unknown whether he can be admitted to a good university, and it's not difficult for this family to be anxious!"

Shang Yan was unconvinced: "Sending me abroad with you is completely sending the plague god!"

Shang Xuehai said to his son: "Your mother didn't mean that. What she meant was that you would be happy to go abroad, your grandparents would be relaxed, and your mother can put all her heart and soul into her work. Kill three birds with one stone. Why not?" Why?"

Shang Yan said nothing, but his face was full of dissatisfaction.

The elders of the Pan family still had the same old views, and they babbled endlessly.

Pan Xishi said: "I have also seriously studied the matter of studying abroad during this time. Because when I was teaching in the institution, several students with very good relationships also discussed with me about studying abroad. I don’t know if you have seriously studied this matter, but let me introduce it first!”

Pan Guanlin listened, and habitually took out his notebook when he entered the room.

"The countries you have chosen are Canada and Singapore." Pan Xishi continued, "In fact, there are not many universities in Canada to choose from in the future. The international students are mainly concentrated in some well-known universities, and the competition will be fierce at that time. Education is basically public, without the support of large financial groups, so it is difficult to apply for scholarships. What’s more, the climate is relatively cold. In the north, half of the year is winter. Children who like this kind of weather You can go and try."

However, Shang Yan doesn't like winter, and when he heard his aunt say this, he fell into thinking.

"Let's talk about Singapore. First of all, Singapore's English requirements are higher than those of the Commonwealth of Nations."

Shang Xuehai immediately said: "Shangyan's English is not a problem. He has studied Cambridge since he was a child, and he has won prizes in oral competitions."

Pan Xishi glanced at him and said: "Singapore has a good language atmosphere, but it is very difficult to pass the local language courses. Most of the children need to study language courses for a year or longer. Many students The scores of IELTS and TOEFL were still not up to the school’s requirements, so I had to go back to China to learn the language before returning to Singapore to study.”

Shang Xuehai said: "Singapore is very good. Many Chinese can speak Chinese, and their living habits are also similar. The distance is not far, and you can meet each other within three or four hours of flying, and the climate is warm. I think it is better than Canada. "

Pan Xishi said: "Now there is a big problem. More and more parents have a misunderstanding, thinking that many people in Singapore can speak Chinese, and there are also many Chinese. But in fact, Singaporeans are not Chinese. The attitude of the Chinese is also difficult to express. Moreover, the quality of education in many schools in Singapore may not be really high, and you need to be more careful when choosing a school.”

Shang Xuehai said proudly: "The economy is ample, no matter where you live, you won't live too poorly!"

Pan Xishi directly said: "Furthermore, the school fees in Singapore are much higher than those in Canada. Especially now that more and more rich people are flocking to Singapore. Are the parents of the children really rich? Weigh it! The most important point is that for the students in the graduating class who did not take the senior high school entrance examination, the schools in Singapore will not go straight up, but need to drop a grade, plus a year of language learning, then the business dialect will be available. It will be two grades lower than your fellow classmates, I wonder if you are willing?"

Shangyan was the first to say: "I don't want to sit in class, and I don't want to study with people who are two years younger than me. Canada is too cold and I don't want to go, and I don't want to go to Singapore either. I want to stay in China and study."

Pan Xishi said: "You can also go to the United States and the United Kingdom."

Shang Yan said: "My dad said that the United States and the United Kingdom are too expensive, and it is not easy to apply. Our family does not have the ability!"

Shang Xuehai couldn't say a word for a moment, his face turned black!

Pan Guanlin and Song Jiahui were overjoyed, and they started talking about their eldest son-in-law and daughter.

"If you don't have diamonds, don't take on the porcelain work. It's just an ordinary family, why do you have to fix the foreign style? Our country is so big, there is no university that is worthy of your son? If you don't work hard, you will be abroad. You can’t learn real skills by spending money. Is it possible that foreign schools are all fools, who specially take in students who are not good at studying in your country, and then do their best to train you to become academic masters?”

"Anyway, one of them is always out of his mind, either the student's parents or someone from a foreign school!"

Pan Shengnan said, "Xi Shi, you are the head teacher of Shangyan, do you have any suggestions?"

Pan Xishi said: "I don't have any suggestions. What I want to say is that if people want their children to go abroad, they should plan at least one year in advance. It is rare for you to go abroad at the first stroke of your head without any serious planning. Nowadays During this period of time, I think normal families will let their children work hard to take the senior high school entrance examination, and at the same time choose a country and a school.”

Song Jiahui said: "Which one should you choose? If Shang Yan can be admitted to a key high school, why go abroad? If you think about it, you can wait until you graduate or go to college."

Pan Xishi said: "There is no hope for the key high schools at the moment, let's go to the high school first! The final exam is coming soon, you should settle this matter today, otherwise the consequence will be that you may not be able to go abroad, and then you will not be able to go abroad. I did not do well in the senior high school entrance examination, and in the end, my children’s studies were all delayed! Education itself is a very complicated and multifaceted matter, and good children cannot be raised with a little spare money in their pockets. This kind of brain-slapping guidance method is even more ruined. child."

Song Jiahui had never seen her youngest daughter so pleasing to the eye, and said in one voice: "You're right, you're right, you're so right, why didn't you say these things earlier?"

Pan Xishi ignored Song Jiahui, but said to Pan Shengnan: "I understand you. You have never had a say in educating your children. Although you are a mother and a teacher, but because the two generations have different educational concepts, as a junior, you are a Eldest daughter, you can only give in again and again. Now you feel powerless and think going abroad is also a good choice, but don’t forget that some pig teammates can’t play a good role in normal times, and you expect him to give good advice at critical moments , think twice before acting!"

Both Shang Xuehai and the elders of the Pan family turned black.

In the end, the whole family reached an agreement that Shangyan would not go abroad for the time being in junior high school, and the goal was still to be admitted to a key high school, and the minimum goal was to be admitted to a high school in Heping District.Although this goal is not difficult for many people, it is really unsafe for children whose grades fluctuate and are extremely unstable in Shangyan.

Pan Xishi left.She obviously pissed off everyone present, but from Shang Xuehai to Song Jiahui, no one thought she was annoying, but felt like they wanted to express their gratitude.

Song Jiahui couldn't stop saying: "It still has to be my aunt, but if it's someone else, Shang Yan will be fooled into going abroad."

Pan Shengnan smiled and said, "Mom, Xishi never said that it was not good for me to study abroad, but just said that we didn't think about it."

Song Jiahui said: "Then I am very grateful to her. At least my grandson didn't have to be 14 years old to go abroad by himself. And you, Shengnan, if you dislike us in educating business language in the future, we will listen to your opinion .As long as you don't let your children go abroad, you can do anything!"

Looking at his mother, Pan Shengnan felt that he was hallucinating for a while!
(End of this chapter)