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Chapter 81 You Give Up First

The Chinese New Year is early this year, and the students' final exams are soon on the agenda.Zheng Xiaoyun carried out the schedule given by Shang Yunxuan every day, and earnestly carried it out, but after three days, she couldn’t keep going. The homework on the schedule was not completed, and when she asked for a new schedule, she was refuted by Teacher Shang return.When Zheng Xiaoyun got angry, she simply stopped learning if she didn't want to learn, and just let it go.

Pan Xishi complained to Shang Yunxuan in private: "Zheng Xiaoyun has been doing bad things for so many years, and now it's beyond my expectation to persist for three days. You are so strict, do you really want to persuade her to quit?"

Shang Yunxuan raised his face and said, "It's more than one semester away from the high school entrance examination. There are only two paths in front of Zheng Xiaoyun, don't work hard and work hard with all your strength. It looks like you're working hard but you're actually not doing your best? Without this choice!"

Pan Xishi said, "Isn't it necessary to adapt measures to each child's situation?"

"For a child like her, I just adapt to local conditions. Look at how much her grandma loves her child. Can she not be coaxed or encouraged at home? Teachers encourage her at school, and do people chase after her to encourage her in society? ? Besides, even if someone encourages her, will she cherish it?"

Pan Xishi thought for a while and said, "Encouragement is indeed useful for students like Li Kun, and it is also suitable for Shangyan and Zheng Xiaoyun, but it cannot be abused. Especially for Zheng Xiaoyun, who is not good at it, it is really difficult to grasp."

Shang Yunxuan said: "So, I give her time, but does time reserve opportunities for her?"

Pan Xishi said: "That's the truth, but it's the first time for children to face the high school entrance exam, so they shouldn't put too much pressure on them, especially Zheng Xiaoyun, who was prone to depression in international schools before! I don't agree. You are so strict with her?"

"Why is it a single-plank bridge? Where is a single-plank bridge? Your concept is extremely backward. As a teacher, you should keep pace with the times. Now vocational schools are actually a good choice. Today's vocational schools are also very good!"

Pan Xishi said: "It is true, but parents and students still have a certain prejudice against vocational schools for so many years, and it is not so easy to change. From the perspective of children and parents, it is difficult to enter a high school or even a key high school. children, there will be hope for the future."

"Idiocy! Teachers and parents can't keep up with the times, and children will follow suit. Now it's not the past years, our country also needs professional and technical personnel, and there is a huge gap in this area. In the future, the income of blue-collar workers There must be a large number of people who will surpass white-collar workers, and will be more and more recognized and respected by the society. Take my cousin as an example. He graduated from China and immigrated to Germany. When he first got a job, his salary was not very high. Ideal, later I took a local professional skills qualification certificate, and now my income is several times higher than that of most domestic 985 master students. Do you know this is the trend?"

Pan Xishi said: "Then tell the children not to take the high school exam, and don't pass the test, and go directly to the technical school?"

Shang Yunxuan said: "Look at your idea? Technical schools don't need to work hard? Technical schools don't need to work hard? Now that children take the senior high school entrance examination, it is to exercise a kind of fighting spirit with all their strength. This is not just a question of papers, but It’s a form of character development.”

Pan Xishi looked at Shang Yunxuan thoughtfully.

Shang Yunxuan continued: "Let me say one more thing, the senior high school entrance examination is not a single-plank bridge, nor is it a knockout competition. Because if you are admitted to high school now, you can also enter a vocational college to learn technology in the future, and you can also become a very powerful professional technical talent. It is not like many Parents think that there is only one way to go to high school or key high school in the senior high school entrance examination. But no matter which way you take, the character and habit of going all out are indispensable."

"Just Zheng Xiaoyun is so lazy, retreating when encountering difficulties, and hitting the child when parents are wronged, can the ability to resist setbacks work in the future? Can there be adverse business? You can enjoy it in the first and second grades of junior high school. Happy junior high school life, seeing that it’s already the second half of the third year of junior high school, it’s not time to cultivate the character of perseverance, when not to fight at this time?”

Pan Xishi was also moved by Shang Yunxuan's words, but he was still worried: "But you still can't put too much pressure on it. This kind of child whose parents are not around can't bear too much pressure. It's easy to go to extremes!"

Shang Yunxuan said: "Did I put pressure on her? It was agreed to receive the schedule every day, and then clock in for 7 days, which counts as a cycle. No one has to make her do this, it is her own choice. Since it is her own choice, she should Learn to fulfill promises and take responsibility. You have changed yourself, what right do you have to ask others to wait for her? You are not firm, but you ask others to be firm. What is the reason? I am not used to this!"

Originally, Pan Xishi held the opposite opinion with Shang Yunxuan, but when she heard this sentence, she agreed with it very much, it seemed that she said it to the bottom of her heart.

After get off work, Pan Xishi met Fan Wenbin at the school gate again.Long time no see, this man seems to be more stylish than before.Behind Pan Xishi, Shang Yunxuan also noticed the man who had been looking at Pan Xishi.He's very handsome, except for what he thought, it's really rare to see such a handsome man. He asked instinctively, "Teacher Pan, do you know him?"

Smart as Shang Yunxuan, seeing Pan Xishi's expression, he immediately realized: "This is your ex-boyfriend. I saw his photo when you moved."

The photos have already been processed.Pan Xishi didn't say this to Shang Yunxuan, and was going to pretend he didn't see it, and left directly.But at this time, Fan Wenbin went straight to Pan Xishi and blocked her way.

(End of this chapter)