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Chapter 94
Pan Xishi asked Shang Yan, "What are you doubting?"

Shang Yan said: "Is there even a need to ask? What can you do in a hotel in the middle of the night? You must be fooling around with Xiaosan!"

Pan Xishi said: "Then why go to a hotel? Shang Xuehai lives alone, he can take people home and take care of his own daily life, isn't that great?"

Shang Yan shook his head and sighed: "Women, they are simple-minded and don't know the twists and turns in a man's mind."

Pan Xishi picked up the book in his hand and patted the child's head: "I want to know now, what is on your mind every day, no wonder grades are always like a roller coaster, and you don't do your job properly every day. If you put this thought into studying Why don't you miss the key points?"

Shang Yan said: "Mr. Shang is not like you. He doesn't care if I read novels. He said that we should combine work and rest."

Pan Xishi raised his eyebrows: "Men are really unreliable, one counts as one!"

Shang Yan asked: "Auntie, look at my parents, my second aunt's family, and Pan Xinyi's looking for a partner is like a joke, and my great-grandmother has a bad mother-in-law relationship with my grandma. Are you dating a lot of people?" Same, don’t want to get married in the future?”

Pan Xishi shook his head again and again: "No, no, no, I have always wanted to get married and have a family of my own, although it is more expensive to raise a child now, especially an unreliable child like you.

But if I get married, I will definitely have two children, or even three children. I like the lively days when there are many relatives waiting for you as soon as you enter the house.As for meeting a scumbag or an evil mother-in-law, first of all, I am not afraid, and secondly, I will not wrong myself. "

Shang Yan said: "Auntie, you are really a warrior. To tell you the truth, my father and my mother's life is like this, and I don't want to get married in the future. I find it quite boring. When you said that the two of them got better earlier, I Did not see.

Later, when I gave birth to a child, I had to live in two places to make money. Later, when the money became rich, the relationship disappeared.The two of them are busy in various places, and they are not even considered partners. The only connection is their children.It's okay if the child is promising, but if the child is a stinky shit, it will really be a bitter couple. "

Pan Xishi said: "In today's society, it is true that many families live like this, but since we, especially your generation, have discovered this problem, we should think about how love and marriage can make us happy in the lives of future generations. Happier, avoiding medical treatment? Shang Yan, why are you so cowardly?"

Shang Yan said: "Auntie, I respect you for being a man!"

Pan Xishi said: "I am not a man, but I know what kind of life I want. I will not blindly walk into other people's worlds, let them influence me, and I will not be afraid of things in my own world. Shang Xuehai I suggest that you have an open and honest talk with him in your life during the Chinese New Year."

"I'm stupid!" Shang Yan immediately jumped up, "You want me to scare the snake? When Pan Shengnan wants to protect his property, he can't even find any evidence. Isn't this a fool? You know Li Kun's mother, right?

She just didn't have the first-hand information about the scumbag's infidelity. In the end, she only got a set of old and poor. His father turned around and remarried and bought a new real estate in the city center. Fei Duka.I can't let my mother suffer this kind of grievance. Although Pan Shengnan is also capable of being a woman, but she deserves it. I don't see it as a disadvantage. "

Pan Xishi said: "What if Shang Xuehai didn't cheat? Have you ever thought that your mother's indifference to Shang Xuehai is also out of trust. After all, they have been husband and wife for so many years."

"But the world is changing, and the earth is spinning. I believe a man who doesn't see each other a few times a year, makes a lot of money, and doesn't care about himself doesn't believe the clues in the phone location? Auntie, you are still innocent!"

Pan Xishi was beaten by a 15-year-old boy. When she was in school, she said to Shang Yunxuan: "Children today are indeed very analytical. They know more than adults and are very rational. I know how to fight for my own rights, compared with them, I was a little sheep at the age of 15."

Shang Yunxuan said: "Don't underestimate the children of today. They have more channels to receive information, their horizons are broader, and the things they encounter are more complicated than when we were young, so the ability to think and solve things is also enhanced, unlike ours. Sometimes, they will only passively accept information and have no ability to distinguish themselves.”

Pan Xishi said: "Shang Yunxuan, do you know? I get a lot of happiness from my students now. Seeing their intelligence, wisdom, kindness and courage, I feel that I should protect their nature."

Shang Yunxuan said: "While protecting the nature of students, teachers should also guide them to develop their potential and cultivate the ability to struggle and enjoy life."

Pan Xishi said: "Cultivate the ability to enjoy life?"

Shang Yunxuan said: "That's right! When I was in school, I was studying every day. After work, I was busy, enjoying life and defending my own happiness. How rare is it? In the past, the old people taught their children to talk about dedication and sacrifice. To think more about how to live a more leisurely and relaxed life is selfishness and irresponsibility.

But with the development of the times and the progress of mankind, this concept should also be changed.What's wrong with living happily and allowing yourself to be content and at ease?Isn't it necessary to instill in children that we are born to suffer?The point of view inherited from the elderly is to contribute to others, but they don’t know that they are not happy, so what’s the point of caring about others? "

Pan Xishi said: "Although we have received similar education since we were young, our outlook on life is not exactly the same when we grow up. You are more "selfish" than me, but that's good!"

What Pan Xishi sees in Shang Yan is the future generation's ability to obtain happiness and the ability to defend happiness, but in Shang Yunxuan, his peer, he sees the freedom and self-confidence that goes deep into the marrow.Even if the influence of the original family can be cured by yourself the day after tomorrow, it has penetrated into your pores and is deeply rooted in many cases.

Seeing Pan Xishi looking at him intently, Shang Yunxuan asked, "What do you see me doing? Do you think I'm really handsome?"

"You are indeed handsome!" Pan Xishi said from the bottom of his heart, "And I am very envious of you!"

Looking at the stubborn and cute girl in front of him, Shang Yunxuan suddenly felt a little sad, he said: "Xishi, I have something to discuss with you. I want to be happy with you when I'm 985 this year, and 211 and [-] together, okay?"

Shang Yunxuan was a little nervous, he had confessed his love to Pan Xishi countless times, this time he hoped she would not refuse.

"That's impossible. I have to travel alone during the Spring Festival, and the fur child will be sent to my friend's house for a few days. Besides, what's the matter with a colleague spending the Spring Festival with me? Are you willing or not? "

Shang Yunxuan was as expected, but he was still very disappointed, but more because he thought that Pan Xishi was alone during the Spring Festival, and he felt very uncomfortable.

Many people think that Pan Xishi is so independent and strong that she doesn't care about Spring Festival alone, but in fact, this Spring Festival is the first time in her life that she will spend alone.

When grandma was alive, she started to prepare things for the New Year, new clothes for herself and grandma after New Year's Day, and added gold jewelry to grandma when she made a lot of money in those years.

Not only are she and grandma completely new from the inside to the outside, but the bed sheets, quilt covers, curtains, and tablecloths at home have to be replaced with special ones for the Chinese New Year.There are also all kinds of new year's goods, and she will buy all kinds of delicious food on the market for her grandma to taste.

Although the pensions of grandma and grandpa have always been relatively high among their peers, but because they have many children, and they are raising her as a cumbersome soldier, life has always been tight. The income of the two old people is almost It is all spent on the offspring, but in fact, I have not enjoyed anything.

Since Pan Xishi started working, not only have life become looser at home, but the Chinese New Year has also become more enjoyable. Grandma's waist in front of relatives and friends has also become straighter.

Last Spring Festival, Pan Xishi and Fan Wenbin went back to their hometown.Although the conditions in the countryside are far inferior to those in the cities, the parents of the other party also regard her as a distinguished guest, slaughtering pigs and sheep to treat her warmly.This year is the first Spring Festival in her life that she has celebrated by herself. She must be lying if she said that she has no discomfort.

At this time, Mr. Pan was watching TV alone in the ward, his face full of loneliness.Song Jiahui sat on the side without saying a word, she is a strong woman, the old couple passed through the house, there was a rift in their hearts, and the husband and wife felt that they would be separated for the rest of their lives.

Pan Guanlin was lying on the bed, but his heart was always moving.He suddenly said: "Old Song, let's have a good time this year."

Song Jiahui didn't say a word: "You can choose to go back to your hometown, I will spend it at home by myself, and when Shengnan and Xihong come to celebrate the new year, no matter how lively we are, you can choose to stay in your hometown and come back after the first month, or you don't come back. "

"Can you stop being angry? How can I go back to my hometown for Chinese New Year this year. That matter is over. I'm just going to make you a bad face and a bad face with you. If it weren't for the two of us working together, my mother would be able to leave convinced ?"

Song Jiahui was amused, "A man's mouth is a deceitful ghost. As small as Shang Yan, as old as Pan Guanlin, you can't believe a single word! I'm just that old, and my two daughters are married and established. My in-laws are watching , otherwise I really don’t want to live with you. I will let you leave the house without a home!”

Pan Guanlin said: "Okay, it's all my fault, let's not celebrate the New Year with anger. I just thought, the eldest and the second are married, but Xi Shi is still in the boudoir. Her grandma is gone, and the children can't celebrate the New Year by themselves." Isn't it great for the three of us to celebrate the New Year alone?"

Hearing that her husband finally admitted his mistake, Song Jiahui lost half of her anger. This old man was not only stubborn before, but he also became angry from embarrassment when you talked too much.

She sighed and said: "If you want to call someone, they may not be willing to come. After coming, I will feel uncomfortable. Let alone her, I will feel restless when I am with her. And you let her live during the Chinese New Year? Come to the house Outsiders, can you get used to it?"

Pan Guanlin said: "Why do you call it an outsider? That is your own daughter. I have said it many times. Relationships need to be cultivated. We have missed the relationship with our children for so many years. Now we need to cultivate it. You also see Won't you come out?

This kid has a cold face and a warm heart, and is very capable. He is not the kind of wimp you said.These things happened at home recently, how many things did Xi Shi settle for everyone?I can't help it that in the future you will get your little daughter's money! "

Sometimes, the most realistic thing is not the people who have no blood relatives in society, but the parents at home.When I feel that the child is worthless, I am more disgusted than outsiders. When I feel that the child is capable, I think about my own retirement.

But the premise is that this child will always be the one who is not favored. They have a preference for themselves, no matter whether the other party is capable or not, they will keep it in their mouth for fear of melting, and hold it in their hands for fear of falling. The disadvantages are also the advantages.

Song Jiahui said: "I won't need her when I'm old. But if she can take the initiative to recognize me as my mother and get close to me, I won't refuse. My place will always be her natal home.

But if she has great abilities and despises me, she doesn't need her mother's family, and I won't put my face on someone's cold ass.But if she encounters any difficulties in the future, if I can take care of her, I will definitely take care of her, after all, she was born by me. "

Pan Guanlin said: "Then if you do that, I'll call Xi Shi and discuss things about the Chinese New Year."

"You haven't been rejected enough! What's the matter, there is no reason for parents to beg their children in this world. This time her grandma came from Inner Mongolia to make trouble, and Pan Xishi should also understand that I was a mother. What day is it, as the third girl in the family, how unpopular and even dangerous it would be for her to stay in Inner Mongolia."

In a blink of an eye, Lunar New Year 28 is here, and every house is decorated with lanterns and festoons.Pan Xishi bought new clothes and toys for Huanhuanxixi, as well as 211 and 985. There are also a lot of delicious food, and the house is also completely new. I am waiting to send Huanhuanxi to a friend's house tomorrow, and keep it. Two cats are looking after the house.

She looked at the LEGO street that had been put together, and she was a little reluctant to leave.In fact, it is also good to celebrate the New Year with the fur children at home alone.

There was a proposal from Shang Yunxuan before, and an invitation from Pan Guanlin later, but she declined both.Needless to say, Shang Yunxuan was full of resistance when she went back to Pan's house for the New Year.To be honest, she would rather take her furry child to a restaurant to spend New Year's Eve with a group of strangers than spend New Year's Eve with her so-called parents.

Song Jiahui treated her very well, but she didn't want to be demanded by a mother who had never cared for her.As for Pan Guanlin, Pan Xishi could feel that his father had been working very hard to repair their relationship, and she had indeed expected it before, but after going around, her father was to a large extent just a strange uncle.

But Pan Guanlin insisted on inviting Pan Xishi to go home for the New Year.Because he seemed very unhappy this Spring Festival, and lost contact with his mother and brother in his hometown, Pan Xinyi went to his fiancé's house to celebrate the New Year.

It was originally a deserted Spring Festival, and another major event happened to the Pan family. This Spring Festival, Shang Xuehai did not go home to celebrate the New Year. Pan Shengnan said that he had a project to go abroad. Got into a nasty fight with the business school on the phone.

After hanging up the phone, the usually lively little boy seemed to be a different person, taciturn, not going out of the room, and even the most critical winter vacation sprint stage did not finish his homework properly.It was impossible to go back to his grandparents, so the relationship between Pan Shengnan's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law became tense, and Pan Guanlin's illness became more serious.

This day was also the day Pan Guanlin was discharged from the hospital.Shang Yunxuan prescribed medicine for his father when he came to the General Hospital. Thinking that Pan Guanlin lived in the inpatient department upstairs, he considered whether he should buy a fruit basket to see, but finally chose to give up.

He was very dissatisfied with Pan Xishi's parents from the bottom of his heart, and felt sorry for Pan Xishi's grievances in front of them.But sometimes the fate between people is so strange, Song Jiahui was discharged from the hospital for his wife, saw Shang Yunxuan at a glance, and then hurriedly called him to stop.

Both daughters have problems, the eldest son-in-law can't see anyone, and the second son-in-law can't afford it. She is busy all by herself. If she couldn't be called, she almost died of anxiety.

Shang Yunxuan said with a smile: "You are really smart. I just picked up a car a few years ago. My parents haven't done it yet!"

Song Jiahui's cheeks are a little hot, but she has already been discharged from the hospital, and a new patient is coming soon. She has a very bad heart right now, and she can't get a car anymore, and she has a sick wife. If I can't hold on anymore, I just run back and forth a few times, sweating all over, hot and cold for a while, feeling more and more uncomfortable with panic.

She said bluntly: "Let me tell you, if I hadn't seen you, I would have wanted to call Xishi just now!"

Shang Yunxuan curled his lips and said: "You really love my two daughters. In this snowy day, the road conditions are bad and it's terribly cold. You don't want to call them, but at this moment, you think of your little daughter who hasn't been in touch for many years. ?”

Song Jiahui said: "Both Shengnan and Xihong have something to do. Isn't Xishi on holiday?"

"Your memory is really bad. My other two daughters are also teachers, and they also have winter vacations. And they both have husbands to support them. Your youngest daughter is still desperately typing and recording videos every 1 minute. If it is counted as money, the cost is very high.”

Song Jiahui lost face: "Forget it, I'll figure it out myself!"

Shang Yunxuan said: "No need, I will go upstairs with you to help the old man down, and then you and him will wait at the door, and I will drive the car over."

Song Jiahui hurriedly said: "No, no, you go drive, we go to the hospital gate and wait for you. This is already very embarrassing!"

Shang Yunxuan said: "Let's go up together, the old man's legs and feet are unstable, and you can't hold him back later."

Song Jiahui and Shang Yunxuan went to wait for the elevator together.She also had mixed feelings in her heart. She scolded this young man a lot before, but this Xue came as soon as she said it, and she was discharged from the hospital at the scheduled time before, so she didn't expect it either.

As people get older, they become less and less ambitious!

(End of this chapter)