I have a thousand suites in Shenzhen

Chapter 178 The locked diary (please vote for me)

What the eldest brother-in-law said is right to the point. The key to whether you are comfortable living there or not depends on your financial ability.

Although money is not everything, but without money, it is absolutely impossible, no matter where you live?Without money, you will find it difficult to move forward. Even in the countryside, how can you be comfortable?The culture of comparison is stronger in rural areas than in cities.

You live in the city, and everyone is a stranger. Your neighbors upstairs and downstairs don’t know each other, and they are not much different from strangers, so there is nothing to compare with, and there is no face problem.

But if you live in a rural area, it's different. It can be said that competition is everywhere in the countryside. When only one or two households in the village buy a TV, you may not feel anything, but there are only a few households left in the village. If you are one of the people who have not bought a TV set, then you will feel very embarrassed and lose face.

The village is engaged in new rural construction, and every household has built a new house, but only a few have not built a new house. It is not because you already have a new house and do not need to build another one, but because you are poor and cannot afford to build a house. You say you are embarrassed? Embarrassing, others look at you differently.

Many families in the village have bought houses in the county, but only a few cannot afford it and have not bought it. This includes your family. Do you think you are embarrassed?
Children of the same age have all passed the key college entrance examination, but your son has only passed the junior college entrance examination. Are you embarrassed?
Even when setting up a banquet, you have to compete. How many dishes and hot dishes are there for others?How many cold dishes?How many hard dishes?You have less food than others, and if it is worse, you are embarrassed.

No matter what kind of cigarettes or wine they serve at the banquet, you are embarrassed if the cigarettes or wine they serve are worse than what they serve.

Even if you think it doesn't matter, others will say you are embarrassed.

Even if you don't give birth to a son, people will laugh at you because you have no son to carry on the family line and you have no future.

Yi Anguo has lived in the countryside since he was a child. He knows the habits of rural people, all kinds of comparisons, and the warmth and warmth of people all too well.

If you work well outside and make money, when you return to the village, everyone will greet you with a smile. Even when you pass by their house, they will pull you into the house to drink and eat.

If you do poorly outside and don't make any money and go home to celebrate the New Year, people in the village will have a different attitude towards you.

Behind your back, you will be told politely that you can’t do this, that you can’t do that, and that you are incompetent, and some will even laugh at you in person.

As for inviting you to his house for dinner and drinks, that's something that's out of the question.

If you do well outside, make money and go back home, and you are still single, the matchmaker will break through the door of your home and rush to introduce you to a partner.

If you do poorly outside and don't make any money to go home to celebrate the New Year, matchmakers won't even want to come to your door.

Even if you take the initiative to find a matchmaker and want the matchmaker to introduce you to a partner, the matchmaker will evade it in every possible way, saying that there is no suitable partner to introduce to you.

Then you tell yourself which one you like, and you want a matchmaker to match you, but the matchmaker will say it's not suitable, why the woman's family is in good condition, and so on, she doesn't like you.

"Brother-in-law! You will also build a big villa at home next year! This will make it more comfortable for my eldest sister to live in the countryside in the future." Yi Anguo said suddenly.

"Do we have so much money to build a big villa? It's fine just like this." The eldest brother-in-law said with a wry smile.

After coming to Shenzhen Town for so long, the eldest brother-in-law is still in the learning stage. Although Yi Anguo offered him a paid study program, he still can't earn enough money to build a big villa in half a year!
"Don't you still have me? I will advance your salary of 100 million yuan first and pay it back slowly in the future."

Building a large villa in the countryside only costs a few hundred thousand, and 100 million is definitely enough.

"With a salary of 100 million, your brother-in-law will not have to work for you for the rest of his life, so he may not be able to afford it!" the eldest sister said with a smile.

"That's definitely not necessary. When my brother-in-law gets the accountant qualification certificate and various financial-related certificates, and becomes the company's financial manager or director, his income will be more than 100 million yuan a year." Yi Anguo shook his head and said.

"Such a high salary?" the eldest sister said in surprise.

The eldest brother-in-law didn't make a fuss, and now he understood the prospects of this industry to some extent.

It's just that not just anyone can achieve the position of financial director. The director plays a great role in the company and is a true company executive.

But he also knew that as long as he was capable enough and had all the financial knowledge, it would only take Yi Anguo a few words for him to become the company's financial director.

The eldest brother-in-law also knows why Yi Anguo wants to let him attend a professional accounting class. This is because the position of financial director is very important and requires an absolutely trustworthy person. And he is Yi Anguo's brother-in-law, so he is Yi Anguo's brother-in-law. Someone you can absolutely trust.

But it is one thing to be trustworthy. Whether his ability can reach that level is also a question. But even if he cannot reach the level of financial director, at least his future income will not be too low.

"That's for sure. It's normal for the financial director of a large company or group to have an annual salary of more than 100 million. It's also normal for the financial director of a large multinational company to have an annual salary of tens of millions or tens of millions." Yi Anguo said with certainty. .

"But my brother-in-law is a little older now, has a weak cultural foundation, and is not proficient in computers. Even if he studies now, it will be difficult to catch up. It is basically impossible to be qualified as a financial director at that level. ."

"But even if you are just the financial director of a branch, the salary will not be too bad."

"In addition! Next year, I plan to develop a tourist resort in our hometown and develop the tourism resources in the mountains of our hometown. My eldest sister likes to live in the countryside of my hometown, and my brother-in-law can also work in a tourist resort development company."

"Sister, is it necessary to farm in the village? It would be good to go directly to the tourist resort and open a small supermarket?"

There is no other way, my hometown cannot be left without someone to take care of me!After much thought, Yi Anguo decided that it would be better to let his eldest sister and brother-in-law continue to stay in their hometown. They liked it anyway and were used to living in the countryside.

"Since doing financial accounting is so important to make money, why not let Huanhuan also learn to do calculations? What's the use of being a primary school teacher in Shenzhen Town? Sooner or later, he will go back to his hometown to get married and have children. He won't be a teacher anymore. , I can also go to work in the tourist resort you mentioned in the future." The eldest sister suddenly suggested again.

"Mom! I like being a teacher! What's wrong with being a teacher? Although the income is not high, it is enough. There are winter and summer vacations every year, and weekends off. The work is only a few hours a day, and the benefits are also very good. Ah! You can also tutor students on weekends and earn some tuition fees. How can you make less money?" Fu Huanhuan objected.

She doesn't like life back home.How can it be as comfortable as living in a deep town?She has also become accustomed to life in the deep town.

In fact, for ordinary people, the salary of being an established primary school teacher in Shenzhen Lanshan District is not low, and is even higher than the salary of many ordinary people.

Many primary school teachers even have a master's degree, and a bachelor's degree is a normal diploma. Normal open recruitment basically requires a bachelor's degree.According to the normal recruitment process, Fu Huanhuan, who just graduated from a normal technical secondary school, would not even be qualified to participate in the interview.

But Sister Yi Anguo still hopes that her daughter will return to her hometown to get married and have children, because they still hope that someone will take care of them until they die.

The second child has lost hope and has married in another province. The third child will definitely develop in a big city after graduating from university, so he can only count on the eldest child.

If the boss is not willing to go back to his hometown to get married and have children, then he really has no one to rely on.

But under the current situation, it is obvious that Fu Huanhuan does not want to go back to his hometown to live, but wants to stay in Shenzhen to work.

It is not convenient for Yi Anguo to take care of this matter. After all, everyone has his own ambitions!

Although we have already moved into the Xiangye Lake duplex villa, and the first floor of the two villa buildings has been connected, it is difficult to get together under normal circumstances because everyone is very busy.

But today is an exception, because today is the winter solstice, so basically everyone is here, and the house is very lively.

People in Guangdong Province attach great importance to the Winter Solstice. There is a saying that the Winter Solstice is the New Year's Day. On the Winter Solstice, families will reunite. Many people who are far away from home will also go home for reunion on this day and have a reunion dinner together as a family.

People who come to work and live in Guangdong Province do as the locals do. Many factories will also arrange extra meals on this day and will not arrange overtime work at night.

Yi Anguo's hometown actually doesn't pay much attention to the winter solstice. It pays more attention to the day of Beginning of Winter. On this day, chickens and ducks are killed and a sumptuous dinner is prepared. The family will gather together to eat on this day. A reunion dinner.

China is a very large area, and the cultural differences between different places are actually very big. In some places, the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month celebrates the off year, and in other places, the 24th of the twelfth lunar month celebrates the off year.

Some people say that the 24th of the twelfth lunar month in the south celebrates the off year, and the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month in the north celebrates the off year. In fact, this is not absolute.

In the same Xijiang province, there are people who celebrate the off year on the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month, people who celebrate the off year on the 24th of the twelfth lunar month, and people who celebrate the off year on the 25th of the twelfth lunar month, so they cannot be simply divided by north and south.

It's like northerners love to eat dumplings no matter what festival they celebrate, but southerners don't have this custom. At least in Yi Anguo's memory, they have never eaten dumplings on New Year's Eve.

Ding Jing has been pregnant for more than eight months, and will be more than nine months pregnant during the Chinese New Year. The child will be born during the Spring Festival.

Yi Anguo was really helpless. The year before last, he canceled his plan to go home for the New Year because he considered Ding Jing's belly.

But will she have to cancel her plan to go home for the New Year again this year because she is pregnant?
If you don’t cancel your plan to go home for the New Year, you can’t leave Ding Jing alone in Shenzhen Town!
Just thinking about it gives me a headache. Just now, I told my eldest sister that I must go home to celebrate the New Year this year, but now I want to cancel my plan to go home for the New Year?

Yi Yunlong and Yi Yufeng were over two years old, and Yi Meifeng was almost two years old. After eating, they both pestered Fao Anguo and asked their father to take them to play together.

Yi Xinyi is eight years old, but she still likes to stick to her father and play with him.

Yi Xinyi liked Yi Anguo more and took her shopping together. The two competed to see who could run faster.

Buying a small bottle of soapy water and blowing bubbles can make her happy all day long.

"Dad! I want to buy a locked diary." Yi Xinyi grabbed Yi Anguo's hand and waved it.

"Why did you buy that? Do you know how to write a diary?" Yi Anguo asked with a smile.

"Yes! Our teacher asked us to keep diaries. Many of my classmates have such locked diaries." Yi Xinyi nodded and said.

"Why do you need to keep a lock when writing a diary? Can't dad read the diary you wrote?" Yi Anguo asked curiously.

"No! Our teacher said that writing a diary is like writing a letter and cannot be shown to others casually. We must learn to protect personal privacy." Yi Xinyi said, shaking her head.

"But dad is not someone else, why can't dad see it? Is there anything else you have that shouldn't be known to dad?" Yi Anguo continued to ask.

"Dad! Our teacher said that parents should also respect our right to privacy. They cannot read the diaries we write without our consent. If you read our diaries casually, it will be suspected of infringing on our right to privacy, which is illegal. We can sue you for your behavior." Yi Xinyi explained.

"So our teacher suggested that we ask our parents to buy us locked diaries to prevent you from looking through our diaries at will."

"Okay! Dad won't peek into your diary, won't invade your privacy, won't do anything illegal, and will help you buy a locked diary. Are you satisfied now?"

Yi Anguo actually said that his daughter, who was only eight years old, gave her an education and a legal education, and said she was a bit dumbfounded.

At the same time, I really feel in my heart that my daughter has grown up and has her own little secrets. She has many inner thoughts that she is unwilling to tell her father. She would rather write them in a diary and lock them up.

Yi Anguo began to recall what he was like when he was eight years old.

He found that his memory of when he was eight years old was actually a bit vague, and he really couldn't remember it clearly.

But I definitely don’t understand what privacy is, and I probably don’t understand writing a diary either!After all, they didn't go to school until they were seven years old at that time, and they were in the second grade at the age of eight. They couldn't even recognize a few words. It was probably like they were in the third grade of elementary school before they started learning to write compositions!

I definitely wrote in a diary, but I definitely didn’t have a locked diary. I wrote in exercise books at most.

As for the right to privacy, there is no need to keep it private. Your parents don’t know a few words anyway, so if you show them, they won’t know what you are writing.

(End of this chapter)