A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

Wen Ran didn't want to meddle in her cousin's family affairs anymore, but there were some things she couldn't escape from just by wanting to.

From ancient times to the present, marrying into a wealthy family is not uncommon.

Wen Ran has also seen many peers doing the same thing as her cousin, but other people's parents handled it very quickly and efficiently, and their children came to their senses quickly afterwards.

She used to know a boss in the financial industry, who had assets worth hundreds of millions. After his daughter came back from studying abroad, she met a social vagrant who only had a pretty face, and they talked about marriage.

His father was anxious, but the boss of the financial industry had his ways and never said that he was dissatisfied with the man. He asked his daughter to invite the man to come home alone, just the two of them, to discuss marriage.

The vagrant knocked on the door and a young man opened it for him. He opened the door, said hello, and said goodbye to the old wizard.

The old master told the blind drifter that the man just now was the product of an ill-fated relationship he had when he was young and frivolous. You two will get married in the future and I am also planning to retire, so I called him here to explain the details of the handover of the company.

As soon as the blind drifter left home, he called the old wizard's daughter to break up with her. The reason for the breakup was that his father was too undisciplined and had serious problems with his conduct, which was despised by the world.

The girl got angry with the old wizard when she got home. The old wizard took a sip of tea and said, "I know you are anxious, but don't worry. The young man who came to our house just now was the one I asked the driver to send two watermelons upstairs. Any NPC can complete the task. For those with ulterior motives, one sword can kill them."

There are always hundreds of unspeakable motives in life, which will be embellished with thousands of compliments.

In Wen Ran's opinion, it would be better to find a Phoenix Man than the kind of person her cousin likes. At least, apart from anything else, a Phoenix Man is truly capable.

As for her cousin, it was fine to be a peacock girl, but there was something she couldn't handle. With so many people in their Wen family, the Phoenix man could never turn over for most of his life. There was a type of man, a boy from a poor rural area, who gathered the strength of the whole family, studied hard for more than ten years, and finally got into university and got a ticket to live in a big city, thus bringing hope for the transformation of a family.

After graduation, most of them choose to be with city girls from well-off families and achieve class transition through marriage, which has the implication of flying onto a tree and becoming a phoenix: the term "Phoenix man" comes from this.

The so-called Phoenix Man usually refers to a man who comes from a poor family and works hard. Specifically, it refers to men who come from a poor family, work hard to get into college, and stay in the city to work and live after graduation.

A man who rushes to pay the bill when he has no money, always wants to show that he is better than his peers, often stands on his parents' side when his wife has a dispute with his parents, always has relatives and friends to rely on and is willing to help them, and is often or sometimes bothered by his brothers and sisters who are too ambitious but lack the ability to achieve their goals, but he cannot bear to reject them.

Peacock girls refer to rich girls who grew up in big cities and often act like spoiled brats. They are doted on by their parents, have never suffered much since childhood, are pure-hearted, have everything they want, and are well fed and well clothed. They don't need to please or flatter anyone, or be cunning, to enjoy a good life.

Some "peacock girls" never know the importance of money, and when choosing a spouse, they do not consider the man's financial strength as the primary consideration. They admire and yearn for pure love, pay more attention to the man's ability, and pay attention to the man's sense of family responsibility.

The contrast between the two is also the biggest reason why they often spark love. Phoenix men want to gain a foothold in the city in a hurry, and the only shortcut is to find a rich woman. Peacock women, who have never had to worry about food and clothing since childhood and regard money as dirt, are easily attracted to men like Phoenix men who work hard and are simple.

However, among this group of people, some men, after gaining the right to speak after marriage and having some small achievements, revealed the relatively conservative and outdated ideas of the farming families;
If they are too obsessed with face and suffer in life, they like to pretend to be generous when they go back to their hometown, always want to show that they are better than their peers, have a tendency to favor boys over girls, and obey their parents' words regardless of whether they are right or wrong;
There are always poor relatives and friends who come to rely on, and I help them regardless of the cost and not from a practical perspective. I am often annoyed by those brothers and sisters who are ambitious but incompetent, but I can't bear to reject them.

There is nothing wrong with this small group of Phoenix men, but it always makes people feel uncomfortable whenever it is mentioned. So when girls in the city complain about each other, this small group of people begins to be labeled, and Phoenix men gradually become a derogatory term.

There is a saying in economics that bad money drives out good money. It means that when pure gold is popular, once an organization publicly states that gold mixed with brass has the same purchasing power as pure gold, then people will collect the pure gold and even mix it with more copper. As a result, there will be less and less pure gold on the market, and bad money will drive out good money.

The phoenix is ​​an ancient mythical beast, and seeing it is a good omen. The phrase "phoenix man" sounds pretty good, as it represents transformation. Most phoenix men have made it to college, settled in a city, and married a wife through their own efforts. A chicken turns into a phoenix from a tree, and men can use this phrase to make fun of themselves.

But nowadays, the meaning of Phoenix Man has changed drastically. Even those who used to make fun of themselves don’t dare to do so anymore. Instead, more people have begun to ridicule and mock such people to the best of their ability.

Especially after the incident of bad money driving out good money, the Phoenix men who exposed their bad practices represented all Phoenix men, and thus, the entire Phoenix man group became the object of everyone's contempt.

The ugliest side of human beings is to label a certain type of people, because there will always be individual cases. You can scold one person, but scolding a group of people is no different from Wang Jingwei who would rather kill three thousand people by mistake than let one person go.

Many people say that you should never marry a Phoenix man because they are stingy, arbitrary, hypocritical, too concerned about face, and have too many shortcomings to count. Most of the people who say this have been tortured by Phoenix men, so they are speaking from their own experience.

This is probably like a woman who, after being hurt by a man, spreads the message that all men are bad, but it is impossible for a woman not to marry a man, or most women will eventually marry a man.

But in Wen Ran's opinion, these are not a big problem. Because there is only one reason why Phoenix men become scumbags, that is poverty.

And those who are said to have been deceived, in most cases, are simply because they do not have enough financial resources and platforms. Instead, they always think highly of themselves and feel that they have done a great favor to others.

Most of the shortcomings of the so-called Phoenix men are more or less magnified because of poverty. Are there no scumbags in wealthy families? Are there no mama's boys, giant babies, playboys, and double-standard men among those who were raised in wealth?

Yes, yes, everyone knows that there is such a thing, but those who make comments and criticisms will not listen, because they also know that the biggest sin of the Phoenix Man is poverty, and poverty will drag her down and even hurt her.

In a different situation, if a Cinderella marries a rich man, even if he is bossy and pretentious, she will think that he is not wasting her own things, so why worry about it? He just needs to give her enough material life. (End of this chapter)