A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

This chapter has been blocked and overhauled, there is no plot advancement and it can be skipped.
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Sing the song that suits the mountain you are on, and sing praises for what role you play.

As for whether the hymn is sung correctly or not, as long as it is right from their own standpoint, they don't care about anything else.

This kind of behavior is based on equality and voluntariness. As the saying goes, if one is willing to fight, the other is willing to be beaten. No one will force anyone to go down this path.

When many girls meet a scumbag, they may immediately start to scold the scumbag, but if you think about it carefully, wasn’t the girl blind at the beginning?

Some people may say that the scumbag is too good at disguising himself. Yes, but when she said this, there were many people who sympathized with her, but no one would bear the bitter consequences of marrying a scumbag for her.

Whoever bears the worst consequences will bear the greatest responsibility.

Wen Ran regretted her words soon after she started to persuade her cousin. It was only after she finished speaking that she suddenly realized that there were many people who saw the situation more clearly than her. Why didn't anyone go to her cousin's house to offer suggestions? Everyone just persuaded her and no one gave any additional suggestions.

Wen Ran thought about his cousin's sudden change of attitude, and suddenly understood something in his heart. No one is a fool. When a person acts like a fool, but does not do anything stupid after thinking about it carefully, he should think about it carefully.

Wen Ran knows that it is not wrong for people to focus on immediate benefits, but sometimes you really need to have a slightly longer-term vision and a slightly broader perspective. She hates talking about perspective the most, but sometimes many things are just like this, there is nothing you can do about it.

She knows that a person's cruelty should be internal. One must learn to hide, put away the desire to express and show off, don't easily reveal one's cards, and don't prove anything to others. Don't ask, listen, or look at other people and other things, don't say when happy, and don't say when angry. Then the whole person will become calm and comfortable like a rock.

As one's level gets higher, one can better understand the differences among all living beings. There is no absolute good or bad, good or evil in the world. What everyone sees is a projection of their inner world. The states displayed by others are nothing more than different energy frequencies and different choices made.

Once you understand this, you will realize that the only person who can hurt you in this world is yourself. If you can take good care of your health and emotions, you have won half of your life.

Wen Ran has a special metaphysical idea, which is that when things are not favorable to oneself, being quiet is a good sign, and not being chaotic is good, especially the mind must not be chaotic.

Everything that happens has a reason and a logic to it. Don't fight yourself. Give yourself some time to think things through and take a long-term view. This is the most effective way to solve problems.

At this time, you will find that many times if you slow down and calm down, there will usually be more reasonable solutions.

Once you have these four words "assess the situation" engraved in your mind, then things will be smooth if you take your time, and people will be at peace if you take your time. When you encounter something, remind yourself to let the bullets fly for a while. As the old saying goes, those who are impatient will achieve nothing, while those who are calm and composed will be blessed with good fortune.

So when Qin Yongjun asked about her cousin, Wen Ran's attitude was to wait and see.

Wen Ran made a decision quickly after coming to his senses. When you understand some people and some things, you should make a cut.

Because some people are really not worth wasting your time on.

Wen Ran knew too well that the people and things that could bring him prosperity must meet a standard. In a word, it was easy to get what he wanted. For example, what kind of person is truly suitable for him is the one he can get along with for a long time. Usually, it is the one who does not dislike him from the first meeting, and the two people come together very naturally, without any obstacles or twists and turns, and get along very harmoniously in the process, as if everything is just right, and this person does not need to change anything, and what he needs, the other party can also meet it appropriately.

Everyone's strengths and weaknesses are ingrained in their bones. The so-called adjustment is nothing more than one party being tolerant and compromising.

I don't think what people say about there being no smooth road to true love is true. If you have various disagreements with someone from the moment you meet them, it may seem okay for one party to bow their head and be tolerant in the short term, but who can guarantee that the long-standing conflicts will not erupt one day in the future?

Things don’t go smoothly because people don’t get along, and things don’t go smoothly, which is a very dangerous situation in itself.

So once things become impossible to do, Wen Ran's approach is to make a quick decision.

Once you feel that someone is unreliable, cut off contact immediately and don't waste time with that person.

It is better to take care of yourself and regulate your mood during this time.

Because you cherish yourself, everything you do is well-planned and fruitful. If a person is surrounded by people who have a prosperous career and family, you will find that they all have a strong sense of "reliability".

It means that no matter how big or small the things in life are, either do them completely or do them to perfection. This is not actually perfectionism, but a display of clear cognition.

This shows that they know which things are important and which things are not worth investing any energy in, and they can just deal with them with a smile. In contrast, if you compare them with those who are not living a satisfactory life, you will find that the daily life of this group is very chaotic, and they don’t realize it. Their weekly schedule is often messed up, and as a result, they just deal with everything in a hurry, which makes them tired and chaotic.

When it comes to socializing, the unhappy people will think that it is just a matter of meeting people, so they will change their clothes, put on makeup and go out without considering the occasion, who will be there, and what they should prepare.

In short, two words: "deal with it".

However, men and women who live a prosperous life will first determine whether this meeting is worth going to. If it is not worth it, they will not even participate. A group of people eating and drinking indiscriminately, what a waste of life.

But for dinners and drinking parties that are worth attending, you will need to determine what the environment is like, how to dress appropriately, neither too much nor too casual, who will be attending, what topics will everyone be interested in, and do some knowledge preparation.

Then, they meet and get to know each other, have a good chat, hit it off, and build a network of contacts. What a beautiful and clean execution idea. So most of the time, this kind of people live a pretty good life.

Some things can be done but cannot be said, and some things can be said but cannot be done.

Follow the rules in most cases, and as the environment improves, life will always be good. (End of this chapter)