Back to modern times, Her Majesty the Queen and I are both laid off

Chapter 118 You can’t get over the hurdle in your heart
Jiang Li opened his mouth, but was speechless for a while. It turns out that spending time together, eating and living together is cultivating feelings. It seems that it is indeed the case.
That's right, we didn't get along day and night when we were in Daqi. Why didn't we see such disturbing things?
So she asked, "When we were in Daqi in the past, did you and I get along day and night?"

Lin Luo really didn't want to answer this question. Maybe she was upset at this time, so the question she asked was very substandard, seemed stupid, and even seemed to be looking for something to say.

"It's different. In the past, you and I were masters and servants, kings and ministers. Even if we got along day and night, even if we really developed feelings, it was just the love of master and servant, the love of king and minister."

Even the reason why you and I got along together in the beginning was because of this past acquaintance.

I regard you as an old friend and feel that you need my help.You had no friends at the time and were at a loss about the world. It was the best choice for you to settle down with me. "

"But in modern times, our status is equal. After getting along with each other in the past six months, the relationship between you and me has long been different. Even if we didn't know each other for more than ten years in Daqi, we can still be very familiar with each other. Get along together.

What maintains our relationship is no longer the past, but the newly cultivated feelings in the past six months. It's just that I admit it, but you don't. "

Newly developed feelings.
Jiang Li frowned, when was he trained?How was it cultivated?
Are you joking with yourself from time to time on weekdays?Do we eat and live together, go shopping, buy food, set up stalls, and cook together?Is it the brown sugar ginger water that we cook every time we come to Guishui in the name of warding off the cold?Or is it the sweet taste you taste every time you take sugar from that bucket?

Or is it all the little things we have spent together these days?
Jiang Li was thinking very hard, trying to get a glimpse of how the so-called relationship was cultivated in the past six months, but the more he thought about it, the more confused his mind became.

Because everything this does seems to cultivate feelings.
Seeing her lost in thought, Lin Luo said nothing. In fact, he didn't want to talk about this, at least not now.What he envisioned was to boil a frog in warm water, let nature take its course, and slowly cultivate feelings in daily life, and everything would fall into place by then.

But unfortunately, the water had just boiled to a certain temperature when it was discovered by the frog, which led to these conversations.He couldn't help but wonder, if everything was revealed, would this face-loving and arrogant frog want to jump out of the pot?

Or should we increase the firepower and complete the process of boiling frogs in one fell swoop?
After a long while, Jiang Li finally spoke in a low voice: "I don't deny it. In the past few months, we have indeed developed some new feelings between you and me, but this is not the relationship between a man and a woman. There should be a relationship between you and me. It’s the camaraderie of friends.”

Lin Luo didn't rush to answer. He had already arrived downstairs. He opened the unit door and let Jiang Li in first. Then he ducked in. As the unit door closed behind him, there was a bang. At the same time, he also He asked aloud: "Have you had any friends before?"

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These words touched Jiang Li's soul, and she was silent for a few seconds: "No."

"You don't have any friends, so you think our relationship is just friends?"

Lin Luo tilted his head and looked at her, "Or can you tell the difference between love between men and women and friendship?"

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Jiang Li pursed his lips and said nothing.

Lin Luo did not ask further questions, but said: "Friends are not like us, but to say that there is love between a man and a woman between you and me is not necessarily true."

Jiang Li was a little surprised by his words and tilted his head to look at him.

Lin Luo also turned around and looked back, "Are you surprised? But it's not entirely true, so there's no need for me to make excuses here and make it look like I'm PUAing you."

Jiang Li frowned and said, "I've heard you say this PUA many times, and I've never understood what it means. But I think it probably refers to your behavior of guiding me. Haven't you been doing this all the time?"

"PUA means you understand it that way." Lin Luo took out the key from his pocket and opened the door, "But the purpose of what I just talked to you for a long time was not to PUA you, so as to make you think that we already have a man and a woman. Feelings."

Jiang Li followed him into the house, watched Lin Luo turn on the light in the living room, and asked aloud: "Then what is your purpose?" "I just want you to admit your heart. What do you think we have done these days? What are you doing with us?"

"doing what?"

"When it comes to falling in love, at least we are in the early stages of falling in love. Although we don't have love between a man and a woman yet, we already have a certain good feeling between you and me."

".I don't think so."

"Actually, you have already discovered it, but you can't get over the hurdle in your heart, so you refuse to admit it."

"." Jiang Li really didn't know how to answer this. It seemed that no answer was right.

If he continues to deny it, it will become a hurdle in his heart that he cannot overcome, and he will refuse to admit it.If you admit it, although it does seem like you are in love these days, it is just a look, and it is not real. Maybe it is still an illusion.

So why should we admit it?

Lin Luo stopped talking for a while, took off his coat and threw it on the sofa.

In fact, he could understand Jiang Li's psychology very well. As an emperor in the past, not only was he not interested in love at all, but he felt extremely resistant to it.

After all, the education she received since childhood and the cognition she has built up over a long period of time have long formed an inherent thought in her mind - as an emperor, she must not be immersed in the love between her children.

Now she no longer regards herself as the emperor, but her identity has changed, but her mentality has not changed for a while.

For example, the current way of getting along, the feeling of being close yet far away, wanting to reject someone but then welcoming them back, is clearly the early stage of a relationship between a man and a woman.It's just that after she became aware of this, she couldn't get over the hurdle in her heart, and she was even less willing to admit that she could actually fall in love.

So she pushed back and said that it was her own guidance. She was very confused and just passively accepted it, so she got used to it.

Throw the blame entirely on yourself and refuse to internalize yourself.

Jiang Li also took off his down jacket, turned to look at him, and retorted: "You keep saying that I can't get over the hurdle in my heart, and you also say that I am falling in love with you, but I don't think so. On the contrary, I think you It’s me in PUA again.”

"Don't just learn a word and use it blindly. This is not called PUA. This is telling the truth."

"Furthermore, if you could really admit it openly, you wouldn't talk to me one by one, and you wouldn't blame me, saying that I guided you or something."

"Then I won't call you me from now on."

"what ever."

Seeing Lin Luo's indifferent expression, Jiang Li felt even more irritated, so he simply entered the room and slammed the door.

(End of this chapter)