The sweet mourning beauty and the King of Hell are killing each other like crazy in the world

Chapter 374

"Uh...I know." he said.

I didn't say anything else and he remained silent for a moment.

The next second, I showed him my mobile phone, on which there was a consultation message from the beneficiary Xiao Ping: What should I do if my marriage is unhappy but I can’t get a divorce?
"Oh," I sighed. I have received too many inquiries like this recently and I really don't want to answer them.

I feel very uncomfortable myself.

Gu Yichen glanced at me, poked his tongue into his mouth, then took my phone and started replying.

Gu Yichen: “Let me tell you a truth about marriage, especially for women.

Before you turn 30, you must understand one thing.
If you can meet a man who shares the same values, is in love with you, and treats you well, the probability of this happening is even smaller than your chance of winning 500 million, because for most people's marriages, it is essentially a game of two words.

Marriage is neither emotion nor passion, nor is it entirely love. It is a game.

A while ago, a lady came to me for consultation, asking why her married life was so unhappy and what she should do. Is there anything she can do?
Let her husband love her more and care for her.

She used to work in a big company, doing very well with an annual salary of 40+. Later, in order to have a perfect marriage, a family, and to better educate her children in the future, she decided to quit her job and stay at home to take care of the children.

She thought that in this way, all the household chores would be handled neatly and her life would be as happy as in TV dramas.

But who would have known that as time went on, the various household chores and the pressure of taking care of children would overwhelm her, and she also had to face a big problem, which was that the tacit understanding between her and her husband seemed to be getting less and less.

What about her husband? He is busy all day long and just wants to rest when he gets home. He has no interest in listening to her talk about her hard work during the day.

The lady felt aggrieved and felt that her efforts were not recognized. As a result, the frictions between the two of them increased.
The toxic chicken soup on social platforms began to wash over her, and her friends also gave her some ideas.

This made her more and more confused and bewildered.

She began to doubt her choice and wondered why married life was so difficult.
In fact, we all want a perfect life, and there is nothing wrong with her pursuing perfection, but more importantly, we all need to learn to accept the imperfections in life.

Marriage is not a one-sided giving or taking, but requires two people to work hard and share the responsibility to live a happy life.

If the family lives in harmony, everything will be prosperous. But if you go and see, you will find that basically, they are not living in peace.

In fact, there is not so much bargaining in marriage life. As long as you don't violate those issues of principle, as long as the two people can have more understanding and tolerance, and less calculations and disputes, then this family will be as warm as before, or even better.

This is much more effective than any magical methods we use.

Since the moment we cried when we were born, most of us have had a few more chances to open our eyes and be reborn. If we choose the right ones among these opportunities, we can get closer to the limit of our life.

One is the college entrance examination or civil service examination or postgraduate examination, and the other is choosing a partner.

These few times only happened when I made the right choices.

It doesn't matter if you choose the wrong one.

The sky won't fall.

Life has a tolerance rate for mistakes, but if you choose another path, you will see different scenery and experience a different life. Previously, a female client came to me to read a script, which was related to the direction of employment.
When I was in high school, there were some problems at home, so I went out to work before graduation. Although I am almost 30 years old now, I still worked hard to be admitted to the adult college, got my diploma, and fulfilled my dream.

She wanted to stay on the sidelines, and her family supported her. After all, the end of the universe was to take the civil service exam.
I won't go into the details later.

Because compared to being a staff, she is more suitable to be the boss of a restaurant.

As I said before, the tolerance rate of life is higher than you can imagine.

It's just that in today's society, those capitals overly promote utilitarianism-oriented thinking methods or ways of thinking. This makes us forget the essence of life, which is actually a process of continuous accumulation and continuous experience.

In fact, many things are meaningless. Eating, drinking and having fun are not a waste of time. Hard work and perseverance are not necessarily worthy of praise under certain circumstances.

But we always like to argue with others and compare ourselves with others, which only increases our anxiety and internal friction. We don't have to do things that are considered meaningful by facts.

If you want to just sit there and watch the sunset or count the stars, that makes sense.

However, everyone's innate conditions and destiny are different. This is a fact that must be recognized. We must clearly find our own position and do what we should do first.

Therefore, it is very important to know yourself.

For example, birds should fly in the sky and fish should stay in the water. What is the greatest luck in life?
It is to recognize yourself and accept yourself.
Doing the right thing at the right time,
A bird will not compete with a fish in swimming, and a fish will not compete with a bird in flying. Each has its own strengths.

In today's impetuous society, she is actually reminding you everywhere to move forward, the higher the better.

Our brains can easily develop some cognitive biases, anxiously looking for solutions to problems everywhere, asking for what we want, and even choosing burning incense over going to work and making progress.

As for us, we should actually try to accept those unexpected things that happen, because that is the gift that fate secretly gives you.

Do you want to be the master of your own destiny?
Do you believe that sincerity will bring results and that all your wishes will come true?

These seemingly beautiful wishes are actually very difficult to achieve.

When we were young, we were taught to have firm beliefs and believe that people have the ability to change everything. However, the power of the New Year is not unlimited. It is useless to just say you believe but don't work hard.

It sounds exciting to say that if you are sincere, your wish will come true, but can he really get things done if he is sincere?
It’s really hard to say, people are indeed influenced by their ideas.

What you wish for will come true, which means that ideas have a significant impact on our behavior and results. However, changing ideas alone may not necessarily change ourselves.

This is the result of many factors, including time, space, and other human factors, so we must face our problems and find the right solutions.

We have to really work hard to achieve that.

No matter how lofty your ambitions are, they cannot be achieved without luck.

Without the blessing of fate, it would be really difficult for many big figures today to achieve anything, and they may even be worse than you.

Destiny is something unpredictable and unpredictable.

What about controlling your own destiny and getting better and better? Even though it’s difficult, you still have to work hard. "