The sweet mourning beauty and the King of Hell are killing each other like crazy in the world

Chapter 397 What to do if you are weak?
I said: "People who make big money focus on looking up and watching the road, while people who make small money focus on working hard."

"Look for people with plenty of money when seeking work, look for people with limited money when doing things, listen to your parents' opinions when you are in politics or business, stay away from your parents' opinions when you are working or farming, be careful of people who praise you in person, and stay away from people who praise you behind your back."

"Don't show off your wealth when you're with acquaintances, and don't show off your poverty when you're with strangers. You must remember that if you're down on your luck, choose one night to save your life. Once your luck turns around, you can turn the tables and change your fate."

"My parents always have a superpower that makes you stuck there and unable to get out."

"When you were having dinner with him, you said you wanted to change to an easier job, and he said that you have to endure hardships when you are young. You must have endured enough hardships. If you can't even endure this little hardship, what else can you do?"

"You said I was earning too little money, and he said you were always looking for the grass to greener pastures."

"You said, I want to try my luck while I'm young, and he said you have a stable job, so he'll teach you how to be reckless."

"You said that my life is not easy, and he said you should compare it with the farmers who work on the yellow earth in their fields."

"You will find that your parents always have the ability to quickly turn your already freaking annoying things into countless things, and then you will think, come on, I won't talk to you anymore, is that ok?"

"She started telling everyone she met that the child was not filial, that she was no longer close to him, and that she ignored him when she got home. Think about it, which child wouldn't want to talk to his parents, the people closest to him, about his troubles?"

"Tell me something that you find interesting? Why didn't I tell you?"

"As soon as you say it, she will educate you."

"You said, I'm tired today, and she said you didn't suffer as much as she did when she was young,"

"You said you were tired of work, and she said you had to bear it and pay off the loan quickly. You said I had something happy, and she said you shouldn't be happy too early, or you might get hit."

"You've ruined all the good stuff. Do you know why you don't like going home to chat with your parents?"

"Because as long as a person is a person, he needs others' understanding, recognition, comfort, encouragement and sympathy. When it comes to parents, it's either denial and criticism, or preaching and nitpicking. What does the child want?"

"What I want is to get some soul back from my parents. But my parents are so kind, they always want to become immortals and perform rituals for you."

"You said you wanted to call someone, but who would be willing to go home and tell them? It's just making yourself uncomfortable and unhappy for no reason."

"If you can't get love, you'll get kicked in the face."

"What do you mean by parents?"

"Mom and Dad are the love and warmth that well up in our hearts when we think of you, and the surge of emotion that comes when the mountains give us courage,"

"Another thing is that your poverty is caused by your original family."

"When you were a kid, you saved money to buy a piece of clothing, but your parents kicked and beat you, saying that you didn't focus on studying. Even after you started working and were in your twenties, your parents still used suffocating control, under the euphemism of keeping an eye on you."

"She still controls who you are dating, what time you go home at night, how you spend your money, and where you spend it."

"If you dye your hair, people will say your hair dye is too expensive. If you buy a necklace, people will say you've wasted your money. If you buy decent clothes, a whole social bag that you can carry out, or even a better phone that doesn't lag, they will accuse you of vanity. The grass is always greener on the other side. Is this the grass being greener on the other side?"

"That's because of the tattered clothes you wear. Your colleagues look down on you when you socialize in the workplace. It's about finding a partner. No one can appreciate your madness. It's the happy spending that you reward yourself with after your hard work." "Sometimes, when parents control us, it's not called management, it's called control, you know?"

"To put it bluntly, it's just her habitual desire to control. She never wants to say that if you don't dress yourself up nicely, no one will even look at her."

"She only knows how to urge you to get married quickly so as not to embarrass her in front of relatives and friends."

"She doesn't know that you are so stressed that you are about to collapse. You just want to buy a necklace to relieve your depression and go to bed early at night."

"Remember, no one can empathize with you because you live in different worlds."

"In their parents' generation, they suffered from cold and hunger, and all kinds of suffering. He uses his worldview to look at your world, not knowing that your world is different from his."

"Didn't your parents buy you anything you wanted when you were a kid?"

"Then she asked you, why do you need your own pocket money?"

"Because what you want is that I have my own money and the freedom to make my own decisions. What we want is actually freedom."

Xiaoya: "Why is it that the better I treat some people, the more they turn around and bite me?"

Me: "That's a shame. You're sincere and devoted to someone, but the person you treated the best turned around and bit you back. Do you think you'd be hurt? So don't do such shameful things in the future."

"You've fed your conscience to the dogs, and you feel quite wronged,"

“Do you know what a dog thinks?”

"The dog is more aggrieved than you. The dog ate your conscience, smacking its lips, and still thinking about it. Besides, sashimi is more delicious. So remember, dogs must eat sashimi, and cannot be given good food."

"So, the greatest evil in human nature is not selfishness, hypocrisy, greed, or even arrogance or debauchery, but making things difficult for others."

"Especially when someone, once he has achieved some kind of success, uses the power he has gained through success to do his best to make things difficult for everyone around him, this kind of person deserves to die,"

“But if you are a weak person, once you become enlightened, you can turn the tide.”

"What does it mean to be weak?"

"If you always feel tired, easily exhausted, and physically weak, but you have procrastination and poor execution, then it is likely that you have rich creativity and imagination, especially in the fields of art, culture, aesthetics, music, philosophy, Buddhism, and Taoism, and you have your own unique insights."

"You have a strong sense of perception. You often ponder things over and over again by yourself. You learn things by yourself without a teacher. You like to delve deeply into research. However, you often lose in action and your mental exhaustion is very serious."

"In traditional culture, this is called a weak body."

"What should I do if I am weak?"

"Remember what I said, people with weak bodies should strive for things that others cannot take away, such as thinking, wisdom, concentration and cognition, such as doing one thing to the extreme and creating irreplaceable value. So what you lack is never the method, but the confidence. People with weak bodies remember that self-confidence is the peak."

"Don't be afraid of being weak, being weak to the extreme is strength. People with a weak body ask for seals instead of wealth. What does that mean?"