The sweet mourning beauty and the King of Hell are killing each other like crazy in the world

Chapter 398 You are the most important person.

Me: “Actually, you still have to be yourself first.”

"Women, don't be a hardworking ox, because no one will feel sorry for you or understand you. After the ox finishes its work, its final fate is to be eaten."

"Whether you are at your husband's or your own home, as long as you don't know how to take care of yourself and don't feel sorry for yourself, then no one will ever care whether you are suffering or tired,"

"Many women are born to devote themselves to others. They are like candles, always burning themselves to illuminate others. They think they can be happy after entering into marriage."

"Who knows that just after jumping out of one fire pit, you may jump into another fire pit as soon as you turn around."

"Those who don't have the ability to stand up straight will be bullied wherever they go. Not only will the people around you bully you, but people in the workplace will also try to take advantage of you."

"A weak and powerless person without inner strength will never be able to come out of me."

"Many parents from the lower classes always give selflessly to their sons. They can devote themselves without limits. They can satisfy their sons with anything they want. They can give their sons everything. Whatever their sons do is right, and they can easily forgive them if they make mistakes."

"They said he was ignorant and that he was still young. Even if he drained the family's money and took away all their pensions, he would never complain."

"But as for my daughter, I can't give her anything. I have to give up everything. She has no share in anything. I am always fussy about it. I am always afraid that if I give my daughter a little more, she will suffer a loss. I always look down on my daughter and am not afraid of her hard work. I always say that no matter how good my daughter is, she is someone else's. I also tell my daughter to learn how to do housework and be obedient and sensible."

"After you get married, you should be a good servant in someone else's house. Otherwise, you may not be able to get married, or be rejected after you get married, which would be shameful."

"Yes, they ask for something in return for anything they give to their daughter, otherwise they will think they have lost out."

"It's so pitiful that the daughters were born into such a family. They have never been loved in their lives."

"You see, in many families, raising daughters is just to pay off debts. They always feel that raising daughters is a disadvantage, so when a daughter is born, they can't wait to use her to make money."

"It can bring them immediate rewards. Some families will even give their daughters away as soon as they see them being born. Even if they raise them, they always feel that they are at a disadvantage because they think that they have helped others raise their daughter-in-law for nothing, and then when the daughter grows up and gets married, she will no longer have any relationship with their family."

"A daughter who is married off is like water spilled."

"In fact, they raised their daughters because they thought they were paying off their debts. They never loved their daughters at all."

"So, many parents are always smiling and cheerful outside, but what about their children? They never have a good face at all."

"They always think that their children are their subordinates, their appendages, and therefore inferior and always below them. Therefore, they do not respect their children at all, and never take their own ideas seriously, because they do not care about their children's ideas at all."

"Even if I don't treat you well now, you still have to be filial to me when you grow up, otherwise you will be drowned by the spit of society. So they don't care what their children think, nor do they respect their feelings."

"They think they are the center of the universe, the head of the family, the best in the world, and whatever they do is right, and no one can deny them,"

"I can only feel sad for these arrogant people,"

"So, from this perspective, the birth of daughters from poor families is often a mistake," "Because their parents actually want a son, they never consider their daughters as their own, but always regard them as outsiders, as future daughters-in-law of other families. So they are reluctant to feed them or give them clothes, thinking that sooner or later they will have to get married."

"No matter how well you raise her, it's useless. Sooner or later, she will belong to someone else's family, and then she will have nothing to do with them. So they will feel very sorry for their efforts for their daughter, and they will be so petty and unwilling to give her anything."

"It's good enough to keep my daughter alive, and it's good enough that she's not given away. That's why there's an old saying that goes, 'a daughter who's married off is like spilled water.' After she gets married, she basically has nothing to do with her family anymore."

"So, many parents don't allow their daughters to go to school. They want them to work hard in factories to earn money before they get married, and then hand over all the money to their parents so that they can lose less. What's more, it's even worse now. Many daughters now have jobs."

"Even if you are raised cheaply and even if you get married, you still have to support your parents and your family."

"That's because they are too kind. They always save money and treat their families wholeheartedly. They can't bear to see them suffer."

"In this world, where is there a good in-law family?"

"People always treat others differently. If you are weak, they will be strong. If you are strong, they will be weak."

"How many chips you have in your hand does have some influence, but the chips cannot determine the other person's attitude towards you, nor are they the key to the success or failure of your marriage."

"Many girls come from wealthy families, their parents are well-educated, and they themselves are very outstanding, but they are still controlled by those lower-class families in their marriages."

"Only those who have a strong character, who dare to resist and turn the table over, can withstand the malice of others."

"Instead of hoping for good luck and meeting a good family, it is better to open your eyes and see the other person's original family clearly before marriage, then make yourself stronger, and boldly show your strength after marriage and confront the other person head-on. This way, you may gain the other person's respect."

"Even if you have a good family background and someone's backing you up, what good does it matter?"

"Your parents can protect you for a while, but they can't protect you forever."

"Besides, how many parents can protect their children? So, it's better to rely on yourself than on others."

"Some women are really stupid. They talk about their husbands and children all the time. They always put their husbands and children first, saying that marriage is for having a family and that divorce is not an option, and that it is also for giving their children a complete home."

"She has lived her whole life for others. Don't you think she is tired? Why don't you ever think about yourself?"

"Are you someone else's puppet? Why do you live for others? Can't you think about yourself?"

"You are yourself first. Why do you want to be someone else's shadow? You won't die without them. There is no need to think that others are so important. You should learn to think about yourself first, okay?"

"Life is only a few decades long. Why can't you be nicer to yourself? Don't you think so?"

"You are the most important person in this world. Be yourself and improve yourself."