Rebirth of King Zhou

Dingtian Novel House. dtxsj. Zi Xing saw Qi Ling girls with serious faces, and for some reason, he always found it funny.Ella Bookstore. 26book. If you want to treat this as a serious matter, you can't do it.

The Qiling girls are all "sharp-eyed".

The purple girl was the first to notice the strange expression on Zi Xing's face that seemed to be a smile but not a smile.

She immediately said to Zi Xing: "Brother Zi Xing, do you think I'm wrong? If you have any opinions, you can directly put them forward... If we are so 'modest', we won't be unacceptable..."

Saying so, his eyes were wide open, and he looked swollen with anger.

Zi Xing hurriedly corrected his attitude, and replied: "I have no opinion on you."

Seeing the dubious expressions of the girls, Zi Xing could only say seriously: "Actually, I have done quite a lot of research on the 'seven clauses'. For example, the fifth clause, even 'stealing' can also divorce one's wife, right? ?The "stealing" of wives and wives (not referring to stealing other people's property outside, but at home) is one of the "seven outs". On the one hand, it reflects that women do not have independent property rights; on the other hand, it also reflects the patriarchal family. ) control over women in order to safeguard the patriarchal, primarily the property interests of the matriarchal family."

"The "Book of Rites? Internal Rules" stipulates: 'Children and wives have no selfish goods, no selfish animals, and no selfish utensils.'—even gifts from the natal family (commonly known as 'dowry') must be given to the mother-in-law. As a daughter-in-law, it is even more forbidden to give If the property of the husband's family is "borrowed" or "given" to the natal family, otherwise, it constitutes "theft"-this is considered to be "eating inside and outside". Therefore, it is against the common sense to regard the crime of wife and wife stealing. " In Han Feizi? Shuo Lin, it tells that a woman in Wei State listened to her mother's teaching before she got married that marriage is unreliable, it is common for her husband to abandon her, and she should accumulate property by herself. After she arrived at her husband's house, she acted according to her mother's instructions and was discovered. The man divorced her. (It’s really a little human touch.) The family law of the big family of the descendants also stipulates that the wives and wives are not allowed to take the public property of the big family as the property of the small family... Before finishing work every day, check whether there is any Insufficient. Strictly prevent theft from being stolen and returned to small families.”

Brother Zixing showed such a trick and successfully diverted the girls' attention.Convincingly regard him as a "fellow man"

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After "brainstorming", the Qiling girls finally confirmed the "seven out clauses".The last two seem to be more applicable, and they can be used for a good "operation".

These two articles are "Article [-] out of seven - jealousy" and "Article [-] out of seven - talkative".

Jealousy of divorcing wives, in fact, is to punish those regular wives who are dissatisfied with their husbands for taking too many concubines and dare to express it in words and actions.

It is believed that jealousy is contrary to the virtue of submissiveness and virtuousness in "women's virtue", and its purpose is to maintain the interests of patriarchal families with more husbands and more children.

"Shuowen Jiezi" interprets "jealousy" as "a woman jealous of her husband". Correspondingly, there is also the word "檢" which means "a husband jealous of a woman" (though even this kind of thing can be made into two words).This shows that the women had an affair or committed adultery at that time.It is more likely to arouse the jealousy of the husband...

Later, people became more accustomed to seeing wives jealous of their husbands' concubines.

The white girl believes: "In ancient times, it was legal for men to take concubines. The main reason was not the 'lusty' exaggerated by literary works, but for the reproduction of offspring. Taking concubines is emotionally difficult for women, but in fact , Taking concubines reduces the phenomenon of women being divorced because of 'childlessness' (and indirectly plays the role of "stable marriage". It's really impermanent)."

Red Girl: "In today's society, monogamy makes men no longer able to take concubines, but "accidents" are not uncommon. In marriage and family, either party has enough reasons to be "jealous" because of the spouse's extramarital affairs In fact, in every marriage that is becoming more and more indifferent, both parties have unshirkable responsibilities. Whether you want to continue this marriage or not, you should reflect on your own responsibilities; blindly blaming the other party means putting your own happiness Pin it on the other party."

Zi Xing also actively participated in the discussion: "The relationship between husband and wife is just a legal diploma. After the passion of the newlyweds, there is not enough motivation for convenience to make the spouse happy. Therefore, a person who does not know self-reflection, even if he ends a relationship Marriage, starting another marriage, will not be a happy person. At the same time, don’t think that extramarital affairs are a colorful fashion, a status symbol, a self-recognition, and a kind of indifferent entertainment. A kind of psychological compensation. A person with a sense of happiness will not sacrifice his moral sense to try extramarital affairs. In this era when extramarital affairs are commonplace, the sense of responsibility for marriage has become an insurmountable moral gap..."

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After discussion and discussion, the opinions of Zi Xing and Qi Ling girls tended to be the same: take "jealousy" as an example, it hurts too much, and it can only be used as a "backup method" when "nothing can be done" at the end (abandoned The possibility of not using it is as high as 90.00% ([-]...)

The girls unanimously agreed that the seventh of the seven clauses, which is the last reason for divorcing a wife, is "talkative" and has the most room for manipulation.

Moreover, when dealing with such an issue, the Qi Ling girls feel more "reasonable" than their side, so the rebound from Ms. Jiang's side will be relatively weakened.

In the ancient "Women's Training", it is required that as a wife, one should be quiet and reticent.

In patriarchal families, it is taboo for wives and wives to talk too much, mainly because they are afraid that wives and wives from outside will alienate the interpersonal relationships in the family, especially the relationship between brothers, leading to family discord or even disintegration.

The explanation in "The Book of Rites of the Great Dai? Benming" is: "Speaking too much is the cause of divorce." I worry that my wife will talk too much and create conflicts among family members.

Although it is too much to divorce a wife because of "talkativeness", in fact, among all kinds of interpersonal relationships, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and sister-in-law are the most difficult to deal with. Mother-in-law, in people's eyes, is commonplace.When the mother-in-law, daughter-in-law and sister-in-law are arguing about right and wrong, no one is willing to reflect on their own mistakes... Family conflicts are getting deeper and deeper like this.result……

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Regarding the fact that the Qi Ling girls are so confident and unanimously determined that the "tongue" has the largest "manipulation space", Zi Xing expresses that he does not understand, greatly does not understand

He raised his doubts.

The girls got airy now, and clamored to explain brother Zi Xing's doubts.

They think that the reason why Zi Xing is confused and does not understand that "talking too much" can be the best reason to "divorce his wife" is because he has never experienced the horror of gossip women.

This kind of woman.It often represents "ignorance and ignorance", and it is a terrible thing to live with her under the same roof

Do not believe?

Well.The girls prepared a "case" from the personal experience of the most open-minded British married man to prove their point powerfully -

After China launched "Chang'e-[-]", the two had disputes over the authenticity of the photos sent back by "Chang'e".

<ans认为这种说法,是“法拉盛退d服务点”(女方爱登录的站)编造的。不应该相信。

The two stick to their own opinions, and neither can persuade the other.

He believed that Zhang Shanying hadn't been back to China for more than ten years. She was not very clear about China's affairs, and some opinions came from the withdrawal service point, which had no credibility at all.

The two often have disputes over this, which seriously affects the relationship between husband and wife.Especially the "Shenzhen Seven" incident made him feel that Zhang Shanying was unbelievable. (The Qi Ling girls also collectively expressed "unbelievable" When they first saw the title, the Qi Ling girls thought it was her husband who didn't believe it, and after a long time it was this woman who didn't believe it, who is it? Nationality", not to mention how much you need to protect the honor of the motherland, at least you can't be proud of destroying your "mother"?)

Wu Yuantian, a Chinese-American judge of the Queens High Court, felt sorry for this failed transnational marriage, and the reason for their divorce turned out to be China's "God Seven". This is also the most bizarre reason he has encountered since becoming a judge. Divorce case - In the end, the court agreed to adjudicate the two divorced. (Damn, stupid, stupid and ignorant woman, she should lose everything)

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I have to admit that such a "case" raised by Qi Ling girl is too "lethal"

Zi Xing was completely stunned, "scarred on the outside but tender on the inside".

After being overwhelmed, he now fully understands how terrifying an ignorant, stubborn and talkative wife is.Using such a reason to "divorce one's wife" is absolutely tenable

Zi Xing has been able to accept the girls' point of view in terms of thought - she is really a stubborn, ignorant and talkative woman, which shocked him deeply

Think about living under the same roof with such a woman, even if only for a day or two.It's all torture and torture.

Yes, you can not care about your wife's "political attitude", but you can't let her insult your IQ. Alas, has someone summed it up? You should never try to argue with a "dude" because She'll bring you down to her level, then beat you with her vast experience...

Sincerely

Just as Zi Xing and the Qi Ling girl were discussing the topic of "seven outs" with gusto, a voice sounded out of nowhere.It shocked them all, and then they were "silent like a chilling cicada" and fell silent.

Miss Jiang's voice was devoid of any emotion.It slowly sounded: "You are all so knowledgeable, you can even memorize the 'seven outs' divorce clause, it's amazing, then I would like to ask for your advice. Since you understand 'seven outs', the corresponding is the 'three nos' Go', that is, the three regulations that cannot divorce a wife, can you name it?"

Zi Xing and Qi Ling girls knew that this was broken, and they really annoyed Ms. Jiang, so she jumped out to "fight back" with such a good temper

How should this end?

bad really bad

There was a tinge of anger in Miss Jiang's voice, and finally showed emotional fluctuations: "Three major clauses that prohibit divorce, the first one-what you get but nothing to return. It means that the wife's family disappears, and the wife is divorced. , I am homeless... My natal family has already been exterminated, and I am left alone, alone and helpless... Of course, if you want to divorce your wife, you can completely ignore this."

"Article [-] of the Three Great Articles of Not Divorcing a Wife - Yu Geng Three Years of Mourning. It means that the wife has mourned for her parents-in-law for three years. Filial piety. Here it shows its authority in traditional morality. Zixin, Zixin, you After the sudden death of your father, Emperor B, you disappeared. Do you really not know or you don’t know—which woman took your place and held the funeral for the former emperor of Dashang for three years?"

"Article [-] of the Three Great Articles of Not Divorcing a Wife—Being poor and then rich. It means that the husband was poor and humble when he married his wife, but later became rich. In the case of 'Three Do's and Don'ts', the husband can't divorce his wife either... Zixin, Zixin, say something yourself: Compared to your modesty when we first met, are you now rich and honored?..."

Miss Jiang became serious, and the criticism she launched was quite forceful.

To be honest, compared with the "seven outs" clause, the "three don'ts" clause is a choice after weighing on the moral balance.

It's also very handy...

Seeing Miss Jiang, Zi Xing was really angry.He didn't want the misunderstanding to continue to deepen, and wanted to explain, but Miss Jiang couldn't listen to any explanation when she was angry.

After Ms. Jiang lost her temper, she hid in the deepest part of the "sea of ​​consciousness", and forbade Zi Xing to "harass" her.She wants to be alone and quiet.

Seeing Brother Zixing's downcast and listless appearance, the Qiling girls all felt guilty—it was all their fault.

On Miss Jiang's side, I can only slowly persuade her to change her mind.The girls decided to make brother Zixing happy first.You can't always be like this "to die or not to live"...

The orange girl took the lead, and said to Zi Xing mysteriously: "Brother Zi Xing, aren't you a "Three Kingdoms Master"? I'm going to tell you a few in-depth stories about the Three Kingdoms. Can you understand them?"

Zi Xing sat there in a daze, without any response.

橙女孩却不气馁,滔滔不绝的就说了起来:“三国那些不得不说的故事——1.曹操抓了关羽,对其很好;2.关羽带刘备老婆去曹营;3.曹操放了关羽,并让其带刘老婆一起走;4.赵云救阿斗时,曹操不让人放箭;5.刘备见了阿斗就想摔死他;6.魏军攻到成都刘禅开门投降……你能把这些事儿联系起来,解读出它们真正的内涵吗?”

Zi Xing: "..."

The red girl came to answer: "Cao Cao didn't kill Zhao Zilong because he loved talent and wanted to recruit Zhao Zilong. Liu Bei threw A Dou because he wanted to save A Dou. Zhao Zilong almost died, and he threw A Dou just for show, which means that Zhao Zilong is more important in Liu Bei's heart than his own son. important……"

The orange girl shook her head again and again: "If you make a mistake, you need connotation. If you are serious, you will lose."

And quoted the promotional words of "Killing a Life", reminding a sentence: "What you see may not be true"

The black girl gave an evil interpretation: "Guan Yu was instigated by Cao Cao and took his lord's wife to warm Cao Cao's bed. Then Guan Yu brought him back. So Liu Beixi became a father..."

The red girl gasped and said, "According to what you said, next, could it be that Cao Cao and Liu Bei both fell in love with Zhao Yun?...Oh my God, it takes two years to get it! Your IQ can raise pigs... "

But the black girl was not ashamed: "Why? Can't you? Cao Cao just started to fall in love with Guan Yu, and Guan Yu brought Liu Bei's wife to him in order to get rid of Cao Cao's entanglement; then Zhao Yun appeared, and Cao Cao fell in love with Zhao Yun again, so he put Guan Yu sent him away. Because Liu Bei also liked Zhao Yun, in order to prevent Liu Bei from robbing Zhao Yun with him, he asked Guan Yu to take Liu Bei's wife back and watch him. Cao Cao was reluctant to kill Zhao Yun when he was saving Adou, but Zhao Yun almost died because of Adou Oh, Liu Bei is distressed, and also to let Zhao Yun know how much he values ​​him, so Liu Bei wants to throw A Dou. In order to avenge Liu Bei's irresponsibility to the two of them, A Dou opened the door to welcome Cao Cao and ruined his nominal father Liu Bei's country..."

The purple girl admired: "The Three Kingdoms has been studied to such a level, it really breaks the "Hundred Schools Forum""

The black girl is modest: "Thank you for boasting... I am afraid that I will be assassinated? I know too much..."

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Brother Zixing still didn't respond.

The young girl told a new story with connotation: "One day, Meng De and his girlfriend were walking on the street and met an acquaintance. The buddy came up and said warmly: 'Meng De, hello'. The girlfriend turned around directly. I just walked away, yelling as I walked: 'I've been with you for so many years, I didn't expect you to be this kind of person'... Who can understand the connotation of this story?"

Black girl: "What's so difficult about this? Meng De, Cao Cao also hey there is a 'ji.you' on the street who suddenly yelled 'fuck you'... You know, can the girlfriend not get mad?"

The other girls were all convinced.

Brother Zixing still didn't respond.

Huang. Girl: "Brother Zi Xing doesn't like the story of the Three Kingdoms?" Simply, he said something very evil, evil, explosive and connotative: "Why is Yang Guo's right hand invincible after 16 years after Xiaolongnv jumped off the cliff?" What about? Hehe, hehehe...'" (This site.. Your support is my biggest motivation.) Qunshuyuan.qunyuan.(novel)