Director's growth history

At a time like this, what else can Fang Yuan do?He suddenly felt how small he was in this world. 【 】If I want to be an upright man, I still have to rely on my father-in-law Kong Zitian in the end; if I want to start a career independently and prove to the world that I can do it, in the end, I still have to be ridiculed by others as soft food.Fang Yuan tried to fight, but quickly dismissed the idea. When it comes to the fundamentals, Fang Yuan is unwilling to give up what he has already obtained, let alone lose this good upward momentum. After all, one day in the future, he can only have his own sky. There will be a stage to display your talents, and there is no sky, so how can you spread your wings and soar?

Fangyuan thanked respectfully: "Dad, thank you." Confucius said with a serious expression, "Nothing else, I just hope that you and Xiaohua can live happily ever after." Fangyuan replied: "Dad, please rest assured, I will definitely let Xiaohua Live a happier life! In my career, I will work hard to make Xiaohua proud of me; in life, I will love my family and make Xiaohua happy every day." Perhaps Fangyuan has been with Confucius Tian for a long time , He was able to analyze Confucius Tian's thoughts clearly, and when he said these few words, he blurted them out without the slightest hesitation.

Confucius nodded with satisfaction: "Okay, this is exactly what I expected. At this recent stage, you will be in the center of right and wrong, and the best way is to stay still and respond to all changes with the same. For the leadership to give Accept the honor frankly, without refusing. When the leader decides to give you the honor, it has been carefully considered and considered, thinking that giving you the honor can motivate you and everyone, and it is also his own political needs. If If you want to resign, it will refute the leader's face. The leader may think that you don't take the honor he bestowed on you into your eyes and take it seriously, which will affect the influence's view of you. At this time, what you have to do is, It is to sincerely thank the leaders for their love, and express their determination to support the leaders in the future and how to continue to strive for greater contributions.”

Fang Yuan nodded.Such guidance is really needed. According to Kong Zitian's analysis, he is about to win many honors and become the center of the whirlpool. He really doesn't know what to do.

Confucius Tian said: "But when discussing achievements, you must show a modest and prudent attitude. How to be modest? Grasp one thing, the achievements belong to the leader, and the achievements belong to everyone. Don't mention your own efforts. The leaders you can think of , you must mention it, and you can think of colleagues who have helped, even if they just handed you a glass of water, you must also mention it. Different places and different people, such as when communicating with the director and secretary of the Education Bureau, the credit If you belong to the director, secretary, deputy director in charge, director of the teaching and research section, and principal, you can reach this level. If you mention that a certain colleague ordered you a meal at noon at this time, it is obviously too low and inappropriate. But if it is in If you communicate in the school, you can focus on this level of the school, what the principal does, what the vice-principal does, and what other people do, and give credit to everyone.”

Fangyuan can only listen.This is simply teaching by hand!

Confucius Tian continued: "Actually, I know in my heart that what really determines your good results in the national competition is mainly your personal efforts and the guidance of several business leaders in the teaching and research section. The role of other people is not very obvious. It’s useless for them to be there to say whether you can win the national first prize, but why do you say that?”

Fang Yuan's eyes widened, afraid of missing a word.

"This is the characteristic of the Chinese people. You have met the psychological needs of the people around you by saying this, because all those who are enthusiastic about your first prize hope to benefit from your first prize. The first prize has a lot to do with their support and help. Then you just follow their psychological thoughts, and they will feel comfortable and their inner needs will be met. At the same time, I mentioned earlier If a tree is as beautiful as a forest, the wind will destroy it. If you attribute the credit to other people, the other people involved will stand by your side. If someone has criticisms about this, he will defend you and protect you. So don’t take it for granted that the credit is yours. In fact, except for a few people in the teaching and research section, except for the full support of the principal, everyone else is just a decoration. If this is the case, then you are in danger, because most of the other people you owe credit to are Leaders, and those who are jealous of you are mostly colleagues, peers or people at the department level, sub-department level or vice-principal level. If the leader does not stand by you because you are greedy for merit, then those If someone who is jealous of you speaks bad things or makes a small rumor, then you will be completely finished, and you will never be able to turn over again."

Fangyuan listened, sweating again.

"So, the second strategy I'm talking about is being humble and giving everyone the credit, remember?"

Fang Yuan nodded: "Dad, I remember everything."

Confucius Tian said: "The words I just said are just for you. You must not say such things outside. If you tell them, you will become a real fool, and people will think you are a conspiracy. A person who loses his integrity is really difficult to get along in society."

Fang Yuan said, "Dad, don't worry, I won't tell anyone."

Confucius Tian said: "The third principle is not to give anyone any excuses. I have analyzed it. You should pay special attention to such people in the future: the vice-principal level cadres of each school, especially the vice-principal level of your school, and The 10 people you promoted to assistant principal together, the young section chiefs of the Education Bureau and those deputy directors and section staff, they are the people who are most jealous of you! Because your upcoming promotion will definitely affect these people If you are promoted, you will get the love of the secretary and the director, and naturally these people will get less attention. If someone wants to make trouble secretly, if nothing else happens, it will be the group of people I mentioned just now."

Fang Yuan felt the sweat dripping from his back: Oh my god, isn't he the target of public criticism?

Confucius Tian said: "So, you must be vigilant at all times, and you must not give any excuses to those who want to overthrow you and are jealous of you. You must learn to be a man with your tail between your legs on weekdays, and you can do nothing wrong by keeping a low profile. This will greatly hurt the self-esteem of some people. When you get along with these people, you should be neither humble nor overbearing, be friendly and kind, don’t put on airs, try your best to win their favor, and become friends with some of them. Win part of the support and minimize the opposition. You have to work hard to do your job well and continue to complete the tasks assigned by the leaders as always. Also, you can’t make mistakes in the economy, which I believe you will definitely not have; Pay special attention when getting in touch with female teachers. If you get too close to any female teacher, you will become a target for some people who want to make trouble! Of course, if you really have a problem with this, it is not just because of jealousy The people who are here will take the opportunity to add insult to injury, even the old man, I can't spare you, let alone help you!"

Fangyuan was sweating profusely, and he immediately thought of the one-night stand with Dong Mei in Yanping, and the anxiety in his heart slowly rose: he must find a way to settle this matter, and he must not ruin his future because of the Yanping incident!