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February 2007, 2 is the traditional Chinese New Year's Eve. 【@】This day is a day to bid farewell to the old and welcome the new. This day is a day for the reunion of thousands of families. This day is also the most solemn festival in the whole of China, including Japan, Korea, Vietnam and the Chinese community.According to the traditional Chinese calendar, after 17 o'clock in the evening, it is a new year.From four o'clock in the afternoon, the sound of firecrackers has been ringing in the streets and alleys of Dongzhou one after another, and the taste of the New Year has become more and more intense.

Yao Changqing drove his wife Miao Qianqian and son Yao Xuan to Zuixianlou in front of 68 Middle School, and then drove to his father's house to pick up his parents.When Yao Changqing helped his parents upstairs and came to the largest private room on the second floor, all the people who were reunited this time, except Yao Changqing's sister, brother-in-law and niece, were all there.Yao Changqing's younger sister agreed to finish dinner at her mother-in-law's house and try to come over around 7 o'clock.Yao Changqing once tried to communicate with her sister whether she could come directly to celebrate the New Year. She said that she had talked to her husband about it, but he disagreed, but agreed to come back later.Yao Changqing can't force it. According to the Chinese tradition, New Year's Eve is celebrated at her in-law's house, especially for people who are nearly 40 years old like my sister, the influence of traditional customs is still relatively large.

When Yao Changqing helped his parents into the private room, the whole family stood up, including father-in-law and mother-in-law.The father-in-law said: "Father-in-law, mother-in-law, come and sit down quickly." The elder uncle came over from his seat and shook hands with Yao Changqing enthusiastically, and then the second uncle also came over to greet Yao Changqing.Yao Changqing noticed a large round table that can accommodate 20 people without crowding. There are only six seats vacant, including the main seat and the two seats to the right of the main seat.Needless to say, the two seats to the right of the main seat are for my parents.There are three more seats, on the right side of Miao Qianqian and Yao Xuan on the right side of the deputy, and on the left side of the father-in-law and mother-in-law, which are obviously reserved for his sister, brother-in-law and niece.The position where the uncle stands up is the position of the assistant.Hey, that's a big change!

Yao Changqing remembered that during the Spring Festival last year, Yao Changqing went back to her husband's house in the third year of junior high school, and Yao Changqing went to her husband's family again in the fourth year of junior high school, because the uncle said that the whole family must get together.At that time, the terrific elder brother sat in the main seat, while the second uncle sat in the second seat. Yao Changqing just sat with his wife Miao Qianqian and his son Yao Xuan, which was nothing special at all. s position.

Yao Changqing said: "Brother, you can take the chair." The uncle said: "Changqing, you take the chair, and I will be your assistant." Yao Changqing said: "Brother is still the chair. The second brother can take the assistant, and I can sit next to Qianqian." The uncle said: "How can this be possible? How can you say that you are also the biggest leader of our family! The principal of the 68 Middle School, sitting on the side, This is not very good!" Yao Changqing said: "What's wrong with this. This is at home, not in public places. As a family, you don't have to be so particular about it?" The uncle said: "Changqing, you That's not right. Today, the old people from both sides gather together, which is a reunion of two families. As for me, as the eldest brother, I can only represent my family. Only you, as the eldest son of your family, can represent your family. As the son-in-law of our family, he represents our family, so it is most suitable for you to sit there." Father-in-law said: "Changqing, come and sit. This is also the result of discussion among the whole family. Principal, it is most appropriate to sit here."

Yao Changqing was no longer polite at this time, and said: "Brother, second brother, then I will do what I can." But in my heart, I still think that it is most appropriate for me to sit in the main seat.Among other things, I, Yao Changqing, will pay for the money tonight. I am afraid that all the New Year's goods for this year's Chinese New Year will be eaten by Yao Changqing.The whole family is honored by me, Yao Changqing. If I, Yao Changqing, don't take the lead, who will take the lead?But such words cannot be said, and the necessary politeness is still required.

Yao Changqing sat in the main seat, with a modest smile on his face, scanning the audience.Yao Changqing suddenly realized that sitting in this position, his psychological feeling was different.Yao Changqing even found the feeling of a feudal patriarch.When everyone in the audience was looking at him, Yao Changqing felt like he was at home.Looking at his wife Miao Qianqian and son Yao Xuan, their eyes were full of excitement, which also included worship.Husband (father) has become famous, and you have also vented your anger.Hey, this feels really good.

Looking at the brother-in-law sitting in the assistant seat, thinking of being "bullied" by this brother-in-law in the past 16 years of marriage with Miao Qianqian, I feel really happy now.As the saying goes, ten years in Hedong and ten years in Hexi, from being a teacher to being a dean to being a vice principal, this uncle didn't give him a lot of good looks along the way.The father-in-law seemed to be instigated by his brother-in-law, and looked down on him in some respects, which made Yao Changqing usually resolute not to go to his father-in-law's house, and Miao Qianqian and Yao Xuan came back alone, saying that he was busy with work.Only the mother-in-law treats her son-in-law pretty well. Every time she goes home, she will go to the kitchen to cook a few more dishes. Although her cooking level is really average, but with this heart, Yao Changqing thinks about the benefits of her mother-in-law .

Yao Changqing leaned to the left, and asked his father-in-law: "Dad, can we start?" The father-in-law's attitude became much more kind: "If you say start, let's start." Yao Changqing leaned to the right again: "Dad Can we start?" Father Yao said, "Okay, your sister can't come for the time being, so let's not wait for her, let's start."

Yao Changqing grinned and smiled at the audience: "Dad, Mom, eldest brother and sister-in-law, second brother and second sister-in-law, wife, children! Now is the time for our family to reunite. Firecrackers and fireworks are going off outside. Our place is brightly lit. Let's celebrate the festival together with laughter and laughter. First of all, I will take the first glass of wine and wish everyone in our family to be healthy, safe and happy." The uncle said: "Good health, good safety, good happiness "Yao Changqing stood up and was about to leave his seat. His father-in-law said: "Changqing, you can just touch the table." Come on, just turn on the electricity.” Amidst the sound of the bottom of the cup banging against the table, everyone either drank the whole first glass of wine, or took a sip.

Yao Changqing put down his wine glass and said loudly: "Come on, let's eat vegetables, let's eat vegetables." While talking, he picked up a few sea-caught shrimps for his father-in-law, mother-in-law, and parents, and put them in front of the old people.The mother-in-law said: "Changqing, you can eat by yourself, we will take it by ourselves." Yao Changqing said: "Mom, you eat more, you eat more." The mother-in-law had a happy smile on her face: "Okay, okay, okay."

The children let go regardless of the three sevens and twenty ones, chopsticks and spoons, flying up and down, and start with their favorite dishes.Of these three children, the eldest uncle's child is already in the third year of high school, the second uncle's child is in the third year of junior high school, and Yao Xuan is in the second year of junior high school. They are all teenagers, but obviously they just want to eat delicious food at this time , and there are no etiquette and rules.Yao Changqing felt that it would be better if he was his own son. Maybe because of Miao Qianqian's advice from time to time, Yao Xuan even scooped up two spoonfuls of delicious, fat and white fish with a serving spoon for his grandfather and grandmother who were sitting relatively close together.The mother-in-law couldn't help but praise Yao Xuan for being sensible and polite, which made Yao Xuan happily respond with a smile: "Grandma, this is what I should do."

My own tutor is good. After all, I and Miao Qianqian are both people who graduated from the original college and then all went on to further study and obtained a bachelor's degree. Education is different, and the tutoring for children is also completely different.

Seeing that everyone had eaten a lot of food, Yao Changqing said: "Now, I'm here to toast the second glass of wine. This glass of wine is also a wish wine. I wish our big family will always be reunited, harmonious and happy together. If you have any difficulties, please help, okay?" The uncle said, "Okay! If a big family can be like this, it is contributing to the construction of a harmonious society."

Yao Changqing despised the elder brother in his heart: You know nothing about a harmonious society!Over the years, if your family has followed your ideas to build a harmonious family, then this family will not be harmonious in the future.I want to have the final say on everything, I want to take advantage of any kind of petty gain, and when I really encounter something that needs to be paid for, I want to be a coward.Tonight's New Year's Eve banquet was only 1888 yuan, so I was too scared to show my head. Is this still a man?

The mother-in-law said: "Yes, this year we are cheap and have been blessed with evergreen. The whole family eats so many New Year's goods brought back by Qianqian." The uncle was obviously dissatisfied with his mother's words, and interjected: "I and Didn’t the second son also go home to get the New Year’s goods?” The father-in-law said: “I took some, but I took away the New Year’s goods from Changqing.” Obviously, the father-in-law was slightly dissatisfied.It's like exposing the uncle's old background, and the uncle cast his eyes on Yao Changqing, for fear of being looked down upon by him.He also defended and said: "I'm not afraid that you and Mom won't be able to finish eating, and if it breaks, it will be wasted. What a pity!"

Yao Changqing said: "It's all from my own family. It's good for anyone who eats it! Come on, let's drink this glass of wine for the sake of family harmony and happiness. Young people, if you feel like drinking some Alcohol, this year, my uncle will ask you for leave, so you can drink more, as long as you don’t get drunk.” Yao Xuan said, “Can I drink more?” Yao Changqing said, “Yes, you will be 16 years old after the Chinese New Year , You can also exercise your drinking capacity." Miao Qianqian said: "What are you talking about?" Yao Changqing said: "It's Chinese New Year, everyone is happy, just drink a little."

"㖿!" The three children cheered and immediately drank the glass of wine they picked up.They are all grandchildren, which is very rare in the Miao family!