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Outside the window, the sound of firecrackers bid farewell to the old year; inside the room, family affection is strong and heart-warming. [-] In Mama Kong's heart, the happiest moment started on the night of Valentine's Day two days ago; now, this feeling of happiness has continued, since Confucius Tian served as the vice president of the university, especially the deputy director of the Municipal People's Congress All the grievances and bitterness in my heart have disappeared without a trace.As a woman, what I desire most is not career success, but family happiness; as a wife, what I desire most is for a man to think about himself and his family; as a mother, I hope that my daughter and son-in-law will love each other harmoniously, Don't argue.And in the past few days, in my own home, it seems to have all come true.Mother Kong really hoped that this family would always be as warm as it is now, no matter how big an official Kong Zitian is or how much Fangyuan develops in the future, it will always be like this.

After Kong Zitian paid homage to the whole family, Kong's mother, who always hid behind Kong Zitian and never stole the limelight, said, "Old Kong, Xiao Fang, Xiao Hua, I want to toast a glass of wine too." Kong Zitian was a little surprised, But I am also very relieved: "Your mother should toast carefully." Fang Yuan said, "Yes, Dad." How like the Confucius field more than 20 years ago!No, there are still some differences. Fang Yuan seems to be more mature than Kong Zitian, who is in his 20s, and has more... charm that attracts women's admiration.Mama Kong said: "I am a woman. I don't have high requirements for life. I just hope that my family will be happy. These days, the family is reunited, harmonious and beautiful. I am really happy. I toast everyone a glass of wine, just hope In the days to come, our family will always be reunited, harmonious and beautiful as it is now." Fang Yuan said, "I agree." Confucius Tian said, "Okay! This requires all of us to work together." Kong Shuanghua Said: "What my mother said is what I think in my heart."

Happiness is indeed something that many people dream of.Many people have different understandings of happiness, and of course there are many people who have simple and ordinary ideas like Mama Kong.Everyone drank the wine and looked back and forth at everyone in the room.Confucius Tian was very emotional: "I have been at home for the past two days, and I have not gone anywhere. In fact, I am also reflecting: I am drinking and drinking outside every day, and greet each other with a smile. Do I really feel happy? How much true love is in it? How much hypocrisy is there? I compared my home with the outside, and I really feel: home is the most reassuring, comfortable, and reassuring. In the future, I still have to strive for more time to stay in At home, try to reduce socializing outside as much as possible." Mother Kong said: "Is this true?" Confucius Tian said: "Of course it is true." Mother Kong said: "Then I will toast you alone, for what you just said This sentence can be regarded as a promise." Confucius Tian said: "Okay, I will have a drink with you."

Fang Yuan said: "I want to toast too. The wine I toast is all thanks wine. I want to toast a glass of wine to father, mother, and Shuanghua respectively." Confucius Tian said: "Okay, you can toast." Fang Yuan said: "The first A glass of wine, thank you Dad. In the past 2006, I have made some achievements and progress in all aspects of my work. I think Dad has helped me a lot. Dad is like my guide The light not only illuminates the direction of my efforts, but also gives me a lot of warmth and hope. Every time I encounter difficulties, it is my father who steps forward and uses your experience, experience, and influence to help me I overcome difficulties and face challenges. Therefore, I feel that my father is not only my father, but also my enlightenment. I think that there is still a long way to go in life in the future, and I will definitely get more guidance and help from my father in many aspects .Thank you Dad, my progress contains your hard work and sweat, thank you."

Confucius Tian happily clinked glasses with Fang Yuan: "The master leads the door, and the practice is up to the individual. Some people don't enlighten, even if there is a famous teacher to point out, it is a waste of effort. Xiao Fang, you are a child with aura. It can be said that you can understand a little bit. Just break it. I am very pleased to have a son-in-law like you, very pleased!" Fang Yuan said, "If there is anything wrong with it, please criticize and help me more." Confucius Tian said: "Yes. I don't want to talk about others. I still want to talk about your problems." Fang Yuan said, "Thank you, Dad."

After drinking this beer, Fang Yuan added a topic: "Dad, what do you think of this beer?" Confucius said, "It tastes a little different from the usual beer. What kind of wine are we drinking today?" Fang Yuan said: " This is the German Erdinger wheat beer that Mr. Miao of Jingu gave us last time!" Kong Zitian said: "Oh?" As he said, he picked up the bottle curiously and looked, oh, sure enough.Confucius Tian said: "This time you owe Mr. Miao a lot of favors. I will find an opportunity to pay back later. We can't owe others too much, otherwise we will easily make mistakes. Mistakes always start from small to big. At the beginning, if you don’t pay attention to small mistakes, you will be easily paralyzed. When you make a big mistake, it will be too late to regret.” Fang Yuan said, “Dad, you taught me the right thing.” Confucius Tian said, “Dongzhou University will have many When the time comes, there will be some official activities in the teaching and scientific research that I am in charge of, so I will arrange them in Jingu." Fang Yuan said, "Thank you, Dad." Confucius Tian said, "One family does not talk about two things."

Fangyuan filled himself a glass.Seeing that there was still a lot in Mama Kong's glass, she got up and poured wine for Mama Kong: "Mom, I want to respect you for this second glass of wine. How much do you think is suitable?" Mama Kong said: "Fill it up. "The eyes looking at Fangyuan are full of love and affection.The mother-in-law loves her son-in-law, this old Chinese saying is true.What Fangyuan said on Valentine’s Day really made Mama Kong not only discover the value of her life, but more importantly, her dignity and self-confidence.Mao said: There is no distinction between high and low among people, only the division of labor.this is correct.In the family, my own division of labor is raising daughters and taking care of the family, and my contribution to the family is no less than that of Confucius Tian, ​​and even greater than that of Confucius Tian in some respects.

After pouring the wine, Fangyuan picked up the glass and said to Kong's mother, "Mom, Shuanghua and I agree that you are a kind and good mother. Since I saw you for the first time last spring and summer, I have felt Your kindness, I thought at the time, whoever can be your son-in-law, that would be really happy! In the end, I really became your son-in-law, and I really feel very happy." Kong's mother suddenly smiled: "I How can it be as good as you said?" Fang Yuan said: "It's well deserved. Before I got married, it was just some preliminary appearances; after I got married, I felt more deeply. Dad is now an important leader of Dongzhou City and Dongzhou University. , I am very busy at work every day; my career has also started, and I am busy every day; Shuanghua first has to review for the postgraduate entrance examination, and then she is pregnant. As a result, the burden of our family falls on your shoulders, Mom. At home You eat, drink, sleep, and sleep. You are busy with the Lord's work alone, and we all intervene very little. You are a good mother, and a very, very hardworking mother. Toast you this glass of wine to express my son-in-law's respect for you and grateful."

What Fangyuan said this time is completely different from what he said on Valentine's Day night!But from another perspective, it summarizes the importance of Kong's mother in the family.The heart of Kong’s mother was wrapped in happiness and touch, and the son-in-law’s intimate words made the old lady burst into tears again: "Thank you Xiaofang, thank you Xiaofang." She became a little incoherent again.

Confucius Tian said: "My wife, what Xiao Fang said is right and good, but you can't cry during the Chinese New Year! I also respect you for this glass of wine, and thank you for your hard work for our family." Kong Shuanghua said : "Mom, I respect you too. Seeing that you have been busy all afternoon, think about how you are like this every day throughout the year. Mom, I salute you."

With tears in her eyes, Mama Kong drank the entire glass of Erdinger beer from Germany. Perhaps she was in a hurry and coughed several times.Kong’s mother said: “Actually, what Fangyuan said is what I should do. As a wife, shouldn’t I take care of the family when my husband is busy? As a mother, shouldn’t I take care of the family when my children are busy? Should we do more things and lessen the child's energy? In fact, people are like this. Although they should do it, I am afraid that everyone will think it should be done, so you should do it. What Xiao Fang said today, he said again In my heart, it’s hard not to get excited.”

Confucius Tian also looked at Fang Yuan with admiration, and even felt a little uncomfortable in his heart.As expected, this son-in-law once again grasped the key point and once again stood on a certain high point. Although his tone was humble and humble, his realm seemed to be higher than the toast speech just now.Fortunately, he is his son-in-law. If he is an outsider, he must be careful!

Kong Shuanghua said: "Mom, I think now, whether it's Dad, Fangyuan, or me, they all miss you very, very much in their hearts, and are very grateful for your contribution to the family. I am also a wife. Immediately I want to be the mother of my child, and in many ways, I will learn from you and follow you. Mom, I also offer you a toast."

Fangyuan pours mineral water for Kong Shuanghua and Edinger for Mama Kong.For Kong Shuanghua interrupting his toast, Fang Yuan didn't mind at all, and was even very happy.The wife should learn from Mama Kong, okay!No one wants to guard a tigress every day, nor does he want to live with an unreasonable daughter-in-law every day!

Seeing Mama Kong and Kong Shuanghua clinking cups together, and seeing the excited expressions of the two women, one old and one young, Fangyuan felt: his wife Kong Shuanghua is really changing, and mother and daughter are connected. Inherited and carried forward by Kong Shuanghua, such a wife is actually a very ideal wife, and other women are not enough to move my heart.Men have ulterior motives, either because they are tempted or forced by their wives.If you are tempted, you should not be forgiven; if you are forced, sometimes you can find an excuse for yourself: it is your unvirtuousness that made me find another woman.Fangyuan asked himself: Which one do I belong to?