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As soon as Fang Yuan turned on the phone, the text messages flooded into his phone. 【|】Fang Yuan didn't have time to read this text message for the time being. He said to Kong Shuanghua: "Shuanghua, let's say New Year greetings to my parents together." Kong Shuanghua said: "Okay."

The two came to the bedroom, and Fang Yuan dialed the phone number of his hometown.It was Fang Yuan's father who answered the phone: "Hey, who is it?" Fang Yuan said, "Dad, Happy Chinese New Year. I am Fang Yuan." Fang's father said, "It's my son! Son, your mother misses you so much. Yesterday I still wiped my tears when I was having dinner at night." Fang Yuan said, "Dad, I actually miss you and Mom very much. Please take good care of your health!" Father Fang said, "Son, there is no such thing in our hometown. According to the rules, the son and daughter-in-law are celebrating the New Year at the father-in-law’s house. This year’s Chinese New Year, I have lost face. People in the village asked me when my son and daughter-in-law will come back. Fang Yuan said: "Dad, isn't this year a special situation? Your daughter-in-law is pregnant, and if she catches a cold in the Northeast, it will be really troublesome. I have told you this truth several times." Fang's father seemed I still don't understand: "Then our women in the Northeast are not pregnant? Don't they spend the winter in the same way? That's called coquettish! Your wife is a girl from a senior official's family, she is too coquettish."

Fortunately, the voice of the microphone was not loud, otherwise Fang Yuan would be really worried that his father would speak indiscriminately and cause unnecessary disputes.It seems that next year, no matter what, I will try to go home for the Spring Festival. Alas, at that time, the child was only four or five months old, and he traveled a long way back to Tonghua, Jilin for the New Year. Needless to say, Kong Shuanghua disagreed. It's hard to get through!It has nothing to do with being squeamish or not.

But in this case, Fang Yuan can't say it now, it will only cause disputes or even quarrels with his father.Moreover, for those who celebrate the New Year, arguing with their father will spoil the mood of the whole family and the joyous atmosphere of the New Year.

Fangyuan said: "Dad, Shuanghua and I will definitely find time to go home and visit you and mom. Now, I want to wish mom a new year." Fangyuan heard his father's voice in the microphone: "Old woman, I'll call you, My son wants to talk to you." Fang Yuan burst into tears after hearing her mother's voice.There is always a connection between mother and child. In this regard, it seems that the relationship between father and child is much inferior.Fang Yuan said: "Mom, Happy Chinese New Year." Fang's mother said: "Yuan Yuan, my good son." On the other side of the phone, there was also a bit of crying.

At this time, Fangyuan's mobile phone rang, and Kong Shuanghua picked it up, and the phone showed that it was Letian who opened the phone.Fangyuan said, "Mom, did you receive the money Shuanghua and I sent you?" Kong Shuanghua gestured to Fangyuan with his mobile phone, and Fangyuan waved his hand quickly.At this time, Fang Yuan didn't want to talk to anyone except her mother.Kong Shuanghua disconnected the phone knowingly.Fangyuan said: "Mom, take good care of yourself at home. Both Shuanghua and I are fine. Please don't worry, mom. In a few days, I will send back photos of me, Shuanghua and Shuanghua's mother. You can see See what a good person my mother-in-law is, and see how Shuanghua's belly is getting a little bit better now." Fang's mother said, "Well, I miss you all the time, and I miss you all the time. Yuanyuan, have a great New Year's Eve Are you alright?" Fang Yuan said, "Mom, it's alright!" Fang Yuan explained to Mother Fang in detail how she spent New Year's Eve last night.Fang Yuan knew that at this time, although long-distance calls were very expensive, mother wanted to know the details of her son most.

Sure enough, when Fang's mother heard what her son said, her crying stopped: "Yuanyuan, you are in your husband's family, you should respect your father-in-law and mother-in-law, and have a good time with your daughter-in-law. Children of high-ranking officials are sometimes unavoidably squeamish. Just let her be more. It’s best for the family to live in harmony.” Fang Yuan said, “Mom, I understand. You need to take care of your health. In another 8 months, your grandson will be born. .Didn’t you expect a grandson for a long time? This time it’s true.” Mother Fang said: “Well, I’ve been expecting a grandson for a long time. Yuanyuan, is your wife pregnant this time with a boy or a girl? Fangyuan said: "Mom, I still have to go to the hospital! Up to now, Shuanghua has followed my mother-in-law to the hospital once to make sure. The hospital said that usually after 15 weeks, the child will be checked and checked if there is no problem, and then re-established." Card." Fang's mother asked, "What is Jianka?" Fang Yuan said, "When a child is born, there must be a birth certificate. Only with this certificate can the child be born. "Fang's mother asked with concern: "Then at 15 weeks, you must test whether it is a boy or a girl. Your father and I are looking forward to our grandson." Fang Yuan said: "Mom, what is the age now, boys and girls It's all the same. Besides, B-ultrasound is not allowed to test boys and girls now, and you know it!" Fang's mother said, "Your father-in-law is such a high-ranking official, so you can just find someone to check it? God bless, it must be done." Pregnant with a grandson!"

Facing her mother's patriarchal thinking, Fang Yuan could only smile wryly.However, it's no wonder that Fang Yuan is the only male in the next generation of the Fang family. If Fang Yuan had another daughter, according to the traditional Chinese family values, the incense would be broken.In rural areas, there is still a considerable market for such ideas and concepts, which is why the ratio of newborn babies to males and females in provinces such as Hainan and Guangdong has reached 130:100 or even higher. In Xinjiang, there are countless Families who escaped family planning continued to have children in this sparsely populated area until a boy was born.And private hospitals and clinics can do anything for money. They first use B-ultrasound to identify men and women, and if they are girls, they will be directly aborted. This has also contributed to the imbalance in the ratio of men and women in China.Some domestic media exclaimed: Calculated according to the current population-to-birth ratio, by 2020, China may have 3000 million bachelors, which will seriously affect China's social stability.

But what's the use of talking to my mother in such a form and in such a way?People in their 60s have deeply ingrained ideas, so it doesn't mean that they can be changed just by changing them.At the beginning, in the 80s, China had begun to implement family planning. Fangyuan's parents insisted on having another child because the local government was not strict enough. In fact, Fangyuan had an extra child.According to Fang's father, if Fang Yuan's mother gave birth to a girl, she would have a fourth child until she gave birth to a boy.

Fang Yuan said: "Mom, what age is it now? My thoughts are different from yours and father's. It is the same to have boys and girls. I will love children the same and raise them up." Fang's mother said: "Raising children can prevent old age, but those who can't raise daughters are married to others and can't manage their own family. After a few years, your father and I will be in poor health, so we must come to you. Your two older sisters can't manage Me and your dad."

Fangyuan has considered this issue.When Fang Yuan feels that her wings are hardened, she will definitely take over the old man; but now, within a few years, Fang Yuan does not have the confidence to be completely independent.Now that I have left the Kong family, I really have nothing, no money, no house, the vice-principal is probably in prison, and if I want to be promoted to the principal in ten or eight years, that is Huang Liang Yimeng. It is possible to realize it, unless the country's selection and appointment system produces relatively large changes.Looking at it now, except for the cadres of the Organization Department and the Communist Youth League system who are quite young and promoted quickly, other systems, with so few positions above, cannot all dismiss the 40-year-old section chiefs of the major bureaus in Dongzhou. Change to a younger one.The same goes for education. There are a group of section chiefs in their 40s, and there are many vice principals in their 40s. Their qualifications should make them principals. Does it mean that I can become a principal at a young age?Fang Yuan was really embarrassed about her mother wanting to join her, but she couldn't refuse.Fang Yuan said: "Mom, don't worry, when the conditions here are better in the future, your elders can come anytime." Fang's mother said: "I, I will come this autumn when the crops are harvested."

"Ah?" Fang Yuan was taken aback.

Fang's mother didn't seem to notice her son's astonishment, and continued: "I figured that around October this year, your wife will have a baby. I discussed it with your father. Anyway, there is nothing wrong in my hometown. By next May Before the festival, the mountains have not melted snow, and the land cannot be cultivated. During this time, your father and I will go to your place, and your father and I will show you the child."

"Huh?" Fang Yuan felt that the sky was about to collapse.Parents coming over?Can this father-in-law and mother-in-law accept it?Can Kong Shuanghua accept it?At this time, Fang Yuan could only wait for a change, and replied to his mother with a vague sentence: "Mom, we will talk about it when the time comes."

Fang Yuan hung up the phone.Kong Shuanghua said: "Husband, I haven't talked to my parents-in-law and paid New Year's greetings yet!" Fang Yuan said: "I have already paid my respects on your behalf. If you want to talk to my parents, I will call back."

Kong Shuanghua didn't want to say anything to Fang Yuan's parents.To be honest, Kong Shuanghua has very little impression of her father-in-law and her mother-in-law, and she only went back on the National Day last year, so she has no feelings at all.Now that she is married to Fang Yuan, although she loves Fang Yuan very much, she still can't find anything about Fang Yuan's parents. It seems that the two old people have nothing to do with her.It goes without saying that Fangyuan said it now, it is exactly what Kong Shuanghua wanted.Kong Shuanghua said: "Okay, let's not talk about it."

Fang Yuan looked at Kong Shuanghua, feeling embarrassed.Of course, I can't tell Kong Shuanghua what my mother said, but at the end of September and the beginning of October 2007, Kong Shuanghua will give birth. What if my parents really want to come?This is really a tricky problem!