Director's growth history

Although Kong Shuanghua didn't plan to celebrate the New Year with his parents-in-law, seeing Fangyuan's frown just now seemed to be related to whether he was pregnant with a boy or a girl, Kong Shuanghua was naturally a little concerned. 【 】Kong Shuanghua asked: "Husband, what did mom tell you just now? Seeing that you are frowning tightly and seem very unhappy, does it have something to do with our baby?" Fangyuan said: "Parents still hope that we They miss us so much to be able to go back to our hometown.” Kong Shuanghua said, “How can I go back to my hometown now?” Fang Yuan said, “Mom said, I hope we can go back to my hometown in Northeast China for the New Year next year.” Kong Shuanghua immediately became anxious : "How can this work? Next year's Chinese New Year, our child is only 4 months old, how can we take such a long train or plane? Besides, I definitely can't handle the child's eating, drinking and peeing alone. Without my mother to help me, I don't even know what to do."

This is indeed a big problem!Fang Yuan also deeply agrees.Fang Yuan pursed her lips tightly and let out a long sigh.Kong Shuanghua saw that Fang Yuan was really embarrassed by his own words, so he wanted to soften his tone and said, "Husband, it's not like we won't go back to your hometown anymore. When the child is older and can walk and talk, let's go back again, okay?" ?” Fang Yuan said, “Actually, that’s what I mean too.”

Kong Shuanghua was also relieved, but was immediately lifted by Fang Yuan's other words, and felt really uncomfortable.Fang Yuan said: "Mom said, when you have a baby, Mom wants to come and take care of the baby for you, and Dad also wants to see the grandson." Kong Shuanghua's head grew dizzy immediately: God, these two rural old people are coming over, where do they live?So if people who don't pay attention to hygiene, if they infect their children with some kind of disease, who can they talk to for reasoning?Fangyuan's mother is quite easy-going, but his father is a feudal patriarch, who can stand being directed by him every day.Kong Shuanghua felt strong resistance in his heart.I really wanted to have an attack like before, but seeing Fang Yuan also looked sad, knowing that he was also feeling uncomfortable, Kong Shuanghua held back his breath.During the Chinese New Year, no one will take the initiative to find unhappy.Besides, there are still about 8 months before the birth of the baby, so let's talk about it then.

Kong Shuanghua said: "Husband, there is no rush for this matter. I still have a while before I have a baby. Let's discuss it slowly, okay?" Sex, or called vaccination.Now it seems that Kong Shuanghua didn't agree, because he was reluctant for his parents to come; but he didn't fly into a rage as usual, which showed his wife's progress in self-cultivation-this is a gratifying thing.Today is the first day of the new year, and Fangyuan didn't want to quarrel with Kong Shuanghua on this festive day, so he hurried down the slope and said, "Okay, wife, let's discuss it later." What the mother-in-law and father-in-law said, this indirectly served as a mouthpiece.What my mother-in-law thinks, what my father-in-law thinks, I can't be sure, but give them time to digest slowly, and one day in the future, after I propose it, I believe they will not refuse, and they can also propose that they have "thought it through carefully". " solution.

Fang Yuan said, "Wife, who called me just now?" Kong Shuanghua said, "It was Lotte." Fang Yuan said, "I reckon, if I have a New Year call this year, he will be the first one." Kong Shuanghua said: " Why?" Fang Yuan said, "I have an intuition." Kong Shuanghua smiled: "Le Tian and you have a strong relationship?" Fang Yuan said, "Although Qin Hui, the prime minister of the Southern Song Dynasty, was scolded by the world, he also had three good friends! You My husband is much better than Qin Hui. Dad said that if you want to make a big progress in your career, you must have hardcore subordinates who support your work and a strategic partner who can cooperate with you. I am looking around now, and the most suitable one is Letian Of course, just having a Lotte is not enough, we have to continue to look for it.” Kong Shuanghua said: “Just make a phone call when you see Lotte, you have such complicated thoughts, are you tired?” It is indeed very complicated, and it is true to say that we men are tired from life. Let me tell you something about our education system, and you will understand if this is the case.” Kong Shuanghua said: “Okay, tell me. "Fang Yuan said: "China promotes officials by first looking at their political achievements and second at their distance. If an official wants to have political achievements, he must have a group of subordinates who can do things and do things to support him. Not every subordinate can do things. Therefore, it is necessary to distinguish such people from those who are close to them. They should be reused if they are close, and they should be rejected if they are far away. Therefore, the leaders of the Education Bureau also need a group of principals who support him, support him, and be able to do things. But the principal who is able to do things is not There are many, but there are many schools, what should we do? It is the key to achieve political success to arrange leaders who are close and able to do things in the positions of important schools; , Principal Yao has become a capable and close person who is highly valued by Secretary Zhai. I think that if Principal Yao works in 68 Middle School for a few more years and makes some achievements, he will definitely be promoted or transferred to a more important school. The same is true for schools. If Principal Yao wants to achieve results, he also needs to rely on subordinates like me, Dong Mei, and Fang Shujuan who are able to do things and have close relationships. Thinking farther away, if I become the principal in the future, I also need to have such subordinates. Come to support me. These people should want to do things, be able to do things, and have a strong relationship with me. At present, I am looking for things, and only Letian!" Kong Shuanghua said: "Oh, what are you doing when you are so tired? In the next life, I will I still want to be a woman, live simply and happily." Fang Yuan smiled slightly and didn't answer, but she didn't agree with it in her heart.Fangyuan remembered Mao's words: Fighting with others is a lot of fun.Human life is too simple, how can we develop wisdom, how can we cultivate the ability to do things, and how can we deal with complex situations?Women, always have long hair, but not much knowledge!

Kong Shuanghua asked: "Then why don't you give Le Tian a call back!" Fang Yuan said: "There is no rush. Yesterday my father said to call some important leaders to pay New Year's greetings to show that he values ​​it. I thought about it today, and there is nothing particularly important this morning. For the matter, I will go to the leaders’ homes in person after I call the leaders for New Year greetings. My wife, if you are willing to go with me, we will go together.” Kong Shuanghua said, “Which house are you going to?” Fang Yuan said "Principal Yao, Principal Yang, and Li Guoqiang, the deputy director of the teaching and research section." Kong Shuanghua asked: "Then who do you call?" Fang Yuan said: "To Secretary Zhai, Director Han, Director Zou, and Director Xie of the teaching and research section."