Director's growth history

The feeling of being disconnected does not bring happiness to people, but the pain like a needle pricking the flesh, which seems to be there but is faintly visible. 【*】With such a mood, Fang Yuan drove the Zhonghua Junjie sedan back to his father-in-law's house.

It's time to go home.Mother-in-law has already made lunch, and Kong Shuanghua is about to call Fangyuan!Seeing Fang Yuan's appearance, Kong Shuanghua said, "Why did you run all morning?" Fang Yuan said, "I stayed at Principal Yang Fang's house for a long time, and I stayed at Director Li Guoqiang's house for a long time." Staying at Principal Yang’s house for so long? Did you fall in love with Principal Yang’s daughter?” Fang Yuan said with a smile, “Even if you fell in love, it’s already too late. Guess who’s at Principal Yang’s house?” Kong Shuanghua said: "I can't guess. Who is it?" Fang Yuan said, "It's Letian! Letian is already working hard to be the boyfriend of Principal Yang's daughter. It can be seen that Principal Yang is quite satisfied with Letian." Kong Shuanghua said: "Letian chases after him." Is Principal Yang’s daughter? Hey, this is really interesting.” Fang Yuan said, “Principal Yang’s daughter was assigned to our No. 68 Middle School this summer. I told you about it. Her name is Zhao Xiaoya. I didn’t expect that this It's only been one semester, and Letian and Zhao Xiaoya are dating." Kong Shuanghua curled his lips and said, "Is this called fast? How many pairs are there in the third class of junior high school that I sent away? How old are the children, and they know that they are good friends." "Fang Yuan said: "This is the lack of our education! Without proper guidance, such a situation will inevitably happen."

The family sits at the dining table.Fang Yuan said: "Dad, did you get busy this morning?" Confucius Tian said: "A little busy, a few groups of guests came, including my students, my colleagues, and a few experts from the National People's Congress. The director and section chief of the committee." Kong Shuanghua said: "What do you call a few groups of guests? It should be dozens of groups. I have been hiding in our bedroom all morning and dare not come out. Most of the people who come here are smoking. If you smoke my baby, what's the problem?" Confucius Tian smiled happily, quite complacently: "When the guests come, it's inevitable to have a cup of tea and smoke a cigarette! Of course, many people who already know that you are pregnant , don’t you all smoke?” Fang Yuan’s flatterer immediately followed up: “So many guests can come to visit Dad, which fully shows that Dad is a good person, a good official, and has high prestige. In the future, I will respect Dad in every aspect. Be an example and try to learn from Dad." Confucius Tian Canran also inevitably showed a complacent expression on his face.It seems that everyone likes to hear good things.

After taking a few mouthfuls of food, Fang Yuan's cell phone rang.Fang Yuan took out his mobile phone from his pocket, it was a call from Wen Ruoxing.Kong Shuanghua asked, "Whose is it?" Fang Yuan said, "One of my students." Fang Yuan stood up, stood a little further away, and connected the phone: "Wen Ruoxing, what's the matter?" Wen Ruoxing said: "I'm going to go to your house to give you New Year's greetings." Fang Yuan said: "Didn't you already send a text message this morning?" Wen Ruoxing said: "I want to pay you a New Year's greeting in person. Why, aren't you welcome?"

Fang Yuan said in her heart: Of course not welcome!This is not my home, it is my father-in-law's home.In the afternoon, the father-in-law will inevitably have guests to visit, and a little girl comes to the house, what is this?In particular, Wen Ruoxing is quite beautiful, and she has begun to develop. It is reasonable for a female student to come to pay New Year's greetings to the male teacher, but after she comes, who can guarantee that her mother-in-law and Kong Shuanghua will not be suspicious? ?If this little girl makes any more intimate gestures or behaviors, it's no wonder the family doesn't make trouble!

Fang Yuan said: "You don't need to pay New Year's greetings in person. I've accepted your wish. If you have nothing to do, study hard at home and prepare for the new semester's high school entrance examination. Aren't you going to study at Tsinghua University or Peking University in the future? Then you need to work hard now , Cherish every minute and every second of your time.”

Wen Ruoxing said: "Mr. Fang, why are you talking so much like an 80-year-old lady! Today is the first day of the new year! I originally wanted to pay New Year's greetings to you in the morning, but I had no choice. In order to collect the New Year's money, In the morning, I can only go to those relatives’ houses with my parents to pay New Year’s greetings. It’s okay, I charged 3800 yuan in the morning. If it wasn’t for the sake of money, I would have gone to your house in the morning.”

Fang Yuan said: "Wen Ruoxing, you don't need to come." Wen Ruoxing said: "What? Do you hate me?" Fang Yuan said: "Why does the teacher hate you? I mean, any student in the class It’s very inconvenient to come to my house.” Wen Ruoxing said: “It’s fine if you don’t hate me. You can’t hate me! If you dare to hate me, I’ll give up studying! If you dare to treat me badly, I’ll come to Headmaster Yao, tell him you molested me!"

Fangyuan was relatively calm and calm when meeting other people, but in front of Wen Ruoxing, she really felt helpless.This little girl is really daring to speak and act, I'm really afraid of her.Fang Yuan said: "Okay, stop messing around. Tell the students, no one will use it anymore." This sentence was added by Fang Yuan, and it is completely fictitious.None of the other students said they would come. Fang Yuan actually said this to Kong Zitian, Kong Mama and Kong Shuanghua, making them think that many students would come this time.

Wen Ruoxing said: "You are such a coward! What are you afraid of? You think I don't know what you are worried about! Teacher Fang, do you look like a man? Even if I go to give you New Year's greetings alone, what's the matter? Besides , I’m really not alone this time, I have made an appointment with Ge Feng and other students in the class to go to your house together in the afternoon, and then to Teacher Jiang’s house to pay New Year’s greetings!"

Fang Yuan said: "This must be planned by you and Ge Feng, isn't it? There are so many students in the class, where do you sit at my house?" Wen Ruoxing said: "Just stand." I can’t stand up! Besides, how can there be so many slippers at home for you to change?”

Confucius Tian said: "Xiao Fang, are your students coming to see you? Let them come. I won't have many guests in the afternoon, anyway, for a while. If you don't have slippers, you don't need to change them when you come. Fang Yuan turned around and said, "Dad, there are dozens of students, too many to fit in the room. How about I go to school and meet these students?" Confucius Tian said, "That's fine. Xiao Fang, In fact, you don’t have to worry, this is your home! I know what you mean by refusing, because I’m afraid that these students’ twittering will affect me, your mother-in-law, and Xiaohua. You are a member of this family. If someone comes to visit you, We welcome you too!"

Seeing that his father-in-law quickly agreed to Fang Yuan’s suggestion to meet the students at school, Fang Yuan still felt it. In fact, what his father-in-law said later on the one hand showed that his father-in-law had read his own mind (hehe, of course this is only a small part), and on the other hand On the one hand, it also shows that the father-in-law is more or less revealing some hypocrisy and austerity.Fang Yuan immediately said to the phone: "Wen Ruoxing, how about this, you tell the students, I will meet you at the school gate at two o'clock in the afternoon!" Wen Ruoxing's disappointed voice: "Ah? Can't go Your family!" Fang Yuan said: "If you don't even agree to pay New Year's greetings at school, then you don't have to pay New Year's greetings this year." Wen Ruoxing said: "Okay, I've convinced you, and I'm afraid of you."

Fangyuan hung up the phone, returned to his seat, smiled and said to Kong Shuanghua: "A dozen or so students have made an appointment and are coming to our house to celebrate the New Year. If it wasn't you, even I would think it was too noisy. Let them come to the school Go ahead, in the classroom, let’s say a few New Year’s words and exchange ideas, and I’ll tell them to make full use of the last semester and improve their homework so that everyone can be admitted to the ideal middle school.” Kong Shuanghua said: "Yes, it is best not to come to our house. After I went to work in the library, the environment has always been very quiet. Now, I am not used to the noisy atmosphere in the school at all. If a dozen children come It’s annoying me to death.” Kong Zitian said: “Xiaohua, did you send New Year’s greetings to the students in the graduating class you sent away last year?” Kong Shuanghua’s face sank: “There are 46 students in total, only Two students called me to pay New Year's greetings. These white-eyed wolves, how kind I was to them at the beginning, I forgot in a blink of an eye."

Fang Yuan didn't speak.In May of last year, Fangyuan was already the teaching director, and she was already working hard to teach with these third-year teachers.Fang Yuan knew a little about Kong Shuanghua's beauty at that time.Kong Shuanghua has a rather anxious personality. When a student makes a mistake that shouldn't be made, she immediately screams in a hurry. Because the senior high school entrance examination is approaching, parents and students know where the focus should be, so no one cares about her, but the result of the screaming , It will only make students more alienated from the class teacher.The students of this era are not the students of the previous era. Every student has a strong self-esteem. When dealing with students, we should not blindly intimidate or get angry. Instead, we should give priority to motivation and supplement it with criticism.For those students who are particularly disobedient, they should be both soft and hard, not just hard, that will only make things more difficult to deal with.

Look at the attitude of the father-in-law.Fang Yuan turned his attention to Confucius Tian.Confucius Tian said: "If you don't worship, you don't worship. It's not a big deal. In the future, you will be a university teacher. When you teach undergraduates, most of the time you will come to class with handouts, and leave after class. There is nothing wrong with students." It’s more emotional. When I become a postgraduate tutor, the situation will change.”

At this moment, Fang Yuan suddenly felt that his father-in-law didn't seem to be such an emotional person. Is a professor who treats students so indifferently and plainly a good teacher?

Confucius Tian cast his eyes on Fangyuan and said to Fangyuan, "You are different from Xiaohua. You will conquer the world in the future, and you need a group of people who support you. The best candidates are your students! Like Ming Dynasty Zhang Juzheng and Zhang Tingyu in the Qing Dynasty were able to make a career in the position of prime minister and university scholar, mainly relying on their former students and old officials; back then, Chiang Kai-shek liked to be called "principal" by his generals because his direct army generals, He was a graduate of the Whampoa Military Academy where he used to be the principal. Although it is a socialist society now, this has not changed. Why many secretaries or deputy secretaries of the municipal party committee like to serve as the principal of the party school of the municipal party committee is the reason. I am afraid that Xiaofang can share with you clean it."

Fang Yuan suddenly felt that his father-in-law was really confusing!What kind of person is he?