Director's growth history

Sometimes people are really strange: when they don't see each other, they still think about it; when they really see each other, they feel a little strange and alienated, and even more or less embarrassed. 【*】This time when Fangyuan met the students at school, he had such a feeling.From the holiday to the present, except for the meeting with Wen Ruoxing in the middle, the other students have never seen each other once. I haven't seen the students for such a long time. Want to meet everyone.After all, it was the class I took from the junior high school. Although I am no longer the class teacher, this feeling is still there.However, when Fang Yuan rushed to the school and entered the classroom of Class 4 (Class 20), and saw more than [-] students in the classroom, he only started to greet the New Year with greetings, and then fell into an inexplicable embarrassment. It seems that it is no longer as intimate and close as before, and there is no scene of teachers and students talking and laughing together harmoniously.

Fangyuan felt pain in her heart: Why did this happen?I love these students as much as before, care about these students, and hope that these students can make progress and be promising, but why are the students so restrained in front of me now?Is it true that I am too far away from the students?Yes, after becoming the vice-principal, I left the students after class, and I will never be like before, spending time in the classroom as long as I have time, going to the playground after class to have a look, doing exercises I will also be behind the queue of students and follow along.Could it be because of being the vice-principal?

Fang Yuan said, "How did everyone spend their winter vacation? Let me tell you, I also study."

Wen Ruoxing was the first to respond: "For me, I made a winter vacation study plan after the winter vacation. What homework to study every day, what hobbies to cultivate every day, and when to exercise every day, it is very careful. Then, I I conducted a comprehensive preview of the homework for the next semester, and conducted a selective review of English, mathematics, and physics in the second year of junior high school in the past three years. For those places that I forgot or did not know well, intensive review, other places, Just a quick note. In order to ensure that I can get a high score in the English test of the senior high school entrance examination, I also signed up for an English grammar intensive class and studied 16 basic English grammars comprehensively. Now it seems that this study is quite important. If necessary, it can also allow me to review English systematically. After mastering the grammar, I think English is really not that difficult. It is the 16 kinds of grammar that we have learned over and over again. In fact, we only came into contact with them in junior high school. The 10 basic grammars."

Fang Yuan said approvingly: "Wen Ruoxing's winter vacation life is very fulfilling! It not only makes full use of time, but also studies efficiently. How do other students arrange their winter vacation life?"

Students, you look at me, I look at you, no one speaks.In fact, everyone was quite jealous of Wen Ruoxing, why did you get Teacher Fang's praise?You are doing well. Although we are not as planned and systematic as you, we are also reviewing seriously!But if what we say is not as good as what you said, we will not be praised by Teacher Fang.

Fang Yuan forcefully forced a smile, and said to the students: "Everyone says that each person has his own way of life, as long as his life is full and meaningful, it's all good!"

Students, you look at me, I look at you, still no one speaks.Fang Yuan said: "Ge Feng, you are the class monitor, you can take the lead." Ge Feng didn't seem to be as "understanding" as before, especially able to understand Fang Yuan's meaning, this time he actually said: "Teacher Fang, my The winter vacation life is not as fulfilling as Wen Ruoxing. After returning home today, I will reorganize and improve my study efficiency in the last few days, so as to prepare for the high school entrance examination." Fang Yuan said: "If there is something, it will be changed, and if there is nothing, it will be crowned. I believe You, Ge Feng." Ge Feng said, "Thank you, Teacher Fang."

But Ge Feng didn't seem to make this demonstration a good one. After he finished speaking, the other students still didn't say anything.Now it seems that I am too alienated from the students.But why are students so cautious in front of themselves?Fang Yuan felt that the meeting with the students this time was really a failure.I want to see you when I don't see them; I feel uncomfortable when I see them-this feeling is really uncomfortable.Fangyuan said: "Okay, I won't ask you how to arrange the winter vacation. Everyone has their own way of life. As your Chinese teacher, I still hope that each of our classmates can pass the high school entrance examination this summer. I got excellent grades and got into the ideal high school.” Ge Feng said, “Thank you, teacher.” Other students also said, “Thank you, Teacher Fang.”

Fang Yuan really felt very awkward, and decided to speak out, and must untangle this knot.Fang Yuan said: "Students, during the winter vacation for so many days, in fact, I have been missing you very much in my heart. When I didn't see you, I especially wanted to see you; but when I saw you today, I felt a little uncomfortable in my heart. The time seems to be divided a lot. Is it because of the winter vacation? I remember last year when the winter vacation ended and I came back from the Northeast, everyone was so close to me, but now, everyone seems to be far away from me. The teacher really hopes to be like It's the same as before!"

The students looked at each other.In fact, what Fangyuan said was exactly what they felt in their hearts, except for Wen Ruoxing.Ge Feng said: "Teacher Fang, in fact, the students still like you very much in their hearts and want to be intimate with you. But now you are no longer an ordinary teacher, but the leader of the school. Look at what Teacher Jiang is talking to you, You are all very polite; as your students, we certainly feel that you are indeed taller." Yue Jin said: "Mr. Fang, you know my dad, you are awesome. He admired you throughout the 68 Middle School. You are alone, after he watched a TV interview with you last time, my dad said that you will be the number one person in Dongzhou education in the future! My dad also asked me to learn from you, saying that I can learn half of you I’m sure I’ll be successful.” Fang Yuan said, “Does Mr. Yue think so highly of me? It’s too much. In fact, I’m just an ordinary teacher.” Yue Jin said, “Teacher Fang, why don’t you Will it be an ordinary teacher? Don’t think that we are children and don’t know how to read things. As far as I know, you are probably the youngest middle school vice principal in Dongzhou City; Waiting for the award is unprecedented in Dongzhou, and I think it will be difficult for anyone to break through. What is Dongzhou in Qingjiang Province? Hangjiang City, Ninghai City, Taizhou City, which one is not comparable to it? In Qingjiang Province The first place is even more difficult, not to mention representing Qingjiang Province to participate in national competitions. I am afraid that it will not be easy to find opportunities in the future. My dad said that although he is uneducated, he still has a certain way of judging people and things. It’s a trick. Among the representatives participating in the city’s party congress this time, you must be the youngest, Principal Fang, and my dad said that this is the top priority for training!”

Today's children really can't be underestimated.Fangyuan looked at Yuejin—this special student who transferred from class (5) to other schools and then back to 68 middle school. He really felt that the times were different, and the children were significantly different from the children in the past.When I was 15 or 6 years old, I was basically uncivilized!Apart from studying and working in the farmland, it seems that I really don't know what else to do.

Fang Yuan said: "Anyway, I am your Chinese teacher, and I used to be your class teacher. I hope the distance between us teachers and students will not be so far away, and I really hope that we can have a joke together like before. Gao Xueqing, the representative of the Chinese class, said: "Mr. Fang, in fact, the students' feelings for you have not changed at all, but they respect you more than before, so they are no longer as relaxed in front of you as before. Teacher Fang You are so humble and kind, and the students are very happy!" Ge Feng said: "After Mr. Fang became the school leader, he is busier than before, and has fewer opportunities to contact the students. Mr. Fang, there is Sometimes, I think the smile on your face is much less than when you were our class teacher, and sometimes you are very serious." Zhan Xiaobo said: "Actually, I still like that Teacher Fang." Wen Ruoxing was not happy to hear He said: "Zhan Xiaobo, what are you talking about? Don't you like the current Teacher Fang? The current Teacher Fang has a successful career and is more mature and stable than before. I think the current Teacher Fang is more mature than the previous Teacher Fang. cute!"

Fang Yuan has always listened well, and is also happy for the straightforwardness of the students.They wouldn't say such things if they don't have feelings. Now that they say it, it shows that the relationship between teachers and students has not undergone a qualitative change.In the future, you should be more approachable in front of students, and get along with students in a friendly manner.But after Kong Shuanghua said these few words, Fang Yuan suddenly felt very awkward.This is not an evaluation of a teacher, this is simply an evaluation of a man, a evaluation of a boyfriend!This Wen Ruoxing really doesn't know how to speak properly.

At this moment, Fangyuan's cell phone rang.Fang Yuan looked down and found that this was the landline number of his father-in-law's house.Fang Yuan quickly connected, and Mama Kong’s anxious voice came from the receiver: "Fang Yuan, has your student left? Come back quickly, Xiaohua vomited, it was so bad. Now she vomits while crying, my My heart hurts so badly. Come back soon.” Fangyuan’s heart skipped a beat, and she quickly asked, “Mom, what’s the matter with Xiaohua?” Kong’s mother said, “It’s a pregnancy reaction. I didn’t expect that these two months have been Everything was fine, and I thought she would have no reaction. Unexpectedly, this afternoon, she suddenly wanted to vomit, so she ran to the bathroom and vomited. As a result, she even vomited gall water. Fangyuan, you Come back quickly, Xiaohua especially needs you by my side now."