Director's growth history

Originally, Yao Changqing was really in a hurry to go to his father-in-law's house after dinner. 【@】It's not for anything else, it's just to re-establish that position. For the uncle, let him know that he will never be the boss of this family anymore, and only I, Yao Changqing, will be.In fact, Yao Changqing really didn't want to care about the affairs of their Miao family, but he didn't know what was at work. Yao Changqing felt that his desire to be the boss in his father-in-law's house was getting stronger and stronger.As for getting rid of the first uncle and the second uncle, it's actually very simple, isn't it because the family can't eat all the soy sauce?Bring another copy for my father-in-law, and one for my uncle and brother-in-law, which will definitely make my uncle shut up.

But now, I'm afraid I can't go right away.The son actually admitted to the puppy love, and even kissed him!Hey, this kid is quite capable!When his father was in the third year of junior high school, he was still a fool. He only knew how to study hard every day. After class, the male and female students in the class must be separated, and they played their own way. Sometimes, the female students talked to him more. With a few words, I would feel hot and feel a little overwhelmed.Although it was the early 80s, and now we have entered the 21st century, but now we all kiss each other, what does that mean?Have you gone further and had a real relationship?

Seeing that Miao Qianqian was in a hurry, Yao Changqing gently tugged at her sleeve.Miao Qianqian said: "What are you talking about? You are used to my son. Look, is something wrong now?" Seeing that his father didn't seem to be on his mother's side, Yao Xuan retorted confidently: "What is it? What's wrong? What's the point of normal communication between male and female students?" Miao Qianqian was so angry that she choked up, "You...you..." Pointing at Yao Xuan, she was speechless.

Yao Changqing said: "My wife, please sit down first, let me ask Yao Xuan." Miao Qianqian sat on the stool angrily, panting heavily.

Yao Changqing said: "Yao Xuan, no matter what happens, no matter what you do, Dad is willing to communicate with you calmly and discuss on an equal footing. Are you willing to tell the truth to Dad?" Yao Xuan said: "As long as you are not like your mother Shout at me, I can tell you the truth." Yao Changqing said: "You just said that you and that female classmate who is close to you have kissed, what is your relationship?" Yao Xuan said: "Dad, I told her The relationship is very good. Dad, you are the principal of the middle school, and you probably know the current situation in the school. In fact, the comparison among the classmates is very fierce now, comparing with the family, food and clothing, and everything. Although I am in school Not particularly outstanding, but Dad, you are the principal of a middle school after all, so you won’t be looked down upon by others. In fact, I have always focused on my studies, because every time I take an exam, I hope that I can be among the top in my grade. 10, the top 3 in the class, so the main energy is put on study. But Dad, there must be a big difference between middle school students today and middle school students in your era. One thing that stands out is precocity. Our school 5 Among them, this is the best school in Dongzhou, but love is also common. If the male students in the class don’t have a girlfriend, if the female students don’t have a boyfriend, they will be laughed at and useless. Dad, think about it, your son If you study well in class, you can be regarded as capable, so I can’t let others say that I have no ability in this aspect!”

Miao Qianqian was furious when she saw her son's plausible words: "Yao Xuan, is it reasonable for you to fall in love?" Yao Xuan said, "I didn't say I was reasonable, but I don't want to be looked down upon. At the same time , I fell in love, and it didn't affect my studies, and it also promoted my studies. Besides, I haven't crossed the line, so what's wrong?" Miao Qianqian couldn't help standing up again, and shouted: "What else do you want? Cross the line? Do you want raw rice to be cooked?" Yao Xuan said: "Mom, if you didn't say that, I really didn't want to do it; if you said that today, I'll do it later It's normal." Miao Qianqian said: "It's against you! How dare you!" Yao Xuan said: "You don't know if I will do it or not, at most I won't tell you."

Tears welled up in Miao Qianqian's eyes.At this moment, she suddenly realized that she was so strange to her son, and his son seemed to be deliberately confronting her, she said something, but her son wanted to say something.Miao Qianqian turned to her husband for help. At this time, only her husband can help her.

Yao Changqing said: "Yao Xuan, no matter how big the differences between you and your mother are, she is your mother, you should respect her instead of talking back to your mother." Yao Xuan was not convinced: "Dad, if Mom can be like If you talk to me so calmly, I will definitely respect Mom, but if she yells at me like that, I also have self-esteem!"

Hey, my son is also fighting for his support!I have never taught him the practice of pulling one faction against another faction, how did he learn it?Yao Changqing said: "Today's affairs are handled in this way. It is the right of fathers and mothers to educate their children. I hope you can apologize to your mother now, for your own attitude, not for your behavior in school. If you If you refuse to apologize, then Dad will firmly stand on Mom’s side, and you will lose the opportunity to communicate on an equal footing; if you apologize, then Dad will communicate with you on an equal footing, just like a friend, and maybe Dad can guide you in many ways How can you get along better with your female classmates. You are given only one minute to choose, and you can choose yourself." Yao Xuan said, "I choose to apologize." Yao Xuan stood up, and said to Miao Qianqian seriously: " Mom, I'm sorry, I had a bad attitude just now, I was wrong."

Yao Changqing said: "My wife, my son has already apologized, so you should calm down. I want to talk with my son in his room alone about the matter of his puppy love. I will report the result to you truthfully, but I request You, don't participate for now, okay?" Seeing that she was educating her son, Miao Qianqian might really turn the point of the gun against Maimang, and the matter might not be properly resolved, but her husband is more calm. At this point, the husband is really his own The backbone!Miao Qianqian said: "Okay, you can communicate with your son. After dinner, I will pack up and go back to my mother's house. You talk about yours, and I won't get involved."

Yao Changqing said: "Son, let's hurry up and have dinner. After eating, I am going to have a serious exchange with you, okay?" Yao Xuan said: "Okay."

After eating, Yao Changqing and Yao Xuan came to Yao Xuan's bedroom and closed the door.Yao Changqing sat on his son's seat and said to Yao Xuan: "Son, whether as the principal or as your father, I am very interested in your affairs. So far, I don't want to criticize you, because I I still agree with your thoughts, and I think what you said is somewhat reasonable. I also know that, son, you have been focusing on your studies, and your academic performance is quite good. Since if you choose a girlfriend, you will be judged by others The classmates ridiculed, so can you tell Dad, do you have any criteria for choosing female classmates as friends? What criteria is it?"