Director's growth history

Although there is no smile on Dad's face, he is very calm. 【 】Yao Xuan's heart became much calmer, and he said: "Dad, in fact, when I look for a girlfriend, I don't want to be ridiculed by my classmates. Of course, since I want to find a girlfriend, there must be a standard. First of all, I don't I hope that the girlfriend I am looking for is someone else’s broken shoes.” Yao Changqing nodded and said, “Yeah.” Yao Xuan said, “Secondly, I hope that the girlfriend I choose is also a classmate who loves to study, so that we can be like-minded, Encourage each other and make progress together." Yao Changqing praised: "Dad also appreciates such an idea." Yao Xuan was encouraged by Yao Changqing, and his interest also came, saying: "So, I picked a student in the class to study and follow. A female classmate of mine handed her a note. It happened that she didn’t have a boyfriend either, and she was ridiculed by female classmates for pretending to be innocent, so she agreed.” Yao Changqing said, “What did you write in the note? "Yao Xuan said: "Actually, I have paid attention to her for a long time. Her English is very good, and my English is still a little behind; but I also have my own advantages, that is, mathematics, physics and chemistry are very good, and in this respect, it is precisely It is her relative weakness, especially physics, which requires spatial logic imagination, and it seems that she is not good at this aspect. We still have a strong complementarity in learning."

Yao Changqing couldn't help laughing, hey, my son is still very smart, he even knows how to find a girlfriend who will help him, not purely to satisfy the needs of self-esteem, not just for fun.Yao Changqing said: "Go on. At least so far, Dad agrees with your ideas, and to a certain extent."

Yao Xuan said: "Dad, really? That's great. Then I'll tell you in detail. I wrote her a note, and it said so." Angie: It's popular in the class to find a boy I have never looked for friends and girlfriends. But it’s not that I don’t have someone I like, but I’m just afraid of being rejected. I always hope that the girlfriend I’m looking for must be studious and motivated, determined to be admitted to Dongzhou No. 5 middle school classmates, so You can encourage each other, learn together, and make progress together. I wonder if you can give me a chance?' I handed out the note, and I was still worried all afternoon. When school was over that day, I received the letter she gave me. Note: "Yao Xuan, your thoughts are mine. Seeing those students who fell in love for fun, I feel really sad for them. The reason why I have never found a boyfriend is because I am worried that it will affect my studies. Are you The best student in the class, it's an honor to be your girlfriend.'”

Yao Changqing said: "Hehe, the relationship is still like-minded revolutionary comrades!" Yao Xuan said: "Yes! Since then, our relationship has been confirmed. She helped me with English, and I helped her with mathematics, physics and chemistry. As a result, I took the English test at the end of the semester. She scored 113 points, setting a historical record. She ranked 7th in the grade test and 2nd in the class. Her grades were stable; her physics score rose from more than 70 to 89 points, and her chemistry score got a full score of 70. She was the first in the grade for an unprecedented time. She entered the top 50 for the first time and ranked 9th in the class. After the final exam results came down, she threw herself into my arms happily and kissed me. Dad, tell me, I found this Is a girlfriend suitable?"

Yao Changqing really admired his son a little bit.Seeing his son's excited expression, Yao Changqing nodded: "Judging from the current situation, you are in a class where you have a lot of love and sympathy, and you follow the trend, which is forgivable; from your choice of philosophy and Judging from the actual effect, you did not blindly fall in love, but used falling in love as a means to motivate learning and progress, and both of you have made gratifying progress, which is worthy of recognition to a certain extent. However, Dad has Just a question, do you love this classmate named An Qi very much?"

Yao Changqing stared at Yao Xuan, hoping to get the answer he wanted.Yao Xuan shook his head and said, "Dad, I'm in love because I don't want to be looked down upon by my classmates. My mind is in Tsinghua University and Peking University. I don't want such an immature puppy love to affect my future entrance exams in Tsinghua University and Peking University. An Qi is good, but how many people in junior high school and high school can finally bear fruit? The relationship between me and An Qi is actually what Dad said, and they are like-minded revolutionary comrades. If I am admitted to No. 5 Middle School , she failed the exam; or I was admitted to the top class of No. 5 Middle School, and she was assigned to the ordinary class. I think this relationship is almost over. I will definitely not choose to continue, even if the atmosphere in the class forces me to fall in love again , then I will find another female classmate from my class who can complement my studies instead of An Qi. Of course, if An Qi and I are both admitted to the high school of No. 5 Middle School and assigned to the same class, then In other words, but judging from the current situation, this possibility is still relatively small.”

Yao Changqing nodded and said, "Son, my father is relieved to hear you say that. It is said that today's teenagers are a generation of pleasure, self-destructive generation, and negative generation, but I have seen positive and positive things from my son. , thoughtful, and pursuing. Since you and An Qi can encourage each other at this stage, learn from each other's strengths, and make progress together, then Dad still supports you and An Qi in maintaining a relationship that is slightly more than that of classmates." Yao Xuan said: "Dad, really Land?" Yao Changqing said: "Of course it is true." Yao Xuan sat down beside his father, hugged Yao Changqing's neck, and kissed Yao Changqing vigorously: "Dad, you are too wise and great. I am proud of having such a good father." Yao Changqing said: "I am also proud of having a good son like my son who is pursuing, thinking, and actively improving." Yao Xuan said: "Where is the mother?" Yao Changqing Said: "Mother's ideological work, I will do it." Yao Xuan stood up: "That's great, that's great." Jumping several times in succession.Yao Changqing said: "However, Dad also has requirements for you." Yao Xuan said: "Tell me, Dad. No matter what you ask, I will promise you."

My son is still immature in this aspect!Agree to any request?Such words are the most difficult to promise lightly.But Yao Changqing didn't want to point it out, after all, his son needs to slowly understand this point in the process of growing up.Now, yes to anything, it's the best.Yao Changqing said: "Since you are not going to be a real boyfriend and girlfriend with An Qi, I hope that the relationship between you and her should be limited. Kissing is the final bottom line, and it will be reduced or not in the future. Holding hands is already more than an ordinary classmate relationship. I especially emphasize that no matter what the situation is, don’t have sexual relations with her. Today, my father told you very bluntly, and didn’t play around with you. There will be promotion, but it will be a hindrance. If you make An Qi's belly bigger, you will be blamed for a long time in the future, and going to Tsinghua University and Peking University may be a dream that will never come true." Yao Xuan said: "Dad, I understand. You have to have confidence in your son. I won't lose my young chicken so easily before I go to college. There will be no intersection between me and An Qi, and there will be no Bring trouble to you, Dad." Yao Changqing said: "Okay, my good son, I am relieved."

Yao Xuan said: "Dad, so you support my love?" Yao Changqing said: "It's not true love, but to use this love as a cover, as a step for me to pursue greater progress, as my own love." In the future, when you grow up, you will practice and practice formal love. If this love affects your studies, will you stop immediately?" Yao Xuan said: "Absolutely, Dad. At this stage, no one can stop me from entering the 5th high school In the future, no one can stop my dream of going to Tsinghua University to go to Peking University." Yao Changqing said: "My good son, Dad believes in you." Yao Xuan said: "From today on, I will no longer watch anything but "News Network" other TV programs besides "." Yao Changqing said: "Why do you want to watch "News Network"?" Yao Xuan said: "Dad, the senior high school entrance examination needs to test current affairs and politics. Although a pamphlet will be distributed at that time, but watching the news every day, You will definitely be able to know the major events of the country and the world at present, which is much better than simply reading the current affairs brochure." Yao Changqing said: "Son, you are right." Yao Xuan said: "Go to grandpa's house today. , I am also going to bring textbooks and exercise sets. Otherwise, this day will be so boring!" Yao Changqing said: "Okay, I support you."

At this time, Yao Changqing's cell phone rang.Yao Changqing looked at the call and was shocked because it was from Liu Mei.In the third day of junior high school, which is not the time of New Year's Eve or first day of junior high school, why did she call?Yao Changqing had an ominous premonition, but in front of his son, Yao Changqing was extremely calm.Yao Changqing said: "Son, Dad answer the phone." Yao Xuan immediately understood, and said: "It's just right, I want to go to the bathroom."

Seeing her son go out, Yao Changqing answered the phone: "Mei, why are you looking for me at this time?" Liu Mei cried: "If I don't look for you, who can I look for? My sister-in-law found out about my pregnancy. Now I My parents and my brother all know about it. Changqing, what do you think I should do now?"