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Confucius Tian said: "Childish! Absolutely naive! Do husbands and wives have to fight for the upper hand? If they want to fight for the upper hand, then they should just be enemies and rivals. [|] Between husband and wife, the most important thing is to attract each other, Take care of each other, support each other, and work together! Couples get married not for the sake of quarreling, but for the pursuit of a happy life. The way of husband and wife is definitely a university question. Why do some people get married longer and love more? Sweetness? Why do some people end their love after a short marriage? Why do some people have long-lasting marriages but have different dreams in the same bed? Let’s study the way of husband and wife, start with caring, start with gentleness.” Kong Shuanghua said: “Dad, why don’t you tell Fang Yuan about this?” Kong Shufang interrupted: “Xiaohua, I think Fang Yuan has always cared about you. , he really has nothing to say to you, he is very gentle and considerate, as long as he has time, he will stay with you at home. Xiaohua, your temper is a bit big, how can you say that Fangyuan is your husband, you shouldn't be so right Fangyuan." Kong Shuanghua said: "Mom, why are you just like dad?" Kong Shufang said: "Oh, no matter how biased I am towards you, I can't joke about your future happiness! Your dad is right, I and your dad I can’t care about you for the rest of your life. When we grow old, happiness still depends on you. Xiaohua, Xiaofang is pretty good, you should cherish it!” Kong Shuanghua said: “Now Fangyuan must hate me in his heart, what should I do? What about it?" At this point, Kong Shuanghua shed tears again, making Kong Shufang's eyes turn red: "Zitian, just give me an idea."

Confucius Tian said: "A wise man will not fall again from the place where he fell. Xiaohua, you are my daughter of Confucius Tian. I also believe that you will not make the same mistake again. From this time Fang Yuan and Song Sisi Judging from the text messages, Fang Yuan is still loyal to his family and marriage so far, but if you make similar mistakes, Xiaohua, you will beat, scold and bite Fang Yuan, and even say "Go to hell", No one can guarantee whether Fang Yuan will fall into the arms of other women in the future. After all, Fang Yuan is talented and capable, which is full of attraction to many young girls! I have to be careful just like you, but You must be more strategic in terms of prevention, and you must not be like Xiaohua, who is reckless and reckless, which will only mess things up." Kong Shuanghua said: "Then why don't you let me read Fangyuan's text messages?" Kong Zitian said: "Then It is the most stupid way. To keep a man, the most important thing is to keep a man's heart. If the heart is not here, the man will not be able to keep it. I will take a look at it from the side, and see if there is anything abnormal Communication; at this stage, the most important thing is to comfort Fangyuan's wounded heart, Xiaohua, for your own future happiness, for the future happiness of your children, what's the point of bowing your head and admitting your mistakes sincerely? I believe that Fangyuan is the one who knows Generally speaking, as long as you are more sincere, Fangyuan will definitely recover from the current state of resistance to a relatively normal state. The damage to the heart cannot be repaired once or twice. It doesn't matter, Dad will teach you how to let Fangyuan only thinks about this home."

Kong Shuanghua said: "Father, I will listen to you this time." Kong Zitian said: "Not this time, but I will always listen to me in the future. Illnesses come like a mountain and go away like a silk thread. Fangyuan's heart disease must be cured." , You need to take your time. There is no chance recently. Fangyuan’s parents are coming to Dongzhou. Ask your parents-in-law when they arrive at the station. You and your mother, if I have time, add me and go to the train station to pick them up. "After the father-in-law and mother-in-law came, Xiaohua, you are kind to Fangyuan's parents, I believe Fangyuan will see it." Kong Shuanghua said: "Dad, you are right, but Fangyuan's parents are all countrymen and have no education. , and don't pay attention to hygiene, if they hold the child, if they feed the child, I don't worry about it. Dad, I really don't worry about it!"

"This is a problem. We have no right not to let them see their grandchildren, but we can gently remind them not to feed the children, because of your mother, because of professional nanny. I believe, you will handle it. But I remind you , Even if you have opinions in your heart, you must never lose your temper. No matter what happens, no matter when, you must hold back! When I get home, tell me, I will find a way. "

Kong Shuanghua said: "Dad, that will suffocate me. I never hold back my anger, I have to let it out." Kong Shufang said: "Yes, if Xiaohua holds it back, she will hold back her milk. Go back." Confucius Tian said: "Tolerance what others can't bear, if you don't say what you shouldn't say, this is the city, this is maturity, and this is the need for a happy and happy marriage! Do you love Fangyuan?" Kong Shuanghua said: "Yes, I really love him! Fangyuan is too important to me, so I can't stand that Fangyuan doesn't take me seriously, can't stand that Fangyuan has relationships with other women, and can't stand that Fangyuan doesn't care about me. Love me again." Confucius Tian said: "For love, what else can't be tolerated? For the happiness of our family, what else can't be tolerated? Originally, I planned to let the baby born with the surname Kong, the son-in-law who stepped in the door, It is not unreasonable to let the child have my surname. But I am going to make a major concession this time, let the child have the surname Fang Yuan. I can even give this, what else can you not give? You are good to Yuan’s parents, Fang Yuan Everyone will see it. I believe this is a good start to repairing the relationship."

Kong Shuanghua nodded: "Dad, for the sake of love, I can bear it, I can let it!" Kong Zitian said: "I believe that my daughter must have inherited many of my Kong Zitian's excellent genes, and you will be able to do well." Kong Shuanghua said : "At noon today, I just want to send food to Fangyuan." Confucius said: "No need, I have asked the hospital to arrange meals for patients at noon. However, dinner can be sent there. Take this opportunity , Xiaohua, please make a gesture and be gentle. I believe that Xiaofang will stop here at this time. From my feeling, he doesn't want to make trouble, and he doesn't want to mess things up." Kong Shuanghua said: "Okay, I listen to you."

Confucius Tian said: "Xiaohua, there is one more thing to remind you. You have lived in a honeypot since you were a child, and others care about you and take care of you, but you seldom care about others and take care of others. Men should be considerate. Wife, as a wife, you should also learn to be considerate to your husband! Let a man feel that no woman is better than you, this is the secret to a successful marriage!"

Kong Shuanghua nodded solemnly: "I will work hard." At this time, Kong Shufang was thoughtful, seeing Kong Zitian confidently teaching her daughter, Kong Shufang's heart moved, and she asked softly: "Zitian, what do you think? Are there any women out there who are better than me?"