Director's growth history

Between Weng and his son-in-law, many things could have been said openly and honestly.But between Confucius Tian and Fangyuan, it seems that there is no intimacy, but a little more cautious and careful.

Confucius Tian has been sitting on the sofa waiting for Fang Yuan.Kong Shufang said: "Zitian, why do I feel that the relationship between Shuanghua and Fangyuan is not as good as before." Kong Zitian took a puff of cigarette, feeling a little irritable.Now, Kong Zitian already knows about the abnormal relationship between Fangyuan and Song Sisi. In addition, there used to be an old woman named Shao Keqing from the Dongzhou Railway Office, and the dead Ding Chunxiao. Became the deputy mayor of the Standing Committee, dedicated his daughter to Fangyuan, and this daughter first worked in Dongzhou No. 5 Middle School, and now she is beside Fangyuan in the Education Bureau, which made the rumor more credible. Confucius felt that When Fangyuan became more and more difficult to control, how to treat such a son-in-law and how to get along with him became a difficult and realistic problem before Confucius Tian.Confucius felt that his daughter Kong Shuanghua must know more or less about Fangyuan's outside.What woman can stand her husband's infidelity?Didn't Kong Shufang also almost divorced because of Xiao Ma's incident?What's more, Shuanghua, an only daughter who has never been wronged or suffered a disadvantage since she was a child, is not crying or making trouble now, and maintains a lukewarm husband and wife relationship with Fangyuan, which is considered a high incense.

Kong Shufang added: "In the past, every time Shuanghua called me, it was either about Ruirui or Fangyuan. Now the topic is only Ruirui. Even if I asked about Fangyuan, Shuanghua would hesitate , I can't tell what Fang Yuan is busy with now, but vaguely said that Fang Yuan is very busy now, went out early in the morning, and came home very late. Look, should I talk about Xiao Fang today? You should take care of your family, and you should communicate with Shuanghua more, so that the relationship between husband and wife will be better."

Confucius Tian was very impatient: "When Xiao Fang comes back later, you can say hello to Xiao Fang, then go back to the bedroom. Don't meddle in this matter, Xiao Fang is beyond your control."

Kong Shufang said: "After all, I am his mother-in-law, so he has to call me 'Mom' too?"

Confucius Tian said: "Some things, it's best for you to pretend to be confused. The more you meddle, the worse things will become, and it will become impossible to clean up. If you don't want Shuanghua and Fangyuan to break up, if you don't want Ruirui to become a single-parent child , you better keep your mouth shut."

Kong Shufang suddenly felt that she was wronged, and she was about to shed tears.Seeing that Kong Zitian didn't look at her indifferently, Kong Shufang couldn't help covering her mouth to prevent herself from crying, and ran into the bedroom.

When Fang Yuan came back, he didn’t see Kong Shufang, so he asked with concern, “Where’s Mom?” Kong Zitian said, “I’m a little tired, I’m going back to my room to rest. I want to have a good chat with you tonight." Fang Yuan said, "Thank you, Dad, for your concern. I have let you down in many things." Confucius Tian said, "I am not disappointed, but I am worried. Xiao Fang, you Pour a glass of water and sit down."

Fangyuan poured a glass of water and sat down opposite Confucius Tian.Confucius Tian asked: "Smoking?" Fang Yuan said: "Smoke one." Fang Yuan also lit a cigarette.

Weng and son-in-law smoked in silence, neither of them spoke.When you smoke and breathe, it is also a time to think.Neither of them had figured out how to start this conversation, from which angle, which matter to cut into.If Fang Yuan was his own son, Confucius would not have so many worries, he would talk about whatever he thought of, and let Fang Yuan digest as much as he could.Although the son-in-law is said to be half a child, he does not have the tacit understanding of father and son, which makes Confucius very embarrassed.

After smoking a cigarette, Confucius said, "Dad was going to attend the listing ceremony of Dongzhou Experimental Middle School this time, but he decided not to go at the banquet tonight. Can you understand Dad's difficulties?"

Fang Yuan nodded: "Dad doesn't want to give excuses to those who have ulterior motives."

Confucius Tian nodded: "Yes. At the banquet tonight, you also saw and heard that Yu Deshui and Ming Yuyun seem to have a good opinion of you!" Fang Yuan said, "Ming Yuyun treats me very well." It was bad because of Yu Sizhuang, the former health director. I heard that the two of them were good friends. Yu Deshui, I don’t know what offended him.” Kong Zitian said: “Yu Deshui is the favorite general of Deputy Secretary Guo. Song Yunsheng is a good friend." Fang Yuan suddenly understood a little bit: "So it is." Kong Zitian said: "Things are by no means as simple as you imagined. Yu Deshui seemed to have compromised in the second half of the banquet. Such a person is more terrifying and more scheming. His compromise today is not because he realized that he was wrong, but because he judged that there is no chance of winning if he continues to fight. He thinks he has a chance of winning. He will definitely not forget the humiliation he felt at today's banquet, and he will definitely get it back doubled. So, Yu Deshui, you have to be careful, no matter how kind and friendly he is, you will never forget You can't tell him the words of your heart."

Confucius Tian's words hit the nail on the head, and Fang Yuan was immediately enlightened: So Yu Deshui's compromise was because there was no chance of winning!

Fang Yuan said: "The banquet tonight made me see the complexity of politics. But there are a lot of words that I don't understand, and I don't understand. Please give me some advice, Dad."

Confucius Tian smiled: "Yes, the banquet tonight is the most vivid political education class. This is much more realistic, vivid and practical than learning the ideology of Leninism in class. nature." Fang Yuan said, "Yes! It's a pity that my skill is too shallow, and I haven't understood many things." Confucius Tian said, "Then we two will discuss it together." Fang Yuan said, "I must listen carefully and study hard. .”

Confucius Tian said: "The position of sitting is actually a science. Originally, the position of sitting is based on the level of the position, but in some occasions, you can also sit according to your subjective wishes. Yu Deshui did not want to sit as the second guest. , and sitting next to Ming Yuyun is not a respect for me, but an attitude: tonight he will stand in the same trench as Ming Yuyun. In addition, sitting next to each other is also convenient for the two of them to communicate closely. A lot of things."

Fang Yuan nodded: "That's true. During the whole dinner, Yu Deshui and Ming Yuyun sang the oboe and sang in harmony."

Confucius Tian said: "Shen Xiuzhang is now the first secretary of the Provincial Party Committee. He has a special position and a low rank, but he has great invisible power. In fact, no one would object to him being the second or third guest tonight, but he sat Being by your side is equally meaningful.”

Fang Yuan said, "Please teach me, Dad."

Confucius Tian said: "This shows that he has no ill feeling towards you, and even wants to have closer contact with you. At the same time, when he sits next to you, he has the implied intention to support you. This may be the meaning of Secretary Zhao of the Provincial Party Committee. , or it may be what Shen Xiuzhang himself meant."

Fang Yuan felt that she had learned a lot.

Confucius Tian said: "Shen Xiuzhang didn't say much all night. It can be seen that he came with a mission. This mission can only be assigned to him by Secretary Zhao of the Provincial Party Committee. He is only responsible for listening, not speaking. It is estimated that he will The whole situation of the banquet must be reported to Secretary Zhao."

Fang Yuan couldn't think of this, but when he thought about what his father-in-law said, he felt it was very reasonable.

Kong Zitian said: "The whole night, what Shen Xiuzhang said was just when he was supporting me, he said lightly that Secretary Zhao had mentioned me Kong Zitian at least three times. The words were neutral, but the meaning of support was very strong. Nong. This means that Secretary Zhao supports me and you, Fangyuan, to a certain extent."

Fang Yuan said: "On the way back, Director Shen didn't say a word. He only said a few words to me after getting off the car."

Confucius Tian said: "This is Shen Xiuzhang's shrewdness. There is a driver in the car, and there is a third party. As the secretary of the provincial party committee, the first priority is to speak strictly. Say. There is a saying in the agency, that is, do more and make more mistakes, do less and make less mistakes, good and good; say more and make mistakes, say less and make fewer mistakes, and don’t say good. In fact, to condense it, it is that silence is golden, wise and safe. Shen Xiuzhangcai He looks less than 40 years old, and has already been deeply obsessed with the philosophy of being an official. This person's future is limitless."

Fang Yuan said: "I will learn more from Director Shen in the future."

Confucius Tian said: "It's not always copying. You have your strengths, and he has his strengths; it may be right for him to be silent in high-level organizations; but in grassroots departments, being too silent is not good. But if you are not silent, Also pay attention to work procedures and work rules. If you often go beyond your superiors to find your superiors, and wipe your ass once or twice, if there are too many times, who else will help you clean up the mess?"