Official Road Hongyan

In the living room of this dormitory, there is a wooden sofa, a tea-colored glass tea table, and a few red-painted high-back chairs, which are probably provided by the party school, in order to provide a meeting place for these department-level leading cadres—— Because a local party and government leader like Zhang Lingzhi, when he was studying at the party school, many people came to visit him or ask for instructions and report on his work.The school arranged a place like this reception room for them to provide them with convenience.

Ye Ming sat down on an armchair next to the sofa, and Zhang Lingzhi also leaned back on that sofa, staring at the TV screen in front of him, and asked casually: "What's the matter with Xiaoye? Just tell me if you have something to say. Entering the class to study, if you have any difficulties in life or study, you can report to me, and I will definitely find a way to solve it for you.”

It turned out that Zhang Lingzhi guessed that Ye Ming came to find him to make a close relationship. He also knew that the eight newcomers would be evaluated and graded by the teacher and class committee members collectively in the future, so he deliberately indifferent to him, even Uncharacteristically, he didn't even pour Ye Ming a glass of water.

He actually knew about the quarrel between Ye Ming and Yan Changgeng last night this morning.For Yan Changgeng, he has never had a good impression. He feels that this person has a lot of gangster habits, is a bit ruffian and hostile, and he speaks without scruples and acts in his own way. It is estimated that this person will fall down on his character sooner or later.Therefore, he has always kept a respectful distance from this person.

But he also didn't have a good impression of Ye Ming.In his opinion, a 26-year-old young man who dared to kick down the door of the dormitory on his first day at the party school, dared to fight with leaders who were several levels above him, no matter how reasonable he was, such a young man It's a big thorn anyway.As a leader of the local government, Zhang Lingzhi likes those subordinates who are docile and obedient, and obey their superiors unconditionally.As for cadres like Ye Ming who are rebellious and dare to offend the dignity of leaders at every turn, he dislikes and rejects them from the bottom of his heart.

It was also for this reason that when he heard about the quarrel between Ye Ming and Yan Changgeng last night, he gave Ye Ming a big cross in his heart and excluded him from the list of friends he could make... …

Ye Ming also saw that Zhang Lingzhi was deliberately indifferent to himself, and when he asked him if there was anything wrong, he smiled and replied: "Mayor Zhang, I just saw in the cafeteria that you didn't go home for the weekend, and I also I happen to have nowhere to go. So I came to visit you at night. I heard Director Zha Jiliang say that the county magistrate Zhang is well-read and knowledgeable. Talking with you is both a kind of enjoyment and a kind of harvest. So, I will Don't take the liberty to visit, I hope I don't disturb County Magistrate Zhang."

It turned out that before Ye Ming came to visit Zhang Lingzhi, he had already imagined: If Zhang Lingzhi didn't welcome him and didn't want to have a deep talk with him, what should he say and how should he break the deadlock?

He heard from Zha Jiliang that Zhang Lingzhi usually likes to read books, especially classics and historical records.Moreover, he has always been conceited about his level of knowledge. Although he doesn't show it usually, he is very active and excited when he talks about historical figures and historical allusions with others, and sometimes he can even talk endlessly. Discuss with people for a long time, and will throw out a lot of views and opinions that he has summed up, trying to persuade others to accept.

Therefore, Ye Ming decided to start with the topic of Zhang Lingzhi's love of reading, hoping to arouse his interest.

As the saying goes: "Thousands of clothes, ten thousand clothes, flattery doesn't wear it!" Although Zhang Lingzhi was a little cold towards Ye Ming, he didn't want to have an in-depth conversation with him.However, listening to the short passage he just said to himself, this young man seems to have something in his stomach. Those few idioms are used just right, especially the sentence "Talking with you is both a kind of enjoyment and a kind of pleasure." Harvest", listening to it in my ears, I feel extra comfortable and pleasing to the ear...

So, he withdrew his eyes from the TV screen, turned his head and glanced at Ye Ming, and saw that he had a modest smile on his face, his expression was sincere and natural, his eyes were focused and enthusiastic, and what he just said was also true. Very decent.

So, the expression on his face finally relaxed a little, he smiled slightly, and said, "Xiaoye, why did Director Zha tell you about me? That's right, I usually like to read some books, and I also like to do something while reading. Think a little bit, and make a little summary. Judging from your resume, you graduated from the Chinese Department, so you should have some accomplishments and skills in literature!"

Ye Ming smiled hurriedly and said: "Major Zhang, I like literature and history, but I don't have much attainment and foundation. Compared with your erudite knowledge, my superficial knowledge can be described in one sentence, That is the light of firefly candles is not at the same level as the brightness of the sun and the moon! Hehehe!"

After Ye Ming said this flattering, even he felt a little red-faced - he was not a person who was good at flattering, and he usually felt disgusted when he heard others flattering the leader.But today, after some enlightenment from Zha Jiliang, I remembered that I was about to officially enter the official career in the future, and I would face all kinds of flattering people and hear a lot of nasty flattering. If I am not used to this A little bit, some exercise, I'm afraid it will be difficult to adapt to this officialdom in the future.

Therefore, he made up his mind tonight that he must practice his ability and eloquence in flattering people, and also see how the person he is flattered reacts to test his "flattery effect"...

Moreover, when he was working in the County Local Taxation Bureau, he once had dinner with a deputy director of the County Government Office.The deputy director got a little drunk, and suddenly started talking about "flattery" to Ye Ming.

According to the deputy director: Any leader, no matter how wise and shrewd he is, always likes to hear his subordinates say good things about him, and likes to be flattered just right by others.Sometimes, when a subordinate is touting the leader, the people next to him may feel a little disgusted and a little nauseous.However, the leader who is praised will not feel this way. Many leaders will be dizzy and fluttered by the praise, and will have a sense of intimacy and confidanty with the subordinate who praises themselves-this is why The main reason why many people who are good at flattering leaders will gain the trust and promotion of leaders faster.

However, flattering is not so easy. There are many skills and experience in it, the most important of which is: flattering must be targeted, not blindly flattering, let alone talking in general terms, but grasping what the leader is most interested in , to be touted appropriately, so that the leaders can be interested, and only then can they really scratch the leader's itch.Really talk about the leader's heart.