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Chapter 113
Medium: Mind Reading: Knowing and Influencing Those Around You Without Knowing It
Chapter 7 Mind-reading exercise 7: The social code of the Enneagram
Section [-] Artistic Personality: The pursuit of individuality is selfish
Aspects of mind reading:
What kind of person is an "artistic personality"?
Wonderful interpretation of mind:
People with an artistic personality believe that individuality is very important, so they often go against the trend, expressing their unconventional ideas and distinctive behaviors.However, these practices of theirs often arouse others' misunderstanding, thinking that they are just grandstanding, in order to attract others' attention, some people even despise these people who want to maintain their individuality, and use various possible methods to treat them. It punishes.Therefore, if you maintain your individuality and live too much on your own, it is very dangerous not to be recognized by the society, and you have to pay a heavy price for your actions.

Xiao Min likes fashion design very much. Her design style always pursues alternative styles, but her life circle is mostly people with conservative thinking or who don't have much knowledge and research on clothing.At the beginning, people felt that Xiao Min's clothes were very special and could give people a refreshing feeling, but after a long time, others began to think that she put too much emphasis on the pursuit of clothes and ignored the general feelings.

It can be seen that while maintaining individuality, if you cannot integrate into the group, then you will have to bear a lot of pressure for yourself.Society is a crowd of countless individuals, and each person's living space is not very large, so when you want to stretch your limbs and feel comfortable, you must be careful not to bump into others.

It is true that making public your personality is definitely more comfortable than suppressing your personality, but if making public your personality is just a kind of willfulness, a kind of impulsiveness, or even a kind of indulgence to your own defects and bad habits, then this kind of publicity will definitely benefit your future. is no good.

Many people are keen to show off their individuality, and a considerable part of it is a habit, a desire to be able to do whatever they want.They don't want to bind their behavior in complicated rules and regulations, they want to vent their emotions freely.

But as a person in a society, can you really be so "free and easy"?For example, if you drive on the road, if you just go your own way and don’t pay attention to the traffic rules, the police will interfere with you and ask you for a fine.

"Stand above the crowd and get pecked by chickens", so in a sense, "go your own way and let others say it", this kind of attitude is not very feasible in real life.

When you flaunt your personality, you must consider what your flamboyant personality is, and you must pay attention to the degree of acceptance by others.If your personality is a very obvious shortcoming, your best choice is to get rid of it, not to make it public.Don't let flamboyance be a pretty excuse for indulging in your weaknesses.The society needs you to create value, so the first thing people pay attention to is whether the quality of your work is conducive to creating value.Personality is no exception. Only when your personality does not affect others can your personality be accepted by society.

It is a mature and wise choice to properly restrain your personality and integrate into the group as much as possible.

(End of this chapter)