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Chapter 160 Part Two
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Chapter 5 Psychological Strategy 5: See people by their "heart" and have real friends
Section [-] Five Kinds of "Friends" You Must Stay Away From

Mental Wisdom Call:

When the friends around you have some unforgivable shortcomings, you should be more careful when interacting with them.

Skillful in control:

Everyone has their own strengths, and making friends can learn from others' strengths. At the same time, everyone has their own shortcomings. Some shortcomings are forgivable, but some are unforgivable.When the friends around you have some unforgivable shortcomings, you should be more careful when interacting with them.

1. Wine and meat friends
Some people seem to have a lot of friends at first glance, but in fact they are all wine and meat friends, cheating on eating and drinking all day long. Once they really need help, they all disappear without a trace.

Friends of wine and meat are often greedy people, greedy for petty gains everywhere.They use money to talk about closeness, and they make friends because they are useful, and when they are useful, they get close, and when they are useless, they stay away.

2. A double-faced friend

Some people have ulterior motives, doing one thing to the face and another behind the back.One should be cautious and careful with such people, and try to avoid them as much as possible, let alone making friends.

To judge whether a person is double-faced, it is difficult to distinguish in a short period of time.Such people often speak beautifully in front of you, boasting that you are high-spirited, and what they show is loyalty and honesty, but they have sinister intentions behind them.People with a double-faced nature are good at telling stories. They speak ill of him in front of you and speak ill of you in front of him. They will never give up until conflicts arise.

3. Friends who are too selfish
It is an indisputable fact that there can be no people in the world who do not plan for themselves at all.But it is impossible for a sensible and moral person to only think of himself and seek his own personal gain.Those who only think about themselves and their personal interests are most likely to hurt not those who are unfamiliar with them, but those who are more familiar and close to them.Because familiar people and close people have more contacts and exchanges with them.In contact and communication, they deliberately and do everything possible to take advantage of familiar and close people for their own interests.For a little profit, they even betrayed their friends, just to satisfy their ridiculous desires.

4. Picky friends

There is a kind of people, no matter who they deal with, no matter what they do, they can pick out the "bone" in the "egg".The characteristic of this kind of people is that everything is not pleasing to the eye, and they are not satisfied with everything. They see that there is something wrong with others, and they can find imperfections in the most perfect things. Problems, they can find clues in people they respect that don't satisfy them.On the surface, they seem to have a good relationship with you, but as soon as they turn around, they will hurt you immediately.

5. An ungrateful friend

The kindness of dripping water should be reciprocated by springs, which is the basic morality of being a human being.If you make friends with people who are ungrateful and ungrateful, you are digging your own grave.For example, someone adopted an orphan and spent decades of hard work to support the adopted son to go to college and find a good job.The adoptee was old and seriously ill, and the hospitalization exhausted the family resources, so he asked his children to borrow money from the adopted son.This ungrateful person knew that the old man's illness could not be cured, so he only gave 50 yuan to the benefactor's child and said to him: "Don't come to me again!" Such a person, do you dare to associate with him?
You don't have to have many friends, but you must have real friends.Pick out those who have other motives, stay away from them, and treat such people as friends, and you will only suffer.

(End of this chapter)