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Chapter 24 Part [-]
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Chapter 5 Interrogation Scene 5: Interrogative Secret Words to See Through a Man’s Heart
In the second quarter, the "venomous tongue offensive" blocked the "boss' unspoken rules"

Mini Scene House: How to stop male bosses from sending ambiguous signals to themselves.

Question story session:
Xiao Ou is a secretary of a company. She is naturally beautiful, tall and has many suitors, but she said that she still wants to enjoy the freedom and happiness of being alone again, and many suitors just quit.However, Xiaoou's leader has frequently talked to her recently, most of which are not about work, but about life.

"Xiao Ou, do you know? I am usually very depressed. I am busy with work during the day, and no one talks at night. I am tired and depressed, and no one tells me."

"Manager Wang, aren't you married?"

"Living in two places, the relationship is normal. Xiao Ou, how long have you been in the company?"

While speaking, the manager lit a cigarette for himself, watching Xiao Ou from time to time.

"It's been more than half a year."

"What do you think of me?"

Xiao Ou gradually noticed something was wrong with Manager Wang, and the topic seemed to be getting more and more private.

"It's pretty good, I guess your wife thinks so too?"

"Her? Don't talk about her, just talk about you today."

"Manager Wang, are you interested in me?"

Manager Wang thought that Xiao Ou also had this intention, so he leaned forward.

"What do you think?" Manager Wang's eyes were a little bewitched.

Xiaoou's voice suddenly became louder.

"Manager Wang, please show some respect! Although I am a small employee, I still have my own dignity. I have a wife who is still flirting with other women. Do you want me to be a third party?"

"No, no, I really like you."

"Really like me? Then do you dare to move out of the house your wife bought? Do you dare to call her now and say that you have another woman now and want to divorce her?"

"This this……"

"Don't you dare. Fucking outside behind your wife's back, are you afraid that I will call her and say you want to have an affair with me?"

"Ah...don't, don't."

Manager Wang's face suddenly changed.

"Xiao Ou, I was joking with you just now. I already have a wife, why would I still do that kind of thing with you? Don't tell others about this. Remember, it's just a joke. "

After speaking, he left resentfully.And a few days later, Xiao Ou also submitted his resignation and left the company.

Wonderful question:

In the emotional world, women sometimes prefer older, mature men.Such men are more down-to-earth and have more sense of security.Many men take advantage of this to deceive women's feelings, saying that they are sincere to each other, but in fact they want to have fun and find something new.Women who do not see through this are often deceived.

Xiao Ou is a shrewd woman. Although she couldn't grasp the meaning of the manager's words at first, through deliberate probing and questioning, the manager's true intentions were fully exposed: he wanted to be ambiguous and have an affair.Faced with this situation, women usually have two responses: one is to obey, the other party is the leader, and promises to divorce, why not follow him?The other is to resist and question the other party with a "venomous tongue".Xiao Ou's response belongs to the latter.

A man whose career has developed to a certain stage, if there is not too much pressure in life and other aspects, sometimes wants to find emotional stimulation.They just want to find something fresh and relieve the short-term emotional loneliness.Therefore, the women men in this period need are only temporary, and they hope to be able to take them in and out freely: if the backyard of the house is not on fire, they can still be happy outside.This kind of thinking is the thinking of Manager Wang in the story.

However, Xiao Ou's series of doubts bankrupted his unruly idea: wanting to have two women is irresponsible.Sweet words are useless to Xiao Ou, she knows how important Mrs. Wang is to him, so it is not difficult to expose lies.

In the world of men and women, men often have a curiosity-seeking psychology: what is not available is always the best.In life and in the workplace, if you meet such a man or boss and know their thoughts, you must learn to respond with a "venomous tongue" so that they will reveal their sincerity and make the "hidden rules" go nowhere.

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