Chapter 23 Part [-]
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Chapter 5 Interrogation Scene 5: Interrogative Secret Words to See Through a Man’s Heart
In the first quarter, the tip of the needle is facing the wheat, forcing out the "water content" in the man's promise

Mini scene house:
How to test out the authenticity of a man's promise.

Question story session:
Woman: "Honey, when will you introduce your friend to me?"

Man: "What's the hurry, can't you take it step by step?"

Woman: "Am I in a hurry? How many times have you said it, and when will it be fulfilled? Are you just joking? Lied to me?"

Man: "No, I'm telling the truth."

The woman asked, "When was that? And your parents, they haven't said they want to introduce you to me until now. I'm ashamed to say if I've met your parents."

Man: "Okay, okay, after a while, okay?"

Woman: "I want to act, not explain."

Wonderful question:

When a man and a woman get along, men often say more and do less. Women believe it in the early stage and question it when they find something wrong.At this time, women will have a question: When a man promises, how can I know whether it is true or false?How can I ask him the truth?
From the dialogue between the hero and the heroine, it can be seen that the man made many promises to the woman at the beginning: seeing his parents and friends, but in the end, none of them were fulfilled.There is a saying that a man's promise is written on water, if you say no, you will lose it.When a man makes a promise, he is so sincere that there is no doubt about it. Sometimes it is harder to realize it than to reach the sky.

The man in the story said his promise was true, and the woman responded, it was true, why not keep it?From the man's answer, we can clearly feel that he has been evading and refusing.Once a person is not sincere with you, he will have reservations about you.This kind of reservation includes not letting you enter his circle of friends, get to know his parents, and learn about his past.It's painful to be with such a man, so how to expose the lies in his promises?The best way is to question him directly.

"You said take me to see your friend, when exactly?"

"Don't let me see your parents, don't you take me seriously at all and play with my feelings?"

"Why do you have reservations about me? What exactly can't you let me know?"

As soon as such a question comes out, if he is sincere, he will immediately explain to you the reason for not taking you to see your parents and friends, and set a precise time to fulfill his promise.If faced with such a question, he still answers vaguely, saying that he is busy and will wait when he has time, you should seriously consider the possibility of continuing to develop with such a man.If a man only gives women empty promises, is such a man worth dating?
There are many similar commitments for men, such as:

"Honey, wait for me for two years, and I will make a lot of money to buy you a house and a car."

"Honey, after a while, when I finish dealing with the matters at hand, I will take you abroad for a trip."

"Trust me, everything I say will come true."

What a woman wants is not a man's promise, but a man to turn his promise into reality.It is better to say well than to do well. For men and women, listen to their words and watch their actions.

(End of this chapter)

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