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Chapter 30 Part [-]
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Chapter 6 Interrogation scene 6: The secret that women cannot tell

Section [-] Emotional Lie Detector: Word Vulnerabilities Leak the Secret
Mini scene house:
How to use a woman's words to find out if she is lying or acting unfaithful to herself.

Question story session:
The man just came back from a business trip, and he stayed at home alone in a sullen mood.A few days ago, he heard that his wife had done something sorry for him, so he hurriedly returned home from a business trip, but his wife was not at home.He didn't know where his wife had gone, or if what his friends told him was true, everything was uncertain, and he wanted to talk to her.

About half an hour later, the wife came back.

Man: "Where did you go?"

Woman: "I went to a friend's place."

Man: "Go to your friend's place? What did you do?"

Female: "I didn't do anything. I spent an hour with her in a beauty salon near her home to have my hair done, and then I had a meal. I received your call just after the meal."

Man: "I remember so clearly, you don't seem to have such a good memory before. How are you doing when I'm not at home these days?"

Female: "How am I doing when you're not at home? It's still the same, don't I expect you to come back every day?"

The man smiled slightly: "There has been a change. You can even say sweet things. You didn't say anything before, why are you so active now?"

Female: "No way, don't think about it, have you heard some crazy talk?"

Man: "Funny, crazy talk? That's not it. I just thought you might be bored when I wasn't home, didn't you?"

Female: "It's okay, you can find friends when you're bored."

Man: "Like that?"

Woman: "Which one? Oh, yes, yes."

Man: "Does your friend live far away?"

Female: "It's quite far, and it will take an hour by taxi."

Man: "It's so far away, how did you come back so quickly just now?"

Woman: "We were in another place just now."

Man: "Didn't you say you were near her house? You came back half an hour after I called, and you just said it would take at least an hour to get to her house. How do you explain that?"

Female: "This... I was wrong, maybe it's not that far away..."

Man: "Are you still lying? How long do you want to hide from me?"

Female: "I..."

Wonderful question:

Whether a woman is lying or not, and how she behaves when she is lying, are difficult questions for men to answer.A man must learn to carefully ponder what a woman says, and once he finds a clue, he must not miss it. Only by asking to the end can he find out what she really thinks.

In the story, the man grasped the fact that his wife’s friends live far and near and asked what happened. Whether it’s half an hour or an hour’s drive is not the point. , can you not make people suspicious?People who have never uttered sweet words also started to speak, and did it on their own initiative, was it a compliment or a cover-up?At this time, great changes have taken place in the wife's heart, from trying to cover up at the beginning, to delaying and being forced to admit later.

During the entire conversation, the husband did not fly into a rage or become furious, but basically maintained a peaceful state of mind.This kind of mentality enables him to catch the subtle loopholes in the other party's words in the conversation with his wife. If he directly questions the other party, it may be counterproductive, and his wife will cover it up deeper and be less likely to be discovered.

When a person is lying, they often repeat what the other person said.

"What did you do yesterday?"

"You asked me what I did yesterday? Let me think about it."

The process of repetition is actually the process of making up words, and he is giving himself time to think of countermeasures.And the wife in the story also used this method.At the same time, the memory of the liar will suddenly "better". When you ask him what he has done, he will say it accurately and in detail.You may be surprised, in fact, he has already thought up the answers to the questions that may be asked before the meeting, and he will answer you when you ask.

Therefore, when you want to judge whether a woman is loyal to you or whether she is lying, you only need to catch the loopholes in her language and observe whether there is a sudden change, and you can see her clearly.

(End of this chapter)