female sexual motivation
Chapter 20 Responsibility
Chapter 20 Responsibility (2)
There are many prescription medications for testosterone supplementation—pills, syrups, capsules, and most commonly creams that are applied to the clitoris and labia minora.According to relevant studies, supplementing testosterone can help rekindle desire in women who lack testosterone, and it has a more significant effect on postmenopausal women.In addition, DHEA can be bought in drugstores, and DHEA is converted into testosterone immediately after entering the body.The standard dosage is 50 to 150 mg per day, taken every morning.It usually takes a few months for it to take effect.However, women who want to take DHEA to boost their testosterone should know that such drugs, like other herbal supplements, are not regulated by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration.Therefore, although the content of DHEA is indicated on the outer packaging of the medicine bottle, the actual content may be quite different from the indicated value.
Note that if a woman has a low libido but normal testosterone production, testosterone supplementation will not help.Moreover, supplementing testosterone without lacking testosterone can cause side effects, such as impaired liver function, facial hair, acne, hair loss, and even a thicker voice.Unless you want to turn your partner off, be sure to use testosterone supplements sparingly.
Disorders caused by pregnancy
A woman's libido can change dramatically during pregnancy and after childbirth.It has to do with emotions during pregnancy, such as whether two people feel aroused, whether morning sickness is severe, how well the pregnant woman sleeps, whether the pregnant woman hates her growing body, and whether two people worry about the penis during intercourse Will poke a child in the eye (it's possible, by the way).
Hormonal changes occur during pregnancy.Neither estrogen nor progesterone will rise and fall as before, but will increase sharply at the same time, which is beneficial for women to produce milk after giving birth, and increase the thickness of the endometrium to prevent miscarriage.Increased estrogen may increase a woman's sex drive, but increased progesterone may make a woman feel tired, prone to tantrums, and unable to even think about sex.
Postpartum, a woman's libido is most likely to decrease, at least for a short time:
It's been months since our son was born and I still can't get sexually excited.And we haven't had sex since before the baby was born, so I feel guilty.Then I pretended to be interested in sex.
—Heterosexual female, 35 years old
In the postpartum months, women's lives are irregular and their hormones are out of whack, so it's not surprising to experience a drop in libido.Women who give birth naturally have vaginal pain after delivery, and women who have cesarean section have postpartum weakness and wound pain.Combined with caring for the baby overnight, most women feel exhausted during these months.
Hormonal changes in the body after childbirth undergo drastic changes again. During this period, mood, sleep, and libido will all be affected.If the mother is breastfeeding, oxytocin increases in the body -- but this time the role of oxytocin is to deepen the intimacy between mother and child, not the relationship between husband and wife.At this time, the estrogen in the maternal body begins to decrease.Because estrogen triggers the release of chemicals in the brain that make you feel better, when estrogen decreases, women can feel low and even suffer from postpartum depression.
Oxytocin, which is released as a result of breastfeeding, may also suppress testosterone production, which can negatively affect a woman's libido.From an evolutionary perspective, postpartum decreased libido and pregnancy-suppressing hormonal changes play an important role in spaced births.Our ancestors discovered that if children were born in quick succession, life would be very difficult.So a lowered libido is just the thing to avoid immediate pregnancy and thus ensure the child has enough food to thrive.In traditional cultures, the normal interval between births is three and a half years.
So how long does it take to get back to normal libido after giving birth?It depends on many factors, the most important being how long it takes for a woman to get enough sleep and feel like her life is on track:
Two people have been together for a long time (we have been together for almost six years), and there will always be times when they don't want to have sex.We have two children, the elder is two years old and the younger one is one year old.After I gave birth to my daughter (who is one year old), I have been busy feeding my daughter at night and taking care of my two children during the day.I was so exhausted that I just wanted to crawl into bed and sleep for a while, not having sex at all.But just because I've lost my former enthusiasm doesn't mean my fiancé isn't interested either.Obviously he was in a mood, kissing my neck, stroking my body tenderly up and down, trying to please me, I don't have the heart to hurt him, and I also feel that I should do my duty, so as long as he wants, I will satisfy him.
—Heterosexual female, 22 years old
A small number of women may never be able to return to their previous state after becoming mothers. The main reason may be that the couple devotes all their energy to their children and has no time to talk about love.Some mothers focus so much on their children that "mother" becomes her main or only identity.They are busy preparing nutritious meals for their children every day, no longer wear sexy underwear, and no longer hear the sound of wanton jubilation at night.Unless partners remind them again and again, years later two people can suddenly find that they have lost their relationship altogether.By the time they realize this, they have become accustomed to the life of daily necessities, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea, and they can no longer arouse lust for their partners.There may also be biological reasons for a woman's decreased libido, but this is extremely rare.Some researchers believe that pregnancy can permanently destroy the function of testosterone secretion in the body, and women's sexual desire will be permanently suppressed.
Drugs that cause sexual dysfunction
There are many reasons for low libido besides pregnancy.The most common are diseases that cause painful sex, such as pelvic cancer, pelvic surgery, pelvic trauma, vaginal infection, urinary tract infection, etc.But any disease may lead to a decrease in female sexual desire, because the disease makes people weak, painful, listless, out of shape, etc. In this state, there is definitely no interest in sex.
Many prescription drugs have the side effect of suppressing libido. Some prescription drugs can change the hormones in the body, and some can affect the chemicals in the brain responsible for sexual arousal, which can indirectly prevent women from being sexually aroused or orgasm.For example, birth control pills that drastically reduce testosterone in the body can suppress libido, especially oral contraceptives that contain norethindrone and norethindrone.
It has long been believed that antidepressant drugs -- drugs primarily used to treat psychiatric disorders characterized by depressed mood -- have side effects that can lead to sexual dysfunction.An estimated 96 percent of women who take selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), a type of antidepressant drug, experience frigidity, difficulty arousing, or lack of orgasm, among other problems.More than half of the women thought the medical profession should take the drug's side effects seriously.One interviewed woman talked about the side effects of the drug:
He's more sexual than I am, so sometimes I feel like I have to push myself to meet his needs.He doesn't put any pressure on me.But I myself put pressure on myself because I think normal sex is part of the relationship.I suffer from depression and am on antidepressants, so basically have no libido.It doesn't matter that I don't have sex for months at a time, but it's not fair to him.
—Heterosexual female, 38 years old
Most antidepressant drugs work by increasing serotonin in the brain to reduce symptoms of depression, because people with depression are generally deficient in serotonin.However, animal experiments have shown that the receptors in the brain that "recognize" serotonin are also responsible for the normal functioning of sexual function.Too much serotonin can lead to sexual dysfunction.Over the past decade, the medical community has made great strides in developing antidepressants that have no side effects on libido.These newer drugs include nefazodone, bupropion, citalopram, mirtazapine, and others, and these newer antidepressants are more effective than drugs developed a decade or more ago, such as Prozac and paroxetine. Less side effects on sexual function.Anxiolytics (such as Valium, Alprazolam, Valium, Buspirone) and antipsychotics (such as Haloperidol, Chlorpromazine, Thioridazine) also interfere with chemicals in the brain that trigger sexual dysfunction.
Finally, some blood pressure-lowering drugs used to treat high blood pressure, such as reserpine and clonidine, can block blood flow to a woman's genitals, making it impossible for a woman to be sexually aroused or have an orgasm.Anti-allergic over-the-counter antihistamines, such as ketamine, Antalole, and cyproheptadine hydrochloride, can cause vaginal mucosa to dry out, thereby affecting women's normal libido.
The reaction to drugs varies from person to person. Generally speaking, if a certain drug has greater side effects on sexual function, other drugs without side effects can be used instead.Sometimes the side effects of the drug will disappear on their own after a few weeks, and sometimes the doctor may suggest stopping the drug for 2 to 3 days to reduce the side effects.
Disgusting
Most people are only interested in a partner who is in good shape, so if your partner slowly loses shape, it can be a turn off.It is the same whether it is a man or a woman.
As people age, people gain weight.A certain degree of obesity will not affect the appearance, but if it is too obese, it will make most women feel unbearable.However, things are not that simple.Overweight partners may feel that they are not very competitive in the mate market, and naturally they are less likely to break up or have an affair, so they will bring a sense of security to their partners.And a partner who maintains a better shape may become stronger because of it.
Poor personal hygiene also turns off most women.If a person is always covered in sweat, unkempt hair, cigarette smoke or bad breath, who would want to approach you? In Eugenics and Sexual Harmony, published in 1933, there is a chapter titled "Broken Dreams", in which the author describes how personal hygiene can make women's sexual interest completely dull:
The romantic dream of the sweet wife was shattered by the cold reality.She found that the shining Prince Charming was just an ordinary man, and if he didn't remind him every morning, he would forget to shave, and he had to remind him by the ear when he came back at night, otherwise he would forget to take a bath This thing.She will find that he does a good job of covering up some of his vices when he is in love.She would discover that her husband liked to smoke a strong-smelling pipe, which gave off a sickening stench in his mouth.And he might be chewing tobacco, his feet and armpits stink, and he doesn't know how to wash with formaldehyde or do anything else to get rid of it.In short, the wife's magnificent dream became fragmented like this.
In the same way, because status and wealth are weapons to attract women, if a man gradually loses his original status or wealth, then women's love for him will gradually fade.
Another, though less common, reason a woman loses enthusiasm for a partner is a change in her sexual orientation.It is also possible that she knew her sexual orientation from the beginning, but she was afraid or unwilling to let others know until the two people had a relatively stable relationship:
I can't get satisfaction from my married life, I only have sex to please my husband, I regard sex as a responsibility.Because I didn't have the enthusiasm to make out with him, he felt left out and suspected that I had a lover outside.I was 19 and he was 27 when we got married.I know I like women, but my husband doesn't want to discuss it with me at all.I gradually began to hate him, I think I did my duty as a wife, but who ever thought about my true feelings, I think he doesn't care whether I get satisfaction from sex life or not.Since then, there has been a gap between us, and I think this may also be the root cause of the breakdown of our marriage.
—Heterosexual female, 35 years old
disappointment and boredom
If your partner's bed skills are poor and unprogressive, then in the long run, it will definitely disappoint the other party and greatly reduce the libido.Some men think that the perfect selfless lover is to get straight to the point and start rubbing the woman's clitoris frantically as soon as he comes up.Big mistake, for women, foreplay is more important than anything else, and foreplay begins with little things in life. The Erotic Woman is a witty but truthful account of this.There is an illustration in the book of a handsome man sitting at the kitchen table, morning coffee in hand, saying to his lover, "Oh, by the way, there's a football final today, and we'll be sure to get it when we go to the craft market." Find an empty parking space." If a man wants to get a woman who is passionate, he should start with the little things every day, not just trying to please before "doing things."
The most common complaint of women who have been married for many years is that their sex life is too bland and boring.One woman interviewed described a routine sex life like this:
I love my husband, but the longer I've been married, let me put it bluntly, sex isn't as exciting as it used to be.Everything is done step by step, like a routine.We're trying to be a little "spontaneous" but the funny thing is I can predict his every move.I have sex because I feel I "owe" him as a wife, but also because I love him and I want him to be happy.In fact, while most of the time I choked on it without saying a word, every once in a while I complained, and I told him how happy I was when I was done.He seems to understand me a little bit now.Our marriage is very happy.
—Heterosexual female, 48 years old
Because heterosexual women typically marry older men, they may face and adjust to the reality of their partner's sexual inefficiency at a young age.This will undoubtedly lead to decreased libido in women.For example, if a partner suffers from premature ejaculation, which is the ejaculation of semen within a short period of intercourse, and sometimes cannot complete intercourse at all, then the woman must feel disappointed and lose sexual interest in her partner.In the same way, if a man is impotent, then women will naturally have no interest in him.
Lorraine Dana Stein, a psychologist at the University of Melbourne in Australia, conducted a large-scale survey of middle-aged women and found that with the increase of marriage age, women's sexual desire is getting lower and lower.In other words, the longer you are married, the more you hate sex.
The survey also mentioned changes in women's libido before, during and after menopause.Some women have little change before and after menopause, some women have decreased libido after menopause, however, a few women have increased libido after menopause.Why does libido increase after menopause?Did you use some magic drug?Could it be that their sexual partners are suddenly superior in bed?Did they learn new sex skills?The answer is all no, and the best explanation is that these women just happened to find new sexual partners after menopause.
Old couples should learn several skills to keep their love fresh, for example, try new ways of making love, watch or read sex stories together, make love casually, change the time or place of making love, have a romantic vacation without being disturbed, etc. wait.
when love turns sour
Occasional squabbles or fights can help deepen the bond.But the constant bickering wears out both of you over time, as the song "How To Kiss That Mouth That Screams You Up By Day" is sung by American Cherry Bad Guys.
(End of this chapter)
There are many prescription medications for testosterone supplementation—pills, syrups, capsules, and most commonly creams that are applied to the clitoris and labia minora.According to relevant studies, supplementing testosterone can help rekindle desire in women who lack testosterone, and it has a more significant effect on postmenopausal women.In addition, DHEA can be bought in drugstores, and DHEA is converted into testosterone immediately after entering the body.The standard dosage is 50 to 150 mg per day, taken every morning.It usually takes a few months for it to take effect.However, women who want to take DHEA to boost their testosterone should know that such drugs, like other herbal supplements, are not regulated by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration.Therefore, although the content of DHEA is indicated on the outer packaging of the medicine bottle, the actual content may be quite different from the indicated value.
Note that if a woman has a low libido but normal testosterone production, testosterone supplementation will not help.Moreover, supplementing testosterone without lacking testosterone can cause side effects, such as impaired liver function, facial hair, acne, hair loss, and even a thicker voice.Unless you want to turn your partner off, be sure to use testosterone supplements sparingly.
Disorders caused by pregnancy
A woman's libido can change dramatically during pregnancy and after childbirth.It has to do with emotions during pregnancy, such as whether two people feel aroused, whether morning sickness is severe, how well the pregnant woman sleeps, whether the pregnant woman hates her growing body, and whether two people worry about the penis during intercourse Will poke a child in the eye (it's possible, by the way).
Hormonal changes occur during pregnancy.Neither estrogen nor progesterone will rise and fall as before, but will increase sharply at the same time, which is beneficial for women to produce milk after giving birth, and increase the thickness of the endometrium to prevent miscarriage.Increased estrogen may increase a woman's sex drive, but increased progesterone may make a woman feel tired, prone to tantrums, and unable to even think about sex.
Postpartum, a woman's libido is most likely to decrease, at least for a short time:
It's been months since our son was born and I still can't get sexually excited.And we haven't had sex since before the baby was born, so I feel guilty.Then I pretended to be interested in sex.
—Heterosexual female, 35 years old
In the postpartum months, women's lives are irregular and their hormones are out of whack, so it's not surprising to experience a drop in libido.Women who give birth naturally have vaginal pain after delivery, and women who have cesarean section have postpartum weakness and wound pain.Combined with caring for the baby overnight, most women feel exhausted during these months.
Hormonal changes in the body after childbirth undergo drastic changes again. During this period, mood, sleep, and libido will all be affected.If the mother is breastfeeding, oxytocin increases in the body -- but this time the role of oxytocin is to deepen the intimacy between mother and child, not the relationship between husband and wife.At this time, the estrogen in the maternal body begins to decrease.Because estrogen triggers the release of chemicals in the brain that make you feel better, when estrogen decreases, women can feel low and even suffer from postpartum depression.
Oxytocin, which is released as a result of breastfeeding, may also suppress testosterone production, which can negatively affect a woman's libido.From an evolutionary perspective, postpartum decreased libido and pregnancy-suppressing hormonal changes play an important role in spaced births.Our ancestors discovered that if children were born in quick succession, life would be very difficult.So a lowered libido is just the thing to avoid immediate pregnancy and thus ensure the child has enough food to thrive.In traditional cultures, the normal interval between births is three and a half years.
So how long does it take to get back to normal libido after giving birth?It depends on many factors, the most important being how long it takes for a woman to get enough sleep and feel like her life is on track:
Two people have been together for a long time (we have been together for almost six years), and there will always be times when they don't want to have sex.We have two children, the elder is two years old and the younger one is one year old.After I gave birth to my daughter (who is one year old), I have been busy feeding my daughter at night and taking care of my two children during the day.I was so exhausted that I just wanted to crawl into bed and sleep for a while, not having sex at all.But just because I've lost my former enthusiasm doesn't mean my fiancé isn't interested either.Obviously he was in a mood, kissing my neck, stroking my body tenderly up and down, trying to please me, I don't have the heart to hurt him, and I also feel that I should do my duty, so as long as he wants, I will satisfy him.
—Heterosexual female, 22 years old
A small number of women may never be able to return to their previous state after becoming mothers. The main reason may be that the couple devotes all their energy to their children and has no time to talk about love.Some mothers focus so much on their children that "mother" becomes her main or only identity.They are busy preparing nutritious meals for their children every day, no longer wear sexy underwear, and no longer hear the sound of wanton jubilation at night.Unless partners remind them again and again, years later two people can suddenly find that they have lost their relationship altogether.By the time they realize this, they have become accustomed to the life of daily necessities, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea, and they can no longer arouse lust for their partners.There may also be biological reasons for a woman's decreased libido, but this is extremely rare.Some researchers believe that pregnancy can permanently destroy the function of testosterone secretion in the body, and women's sexual desire will be permanently suppressed.
Drugs that cause sexual dysfunction
There are many reasons for low libido besides pregnancy.The most common are diseases that cause painful sex, such as pelvic cancer, pelvic surgery, pelvic trauma, vaginal infection, urinary tract infection, etc.But any disease may lead to a decrease in female sexual desire, because the disease makes people weak, painful, listless, out of shape, etc. In this state, there is definitely no interest in sex.
Many prescription drugs have the side effect of suppressing libido. Some prescription drugs can change the hormones in the body, and some can affect the chemicals in the brain responsible for sexual arousal, which can indirectly prevent women from being sexually aroused or orgasm.For example, birth control pills that drastically reduce testosterone in the body can suppress libido, especially oral contraceptives that contain norethindrone and norethindrone.
It has long been believed that antidepressant drugs -- drugs primarily used to treat psychiatric disorders characterized by depressed mood -- have side effects that can lead to sexual dysfunction.An estimated 96 percent of women who take selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), a type of antidepressant drug, experience frigidity, difficulty arousing, or lack of orgasm, among other problems.More than half of the women thought the medical profession should take the drug's side effects seriously.One interviewed woman talked about the side effects of the drug:
He's more sexual than I am, so sometimes I feel like I have to push myself to meet his needs.He doesn't put any pressure on me.But I myself put pressure on myself because I think normal sex is part of the relationship.I suffer from depression and am on antidepressants, so basically have no libido.It doesn't matter that I don't have sex for months at a time, but it's not fair to him.
—Heterosexual female, 38 years old
Most antidepressant drugs work by increasing serotonin in the brain to reduce symptoms of depression, because people with depression are generally deficient in serotonin.However, animal experiments have shown that the receptors in the brain that "recognize" serotonin are also responsible for the normal functioning of sexual function.Too much serotonin can lead to sexual dysfunction.Over the past decade, the medical community has made great strides in developing antidepressants that have no side effects on libido.These newer drugs include nefazodone, bupropion, citalopram, mirtazapine, and others, and these newer antidepressants are more effective than drugs developed a decade or more ago, such as Prozac and paroxetine. Less side effects on sexual function.Anxiolytics (such as Valium, Alprazolam, Valium, Buspirone) and antipsychotics (such as Haloperidol, Chlorpromazine, Thioridazine) also interfere with chemicals in the brain that trigger sexual dysfunction.
Finally, some blood pressure-lowering drugs used to treat high blood pressure, such as reserpine and clonidine, can block blood flow to a woman's genitals, making it impossible for a woman to be sexually aroused or have an orgasm.Anti-allergic over-the-counter antihistamines, such as ketamine, Antalole, and cyproheptadine hydrochloride, can cause vaginal mucosa to dry out, thereby affecting women's normal libido.
The reaction to drugs varies from person to person. Generally speaking, if a certain drug has greater side effects on sexual function, other drugs without side effects can be used instead.Sometimes the side effects of the drug will disappear on their own after a few weeks, and sometimes the doctor may suggest stopping the drug for 2 to 3 days to reduce the side effects.
Disgusting
Most people are only interested in a partner who is in good shape, so if your partner slowly loses shape, it can be a turn off.It is the same whether it is a man or a woman.
As people age, people gain weight.A certain degree of obesity will not affect the appearance, but if it is too obese, it will make most women feel unbearable.However, things are not that simple.Overweight partners may feel that they are not very competitive in the mate market, and naturally they are less likely to break up or have an affair, so they will bring a sense of security to their partners.And a partner who maintains a better shape may become stronger because of it.
Poor personal hygiene also turns off most women.If a person is always covered in sweat, unkempt hair, cigarette smoke or bad breath, who would want to approach you? In Eugenics and Sexual Harmony, published in 1933, there is a chapter titled "Broken Dreams", in which the author describes how personal hygiene can make women's sexual interest completely dull:
The romantic dream of the sweet wife was shattered by the cold reality.She found that the shining Prince Charming was just an ordinary man, and if he didn't remind him every morning, he would forget to shave, and he had to remind him by the ear when he came back at night, otherwise he would forget to take a bath This thing.She will find that he does a good job of covering up some of his vices when he is in love.She would discover that her husband liked to smoke a strong-smelling pipe, which gave off a sickening stench in his mouth.And he might be chewing tobacco, his feet and armpits stink, and he doesn't know how to wash with formaldehyde or do anything else to get rid of it.In short, the wife's magnificent dream became fragmented like this.
In the same way, because status and wealth are weapons to attract women, if a man gradually loses his original status or wealth, then women's love for him will gradually fade.
Another, though less common, reason a woman loses enthusiasm for a partner is a change in her sexual orientation.It is also possible that she knew her sexual orientation from the beginning, but she was afraid or unwilling to let others know until the two people had a relatively stable relationship:
I can't get satisfaction from my married life, I only have sex to please my husband, I regard sex as a responsibility.Because I didn't have the enthusiasm to make out with him, he felt left out and suspected that I had a lover outside.I was 19 and he was 27 when we got married.I know I like women, but my husband doesn't want to discuss it with me at all.I gradually began to hate him, I think I did my duty as a wife, but who ever thought about my true feelings, I think he doesn't care whether I get satisfaction from sex life or not.Since then, there has been a gap between us, and I think this may also be the root cause of the breakdown of our marriage.
—Heterosexual female, 35 years old
disappointment and boredom
If your partner's bed skills are poor and unprogressive, then in the long run, it will definitely disappoint the other party and greatly reduce the libido.Some men think that the perfect selfless lover is to get straight to the point and start rubbing the woman's clitoris frantically as soon as he comes up.Big mistake, for women, foreplay is more important than anything else, and foreplay begins with little things in life. The Erotic Woman is a witty but truthful account of this.There is an illustration in the book of a handsome man sitting at the kitchen table, morning coffee in hand, saying to his lover, "Oh, by the way, there's a football final today, and we'll be sure to get it when we go to the craft market." Find an empty parking space." If a man wants to get a woman who is passionate, he should start with the little things every day, not just trying to please before "doing things."
The most common complaint of women who have been married for many years is that their sex life is too bland and boring.One woman interviewed described a routine sex life like this:
I love my husband, but the longer I've been married, let me put it bluntly, sex isn't as exciting as it used to be.Everything is done step by step, like a routine.We're trying to be a little "spontaneous" but the funny thing is I can predict his every move.I have sex because I feel I "owe" him as a wife, but also because I love him and I want him to be happy.In fact, while most of the time I choked on it without saying a word, every once in a while I complained, and I told him how happy I was when I was done.He seems to understand me a little bit now.Our marriage is very happy.
—Heterosexual female, 48 years old
Because heterosexual women typically marry older men, they may face and adjust to the reality of their partner's sexual inefficiency at a young age.This will undoubtedly lead to decreased libido in women.For example, if a partner suffers from premature ejaculation, which is the ejaculation of semen within a short period of intercourse, and sometimes cannot complete intercourse at all, then the woman must feel disappointed and lose sexual interest in her partner.In the same way, if a man is impotent, then women will naturally have no interest in him.
Lorraine Dana Stein, a psychologist at the University of Melbourne in Australia, conducted a large-scale survey of middle-aged women and found that with the increase of marriage age, women's sexual desire is getting lower and lower.In other words, the longer you are married, the more you hate sex.
The survey also mentioned changes in women's libido before, during and after menopause.Some women have little change before and after menopause, some women have decreased libido after menopause, however, a few women have increased libido after menopause.Why does libido increase after menopause?Did you use some magic drug?Could it be that their sexual partners are suddenly superior in bed?Did they learn new sex skills?The answer is all no, and the best explanation is that these women just happened to find new sexual partners after menopause.
Old couples should learn several skills to keep their love fresh, for example, try new ways of making love, watch or read sex stories together, make love casually, change the time or place of making love, have a romantic vacation without being disturbed, etc. wait.
when love turns sour
Occasional squabbles or fights can help deepen the bond.But the constant bickering wears out both of you over time, as the song "How To Kiss That Mouth That Screams You Up By Day" is sung by American Cherry Bad Guys.
(End of this chapter)
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