Thick black school

Chapter 100
6. Play some little tricks.When his birthday bell is ringing, say "Happy Birthday" to him by text message, as long as these four short words are too many, it will reduce the weight and reduce some unnecessary troubles.E-mail without words can also achieve a similar effect. At this time, silence is better than sound.Occasionally, you can call him by pretending to dial the wrong number. Under pretending to be surprised, you pause for 3 seconds, and ask quietly: "How are you now..." Then, regardless of whether he answered or not, immediately hang up the phone, completely He was itchy.In the field of emotion, the one who takes the initiative is not necessarily the winner.

7. Exchange my sincerity for yours.To be clear, we can't classify this trick as a means. Women are foolish to believe that this trick works, but women, have you forgotten how to sing a song: "Give is equal to gain, it is self I thought..." The probability of you giving true love is only 20.00%, or even less than 20.00%, but women will have a fluke mentality, isn't there still 20.00%, maybe God is looking after me?Well, as long as you are not afraid of getting hurt, try it bravely, maybe you will meet a good man!
8. Be jealous of him.Men also have a lot of vanity. In his eyes, jealousy is actually a kind of expression of love for him, which can fully inflate his sense of satisfaction.As long as you don't resort to such over-the-top tricks of crying, making trouble, and hanging yourself, basically, he is happy to see the results, and he will secretly be happy to see you jealous for him.

9. Always keep fresh.It is an unchanging truth that distance produces beauty. If you stay together every day, even a fairy will get tired of it. That's why there is a saying that "a small farewell is better than a newlywed".Men generally don't like to be like a piece of white paper that allows him to see through a woman at a glance. He prefers a woman to be like a treasure, waiting for him to dig slowly and have fun in the process of digging.So you have to do what you like, transform yourself into a girl with thousands of faces, so that he can't figure it out, and keep it fresh forever.

There is a saying in modern society: "Good women go to heaven, bad women go everywhere." The space of "good women" is limited to one-third of an acre of land, but the world of "bad women" is always full of fun, Wonderful and endless.So, why don't women try to use the "bad instinct" buried in their hearts to be a "bad woman" like a "glamorous" one time?

Thick Black New Mysteries

In traditional Chinese thinking, as a woman, she is constantly taught by the society to "be a good woman".The so-called "good woman" is nothing more than this-kindness, understanding, understanding of each other, meekness, no temper, no temper tantrum, steady and dignified, etc. These virtues are beyond reproach.However, if a woman is too conscientious, she will not know the secret of keeping love alive, nor can she understand the mind of a man. The life of both sexes will lack interest and vitality, which will eventually affect the emotions of both parties.The thick black theory of love field believes that modern women can't just be content with being a good woman who does their duty. If you want men to bow down to your pomegranate skirt willingly, you have to learn to be "bad" and talk a little bit in front of men. A little cleverness, trying to please a man.

Of course, the "bad" here does not refer to how bad a woman's character is, but refers to her ability to break through traditions, express her personality, and handle things flexibly in her dealings with others.Strictly speaking, today's "bad women" are not "bad women" in the traditional sense.They are a new generation of "bad women" following the trend of the times, and they have their own style.Now there is a popular saying "bad women, someone loves", which shows the cuteness of "bad women".

Defend your love territory and drive away your rivals.
[Zongwu Mantra] Gao Zi said: "Food, sex, and sex." When a child loves relatives, food is also; liking girls and wives is also sex.Food and sex are necessary for human survival, and it is human nature to seek survival.

In a relationship, it sometimes happens that a girl is pursued by two boys, and a boy is admired by two girls.Both parties in love are hard to let go, this is commonly referred to as a love triangle.After marriage, there will also be situations where men fall in love with other women and women fall in love with other men. This is what people call extramarital affairs.As the saying goes, everyone is equal in the face of love, but when facing a rival in love, you still have to be mentally prepared. This kind of war cannot be lost. Once you lose, you may lose your lifetime happiness.

Shanzi had missed a lot of love affairs, this time she made up her mind to continue to get along with Mr. Zeng who started a trading company with whom she had been together for a year and a half.So far, he is the most suitable candidate in her mind.

Yoshiko has a close friend in her boudoir, who is also in love recently, so they often see each other these days.Women like to talk, and the feeling of being in love will be more intense and exciting when shared.

Yoshiko said how cool, unique, and secretive her boyfriend was.You didn't know where he was a moment ago, and suddenly he is in front of you.On your birthday, he was obviously abroad, but to your surprise, he rushed to your side before 12:[-].So confusing and dazzling, Shanzi found it more and more interesting, and became more and more involved.

The close friend also said that his boyfriend, who is an antique dealer, is 45 years old and has returned from abroad and is very confident in his career.Because they are too busy, they don't have many contacts, but close friends say that they trust each other, and the relationship seems to be distant but actually they have a good heart.

The newly bought house of Shanzi's boyfriend is about to be renovated, and all the knick-knacks in it are designed by Shanzi.Coincidentally, the house at the close friend's place is about to be completed.They joked that they could hold a wedding banquet together, saving time and money.

The two of them had an interesting talk, unknowingly, it was late at night, and before leaving, my good friend went to the bathroom, but left the phone on the table.As soon as the person left, the phone rang, and after a while in the bar late at night, Shanzi was annoyed, so she pressed the answer button to ask him to call again later.Unexpectedly, before Shanzi opened his mouth, the reproach from over there came: "What are you doing, for so long—" With a snap, the phone fell from Shanzi's hand, and the person stared dumbfounded, asking in panic The close friend who just walked over said: "I answered the phone, who is that you..."

"Boyfriend, what's the matter?" Hearing this, Shanzi turned pale and said tremblingly, "Why is the voice exactly the same as mine?"

It turns out that their boyfriends are the same person!They were completely stunned, their minds and hearts went blank.

Rivals in love are sometimes inevitable.How to deal with the conflict between yourself and your rival will be related to your life's happiness.Some thick black masters or veterans in the love field are very good at dealing with the contradictions, taking retreat as an advance, trying to make their opponents understand the "righteousness", cut off the thread of love, so as to calm the storm and win love.

When Wang Yun found out that her husband was having an affair, her head suddenly became dizzy.She couldn't believe that her husband, who had lived with her for 10 years, would betray her. She was engaged in a fierce ideological struggle, thinking over and over again what to do.Like all wives, when Wang Yun found out that her husband had an extramarital affair, the first thing Wang Yun thought of was to question and accuse her husband.However, as a cadre who has worked in the trade union for many years, she has come into contact with many families with extramarital affairs. There are many couples whose relationship has not broken down at first. ) pushed further and further until divorce.So she warned herself: "You must not take stupid actions, and find a way to bring your husband's heart back. I cannot let my son lose his father."

Wang Yun decided to take the initiative to approach the girl with whom her husband was dating, and after a period of dating, she and the girl became friends.Every once in a while, she would meet girls to drink coffee and go shopping together.At first, Wang Yun didn't dare to touch her emotional issues, she knew that a girl would not easily admit to others that she was mixed up with a married man.

One day, the girl called Wang Yun and said that a shopping mall was offering discounts and invited her to go and have a look. Wang Yun readily agreed.When Wang Yun and the girl walked to the cosmetics counter, the girl grabbed Wang Yun, asked the lady to take out a set of cosmetics, and said to Wang Yun: "Sister Wang, you should dress up well. You are only in your 30s, and you look pretty." Looks good, if you wear makeup, you will definitely be more attractive. Men like their wives to be well-dressed, and your lover must be the same."

Wang Yun took the opportunity to ask her: "You know men quite well, do you have a boyfriend?" The girl nodded: "Yeah." Wang Yun asked: "What does he do? He must be excellent, right?" The girl said happily : "Yes, he is the backbone of our unit's business." Wang Yun said: "It's really not easy, he became the backbone of the business at a young age." The girl paused for a moment and said softly: "He is not young anymore, They are all 38 years old." Wang Yun made a surprised look and said, "Ah, he is so much older than you? Has he never been married?"

The girl's expression darkened suddenly, Wang Yun took her hand and said sincerely: "It's fate that we met today, so you can treat me as a big sister. Do you have anything you want to say to me, a big sister?" The girl Looked at Wang Yun, and said embarrassedly: "Sister Wang, I know that your husband is good with other women, and you are in great pain, so I can't even say it. Actually, my boyfriend also has a family. People. I admire him very much, and he also gave me a lot of help in my work. From my heart, I don’t want to play the role of a 'third party'. However, I can't resist the charm of him."

Wang Yun asked: "Then does he have a bad relationship with his wife?" The girl said: "He said that his wife is a good person, but since she gave birth to her son, she has devoted all her affection to her son. For the things he met at work She doesn't care about things that don't go well. Besides, she is a very strong person in her career, and she always nags him about things at work endlessly after returning home, which makes him feel uncomfortable at home. No rest."

Wang Yun asked again: "Although your boyfriend is dissatisfied with his wife, have you ever considered that your appearance will bring harm to his wife?" The girl said: "Of course I have. I just feel very sympathetic to him. I feel that his life is not happy and happy, so I hope to warm him with my love. But we are just good friends, and we have not done anything deviant."

Hearing this, Wang Yun was slightly relieved, because her husband hadn't really betrayed her yet.At the same time, Wang Yun's heart was also shaken.Wang Yun was never aware of her husband's dissatisfaction with her. Wang Yun thought: I am busy with work and have to take care of the family at the same time.Unexpectedly, there were so many grievances in his heart.Moreover, thinking about how I look at home, after a long time, it will really make my husband bored.It seems that in order to regain my husband's heart, I must change myself.So, Wang Yun bought the set of cosmetics.

Ever since the girl told Wang Yun about her relationship with her boyfriend, she regarded Wang Yun as her eldest sister.Whenever she encountered any distress, including emotional confusion with my husband, she would confide in Wang Yun.Wang Yun told her without losing the opportunity: "Falling in love with a married man is quite dangerous, and there will be no results. You are still so young, you think too much about relationships, and you have too little consideration for reality. Think about it. , Will he abandon his family and his son for you? There is such a big age difference between you and you will face various problems in the future. Are you mentally prepared for this?"

At the same time, Wang Yun will also tell the girl the pain caused by her husband's betrayal, so that the girl can understand the catastrophic blow that the "third party" brings to a family.The girl understood what Wang Yun meant, and finally ended the affair and broke off contact with Wang Yun's husband.The husband returned to Wang Yun's side again, and after this turmoil, Wang Yun's husband also understood how his wife loved him and cherished his family, so he loved Wang Yun even more.

In today's society, with the "popularity" of "third parties" and "extramarital affairs", it is normal for rivals to appear.So, what should you do when your rival appears?The following tricks can help you repel rivals in love, defend your love, and keep your loved ones by your side.

1. Don't be pretentious.Maybe he and she are just ordinary friends and ordinary colleagues, but you insist on catching rumors and insisting that they have problems. If you talk too much, it may become true.

2. Don't be too tense.Even if you confirm that there is a third party between you, you should be calm and don't make a fuss in a fit of anger. This will only make you change from active to passive, and make him lose face, and then vent his anger on you, even the original love for you. The little bit of guilt is gone.

3. You cannot fight fire with fire.What is it to look for a lover like the one you love?Blackmail him?Not only will it not make him repent, but it will make him feel that you are evened out, so he can feel more at ease.

4. Maintain politeness and temperament.If you are dating your girlfriend and your rival is also going to ask her out, you can say politely, "Hey, what a coincidence, how about a threesome day trip?" Never give up, and don't give an order to chase away your rival in an aggressive manner. Regardless of the outcome, your girlfriend will leave a good impression because you let her not be too embarrassed in this situation.

5. Don't criticize your rival in front of your girlfriend.If your girlfriend exaggerates the advantages of your rival in front of you, you must not refute, let alone sneer.Watch your face and listen to your voice, she may hope you have these qualities too.You can tactfully express your approval and affirmation, and imply that you will accept and learn from it, so that your girlfriend can feel that you have the virtue of being a modest gentleman.

6. Communicate well with the rival in love so that he (she) retreats in the face of difficulties.Once a love rival appears, if you make a big noise, insult your love rival, or even fight, it will not help the matter, but will make things stand still.You should maintain a rational attitude, calm down, understand the situation of the rival in love from the side, find excuses to associate with the rival in love, have friendly communication with the other party, and let the other party realize their mistakes and retreat in spite of difficulties.

7. Avoid being negative and troublesome.If you have taken many methods and he (she) doesn't change his mind, it means that the relationship between you has really broken down.It's not that you didn't work hard, so you don't have to be sad anymore, just let it go, don't look for life and death foolishly, and be kind to yourself.

8. Strengthen learning and self-cultivation, and enhance one's own charm.Cultivating the mind and cultivating the character is the goal that life is constantly pursuing. It is not only the cornerstone of love, marriage and family, but also the strength and highlight of rivals in love.

Thick Black New Mysteries

The road of love is not smooth sailing, there are rivals in love, the person you love is loved by other people; the husband or wife moves on and has extramarital affairs with others, this happens from time to time.In the face of a rival in love, do you choose to retreat, or choose to fight back?The love field is like a battlefield. Houheixue believes that in the special life battlefield of love field, there is also a struggle between the weak and the strong.If you are willing to be a weak person, and once your rival appears, you will retreat, even feel ashamed and inferior, then you will never get your true love, and you will only become a loser in the war of love.Houheixue tells you that love means selfishness, you need to be thick-skinned, thick-skinned when you should be thick-skinned, and black-hearted when you should be thick-skinned. If you believe in loving someone, you must pursue persistently.In the face of rivals in love, you can't be "merciful", let alone retreat in front of the battle. You must dare to shine your sword, "declare war" on your rivals, and use your wisdom to drive your rivals out of your love territory.

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