Thick black school

Chapter 99
As the saying goes: men are not "bad", women do not love.The "bad" here does not refer to misbehavior and conduct, but refers to breaking through the traditional concept of a good man, full of fun in life, good at humor, understanding of romance, able to bring surprises to women and add new ideas to life.If a man appears to be dutiful and obedient in front of a woman, not only will it be difficult to communicate the emotions between the two, but they will also lack interest in each other, making each other like strangers.The root cause of Wu Ming’s frustration in love in the above case was that he was too duty-bound to be “bad” and didn’t know how to use some “bad” methods to please girls to impress the other party.

Women are still extolling the name of a classic "bad man" - Rhett.Brad is the hero in the movie "Gone with the Wind". He has a sexy mustache, a pair of bushy eyebrows, and often has a naughty smile on his lips. He puts his hands in his pockets and whistles softly. Between the battlefield, the business field, and even women, it is like entering a land of no one.His "badness" is literally an art, since he's not actually a bad guy.

When Rhett met Scarlett Scarlett for the first time, Scarlett Scarlett and Ashley got annoyed when they talked, and threw a vase, which almost fell on Rhett Brad.But Ruide thinks that she is a woman who dares to act, dares to express her own ideas, and even throws vases, and falls in love with her.From then on, although Rhett always mocked Scarlett Scarlett, she still had the deepest love in her heart.Ruide knew that she couldn't tell Scarlett Scarlett about this, because according to Scarlett's personality, she would definitely disdain or stand in a higher position, and be arrogant to Ruett Brad, regardless of it.Although he is cynical on the surface, he knows Scarlett Scarlett's inner needs and cares about Scarlett Scarlett everywhere.Scarlett Scarlett was wearing mourning clothes and could not dance. It was he who helped Scarlett Scarlett get rid of all the shackles and began to dance.Scarlett Scarlett was trapped in Atlanta, but Rhett stole a horse for him and drove out of the city.Whenever Scarlett Scarlett wakes up from a terrible dream, it is Rhett who protects her with a big heart.After Ruide and Scarlett got married, every morning, Ruide would bring breakfast into the house and feed Scarlett Oda.

It is undeniable that Ruide is not a good man, he is wise and decisive, and he is willing to deal with the battlefield and business field, and even among women of all colors.Such a man is "bad" because he is shrewd and unfathomable.He is obsessed with himself and is willing to spend his whole life to capture Scarlett Scarlett who doesn't love him; Scarlett Scarlett helped selflessly; he can also be regarded as a gentleman, he will not take advantage of the situation, but understands better that to love someone is to occupy her heart.For this reason, he withheld a feeling for countless years.It has to be said that Braide's "badness" is a kind of deep cultivation, which is difficult for ordinary people to imitate.

Why can "bad" men be liked by girls?This is because "bad" men have "advantages" that "good" men do not have, and these "advantages" are often liked by girls.To sum up, there are the following points.

1. Thick-skinned and bold, not afraid of making a fool of yourself. "Bad" men are not humble, and certainly not afraid of rejection, they love to be frank.Taiwanese writer Li Ao used this method to pursue beautiful women he did not know. His current wife, Xiaotun, caught up with him when he drove past the school gate and saw it.

2. A bit naughty and domineering. "Bad" men say one thing, are stubborn, tough, and show a little naughty and rambunctious.Of course, the domineering mentioned here has a measure, otherwise it is really domineering and not cute.

3. Witty and humorous. "Bad" guys are good at humor and like to say things that make girls happy.Once, when President Reagan was speaking at the White House piano recital, his wife Nancy accidentally dropped her chair and her on the carpet under the stage. Returning to his seat amid the warm applause, Reagan, who was speaking, saw that his wife was not injured, so he inserted a witty line: "Honey, I told you that you should only perform like this when I don't get applause. "

4. Cynicism. "Bad" men are cynical and unconventional.Robbie Williams, who was named the sexiest man in the world and a popular British singer, is such a cynical man.He is "bad", but he can't tell what bad things he has done, or where he is bad-"bad" is also a temperament.

5. Romantic and human. "Bad" men are very "sexy", their lewd and naughty jokes are just right, and their "hands and feet" are just right.In love, if you are too disciplined and never touch her body, she will think you are tasteless and not loving enough.The touch mentioned here refers to holding hands, patting shoulders, etc. Those men who are more able to play on the spot seem to be more able to convince women, and this is the reason.

If a man wants to win the favor of a woman, he must abandon some of the characteristics of a "good" man, make himself a little "bad", treat women a little "bad", and make himself an attractive "bad" man.

Thick Black New Mysteries

It is often said that "men are not bad, women are not loving".Because from a psychological analysis, most women want to be pampered and protected by men, and constantly create happiness for themselves.Girls in love mostly like to be romantic and lingering, and hope that their lovers are gentle, affectionate, understanding, and put themselves in the most important position.Those "bad" men who are denounced as glib and glib are often good at catering to women's psychology and know how to please girls.On the contrary, those honest and clumsy men, those careless and incomprehensible men, those men who are devoted to work and can't talk about love, in short, those men who are decent and decent in people's eyes are often Being slow in love makes the girl disappointed, and finally avoids her and abandons him.Of course, this is not to say that to please a woman, you must learn to be "bad". When pursuing a girl, a man should adjust his state according to the woman's psychological needs, pay attention to the "bad" sense, grasp The scale cannot be too "bad".Doing so will shorten the time for the fruit of love to mature, and will make girls appreciate you more.

Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere.
【Zongwu Mantra】The truth of being a wife is as high as the sky.Only the wife has a way. She looks mighty and can't name her, so she can only follow her wife to do it.

We often hear people say that "men are not bad, women don't love". If a man behaves well and behaves properly, he will not be favored by girls and will be rejected by girls. On the contrary, those so-called "bad men" Popular, won the girls of all ages.In fact, for women, this sentence is also applicable.Although men tend to look for a woman who is a good wife and mother as their life partner, they still appreciate more than oppose those women who are charming, full of fun, and playful.In fact, it also proves that there are always many admirers around many "bad women".For the opposite sex, they are full of freshness, they are good at using the unique charm of women, and sometimes they will play tricks to make men willingly bow down under their pomegranate skirts.

Audiences who have watched the movie "Gone with the Wind" know that the charming Scarlett Scarlett in the film can make many men fall under her skirt without any effort. The reason is that she is a "bad woman" with Many "disadvantages" that fascinate men, such as independence, pride, vanity, selfishness, and bravery, and these have become the reasons why men like her and pursue her.But she had no feeling for them, and she didn't even want to look at them.Men love and hate such women, respect and envy.

Deng Deng is a beautiful girl, and she had many suitors when she was in college, but she had one goal: Don't talk about boyfriends casually, otherwise the success rate is too low.

A college classmate with excellent character and learning, after hard work, stayed with her in the provincial capital after graduation, and was assigned to a good-paying institution, and had some business dealings with her institution, so they continued intermittently. Keep in touch.

The boys have developed well, gained a firm foothold, and won the appreciation of the leaders.Gradually, I became a little smug, and there were more girls around me.Deng Deng saw it, but refused to comment.It's just that he gradually lost contact with that boy, and when he wanted to ask her out for dinner, he often couldn't find her, and every time he called, he heard her say: "I'm busy, I don't have time."

The boy was a little panicked, and stepped up his pursuit offensive: sending flowers, buying gifts, picking him up... Half a year later, Deng Deng agreed to date him for a period of time.His girlfriend persuaded Dengdeng: "He's in a good condition, it's almost enough, don't scare people away with endless tests." Dengdeng was confident: "I just want him to have a sense of accomplishment in chasing him. If he can't even pass this little test , what can you expect him to do?"

Dengdeng is a typical "bad" woman. When she falls in love, she doesn't play cards according to common sense, changes from passive to active, and changes ways to let boys pursue her.Men are born with a desire to conquer. The more reserved a woman is, the more inexplicable and difficult to control women are, the more fascinated they are.Moreover, men are very curious. Facing a woman whose inner thoughts and motivations are difficult to understand, they will often try to explore and discover her secrets.Therefore, in love, you should not let men feel that you are at your fingertips, use a little "bad" means to deal with men, and take the initiative in love.

Why can "bad women" be favored and liked by men?To sum up, there are some things about them that fascinate men.

1. "Bad women" have distinct personalities, and sometimes they do some unconventional surprising things.They are generally independent, and under their sharp appearance hides a strong and independent heart.In terms of economy, they are very independent, they don't expect to depend on others to live, and they know how to achieve their goals through their own efforts.

2. They are flexible, know how to protect themselves, and never show their cards easily. This indifferent attitude often makes people around them feel impatient, but they are intoxicated by their personal charm.

3. "Bad girls" are usually soft and feminine, but at the same time there is always a kind of quiet dignity about them.She will show people in a graceful and graceful way: I will not be easily manipulated by others, and I will not define myself according to other people's ideas.

4. "Bad girls" are different, maverick, unconventional, unconventional; dressed up, even more unnatural; it is also said that they value money and material things, which is money worship.

5. "Bad girls" are not dull, but have high personalities. They have a kind of heartiness and generosity that good girls don't have, so they are usually more popular with men.And men are natural hunters, they like women with a sense of mystery, so they will like those women who can't get it and are not suitable for them at all, and they even believe that "bad girls" will become good, and it is worth their time to wait.

Of course, being a "bad" woman does not mean that you have to compete with men in every way. The ultimate goal of being a "bad" woman is to make men listen to you, tie men's hearts, and win happiness. lasting love.For this reason, women have to spend a little time, work hard, and master some "bad" skills.All the "bad" women in the world can hold on to the good men in their hearts.

As the saying goes, "To grab a man's heart, you must first grab his stomach." If you want to "hold a man's heart for a long time", and make him listen to you obediently, you might as well learn to be "bad". Use a little trick, play a little trick.You know, sometimes it's just an understatement, a trivial little action, which is of great help to promote the thickness of love and enhance the relationship between the sexes.The following "secret weapons" are used by those "bad" women in life. They have been tried and tested and are very powerful. You might as well learn to use them to conquer the "bad men" in your mind.

1. Pay attention to image.No matter what a man says that he doesn't care about a woman's appearance, it is a lie.The old master Confucius once said "food, sex, and sexuality". When facing a woman wearing slippers, unkempt, and sleepy, do you expect a man to like you from the bottom of his heart?Unless you are really the kind of beauty who is still coquettish and seductive in this state, you must be cautious.A man is a visual animal, and only when his needs are met visually can he take the first step of conquest.

2. Arouse his desire to conquer.Men are really stupid sometimes, and they often don't cherish things that are easy to get. The more difficult the challenge, the more it can stimulate his desire to conquer.Of course, you can't let his conquest end in failure every time. If you hit a wall too many times, most people will choose to retreat except for the kind of man who will not give up until he reaches his goal.So you have to give him some sweetness once in a while to ignite his hope, so that he can continue to fight unrelentingly. He will only cherish and be satisfied with the spoils he has obtained through untold hardships.At that time, it is not so much that he conquered you, it is better to say that you conquered him.

3. Tap into women's innate strengths. "Coquettish" is the natural capital of women.The "coquettish" here refers to a woman's dynamic sexiness, the most essential and instinctive feminine charm that is undisguised. Men actually like women's coquettishness, although he strongly opposes it on the surface.

4. Arm yourself with wisdom.As a woman, you have to be smart, but in front of a man, you'd better not act too smart. If you are too smart, you are a threat to him.Men are arrogant in their bones, and he likes women to center on him.So according to your purpose, adopt different policies and strategies.But one thing is for sure, in front of a man, you should not act better than him, it will make him feel ashamed, if you want to conquer a man, it is best to act as if you have been completely conquered by him.

5. Act like a baby.Men like delicate women.Choose the warmest moment, exhale softly in his ear, or lay a pillow on his shoulder, spread out your cloudy hair, your body fragrance is lingering around him, and your tender eyes are watching Next, even a hundred-foot King Kong has to be turned into soft fingers.

(End of this chapter)