Thick black school

Chapter 98
4. Blindness.When men fall in love, they are blind.They often don't consider whether the relationship between the two parties is speculative, what the woman's morality is, and so on.A man will fall in love casually, and even he doesn't know what he is looking for in a woman.Sometimes, when other men find Ms. Zhang, he will go to Ms. Li, for fear that he will not be able to find Ms. Li in the future, and be called incompetent by others.

5. Shallowness.Men often don't have deep emotional experience like women. There are many men who treat love as a game, talk when they want, leave when they want, and change when they see differences.A man can fall in love with several women at the same time, and he can have a good impression and admiration for any woman who pays attention to him.Men's love lacks specificity and exclusivity, "hot" quickly, "cold" quickly, "sadness" and "joy" are rarely found in "leaving" and "joining".Because their love lacks an emotional foundation, it is difficult to develop to a deep level.

Love is a common emotional behavior of both men and women. Analyzing the psychological characteristics of love between the sexes and mastering the psychological activities of love between the sexes can help you seize the opportunity and obtain sincere and pure love.

Girls who are passionately in love are often uncertain about their boyfriend's relationship, and they are afraid that "a misstep will lead to eternal hatred".Here, the thick black science in the love field will teach you a few ways to judge the psychological hidden dangers of your boyfriend.If your boyfriend has any of the following courtship psychology, there is some kind of hidden danger hidden in his love.

1. Absolute ego psychology.This kind of man regards whether the lover he is looking for is beneficial to his "future" as the only unbreakable condition.He asked his girlfriend to show her "advantage" from time to time and bring him some kind of benefit.Once his expectations are not met or may not be met, he will be furious and even feel that you have failed him.

2. False associations.This kind of man is usually manifested as full of associations and suspicious.Generally speaking, he attaches great importance to love, but his understanding is narrow, and he is very sensitive to his lover's behavior.Once his girlfriend does something he can't understand or is unhappy, he will "think about it" and mechanically find evidence that you don't agree with him.

3. Non-emotional transfer into the mind.When this kind of man evaluates and treats his girlfriend, he has no sympathy, instead of putting himself in the shoes of others to give evaluation and understanding.Especially when the girlfriend is in a difficult situation and needs to be emotionally involved with her, but withdraws or ignores it.He can only share joy with you but not trouble with you.

4. Mistakes reflect psychology.This kind of man often compares his strengths with his girlfriend's weaknesses, or his girlfriend's weaknesses with other people's strengths.When this kind of man starts to associate with you, he can quickly discover your strengths and appreciate them very much, and your relationship will also heat up in a straight line.But if he finds that your advantages are so inconspicuous, he will be indifferent to you, and this indifference often makes you unpredictable and even becomes a temptation, making you feel more mysterious.

5. Go with the excitement.This kind of man generally likes fashion and has a keen sense, but lacks autonomy and self-confidence. His individual consciousness is influenced by external trends, and he especially likes trendy women.He pays attention to his girlfriend's appearance, such as dress, hairstyle, clothing, etc., and is very willing to invest in this aspect for his girlfriend.However, once you can't meet his "aesthetic" requirements, he will complain.

When you find any of the above-mentioned psychology in your boyfriend, don't take it lightly.Of course, strictly speaking, any male will always have one or more of the above-mentioned psychology to varying degrees.There is no need to panic about this, and there is no need to "break off friendship" as soon as you find out, so that you will never find a satisfactory partner.How to master this "degree", the standard is: you really love him, you might as well talk to him about your concerns openly and let him realize the danger of this hidden danger.If you are new friends and the relationship is not deep yet, you can also talk to him to see the effect.If you don't think it's necessary, break the relationship.However, in taking any approach, one thing that needs to be grasped is whether your judgment of him is correct and comprehensive, otherwise, taking it for granted and self-righteousness will bring you lifelong pain.

Thick Black New Mysteries

"Talk of the heart, one point of communication", marriage and love between men and women, the emphasis is on psychological communication and communication.If you don't understand the other person's psychology, you can't walk into the other person's inner world, you can't clearly know what kind of person you want to fall in love with, and you can't understand the other person's thoughts. Passive status.Love is a psychological war. Whoever can control the other party's psychology can control the initiative in this war and win the final victory.Men and women who are in love must be good at understanding each other's psychology, understand each other's words and deeds, use some small "tricks" to please each other, and attack each other psychologically and emotionally, so as to win the other's heart faster.It should be noted that when using psychological tactics, one must pay attention to timing and proportion, and neither make a hasty decision nor delay the time, otherwise it will cause misunderstanding between the two parties and cause the two parties to break up unhappy.

A rich man with a swollen face, a rich man and a woman will love him more
[Zongwu Mantra] Mastering and practicing "thick black" must start with treating one's own wife and children. In other words, if you don't "thick black", you can't even treat your own wife and children.

In modern society, there is a popular saying "Marry a hero in the 50s, marry a poor peasant in the 60s, marry a military camp in the 70s, marry a diploma in the 80s, and marry Brother Kong Fang if you want to marry in the 90s."Who is this "Brother Kong Fang"?In ancient times, it was coins, but in modern times, it is RMB.The society has developed, the economy has developed, people's lives have become more prosperous, and girls' standards for choosing a spouse have also increased.

On the street, in restaurants, and in shopping malls, we can often see some boys in love who spend a lot of money, spending hundreds or even thousands of dollars to treat girls to dinner and buy clothes for girls. Girls who have taken advantage of boys' "benefits" are more friendly to boys, as if they are obedient and docile.

Life is real, and the maintenance of marriage is inseparable from the material foundation, backed by money.Of course, this is not to say that with money there is love, and with money the marriage can continue to the end, but one thing is certain, that is, love without money as the basis is pale, and marriage without money as the basis cannot be maintained Balanced.

When falling in love with a girl, if you are not willing to spend money and are stingy, you will be looked down upon by the girl, and it will be difficult to win the girl's heart.Even if two people get married, the marriage will not last long.The Thick Black School of Love points out that if a boy wants to capture a girl's heart, he might as well have a thicker skin, learn to swollen his face to pretend to be fat, be rich in front of girls, and use money to clear the way for love.

Xiaoxiao and Tudou are in love.Since Xiaoxiao and Tudou had their second date, after eating, Tudou paid the bill, and then said to Xiaoxiao very naturally: "Please invite me to watch a movie." Xiaoxiao opened her mouth, but said nothing , So the two went to the movies.

From then on, Xiaoxiao understood that if she wanted to get along with this man, then she had to go through the AA system.

Xiaoxiao and Tudou, as two financially independent people, bought their own house with a loan long before they met.The two live in their own houses, so the AA system is logical.The two basically date on weekends, if one treats them to coffee, the other invites them to have supper.One will watch a movie, and the other will have drinks and popcorn.It can be regarded as enjoyable.

Once Xiaoxiao was not very happy because she bought a pair of shoes worth 700 yuan for Tudou, but Tudou didn't say anything.The more Xiaoxiao thought about it, the more uncomfortable she felt, thinking why did she bother to associate with a man so humblely... Fortunately, three days later, she received a necklace from Tudou.

Slowly, Xiaoxiao began to alienate Tudou, not because she couldn't adapt to the AA system, but because another man started chasing her, and the speed and initiative of paying her money were very strong.Although I didn't think there was anything wrong with Tudou AA before, but when a man really pampered and courted me like a princess, that feeling was really good.

In the end, the two broke up peacefully.The advantage is that there are no financial disputes, and Tudou is quite reluctant to leave, and praises her everywhere, saying that she is a good girlfriend.Of course, everyone would smile wryly upon hearing such a compliment.

Life is realistic, open the door to seven things every day, firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea, if you have a small pocket, without certain material backing, it will be difficult to maintain your marriage and your life will be out of balance.Love that is divorced from reality does not exist. No matter how good the relationship between the two is, they cannot do without the topic of life.Therefore, you have to learn to invest in your love. This investment is not only reflected in love, but also in actual marriage after love.

A girlfriend and her prospective boyfriend were both only children. Before they got married, her parents worried and said, "How will your life be after you two get married?" She said heartlessly to her mother, "How will you live?" Let's live as we do, and I promise you don't have to worry about it." The mother touched her forehead and said, "Do you have a fever?" As it turned out, she really had a fever.

Before getting married, he was pampered by his parents as a young prince. He was self-centered in everything and acted arbitrarily. He never reached out for housework, never discussed things with her, and directed her behavior.

Of course, my girlfriend is not much better, pampered, willful, and a bit lazy, I have no plan to spend money, and I buy things I like without frowning, regardless of whether it is useful or not.Go out to play with friends, don't even say hello to him, and don't care if he is in a hurry, she is a princess spoiled by her parents.

After half a year of marriage, real life suddenly shattered the fairy tales. The small house they got married was bought with a loan. In addition to repaying the loan, they also have to pay property fees, water and electricity bills, gas bills, communication fees, etc. , Life suddenly became stretched.Sometimes they will make up a reason to borrow money from their parents, and more often, they go to their parents' house to grab a meal, and life becomes chaotic and disorderly.

Once, when he came back from a business trip, he saw a pile of stinky socks at home and said angrily, "Can't you clean it up? This is not like marrying a wife, but a princess." She was also annoyed, and she slender waist Twist, sit on the sofa, and fight back mercilessly: "Who will show your face? I marry you to be your wife, not your nanny!"

He was trembling with anger, and said, "This is no home, it's just a dump! If it wasn't for the wedding photos on the wall, I would have thought I went to the wrong door." She said angrily, "Before getting married, didn't you say I want the stars in the sky, won't you give me the moon? Just trick me and you'll be fine?"

He sneered: "If you don't think I'm good, just look for the good ones, handsome, chic, rich, and look for them with a lantern." She slammed the door and left in anger. She originally planned to run away from home, but outside It was dark, and I was a little scared, so I stood in a daze in the corridor.

After standing for a long time, her legs were a little sore, and she didn't see him coming out to look for her. She was a little discouraged. It seemed that he was not worried about whether he would be abducted or encounter a pervert. The more he thought about it, the more sad he became, and his eyes turned red.

When I was so sad that I suddenly found a white flag hanging from the crack of the door. Through the dim light in the corridor, I saw two cartoon people drawn on the white flag, a long-haired princess crying, and a melancholy prince beside her. Carefully holding a large bowl to catch tears, there is a line of small words at the bottom: I was wrong, go back to the castle and settle the score with me, if you leave, you will have no chance.

She laughed through tears, and wrote a line of small characters on the white flag: I am not a princess, and you are not a prince, let's clean up the house together, shall we?After a while, a hand stretched out from the crack of the door and dragged her back into the room.

Yes, she is not a princess, and he is not a prince, they are all mortals, a chaimi couple who are destined to hold hands in the world of mortals.Unmarried girls and boys are both princesses and princes, but that only stays on the surface of life, stays on the romantic poetry, does not know Cai Zhen, does not know Mi Gui.Princesses and princes who fall into the ordinary life of vegetables, rice, oil and salt can deeply interpret the essence of love.

There is a popular saying in modern society, "there is no free lunch in the world". If it is used in love, it can be said, "there is no free love in the world".Although love pays attention to the gratification of two emotions, and there is no love without emotion, but only about emotion and not about material things, love has become an unrealistic myth.If the topic between a man and a woman is all about money, then they are not in love enough; but if the topic of money is not discussed at all between a man and a woman, then they must not love to a certain extent.If a man is willing to spend money for you, it does not necessarily mean how much he loves you, but if he is completely reluctant to spend money for you, he must not love you enough.

Some boys said indignantly: In today's society, men and women are equal, why can only men spend money to represent it.Of course, women can spend money on this kind of thing, but the core is probably who should love the other more, and the initiative will pay for it.When you are pursuing someone, you can't ask them to pay for sending flowers or candlelight dinner, right?
Thick Black New Mysteries

Mr. Lu Xun said, "You must live with love to be attached to beauty." Without money and material as the economic foundation, life will be insecure. How can there be romantic love like romantic love?Today, girls pay more attention to benefits when they pay more attention to economic interests.Nowadays, love is increasingly becoming an investment behavior. Love tends to be utilitarian. Work, income, house, car, family background, etc. all directly affect love.Some girls even said: "If you have money, you can raise it, if you have no money, you can give it to others-"Missy" will not be with you forever." When in love, a boy should be willing to spend money and use money to open the closed heart of a girl.Giving and sacrificing without asking for anything in return, I am afraid that spending some money is already the smallest sacrifice, even if you refuse to do this, which girl would dare to live with you for the rest of her life?You love me, but you don't even want to spend a penny, and you don't want to give up those beautiful things. What kind of love is that?For the sake of love, you have to be thick-faced and show your generous and generous attitude. This is the very effective "love money rule" in thick black school.

Men are not bad and women don't love, but they just want to be "bad" to women.
[Zongwu Mantra] If you meet a friend who talks about sex, but you talk about benevolence, righteousness and morality with him, wouldn't you be asking for trouble?At this time, you should paste the four words "love is sacred".In short, it is up to the learner to master what should be confused with the face according to the specific situation and the current situation, and the word "thick and black" in the face is always the same.

There is a phenomenon in life, when you go shopping on the street, you often see some very unremarkable young men and a graceful girl with outstanding appearance strolling arm in arm on the street, which makes people very envious.In the ballroom, "bad" men can always invite the most beautiful girls to dance.Some seemingly elegant people "can't eat grapes and say grapes are sour", and sarcastically said: "It's a pity that flowers are stuck on cow dung".

As society advances, people's ideas and concepts are also changing, and some traditional standards of how to behave in the world appear to be outdated and out of date.Especially for young people, their thoughts change faster. Good qualities such as honesty, simplicity, duty, rules, and frugality are originally used to praise those good "boys", but in the eyes of modern girls, they have become an unforgivable Achilles' heel , so this kind of boy has become the object of their first round of elimination in love.From the perspective of the thick black school of love, when a man gets along with a woman, he must behave "out of line", mischievous, smart, and be "bad" appropriately, and find ways to show courteousness to women, so as to win women's favor Be happy and capture their hearts.

23-year-old Wu Ming has been working in Beijing for three years, working as a security guard in a hotel.He feels that he is stupid and not smart in any way, especially when it comes to chasing girls. He thinks that as long as he loves sincerely, he will definitely get a response, but he has never received a response of love when he has given his sincerity.

Two years ago, he was attracted to a girl for the first time.The girl's name was Fang Fang, and she was a waiter in the hotel where he was staying. She was very handsome, lively and cheerful, and very popular.In order for her to understand her own heart, Wu Ming tried every means to get close to her and secretly helped her care for her.When the girl is very tired from work, he will finish the rest of the work for her; when the girl is not feeling well, he will buy back the fruit she wants to eat and put it quietly on her bedside... The girl is very grateful for all this and often invites her Wu Ming went to the movies and walked the streets, saying that it was a reward for Wu Ming's help on weekdays.The girl often said to her friends: "Wu Ming is very kind, and he feels safe with him." Although Wu Ming never confessed his true feelings to the girl, he believed that the girl must understand his heart.

But after a while, the girl stopped going out with Wu Ming and intentionally avoided his help and care.Wu Ming felt puzzled, not knowing what she did wrong, which made her start to neglect herself.One day, Wu Ming plucked up the courage to go to Fang Fang's dormitory. The girl in the same dormitory said that Fang Fang had gone out with her boyfriend.Wu Ming was shocked: How could she treat me like this?It's so irresponsible to date me while having a boyfriend at the same time!Seeing Wu Ming standing there in a daze, the girl smiled and said, "You can't blame Fang Fang, what did you say you told her? You don't know how to chase girls at all. What's the use of being kind and honest? How can you win a girl's heart if you can't even say a nice word together?"

Wu Ming lay in the dormitory like a wounded bird for a whole day, vowing to never see Fang Fang again.When his friends learned about it, they all laughed at him for being too stupid.They told him: "Didn't you hear that 'men are not bad, women don't love'? When chasing girls, you should not be too conservative and honest. I fell into your arms." "Isn't that a lie?" Wu Ming said. "Oh, this is called pleasing girls. If you are like you and can't say a word, and don't dare to shake your hand, it's no wonder girls don't run away with others!" Wu Ming's friend teased him.

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