Because of the pain, it is called marriage

Chapter 26 Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems (1)
Yang Xuewu didn't expect that He Yun had a complete falling out with his mother within a week after his mother came home.

He Yun felt that the salty food cooked by Wu's mother was unpalatable, but the old lady insisted on cooking according to her own taste; in addition, after the old lady came, let alone helping with cleaning, He Yun felt that she was simply a Taiwan garbage maker machine, eat melon seeds spitting everywhere, and never pick up the hair that falls off in the morning, which makes her gray hair everywhere in the house; the old lady likes to spit in the kitchen sink, which is used for washing dishes and vegetables Sink; once you wash your clothes, the bathroom feels like a flood, the floor is wet, and every time He Yun has to bend over with a big belly and wring the mop seven or eight times before it's dry... When He Yun tries to correct the old When he was a wife, the old lady had very good reasons, every sentence could choke someone to death, and He Yun didn't bother to communicate with her after a few times.He Yun endured all these things in his heart, and the anger was suppressed day by day, and finally, He Yun broke out.After He Yun became pregnant, her appetite was not very good, and she usually likes to eat some fruits, but Xuewu’s mother bought her favorite fruits at a discount according to her instructions, such as apples with bruises, pears with worm eyes, hair Soft oranges, rotten bananas... He Yun took the half-cut apple and said to Xuewu's mother: "This apple, after cutting off the broken part, there will be nothing left. It's better to buy some good ones with good nutritional value." point."

Xuewu's mother said: "Apple is good, can it be better than money? Are good and bad ones eaten differently?"

He Yun became angry: "Can good and bad be the same? Just like rice, can freshly made rice be the same as bad one?"

Xuewu's mother curled her lips: "Isn't there still half of the apple left? It's not easy for my son to earn money. You stay at home all day, and you still eat this and that, and you eat good ones. How can you live without learning?"

Xue Wu's mother's words made He Yun choke to death. After so many days of testing, the old lady thought she could grasp the new daughter-in-law. Like Xuexin, she was also a soft persimmon.Xue Xin still has a kind of alienated politeness, and that alienated politeness makes Xue Wu's mother still have some fears about her.And this new daughter-in-law, without Xuexin's unapproachable arrogance, has more of the shrewdness of a small family background, but in the eyes of Xuewu's mother, this shrewdness is too immature, and she can bear it.

That night, Yang Xuewu got off work early, Xuewu's mother immediately went into the kitchen when she saw her son was off work, and after a burst of splashing water, she brought out a plate of fresh and brightly colored strawberries and put them in front of him: "Xuewu, you I'm so busy working all day that I don't even have time to catch my breath, hurry up and eat some fresh strawberries, Mom went to the vegetable market to buy them today." He Yun, who was on the side, was regarded as air by Xuewu's mother.He Yun was trembling with anger, this old woman is really interesting, if I eat any fruit, I will eat bad ones, and I have become a prodigal son who can't live, your son can eat strawberries worth tens of dollars a catty in winter?He Yun suppressed her anger, pretending to be nonchalant, pulled the fruit plate in front of Yang Xuewu to her, raised her fingers, picked up a fresh and juicy strawberry, put it in her mouth, chewed it as if she was enjoying it, and deliberately asked Xuewu's mother Cast a contemptuous glance.As soon as she ate two, Xuewu's mother couldn't bear it anymore, she stretched out her hand and dragged the plate back to Yang Xuewu, sweeping the plate from the corner of her eyes, watching TV with a sullen face.He Yun sneered, she didn't care if you were sad or not, she just stretched out her arms to take them, and threw them into her mouth one by one. She ate fast and hurriedly, and she ate it deliberately to show Xuewu's mother, and she ate until she was drooling. It feels like chewing the meat of Xuewu's mother to relieve the qi.Five, six...thirteen, seeing that the plate was about to bottom out, Xuewu's mother finally couldn't bear it anymore, she stared at the TV and didn't look at He Yun, and said lightly: "Strawberries are for buying. For Xuewu, if you want to eat, I will buy it for you tomorrow."

Yang Xuewu turned his eyes away from the TV, and realized that his mother and his wife were having trouble, so he casually advised: "It's just a few strawberries, we can buy them after we finish eating."

Xuewu's mother spoke again: "It's rare for Xuewu to come back so early, do you want to grab even a piece of fruit? A woman should feel sorry for her man!"

He Yun was really angry. All the grievances she had received at Yang Xuewu's and Xuewu's mother these days suddenly exploded. She reached out and dropped the fruit plate with a "snap", raised her eyebrows and shouted: "Your son is People, am I not a person? If you eat a fruit, you buy me a bad one, let alone a strawberry, and you hide it when you come back, are you a person?"

When Yang Xuewu saw that He Yun dared to say that about his mother, he stood up and slapped her across the face without even thinking about it, and roared, "Shut your stinky mouth!"

He Yun covered her mouth and did not shed tears. Yang Xuewu always felt that his mother was right. In front of his mother, he would only compromise and tolerate. It was his business to compromise with peace of mind. She, He Yun, did not have such a good temper. Surrender with him!Seeing the schadenfreude on Xuewu's mother's face, He Yun was expressionless but said forcefully: "Yang Xuewu, this is the first and last time, you dare to hit me again in the future! You Don't think that you are a treasure, I have already discovered that your shoes don't fit Qi Xuexin, but I don't fit them! What do I get for my youth after you? I can't even eat a piece of fruit. No, are you a wimpy man? Your mother is announcing to the world that her son is incompetent, and his wife has to buy rotten fruit that is not in the supermarket! As a man, you are not even capable of making your wife eat fruit. No, but let your wife take care of you. You don’t do housework, but you always have someone help you wipe your butt. Every time you pee, the thin urine is always sprinkled on the front of the toilet and then gently splashed on your feet If I don’t clean the toilet that you urinated on, I can smell the pungent smell of urine from afar..."

He Yun's rude words made Yang Xuewu dizzy, he felt a burst of sadness, and his whole body became cold: finally understood, he, Yang Xuewu, was tricked!It turns out that He Yun, who is gentle and considerate on the outside, has been scheming against herself. Her tenderness was all faked, but he abandoned his family and children for her...

When Xuewu's mother heard this, this daughter-in-law dared to scold her son in front of her face. In her eyes, the arrogant, indifferent and unkind daughter-in-law Xue Xin married into their Yang family, but she had never scolded her son!This is simply the opposite, I didn't expect to change to a worse one!So Xuewu's mother immediately showed her housekeeping skills like a shrew, crying and scolding: "You shameless little bitch, how could Xuewu get divorced if it weren't for you? Now you have split his family, but you despise him. What? What happened to him peeing? You don’t like peeing? You don’t even have a formal job. If you don’t rely on me to earn money to support you, you would have gone to the main road to drink the northwest wind! Serve me What's wrong with my son? Didn't you cry and clamor to serve? Otherwise, it would not be your turn to serve my son! It's unlucky for my family to learn martial arts. I was blind and picked a woman like you, who is lazy and greedy. So bad..."

"I've been damned unlucky for eight lifetimes. I married a second-hand wretch who wants money, money, power, and money, but I'm ashamed to pick three picks and fours and let others serve me. When I pee, it's like a war. The urine splashes. Flying all over the sky, I waited behind him, and I couldn't even eat a good fruit when I was pregnant! You dare to touch me, who do you think your son is? Your son is the Jade Emperor?" He Yun gritted her teeth and said that the backlog is over After a long time of resentment, he pointed at Xuewu Ma and shouted: "Get out of here, who do you think you are? You run around me all day and point fingers!"

Yang Xuewu's mind was blank, and in a trance, he could only feel He Yun's mouth that was once extremely sexy in his mind, the four red lips kept moving up and down, and the 64 white teeth were clearly vying to pour all kinds of dirty things at him. Dirty words, Yang Xuewu was terrified to find that his hands were shaking, his shoulders were shaking, and his whole body was shaking. He looked at He Yun in surprise, feeling that the person in front of him was very strange.Suddenly, He Yun covered her stomach with her hand, panting heavily, Yang Xuewu was shocked, a couple a day, a hundred days of grace!He Yun's big belly woke him up from the chaos, he waved his hands weakly, and said to his mother who was still crying loudly: "Mom, you calm down for a while! Tomorrow, you go back to your hometown!" Xuewu's mother was shocked She was stunned, she didn't expect her son to drive herself back because of this woman!She was so surprised that she stopped crying and looked at her son blankly.Yang Xuewu stomped his feet and repeated without any room: "Mom, you leave early tomorrow morning!" After speaking, Yang Xuewu slammed the door hard and left home angrily.Sitting in the car, Yang Xuewu didn't know where to go for a while, and decided to go to the hospital after thinking for a long time.When he came to the hospital and parked his car, Yang Xuewu walked towards his office. On the way, he met several nurses from various departments and greeted him in surprise: "Doctor Yang, why did you come to the hospital again not long after get off work?" Yang Xuewu could only smile awkwardly. He laughed and said, "Come to the office to pick up something."

Yang Xuewu closed the office door tightly, smoking one cigarette after another.The heater in the office was very hot, which made Yang Xuewu feel uncomfortable, and his head was a little dizzy from the cigarette smoke all over the room.So he stood up and opened the glass window. Suddenly, a gust of cool air rushed in from outside the window, which made him shiver.In just a short while, the stale air in the office was much fresher.

Yang Xuewu stood quietly in front of the window, looking down at the asphalt road downstairs.The pedestrians on the sidewalk in twos and threes, in pairs, are like little ants crawling.The sycamore trees on both sides of the road were bare, without a little bit of green, and there were lifeless pestles there.He stared blankly for a while, feeling more and more irritable and depressed.He closed the glass window silently, returned to the desk, and closed his eyes sadly.Yang Xuewu suddenly burst into anger.Is it turbidity?Is it sulking?Still angry?For the first time, Yang Xuewu seriously reflected on his marriage. He had no doubt that he really loved Xuexin. At the beginning, Xuexin was the goddess in his mind. He was always trembling in front of her, feeling that she was completely Can be matched with a better man.But when she married him, after they lived together for so many years, during the long road of marriage, during the face-to-face meeting day and night, she uncovered the mask he put on her face out of thin air, and eroded away the shadow of his wishful thinking that was shrouded by her. With the passage of time, he suddenly found out in anger and amazement that there was such a big difference between the Xuexin in his heart and the Xuexin in reality. It turned out that she was not a goddess. His face was flushed... So he began to worry about Xuexin's little problems that had slipped away from the corners of his eyes before, counting and remembering her mistakes, the balance in his heart tilted and tilted again and again.Through repeated comparisons, trade-offs, and hesitation, I gradually came to know and see the real Xuexin. She is not so perfect!Then how worthless Yang Xuewu used to pretend to be his grandson!At least he should stand with her on an equal footing. Why did her parents look down on him, Yang Xuewu?
Thinking of this, Yang Xuewu let out a long breath and analyzed his true inner thoughts, which made him smile wryly—the problem is that he himself feels inferior in front of Xuexin!It's him who thinks Xuexin is too perfect!But, is Xue Xin right?Maybe she was too virtuous, maybe she was so arrogant and disdain to communicate with him.If Xuexin could communicate with him calmly at the beginning, today might be a different situation.Marriage is managed by both husband and wife, and any slack in one party will push the family to the brink of collapse.Communication between husband and wife is the most important link. Without communication, there will be a sense of depression, and you will not understand what the other person is thinking?what do you need?When one party is very angry, the other party can't add fuel to the fire. It is easy to talk when the other party's anger subsides. On the contrary, any hurtful words can be said, which is the easiest to hurt feelings.Yang Xuewu suddenly began to hate Xuexin, he was busy with work, Xuexin could talk to him when he was sleeping at night!Has she talked to him about her inner thoughts?No!She just swung a thick stick and beat him out of the marriage!Xuexin is too smart and independent, she never pretends to be stupid.As a woman, what's wrong with being silly in front of her husband occasionally?Wouldn't it be good to indulge and act like a baby in the arms of your husband?Women's stupidity and acting like a baby are often the glue of the relationship in marriage!Xuexin, Xuexin, why didn't you give me a hand when I made a mistake?Instead, they beat me to pieces and ran away in a hurry!Yang Xuewu hates, hates himself for being competitive at the beginning, what is there to argue with his wife who has lived with him for many years?Is it just for the face of a man?He also hated that Xue Xin was so kind to him in the past that he became numb to her kindness, so that he overestimated his ability and value!But, now that he has come to this point, what can he do?Life is so incomplete and full of pain, since he is greedy for a moment of passion, then let him choose to bear the consequences of the passion, and live well with He Yun!Could it be that he, Yang Xuewu, is going to divorce for the second time?Life is only a hundred years, how can we tolerate such tossing!Thinking of this, Yang Xuewu looked up to the sky with a long sigh, picked up the car keys on the table, and hurried back silently.

After the last quarrel, He Yun found out that Yang Xuewu had changed.First, he followed her advice and sent his mother away.Second, he occasionally started to help with housework when he came home from get off work.He Yun's disbelief at the beginning slowly turned into joy as Yang Xuewu gradually changed. In her opinion, she won!Men just have to scold like that, but Qi Xuexin is virtuous, what's the matter?Yang Xuewu is cheating!My low eyebrows and pleasing eyes in the past should be put away after attacking the castle!He Yun began to summarize her own set of rules for controlling her husband: she must firmly control the financial power, she must learn to scold when she should be scolded, and she must let Yang Xuewu buy a house in her own name so that she can control him to death... …

Now, Yang Xuewu lives cautiously and tremblingly when he returns home, for fear that he will accidentally offend He Yun, He Yun's voice is getting louder and louder, making him dizzy.One day, He Yun held her head and told Yang Xuewu that she wanted to eat garlic. Yang Xuewu peeled a few garlic and cut them into slices. As soon as the garlic was cut, He Yun walked into the kitchen and threw the chopped garlic into the wastebasket, sternly Said that he likes to eat lumps.Yang Xuewu held back his breath, re-peeled a few pieces of garlic, cut them into chunks, and put them on the tea table without saying a word.He Yun, who was sitting on the sofa, observed his expression coldly, and asked, "What? Would you be unhappy if you cut a piece of garlic for me? I worked hard to help you conceive your child!" Yang Xuewu forced a smile : "How can it be, you are thinking too much! What fruit do you want to eat at night? Go buy it together after dinner?" He Yun smiled and nodded with satisfaction.

At this time, the movie "Mobile Phone" was playing on TV. Mr. Fei Mo, played by Ge You, said in Mandarin with a Sichuan accent: Sleeping on the same bed with the same person for 20 years, it is inevitable that there will be aesthetic fatigue.Yang Xuewu's nose became sore at once, yes, even a person like a fairy, after 20 years of rubbing his ears and temples, would lose his feeling.Even if you combine Maggie Cheung's mouth, Brigitte Lin's face, Weng Meiling's eyes and Li Jiaxin's nose together to assemble a beautiful woman, who has been turning around in front of her eyes for 20 years, scurrying back and forth, with her hair loose Housework, going to the vegetable market with greasy face in the morning and eye feces, and sleeping beside me at night, I think it is such an unsightly thing.What's more, Xuexin, she is not a fairy yet.Aesthetic fatigue!Is aesthetic fatigue leading to marriage fatigue?He also remembered reading Wang Xiaobo's books when he was studying. Wang Xiaobo described the story of a diplomat who watched "Swan Lake" [-] times in Moscow in ten years. For the first dozens of times, what the diplomat heard was the beautiful music of Tchaikovsky. , the artist's beautiful performance; after one hundred times, only some musical instruments were playing, and some inexplicable people were running back and forth on the stage; ——He was overwhelmed by the scene.Wang Xiaobo said.At this time, the diplomat's eyes were staring straight, and there was a sluggish smirk on his face, like a hibernating crocodile... His mouth opened, and big drops of hala rolled from the corner of his mouth... God, aesthetic fatigue made this What a tortured poor diplomat.At that time, Yang Xuewu thought it was unbelievable. Is there really such a thing as aesthetic fatigue in the world?But now, when he heard the bald-headed Ge You say these words again, his heart couldn't be more sore.It turned out that he was in the midst of blessings and didn't know how to be blessed. He was overwhelmed by Xuexin's beauty. He was unable to appreciate and judge Xuexin any more, so he had no choice but to let Xuexin dangle in front of his eyes. It has been shaking until the day when it finally ends.

(End of this chapter)