Because of the pain, it is called marriage

Chapter 30
What is more serious will become: only care about the immediate happiness, without considering the long-term; eager to squander everything you have now, and overdraw your future happiness.Yang Xuewu secretly rejoiced that he was only the former, but even so, his personality finally cost him a painful price in his marriage.Yang Xuewu, who saw the essence clearly, felt more and more that He Yun's soul was twisted, but he was helpless.In this helplessness, Yang Xuewu gradually became very indifferent.In marriage, it is not terrible to quarrel frequently, the most terrible thing is indifference, because indifference can swallow all the enthusiasm of two people.But He Yun didn't notice this, she regarded Yang Xuewu's indifference as a kind of compromise.In her opinion, she has won. From now on, she is the real master of this family, she can do whatever she wants, and the decision-making power is only in her hands!Therefore, when He Yun's mother's glaucoma had seriously affected her eyesight, He Yun asked her mother to rush over without even a word of discussion.

When Yang Xuewu got off work, He Yun's mother brought him slippers. Yang Xuewu stared at the hunched old man with cloudy eyes and was stunned. He couldn't even remember who this old man was.Seeing this, He Yun was unhappy, and sneered coldly: "Why? Seeing a poor mother-in-law who doesn't even want to say hello?" Yang Xuewu recognized that it was He Yun's mother, and he smiled awkwardly at the old lady, He Yun's mother smiled sarcastically, and said, "Are you back? Are you tired?"

"Well. Not tired." Yang Xuewu said.

During the meal, Yang Xuewu looked at He Yun's mother. The old lady was wearing a black and gray white cloth baotou on her head, a gray stained double-breasted jacket, and a black and autumn skirt tied around her waist. The waistband is made of urea pockets, and the pants are so fat that they look like they are about to fall off.Yang Xuewu felt sick when he smelled a strong stench of boiled pig food from her body.He hastily took a few mouthfuls of his meal, then excused himself to rest and left the table.

At night, lying on the bed, He Yun finally told her mother's reason for coming this time. Yang Xuewu was stunned when he heard it, and said: "I have no problem treating your mother's eyes. But the medical expenses are not a little bit, and we still owe the mortgage." Well, besides, she didn't give birth to you, you also have a brother, he must bear some of it, right?"

When He Yun heard this, she got up and turned her face on the spot: "What do you mean? With my brother's condition, you still have the nerve to climb up to him? He has suffered enough!"

Yang Xuewu didn't know whether to laugh or cry: "I'm not chasing him. That's not the case, is it? Your mother's eye disease has been there for so many years. Why didn't you treat it sooner or later? As soon as you married me, you asked me to pay for your mother's eye disease? I It doesn’t matter if I have money, but the crux of the problem is that when I bought a house, I even sold all the stocks in my hand, and owed hundreds of thousands of loans to the bank. Every month, I have to support my family and repay the mortgage. Where can I get the extra money for you? Mom treats eye disease?"

"I don't care! You are my husband, my mother is your mother, you have to bear it!"

"I bear it, I absolutely bear it, but it must be within my ability?"

"Then I don't care! Just take my mother to the hospital tomorrow."

Yang Xuewu was speechless.

The next day, Yang Xuewu and He Yun brought He Yun's mother to the hospital. Yang Xuewu took a whole morning off to run around in the laboratory examination room. Unexpectedly, the result of the test was--the age of He Yun's mother's eye disease It is too deep, and it has been delayed for too long, and surgery is no longer possible, so it can only be treated conservatively!
This result made He Yun unacceptable. When she got out of the hospital, she guessed viciously in front of Yang Xuewu: "It must be that you don't want to spend money to treat my mother, so you should tell the doctor in advance? I don't believe it. Now Medicine is so advanced, my mother’s eyes will not be cured! Let’s go to Shanghai to Beijing to treat it!”

Yang Xuewu was furious: "He Yun, why are you such a villain? Only when you are dirty can you think others are so dirty!"

"You're dirty! Last night I told you to help my mother's eyes, and you had a very strong opinion. Today, it's better, just say that my mother's eyes can't be cured. What is your intention?" He Yun also raised her eyebrows. voice.

"You...you are unreasonable!" Yang Xuewu said with a straight face.Seeing this, He Yun's mother smoothed things over in embarrassment: "Yun'er, don't say a few words!"

"It's not me who said your mother's eyes can't be cured, but Dr. Feng from the ophthalmology department. Why do you take your anger out on me? It's really inexplicable!" Yang Xuewu added angrily.

He Yun's mother pulled her daughter's sleeve to signal her to stop talking, but He Yun would not care about her, and continued to complain in a shrill voice: "Yang Xuewu, I'm not as good as your ex-wife? You just call her in the middle of the night and you talk to her." She ran over to take care of her father like a dog, and my mother came all the way to take a look, is this your attitude?"

Yang Xuewu remained silent with a sullen face. In his opinion, if he continued to talk to He Yun, the quarrel would only get worse.Seeing that Yang Xuewu didn't make a sound, He Yun didn't think that he was compromising, she thought he looked down on her and didn't bother to talk to her.So, she started swearing, swearing dirty all the way home.

Back home, He Yun's mother looked at her son-in-law's face cautiously, Yang Xuewu took off his coat, took a medical book and went straight into the bedroom to read, ignoring He Yun.He Yun's mother whispered to her daughter, "Yun'er, have you been arguing like this?"

He Yun cast a blank look in Yang Xuewu's direction and said, "Look at his appearance, can't he be noisy? Maybe he's having an affair with his ex-wife behind my back! I just let him know, don't treat me as He Yun. It’s so bullying!” Seeing her mother’s worried appearance, He Yun stomped her feet and said, “Mom, don’t worry, I will help you heal your eyes! If it’s not possible here, I’ll take you to another place to see it!”

He Yun's mother was silent for a while, and said: "Yun'er, mom has had eyes for many years, and they have come here like this. It doesn't matter if it is cured or not. Why don't you think this will work, and save the money for treating mom's eyes. Well, the two tile-roofed houses at home leak when it rains, and the two grandchildren are shivering from the cold. I have long wanted to repair the house and build two houses next to it, so that your father and I have a place to stay when we grow old The place. I need to buy some beds at home..."

"Mom, the house needs to be repaired, and your eyes also need to be repaired!" He Yun said indisputably.

"Yun'er, mom knows you are filial, but you have a big belly now, where can you take mom for treatment? It's not convenient. After the baby is born, I can help mom treat it when I have a chance."

He Yun was right when she thought about it, so she stopped insisting.

He Yun's mother said again: "Yun'er, I want to go home early, and I'm not used to living here! It's not my own home, I always feel uncomfortable."

"Isn't your daughter's home your home! What's uncomfortable? You just stay here, I'll see who dares to show you his face!" He Yun was annoyed when she heard this, and deliberately raised her voice and shouted in Yang Xuewu's direction .Yang Xuewu frowned, and continued to flip through the book in his hand.

When eating, Yang Xuewu lost his appetite as soon as he smelled the rotten smell from He Yunma's body. After taking a few mouthfuls, he put down his chopsticks and went back to his room.After a while, He Yun also went back to the room.He Yun cut to the chase and said, "Give my mother 2 yuan."

Yang Xuewu opened his eyes and said angrily, "Why?"

"Why? When you get married, you give it to your brother for [-], but you can't give it to my mother?"

"Can that be the same?"

"Why is it different? Yang Xuewu, tell me clearly today!"

Yang Xuewu cried and defended: "At that time, didn't we buy a house? Now I have no money! Where did I get [-]?"

"Yang Xuewu, will you have no money? I don't believe it!"

"Believe it or not! I'm still thinking about your childbirth expenses! Did you settle the bills for me? When you gave birth, you were hospitalized, milk powder, confinement lady, isn't it all money? You could have called me mom Come and take care of her, now you and my mother have fallen out, so we can only spend money to hire a confinement wife."

Where can He Yun listen, she continued to ask: "How much money can you give now?"

Yang Xuewu almost swore to the sky: "I really can't get the money!"

He Yun thought for a while, took a step back and said, "Well, at least ten thousand, no less."

"I..." Yang Xuewu wanted to say more, but He Yun said sharply, "Lend it to me without you!"

Yang Xuewu was forced to panic: "What if I don't take it?"

He Yun didn't say a word, just stared at him, Yang Xuewu only felt the wind blowing, he suddenly recalled his former self, under Xue Xin's understanding and reason, he became more and more rampant, acted on his own, thought he was the head of the family, Having the right to control all the income of the family, and not even having a discussion with Xuexin, and even agreeing to her mother to buy a house for her younger brother, now that I think about it, how ridiculous it is!What is the difference between him and He Yun in front of him!How did he trample Xuexin's feelings on the ground in the past, but now that he is in another position, he suddenly understands Xuexin's feelings back then.Thinking of this, Yang Xuewu sighed, and promised He Yun: "Okay, I'll join my colleagues tomorrow! From now on, all my income will be at your disposal, I will give you all the money, and the mortgage will be paid every month. You can also go to the bank and pay it!"

He Yun looked at him suspiciously, as if she couldn't believe that he handed over the financial power so easily.Yang Xuewu took out his salary card and threw it to her, and said coldly: "Don't worry, I'm telling the truth! But He Yun, I only gave in because I saw it, not a compromise with you. Just like you As I said, I am already old. I just want to live a stable life for a few days and I don’t want to toss anymore. I am tired of arguing and arguing. Now I also understand that there is no real relationship between you and me. If you quarrel, sooner or later this marriage between you and me will fall apart as the war intensifies. If you really want to live with me, please think about my words carefully! A child is about to be born, and I have already let down a child. I don't want to disappoint another one!" He Yun picked up the salary card and snorted coldly, noncommittal.

Looking at He Yun's swollen face due to pregnancy, Yang Xuewu didn't know how long he could bear her.Yes, there is always a limit to human patience, and dogs will jump over walls when they are in a hurry.Even Xuexin's generous heart can't absorb Baichuan like the sea, and he hurts her again and again, and the devouring time and time again can only make Xuexin gradually lose the ability to resist, and finally chooses to be with him. divorce.Yang Xuewu thought of his daughter's words again: Ever since your mother divorced you, you have become more unrestrained and cheerful than before.Concepts are also updated every day, my classmates say my mother is very avant-garde!My mother can come here for beauty, slimming and fitness racing...

It was really the right choice for Xuexin to divorce him!Yang Xuewu felt sore in his heart.

(End of this chapter)