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Chapter 97

Chapter 6 Love Is a Thrilling Thing

Perfect love is because a smart lover knows how to love each other and how to be loved by each other.

Chapter 1 The Art of Love

[France] André Moloya
A man of grace does not discard his virtues.Elegant demeanor will last forever.Every action, every word, is refreshing.Aging itself does not change human nature.A beautiful appearance can maintain its charm even in old age. When you see the other person's admiring eyes and smiles from the age of brunette or blond hair from under the pale hair, you will feel infinitely happy.

Is there an art to staying in love?The biggest secret is to keep it natural.Mannerism is neither aesthetically pleasing nor durable.Wise couples strive to keep each other natural.However, some men always want to use their own will to change the other party, imposing some of their own interests and thoughts on the other party.How stupid!If the other person is far from your ideal lover, give her up.However, since you have chosen her, you should let her maintain her personality and give full play to her strengths.Love, like friendship, is joyful only when you are around a partner with whom you feel natural and unaffected.

Wise lovers also take care to arrange their dates in surroundings of natural beauty.That's why people do wedding trips.Of course, it doesn't have to be very far.Amorous women create their environment intuitively.Some women have a knack for likability.They are good at guessing when their lover likes to be alone together, when they want to go to a concert or go for a walk.In love life, a woman plays a more important role than a man who is deeply involved in social life.

If the man wants to maintain a harmonious atmosphere and touching warmth for a long time, he should grasp the psychological characteristics of the woman and understand the important position that feelings occupy in their hearts.The most stupid thing is that men condescend to despise women's thoughts because of some philosophy or some ethics.In fact, although women's thinking is different from that of men, the former is much more specific, concise and wise than the latter.Small conflicts between lovers are often resolved by tenderness, silence, and patience, and reasoning is often of no avail.

Don't forget that a woman, for most of her life, is more governed by her emotions than a man.If a man always regards the woman's emotional fluctuations as deliberately against him when conflicts arise, he will destroy a very harmonious and more perfect combination because of this brief quarrel.Let us compare the waves of a woman's mind to the waves of the sea.The metaphor may be a bit corny, but it's true.A wise husband should always be broad-minded, like a sailor in a storm, who unfastens his sails, waits, and hopes, and the storm cannot affect his love for the sea.

【Together with you】

On the road of life, everyone has to walk two paths at the same time, one is to walk with the lover, and the other is to walk by oneself.When the road between you and your lover is interrupted one day, you will not have no way to go because you still have your own way.

This is also an art of love.Loving yourself is actually being responsible to your lover.

Love requires not only passion, but also the art of dealing with it.People who don't know how to love only know how to make the fire burn hotter, but they don't know how to keep the fire burning.And the latter is more difficult than the former.

Lay the foundation of love with deep feelings, pave the long road of love with mutual trust, prop up the building of love with mutual tolerance, build the ladder of love with sincere understanding, and weave the home of love with the compatibility of hearts.

This is the perfect love.

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